Big or Small, Which Do You Prefer

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by tubbyscubby on Tuesday, July 6, 2010 and has 244 replies.

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@tubbyscubby
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was talking to a girlfriend earlier today. She and her husband just finished an intensive workout class thingy that they were taking together over the course of about 3 months. Her husband is REALLY skinny so the notion that he's doing excessive cardio and losing weight baffles me.

My friend has always been attracted to "slight" men though. Her boyfriend prior to her husband was even skinnier. I have another friend who is a bit larger who also prefers smaller men. She says it's because if things ever got physical between them, she knows she'll be able to take him out.

Where some of my friends tend to go for uber-skinny guys, I'm the opposite. I once dated a really skinny guy and it was horrible. Now don't get me wrong. The guy was really cute and he was fun to talk to (Gemini) but laying on his chest sucked. All I felt was straight rib cage. I could literally feel his heart beat in such a way that it was like listening to a drum beat. So although I was attracted to him in a general level, it killed me that his waist was smaller than mine.

I honestly prefer bigger dudes. Not necessarily fat but a few extra pounds are whatever. I could deal with an "average" sized man but the taller the man, the broader the shoulders, the more i lose my mind. So much so that most of the men I've dated have been over 6' and at the very least, 220lbs.

Big men are like life sized teddy bears. When they hug you, it's as if you're being swallowed in love. When they stand next to you, it's like you're in the shadow of a knight in full armor. And when they have sex, there's no question where you belong.

So that leads me to my question, what do body type do you prefer in a man and why?

source: http://doseofBlTCH.com/talesofab/big-or-small-which-do-you-prefer
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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts
lol i guess i prefer small and big guys lol.....I like small cos u can pick them up and stuff and i like big guys cos they spoon well and i like feeling their weight when they're on top of me.....also big guys mean they have bigger......
the bigger the better baby!

my ex he goes to the gym all the time....even runs during lunch at work he is seriously busting hi balls to get the body he wants but he always looks the same to me....hes got a nice body and stuff but i think he just needs to relax and not be such a machine.

i like naturally buff guys
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@Amandus
16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo
Posted by tubbyscubby...Not necessarily fat but a few extra pounds are whatever.
Big men are like life sized teddy bears. When they hug you, it's as if you're being swallowed in love. When they stand next to you, it's like you're in the shadow of a knight in full armor. And when they have sex, there's no question where you belong.




Wow. This is exactly the body I'm shaping myself into. I have broad shoulders...but I'm not exactly tall...
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@tubbyscubby
16 Years5,000+ Posts
go for it jason! broad shoulders are hot! depending on how broad, big muscled you are, it gives you an invisible 2 inches of additional height.

wow, with one pic you did the impossible.

he's skinny

he's ugly

he has crappy muscle definition

is your taste in men warped because you're unAmerican?
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@tubbyscubby
16 Years5,000+ Posts
making me mad? i knew virgo was simple but stupid too? 😛

he's just being obstinate. he didn't realize how uber-gay that pic looked that's why he added it to his profile. now that it's been called out for being the gayest photo ever sported by a heterosexual man, he's unable to yield because he's stuck in "i'm a virgo and i can't be criticized mode." just another manifestation of sun sign stupidity.

if a guy sent me a pic like that, i'd so be on the look out for DL signals.
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@Arm a Gettin
17 Years
Meh, I've never been one to care about body type beyond health concerns. I've liked guys that were fat, buff, lean, and some where in between. I don't care if a guy has abs because it's unimpressive to me. Generally a guy that is healthy is nice, so that normally means I will not be attracted to a guy who is anorexic, steroid-ish, or diabetic looking.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts
omg i went through a huge vin diesel stage....that voice makes me crack multiple eggs in my panites

that hairy man is just ridic! but at the same time i kinda wanna rub my body all over his....Im naturally hairless "batts eyes"
and it feel nice rubbing my legs all over some guys hairy legs.....I cant stand guys who shave though
theres nothing more of a turn off than some guys stubble in theyre pubic reigon plus it makes them look under age

actually did u girls know that really muscly guys when they shave theyre pubes right above theyre dick is an extra set of abs!? its so hot oiled up..... pubic reigon abs!

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
Vin Diesel is loveeee. I would eat his entire face off and not feel bad about it.



If you guys love his voice, you should hear my Libra talk - same exact fucking voice except with a little tiny bit of like a NY/NJ accent. I think it's quite possibly the only reason I dated him in the first place 😛
People call him Vin Diesel too since his name is Vinnie
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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
What's really weird too...Bella posted a thread on here recently about recognizing certain signs.
There's something about Vin Diesel's eyes that scream Cancer/Leo to me.

& wouldn't you know he was born July 18 🙂
damn I'm good
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