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Being AFRAID OF THE FEELINGS
Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Posted by HWD
I only need a woman once in a while. Easy to get and then she can fuck off, so that I can have some peace. Cycle continues. Watching my father and uncles go through divorce put me off all that commitment shit.
Godspeed. We talking about feelings not fucking without.
And comparing yourself to others and expecting same outcome is stupid. You aren’t them. You are you.
Posted by Seleukos
Posted by Gemitati
WTF does it mean?Man avoiding sex with a woman who whowing him affection and he is touching, kissing her and ‘almost’ dating her because he is afraid of his feelings—
How does it go?
I really like her...oy!...but I’m afraid.
What are you afraid of?
My feelings...
So...where are the times when men likes the woman and comes up, sweep her off her feet and taking control and makes her his own?
And if she trying to play hard to get for a few minutes - he kisses her until she pass out and that’s that! Done deal!
What are these flimsy boys are doing?
Men-child kind...where did they come from and when?
I remember when I said no - he said ‘I am not giving up!’ Because that’s what men do! If they HAVE feelings...
And denying sex to themselves and the woman - paleeze! Is it a new generation shit?
It's called gender equality.
A women could do all those things on her own without being looked at nowadays.
Not a accepting a no also usually counts as rape or sexual harassment.
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Fuck gender equality! It’s a bullshit.
What ‘thungs’ Can women do on their own?
And no one talking rape! It’s being a man who is no matter what feminists saying is a stronger and dominant gender when it comes to relashionships.
Yes we give birth! But without seed to plant - there is no harvest to celebrate!
Men are a seed holder. Even those in sperm banks came from someone’s balls!
So...please...
Posted by HWD
Posted by GemitatiGodspeed. We talking about feelings not fucking without.
And comparing yourself to others and expecting same outcome is stupid. You aren’t them. You are you.
http://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/statistics-explained/index.php/Marriage_and_divorce_statistics
I don't gamble. Fucking is all I need from women, all other things; friendship, social interactions etc. I get through my friends. I'm well aware of the dangers of having feelings for women and I know what to do in order to not get them anymore.
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Weak ass!
Posted by Gemitati
WTF does it mean?Man avoiding sex with a woman who whowing him affection and he is touching, kissing her and ‘almost’ dating her because he is afraid of his feelings—
How does it go?
I really like her...oy!...but I’m afraid.
What are you afraid of?
My feelings...
So...where are the times when men likes the woman and comes up, sweep her off her feet and taking control and makes her his own?
And if she trying to play hard to get for a few minutes - he kisses her until she pass out and that’s that! Done deal!
What are these flimsy boys are doing?
Men-child kind...where did they come from and when?
I remember when I said no - he said ‘I am not giving up!’ Because that’s what men do! If they HAVE feelings...
And denying sex to themselves and the woman - paleeze! Is it a new generation shit?
Isn't this mostly Scorpio dudes tryin to be all deep and complicated?
I agree, I cringe af every time someone shares a story of a guy who's "afraid of his feelings" 😆
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Posted by HWD
Posted by GemitatiGodspeed. We talking about feelings not fucking without.
And comparing yourself to others and expecting same outcome is stupid. You aren’t them. You are you.
http://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/statistics-explained/index.php/Marriage_and_divorce_statistics
I don't gamble. Fucking is all I need from women, all other things; friendship, social interactions etc. I get through my friends. I'm well aware of the dangers of having feelings for women and I know what to do in order to not get them anymore.
exactly what makes me give up hope on men
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Don’t! Some of them were raised by men!
You just keep looking...and don’t be afraid of the feelings! Please...
Lack of chemistry. If there is chemistry, no worries of feelings just will spoon you down.
Or he have trust issues from previous experiences and he was on the suffering side
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Gemitati
WTF does it mean?Man avoiding sex with a woman who whowing him affection and he is touching, kissing her and ‘almost’ dating her because he is afraid of his feelings—
How does it go?
I really like her...oy!...but I’m afraid.
What are you afraid of?
My feelings...
So...where are the times when men likes the woman and comes up, sweep her off her feet and taking control and makes her his own?
And if she trying to play hard to get for a few minutes - he kisses her until she pass out and that’s that! Done deal!
What are these flimsy boys are doing?
Men-child kind...where did they come from and when?
I remember when I said no - he said ‘I am not giving up!’ Because that’s what men do! If they HAVE feelings...
And denying sex to themselves and the woman - paleeze! Is it a new generation shit?
Isn't this mostly Scorpio dudes tryin to be all deep and complicated?
I agree, I cringe af every time someone shares a story of a guy who's "afraid of his feelings" 😆
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Lmao! They aren’t trying! It comes to them by the fukt of birth! Anyway I am not sure younger generation Scorps are the same as old one. But I am kind of sure that Scorp won’t let her go because he is afraid of his feelings. He will fk her and then deal with feelings...lol
So no one seems to willing to explain what are they afraid of about feelings. Makes me think if it’s made up phrase and means shit!
Posted by Sheever
Lack of chemistry. If there is chemistry, no worries of feelings just will spoon you down.Or he have trust issues from previous experiences and he was on the suffering side
So? As the world turns people were suffering from love but after sex! Not avoiding it because it might become a hurt to their feelings.
Something just hit me! Do men become less sexual and that’s all why? They can just look and touch and let go...libido is low?
Posted by subscribe
Also: you're not obligated to get married
THANK YOU! I forgot to mention that in OP.
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Posted by HWD
. Literally with a push of button, at her place. Then I leave.
Lol. Sounds like pizza delivery. Whatever works for you
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LMAO! And probably free to.
Posted by Seleukos
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Lack of chemistry. If there is chemistry, no worries of feelings just will spoon you down.Or he have trust issues from previous experiences and he was on the suffering side
So? As the world turns people were suffering from love but after sex! Not avoiding it because it might become a hurt to their feelings.
Something just hit me! Do men become less sexual and that’s all why? They can just look and touch and let go...libido is low?
Sorry to dissapoint but it's just self control and increased standards.
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Bullshit! Of course you will find what to say to cover up your coward ass.
But mark my words. It’ll hit you as a load of bricks! Sooner or later.
Posted by Seleukos
Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Sheever
Lack of chemistry. If there is chemistry, no worries of feelings just will spoon you down.Or he have trust issues from previous experiences and he was on the suffering side
So? As the world turns people were suffering from love but after sex! Not avoiding it because it might become a hurt to their feelings.
Something just hit me! Do men become less sexual and that’s all why? They can just look and touch and let go...libido is low?
Sorry to dissapoint but it's just self control and increased standards.
Bullshit! Of course you will find what to say to cover up your coward ass.
But mark my words. It’ll hit you as a load of bricks! Sooner or later.
No, men these days just don't jump for the next women they see anymore.
It takes bravery to go for a healthy relationship with a strong independent women.
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Maybe. To me is lack of confidence or baggages. Man get hold on relationship if chemistry definiteg, strong independent woman is plus not something to afraid of. Or maybe it's just me too old fashioned.
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Lack of chemistry. If there is chemistry, no worries of feelings just will spoon you down.Or he have trust issues from previous experiences and he was on the suffering side
So? As the world turns people were suffering from love but after sex! Not avoiding it because it might become a hurt to their feelings.
Something just hit me! Do men become less sexual and that’s all why? They can just look and touch and let go...libido is low?
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No.the point is, you might have high value of yourself but as you can see its up to others how much you worth for them. The ones om want you will stick. It's always that, no more, no less. Your reality and theirs doesn't lign up.
Chemistry is important, after certain introduction stage, if that's not there they will not carry on. And that's right. What's the point then?
As well as you get older you take less bullshit and drama. The level of some woman dramatic tendency can be a driving off influence. It can be loads of things in general
Posted by Leo188881
If he has feelings and is serious about you, he will want to be intimate and close and have sex. If he's worried about your feelings because he senses they are not aligned with his (you want a relationship and he doesn't) he will avoid intimacy because he doesn't want to hurt you. So it means he cares, but not the way you want him to. He's trying to spare your feelings because he is not sure about his own.
How does sex hurt?
I’ve been in love platonically for 5 years and it hurt like hell!
IMO if it hurts anyway - at least you had sex!
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Posted by Leo188881
If he has feelings and is serious about you, he will want to be intimate and close and have sex. If he's worried about your feelings because he senses they are not aligned with his (you want a relationship and he doesn't) he will avoid intimacy because he doesn't want to hurt you. So it means he cares, but not the way you want him to. He's trying to spare your feelings because he is not sure about his own.
This isn't necessarily true... some men will be interested in you but not want to jump the gun and label the relationship as a romantic one, but they'll still want the sex before putting the label on.
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Maybe if they not sure they are good performers and tip toeing being scared to be laughed at or hear ‘I’ve had better’?
Nothing else comes to mind...except low libido...
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Posted by HWD
. Literally with a push of button, at her place. Then I leave.
There’s something dehumanizing about the way we carry out this transaction of the flesh. Relationships might be an expression of primitive instincts at their core, but it could be done with more grace than wham bam thank you ma’am
In the response that you hid you wrote that you were free...I wouldn’t use that word. Unless you’re free of your desire for women, then you’re just enslaved to a lesser degree
I’m speaking this as a child of divorced parents. Four divorces in my extended family. I don’t have first hand experience, but divorce certainly impacted my life
Being so defiant of the new, I feel like a hunter gatherer walking into a supermarket. Maybe I’m just too weak to break the mental barrier. Maybe I bought into all the romanticizing of relationships. But this just feels wrong to me
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Maybe you are onto something Miss.....
Maybe you are an intelligent, observant, woman who dares to speak out against this sad throw away vacuous society we have become that allows disposable sex at the drop of a hat
Not maybe.....definitely maybe
You are wasted here.....but I love reading your insightful posts, so am glad you are present and make the effort to speak out against humanity(?)
🙂
Posted by Gemitati
WTF does it mean?Man avoiding sex with a woman who whowing him affection and he is touching, kissing her and ‘almost’ dating her because he is afraid of his feelings—
How does it go?
I really like her...oy!...but I’m afraid.
What are you afraid of?
My feelings...
So...where are the times when men likes the woman and comes up, sweep her off her feet and taking control and makes her his own?
And if she trying to play hard to get for a few minutes - he kisses her until she pass out and that’s that! Done deal!
What are these flimsy boys are doing?
Men-child kind...where did they come from and when?
I remember when I said no - he said ‘I am not giving up!’ Because that’s what men do! If they HAVE feelings...
And denying sex to themselves and the woman - paleeze! Is it a new generation shit?
For a man, hearing 'no' and continuing to pursue is likely to get him harassment charges/jail.
Posted by Leo188881
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Leo188881
If he has feelings and is serious about you, he will want to be intimate and close and have sex. If he's worried about your feelings because he senses they are not aligned with his (you want a relationship and he doesn't) he will avoid intimacy because he doesn't want to hurt you. So it means he cares, but not the way you want him to. He's trying to spare your feelings because he is not sure about his own.
How does sex hurt?
I’ve been in love platonically for 5 years and it hurt like hell!
IMO if it hurts anyway - at least you had sex!
If he had sex with you and maintained that he doesn't want more than that, it would hurt a lot more. Platonic love means that you have a non-sexual relationship. It's basis is a close friendship and not more.
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Not in my case. If we had sex and he said he doesn’t want anymore - I would be over him right at that moment! I would be angry and he would be dead to me as a romantic partner. Because I don’t go on if I’ve been hurt. I shake that off and stepping in it. Done!
But because it was growing and growing and growing day by day until he couldn’t stand it anymore and came out to me - AFTERSEX time was padded with all those years of lust and yearning and depravation - it’s impossible to shake it off.
It’s like by denying yourself what you desire you prolonging agony and I am sure - if I didn’t have those years to be falling for him deeper and deeper - suffering would be shorter and easier to deal with! And it could end after short affair! The ‘waiting room’ is where all gets messed up!
I think I have a good example.
You see someone in a supermarket and there is a spark. If you passing each other and that’s it - your heart just jumped once.
If you meet at the cash register and exchanging a few words - your heart jumps more.
If you meet at the bus stop and talk - that’s it! You had exchanged a few sentences and 👀 - this person is not a stranger anymore! You know his name!!! And then some. And your hear beating faster.
And you dreaming about him and starting to go shopping every day to see if you can meet again...
If only you never saw him at that cash register - it would be just a poof! Ahhh...whatever...but no! There was that bus station!!! 💔
Posted by HWD
So, if I were to concede, @Gemitati, if I am a weak-ass, baby-back bitch, how do I do it? How would you say that I should spill the cup? Easiest, quickest and most painless way to do it?
If I understood you correctly - you just proceed with relashionships naturally without thinking that what if it didn’t work?
What if it did? Think about that and stop dancing around her ass making her crazy with your lack of commitment!
Don’t play ‘don’t rush it hurry up’ game!
Deep feelings for a woman or man can be very scary for a guy....especially if they have never allowed themselves to go there before
It's like falling off an emotional cliff
😱
Posted by Seleukos
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Posted by Gemitati
WTF does it mean?Man avoiding sex with a woman who whowing him affection and he is touching, kissing her and ‘almost’ dating her because he is afraid of his feelings—
How does it go?
I really like her...oy!...but I’m afraid.
What are you afraid of?
My feelings...
So...where are the times when men likes the woman and comes up, sweep her off her feet and taking control and makes her his own?
And if she trying to play hard to get for a few minutes - he kisses her until she pass out and that’s that! Done deal!
What are these flimsy boys are doing?
Men-child kind...where did they come from and when?
I remember when I said no - he said ‘I am not giving up!’ Because that’s what men do! If they HAVE feelings...
And denying sex to themselves and the woman - paleeze! Is it a new generation shit?
It's called gender equality.
A women could do all those things on her own without being looked at nowadays.
Not a accepting a no also usually counts as rape or sexual harassment.
Sad. Women deserve same rights, but we still want to be treated as women. At least I do.
How would you define being treated as a women?
Those things don't have to be opposites.
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You know, all this romance that we see in romantic films 😂 I like the feeling of being protected by a man. It’s doesn’t mean that I cannot take care of myself or that I am inferior.
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Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Guys get scared only if they are really feeling very strong feelings. It’s different from the ones that are not interested in a relationship. The ones that are scared they are fighting it. Until they can not fight it anymore and then they will declare their love like in the movies.
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Of course they get scared because unlike in movies, those guys get 99% rejected once they open up. lol
A guy can fall in love by the 1st sight without being intimate and there is nothing he can do about it. If he declares his feelings he is out! If he first sleeps with her immediately then chances are he didn't feel too romantically about her anyways unless he still really likes her afterwards.
I am sorry but Hollywood ruined it for you, ladies. 😢
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Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Guys get scared only if they are really feeling very strong feelings. It’s different from the ones that are not interested in a relationship. The ones that are scared they are fighting it. Until they can not fight it anymore and then they will declare their love like in the movies.
Of course they get scared because unlike in movies, those guys get 99% rejected once they open up. lol
A guy can fall in love by the 1st sight without being intimate and there is nothing he can do about it. If he declares his feelings he is out! If he first sleeps with her immediately then chances are he didn't feel too romantically about her anyways unless he still really likes her afterwards.
I am sorry but Hollywood ruined it for you, ladies. 😢
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Oh, I still believe in it!!! I have seen it first hand. I wouldn’t settle for less. Do you want me? show it to me. Are you better than the others? Show it! That is how it is. Women choose. You have to go for it.
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Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Guys get scared only if they are really feeling very strong feelings. It’s different from the ones that are not interested in a relationship. The ones that are scared they are fighting it. Until they can not fight it anymore and then they will declare their love like in the movies.
Of course they get scared because unlike in movies, those guys get 99% rejected once they open up. lol
A guy can fall in love by the 1st sight without being intimate and there is nothing he can do about it. If he declares his feelings he is out! If he first sleeps with her immediately then chances are he didn't feel too romantically about her anyways unless he still really likes her afterwards.
I am sorry but Hollywood ruined it for you, ladies. 😢
Oh, I still believe in it!!! I have seen it first hand. I wouldn’t settle for less. Do you want me? show it to me. Are you better than the others? Show it! That is how it is. Women choose. You have to go for it.
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No I don't! 😡
Who are the others? 😢 I will kick their asses and still say NO to you, out of pride!
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Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Guys get scared only if they are really feeling very strong feelings. It’s different from the ones that are not interested in a relationship. The ones that are scared they are fighting it. Until they can not fight it anymore and then they will declare their love like in the movies.
Of course they get scared because unlike in movies, those guys get 99% rejected once they open up. lol
A guy can fall in love by the 1st sight without being intimate and there is nothing he can do about it. If he declares his feelings he is out! If he first sleeps with her immediately then chances are he didn't feel too romantically about her anyways unless he still really likes her afterwards.
I am sorry but Hollywood ruined it for you, ladies. 😢
Oh, I still believe in it!!! I have seen it first hand. I wouldn’t settle for less. Do you want me? show it to me. Are you better than the others? Show it! That is how it is. Women choose. You have to go for it.
No I don't! 😡
Who are the others? 😢 I will kick their asses and still say NO to you, out of pride!
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😂😂😂 you can kick their asses but you wouldn’t be able to say No to me because I wouldn’t ask .
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Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Guys get scared only if they are really feeling very strong feelings. It’s different from the ones that are not interested in a relationship. The ones that are scared they are fighting it. Until they can not fight it anymore and then they will declare their love like in the movies.
Of course they get scared because unlike in movies, those guys get 99% rejected once they open up. lol
A guy can fall in love by the 1st sight without being intimate and there is nothing he can do about it. If he declares his feelings he is out! If he first sleeps with her immediately then chances are he didn't feel too romantically about her anyways unless he still really likes her afterwards.
I am sorry but Hollywood ruined it for you, ladies. 😢
Oh, I still believe in it!!! I have seen it first hand. I wouldn’t settle for less. Do you want me? show it to me. Are you better than the others? Show it! That is how it is. Women choose. You have to go for it.
No I don't! 😡
Who are the others? 😢 I will kick their asses and still say NO to you, out of pride!
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😂😂😂 you can kick their asses but you wouldn’t be able to say No to me because I would ask .
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Ask what? ^^
The thing is, even if you can choose between us, it's still on me whether I choose to chase or not. Like I said in Hollywood there is always a happy ending, not so much irl though.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Guys get scared only if they are really feeling very strong feelings. It’s different from the ones that are not interested in a relationship. The ones that are scared they are fighting it. Until they can not fight it anymore and then they will declare their love like in the movies.
Of course they get scared because unlike in movies, those guys get 99% rejected once they open up. lol
A guy can fall in love by the 1st sight without being intimate and there is nothing he can do about it. If he declares his feelings he is out! If he first sleeps with her immediately then chances are he didn't feel too romantically about her anyways unless he still really likes her afterwards.
I am sorry but Hollywood ruined it for you, ladies. 😢
Oh, I still believe in it!!! I have seen it first hand. I wouldn’t settle for less. Do you want me? show it to me. Are you better than the others? Show it! That is how it is. Women choose. You have to go for it.
No I don't! 😡
Who are the others? 😢 I will kick their asses and still say NO to you, out of pride!
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😂😂😂 you can kick their asses but you wouldn’t be able to say No to me because I would ask .
Ask what? ^^
The thing is, even if you can choose between us, it's still on me whether I choose to chase or not. Like I said in Hollywood there is always a happy ending, not so much irl though.
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Sorry,? I meant I wouldn’t ask 😊
In my experience. Men really chase. And yes. There’s lots of happy ending. But you wouldn’t chase anyone if you are not ready to have that ending 😉😂
You might as well appear as coming too strong, that equal a red flag situation and man just back off. Those touches and stuffs just testing their own feelings and your responses. If some click, most probably will not pull back.
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Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Guys get scared only if they are really feeling very strong feelings. It’s different from the ones that are not interested in a relationship. The ones that are scared they are fighting it. Until they can not fight it anymore and then they will declare their love like in the movies.
Of course they get scared because unlike in movies, those guys get 99% rejected once they open up. lol
A guy can fall in love by the 1st sight without being intimate and there is nothing he can do about it. If he declares his feelings he is out! If he first sleeps with her immediately then chances are he didn't feel too romantically about her anyways unless he still really likes her afterwards.
I am sorry but Hollywood ruined it for you, ladies. 😢
Oh, I still believe in it!!! I have seen it first hand. I wouldn’t settle for less. Do you want me? show it to me. Are you better than the others? Show it! That is how it is. Women choose. You have to go for it.
No I don't! 😡
Who are the others? 😢 I will kick their asses and still say NO to you, out of pride!
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😂😂😂 you can kick their asses but you wouldn’t be able to say No to me because I would ask .
Ask what? ^^
The thing is, even if you can choose between us, it's still on me whether I choose to chase or not. Like I said in Hollywood there is always a happy ending, not so much irl though.
Sorry,? I meant I wouldn’t ask 😊
In my experience. Men really chase. And yes. There’s lots of happy ending. But you wouldn’t chase anyone if you are not ready to have that ending 😉😂
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Maybe but I am not sure about that. Men chase sex, that's for sure. ^^
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Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
I don’t believe this!
Guys get scared only if they are really feeling very strong feelings. It’s different from the ones that are not interested in a relationship. The ones that are scared they are fighting it. Until they can not fight it anymore and then they will declare their love like in the movies.
Of course they get scared because unlike in movies, those guys get 99% rejected once they open up. lol
A guy can fall in love by the 1st sight without being intimate and there is nothing he can do about it. If he declares his feelings he is out! If he first sleeps with her immediately then chances are he didn't feel too romantically about her anyways unless he still really likes her afterwards.
I am sorry but Hollywood ruined it for you, ladies. 😢
Oh, I still believe in it!!! I have seen it first hand. I wouldn’t settle for less. Do you want me? show it to me. Are you better than the others? Show it! That is how it is. Women choose. You have to go for it.
No I don't! 😡
Who are the others? 😢 I will kick their asses and still say NO to you, out of pride!
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😂😂😂 you can kick their asses but you wouldn’t be able to say No to me because I would ask .
Ask what? ^^
The thing is, even if you can choose between us, it's still on me whether I choose to chase or not. Like I said in Hollywood there is always a happy ending, not so much irl though.
Sorry,? I meant I wouldn’t ask 😊
In my experience. Men really chase. And yes. There’s lots of happy ending. But you wouldn’t chase anyone if you are not ready to have that ending 😉😂
Maybe but I am not sure about that. Men chase sex, that's for sure. ^^
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Yes ofc. But if the woman doesn’t want only the sex, the men will have to prove themselves very much to the woman to be ever considered as a partner.
I'm not afraid of my feelings or hers. I prefer to be with someone who
is sensitive and one who express their feelings actually. I Just don't
'prove' myself to anyone anymore. To be male is colorful and isn't
this stagnant way of being placed on me by others.
And I'm not less than or this beta that people speak of
just for appreciating those that see me for who I
am without going through hell and back first.
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Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
Idk I live in a country where guys chase hard... Or work hard to impress the girl
I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑
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"I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑 "
Did it turn into a relationship or love or romance? Have you reciprocated? How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Squished_Marshmallow
Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
Idk I live in a country where guys chase hard... Or work hard to impress the girl
I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑
"I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑 "
Did it turn into a relationship or love or romance? Have you reciprocated? How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉
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The question is were they ran away as sin as they stayed to feel anything?
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Squished_Marshmallow
Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
Idk I live in a country where guys chase hard... Or work hard to impress the girl
I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑
"I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑 "
Did it turn into a relationship or love or romance? Have you reciprocated? How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉
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One of them was a rship lasting for almost 5yrs and yes we loved each other....hugely passionate
One I met a few times....he was very keen but sadly an alcoholic and that didn't work for me. He asked me to be his gf but I just couldn't go there
The third one I met online....we never met face to face but he pursued me strongly for two years
It also happened with two Aquas and a Virgo lol
Most of the men had Scorpio moons
The only man that didn't pursue me was my first love who was a shy Libra...with Scorp moon...I chased the pants off him ... 😛. We were together for a few years
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Squished_Marshmallow
Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
Idk I live in a country where guys chase hard... Or work hard to impress the girl
I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑
"I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑 "
Did it turn into a relationship or love or romance? Have you reciprocated? How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉
The question is were they ran away as sin as they stayed to feel anything?
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"The question is were they ran away as sin as they stayed to feel anything?"
thats why I am asking the "How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉" in my observation, they run away "if they start to feel anything" after they are accepted and are "wanted" to actually act on their "chasing" and the woman they chase is actually interested in them..
thats why I am asking @MyStarsShine, how that chasing unfolded and what were the circumstances.... if there was a case of "started to feel something and was scared off"
again, just my observation, the "scared off thing because they started to feel something" is just a bullshit excuse, if the woman WANTS you and reciprocates..... but I will stand corrected, if there is another case
people usually run away if they start feeling something, if its not reciprocated... if its reciprocated, its only an excuse
just my 2 cents
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Squished_Marshmallow
Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
Idk I live in a country where guys chase hard... Or work hard to impress the girl
I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑
"I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑 "
Did it turn into a relationship or love or romance? Have you reciprocated? How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉
The question is were they ran away as sin as they stayed to feel anything?
"The question is were they ran away as sin as they stayed to feel anything?"
thats why I am asking the "How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉" in my observation, they run away "if they start to feel anything" after they are accepted and are "wanted" to actually act on their "chasing" and the woman they chase is actually interested in them..
thats why I am asking @MyStarsShine, how that chasing unfolded and what were the circumstances.... if there was a case of "started to feel something and was scared off"
again, just my observation, the "scared off thing because they started to feel something" is just a bullshit excuse, if the woman WANTS you and reciprocates..... but I will stand corrected, if there is another case
people usually run away if they start feeling something, if its not reciprocated... if its reciprocated, its only an excuse
just my 2 cents
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That’s what I am fighting - this stupidity of starting feelings something and running away! To where? Leaving potential good relashionships for what? And why?
And yes! You might get hurt. So? Will humans extinct eventually because men becoming useless spineless hurt-afraid-phobics?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Squished_Marshmallow
Posted by shakedown
The days of "Gone with the Wind" are over.
Idk I live in a country where guys chase hard... Or work hard to impress the girl
I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑
"I've had a few guys pursue me strongly
Three Aries, in particular...🐑🐑🐑 "
Did it turn into a relationship or love or romance? Have you reciprocated? How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉
The question is were they ran away as sin as they stayed to feel anything?
"The question is were they ran away as sin as they stayed to feel anything?"
thats why I am asking the "How long have your relationship with them lasted in mutual love, after you showed interest? 😉" in my observation, they run away "if they start to feel anything" after they are accepted and are "wanted" to actually act on their "chasing" and the woman they chase is actually interested in them..
thats why I am asking @MyStarsShine, how that chasing unfolded and what were the circumstances.... if there was a case of "started to feel something and was scared off"
again, just my observation, the "scared off thing because they started to feel something" is just a bullshit excuse, if the woman WANTS you and reciprocates..... but I will stand corrected, if there is another case
people usually run away if they start feeling something, if its not reciprocated... if its reciprocated, its only an excuse
just my 2 cents
That’s what I am fighting - this stupidity of starting feelings something and running away! To where? Leaving potential good relashionships for what? And why?
And yes! You might get hurt. So? Will humans extinct eventually because men becoming useless spineless hurt-afraid-phobics?
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Gemitati: "That’s what I am fighting - this stupidity of starting feelings something and running away! To where? Leaving potential good relashionships for what? And why? "
I agree with you
as I said, in my opinion people usually run away if they start feeling something, if its not reciprocated... why they would run away if its reciprocated? it doesnt make sense and its just an excuse, if they do, imho
edit: I dont think "men becoming useless spineless hurt-afraid-phobics", they just maybe dont want to hurt the womens´ feelings and/or are afraid, if they said they dont want the particular woman, that woman will get histerical and act out, as we can witness on this forum sometimes as well
but, on the same token, is it maybe spineless to lie and use excuse to get rid of an attached woman, but its equally spineless and useless, how some woman represent themselves, and getting obsessive and crazy after dumped (or even before).... so, in some cases maybe the man is not afraid of his feelings, but the feelings of his woman, so he tries to let her down easily, because of fear of her craziness
bottom line: "I am scared of my feelings, so I leave" - its one or the other party is not invested enough and just doesnt want the other
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WTF does it mean?
Man avoiding sex with a woman who whowing him affection and he is touching, kissing her and ‘almost’ dating her because he is afraid of his feelings—
How does it go?
I really like her...oy!...but I’m afraid.
What are you afraid of?
My feelings...
So...where are the times when men likes the woman and comes up, sweep her off her feet and taking control and makes her his own?
And if she trying to play hard to get for a few minutes - he kisses her until she pass out and that’s that! Done deal!
What are these flimsy boys are doing?
Men-child kind...where did they come from and when?
I remember when I said no - he said ‘I am not giving up!’ Because that’s what men do! If they HAVE feelings...
And denying sex to themselves and the woman - paleeze! Is it a new generation shit?