Big or Small, Which Do You Prefer

was talking to a girlfriend earlier today. She and her husband just finished an intensive workout class thingy that they were taking together over the course of about 3 months. Her husband is REALLY skinny so the notion that he's doing excessive cardio and losing weight baffles me.

My friend has always been attracted to "slight" men though. Her boyfriend prior to her husband was even skinnier. I have another friend who is a bit larger who also prefers smaller men. She says it's because if things ever got physical between them, she knows she'll be able to take him out.

Where some of my friends tend to go for uber-skinny guys, I'm the opposite. I once dated a really skinny guy and it was horrible. Now don't get me wrong. The guy was really cute and he was fun to talk to (Gemini) but laying on his chest sucked. All I felt was straight rib cage. I could literally feel his heart beat in such a way that it was like listening to a drum beat. So although I was attracted to him in a general level, it killed me that his waist was smaller than mine.

I honestly prefer bigger dudes. Not necessarily fat but a few extra pounds are whatever. I could deal with an "average" sized man but the taller the man, the broader the shoulders, the more i lose my mind. So much so that most of the men I've dated have been over 6' and at the very least, 220lbs.

Big men are like life sized teddy bears. When they hug you, it's as if you're being swallowed in love. When they stand next to you, it's like you're in the shadow of a knight in full armor. And when they have sex, there's no question where you belong.

So that leads me to my question, what do body type do you prefer in a man and why?

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lol i guess i prefer small and big guys lol.....I like small cos u can pick them up and stuff and i like big guys cos they spoon well and i like feeling their weight when they're on top of me.....also big guys mean they have bigger......
the bigger the better baby!

my ex he goes to the gym all the time....even runs during lunch at work he is seriously busting hi balls to get the body he wants but he always looks the same to me....hes got a nice body and stuff but i think he just needs to relax and not be such a machine.

i like naturally buff guys

the chicks who like the skinnier dudes claim that skinny men have big wees.

mine didn't. he's the one who made me enact the wee-rule.

oh and i think that's the problem. what woman wants to be able to pick up her man? i just don't get chicks who like skinny/metro looking guys.

Posted by tubbyscubby...Not necessarily fat but a few extra pounds are whatever.
Big men are like life sized teddy bears. When they hug you, it's as if you're being swallowed in love. When they stand next to you, it's like you're in the shadow of a knight in full armor. And when they have sex, there's no question where you belong.

Wow. This is exactly the body I'm shaping myself into. I have broad shoulders...but I'm not exactly tall...

go for it jason! broad shoulders are hot! depending on how broad, big muscled you are, it gives you an invisible 2 inches of additional height.

wow, with one pic you did the impossible.

he's skinny

he's ugly

he has crappy muscle definition

is your taste in men warped because you're unAmerican?

out of curiosity...are you looking at his face?

and it looks like his left nipple is lower than the right one.

yeah. someone needs to tell that virgo cat that as well. his avatar makes me gag.

I think he's just keeping it up just to make you mad now. He did just mention today that he liked testing people's reactions.

making me mad? i knew virgo was simple but stupid too? 😛

he's just being obstinate. he didn't realize how uber-gay that pic looked that's why he added it to his profile. now that it's been called out for being the gayest photo ever sported by a heterosexual man, he's unable to yield because he's stuck in "i'm a virgo and i can't be criticized mode." just another manifestation of sun sign stupidity.

if a guy sent me a pic like that, i'd so be on the look out for DL signals.

If was told I looked gay in a picture I'd want to shred it and burn it as soon as possible.

well not if you were gay.

this is wrong

so is this

mathew mcconaughey is the perfect combination or

yes mark wahlberg xxx

throwing a bit of aussie into the mix

Posted by TasteOfChaos

^^^ NOT

^^^ HOT

I can't stop laughing.

Oh yeaaa. Very much.

Meh, I've never been one to care about body type beyond health concerns. I've liked guys that were fat, buff, lean, and some where in between. I don't care if a guy has abs because it's unimpressive to me. Generally a guy that is healthy is nice, so that normally means I will not be attracted to a guy who is anorexic, steroid-ish, or diabetic looking.

HOT *licking screen*

NOT 😛

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

throwing a bit of aussie into the mix

He played Aries on Xena, yes? Makes me purr.

yum 🙂

& I have a thing for big noses too. Lol.

Bigger the nose, bigger the hose 😛

^ LOL What's your man hotty pic Bri? It's busted.

Posted by brianafay
& I have a thing for big noses too. Lol.

Bigger the nose, bigger the hose 😛

u asked for it

Lol not like that...

Vb - Vin Diesel

I think his eyes are so beautiful 11th. 'The Pianist', what a heartbreaking and beautiful movie.

Vin Diesel, that VOICE, holy mother of pearl.

LOLOL Me too, that is one load of testosterone der. *WOOGEDIE*

LOL!! Random UFO song to Terence Trent D'Arby. — Siggggn your name across my assssss, ah want you to be my bayyyybayyy. ??

Mike Rowe is awesome! Shoutout to DIRTY JOBS! He's also a fan of the prison workout with burpees.

omg i went through a huge vin diesel stage....that voice makes me crack multiple eggs in my panites

that hairy man is just ridic! but at the same time i kinda wanna rub my body all over his....Im naturally hairless "batts eyes"
and it feel nice rubbing my legs all over some guys hairy legs.....I cant stand guys who shave though
theres nothing more of a turn off than some guys stubble in theyre pubic reigon plus it makes them look under age

actually did u girls know that really muscly guys when they shave theyre pubes right above theyre dick is an extra set of abs!? its so hot oiled up..... pubic reigon abs!

I did not know that 11th, never been with a muscle bound dude.

Vin Diesel is loveeee. I would eat his entire face off and not feel bad about it.

If you guys love his voice, you should hear my Libra talk - same exact fucking voice except with a little tiny bit of like a NY/NJ accent. I think it's quite possibly the only reason I dated him in the first place 😛
People call him Vin Diesel too since his name is Vinnie

Now if only he had that bod
I'd marry him tomorrow 😛 LOL

What's really weird too...Bella posted a thread on here recently about recognizing certain signs.
There's something about Vin Diesel's eyes that scream Cancer/Leo to me.

& wouldn't you know he was born July 18 🙂
damn I'm good

Omigawd Bri, lucky you. Deep voices make me want to come unglued.
As to Mr. Rowe, I'd have to give it some deep thought..well! DONE already! OKAY! 😛

lmao

British accent is sexy as all hells.

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ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!

Delicious.

That is one serious chunk of womanhood right there my friend.

UhhhhhhHUH sister. 😉

sometimes i live smaller guys and heres gay porn star brent corrigan to fill in the little void

ew thank God he's gay

although I like guys with bigger brown nipples like the rock or that hot guy off the old spice ad

whats wrong with him?

you got a problem with this?

LOL I can't believe this is an actual advert.

Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you, the "Wunder Boner".

LOL No doubt.

The Rock, WOOOHOOO!

Think I just got a lil' 'cited der, WHEW!

The Rock & Christiano

*gasp*
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