Calling on all the guys (Page 3)

Posted by enfant_terrible
"My personal experience with the changes of the Vag" -- LMAO! You should write a novel from her point of view! 😄

There won't be much view point there...lol. She was committed for eight years. She's just naturally excited. Maybe I can do it from her fantasies POV. All that she dreams to do; but dares not to; or is to shy to do. Interesting suggestion.

Posted by Sagittarius2315
I don't know why I didn't think about this sooner. But thought about it just now and hopefully you can help me.
I'm writing a book from a mans POV and as a woman I'm limited when it comes to the way a man thinks especially when it comes to sex. On top of that; I don't know what it feels like for a man when he's in the act, as well as initiating.
So my questions is; how does it feel for you? From beginning to end? Is it mostly mental, when you orgasm do you feel it in one specific place( woman or at least I feel it throughout my body). Do you take your time on purpose?
And so on; give details please....don't be embarrassed or feel like you might offend me cause you won't. Trust me in this topic I'm very open minded.
Thank you

would also depend on what TYPE of guy you are describing in a romance novel/story. Many TYPES 0ut there. Here's a good article as well:
http://uk.askmen.com/dating/heidi_150/168_dating_girl.html<BR>
5 types of men every woman wants:

1. mr. romantic guy (cary grant johnny depp)
2. mr. big shot (Mr. Big from sex and the city and James Bond types)
3. mr. sexy older guy (antonio banderas, sean connery types)
4. mr. man's man (frank sinatra and russell crowe)
5. mr. fun social guy (Will farrell, vince vaughn)

Posted by SugarAries
I can relate to this a little bit. It's like I put them on a pedestal and I don't want to do those bad things to them. I don't want to defile them because I like them too much. It wears off though, eventually lol 😛

Yes, that's EXACTLY it! It is only when I get fully comfortable around a person, and when that initial attraction wears off, that I can start to fully enjoy sex on my own terms. This can take anything from a couple of weeks, to couple of months, possibly even a year! Depends a lot on how the other person is and what kind of energy they give out.

Ironically I have no problem 'bearing it all' to those I have no emotional investment in! Isn't that meesed up? That basically means a prostitute would get to know me faster in certain areas, than someone I actually love.

I don't know; I find imperfections kind of sexy( to a degree). I mean don't get me wrong I like the body to be clean, but a scar and so on won't bother me. I'd probably lick it ; especially if I feel you are insecure about it. Insecurities; to me are sexy; I will play with it; but to show you that know matter what in my eyes your even more sexy because of it.
Besides there's all kind of cremes and stuff for blemishes.
But I understand, just hope ya made her feel comfortable. As long it's not hygiene problems; or looking like the wicked witch from the east(hope I got that right) then it's not that bad....I hope; don't know the extent of the blemishes.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Sagittarius2315
I don't know why I didn't think about this sooner. But thought about it just now and hopefully you can help me.
I'm writing a book from a mans POV and as a woman I'm limited when it comes to the way a man thinks especially when it comes to sex. On top of that; I don't know what it feels like for a man when he's in the act, as well as initiating.
So my questions is; how does it feel for you? From beginning to end? Is it mostly mental, when you orgasm do you feel it in one specific place( woman or at least I feel it throughout my body). Do you take your time on purpose?
And so on; give details please....don't be embarrassed or feel like you might offend me cause you won't. Trust me in this topic I'm very open minded.
Thank you

would also depend on what TYPE of guy you are describing in a romance novel/story. Many TYPES 0ut there. Here's a good article as well:
http://uk.askmen.com/dating/heidi_150/168_dating_girl.html<BR>
5 types of men every woman wants:

1. mr. romantic guy (cary grant johnny depp)
2. mr. big shot (Mr. Big from sex and the city and James Bond types)
3. mr. sexy older guy (antonio banderas, sean connery types)
4. mr. man's man (frank sinatra and russell crowe)
5. mr. fun social guy (Will farrell, vince vaughn)

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I would say; famous guy who is trying to separate his private life from his celeb life. Has a hard time finish love with woman because he can't differentiate the what's real and what's superficial. Very cautious in the love department; tends to fall in love pretty hard and at the same time pushes love away for fear of getting hurt again. So he has to keep his composure; yet wants to find love; in the public eye has to be mister perfect and he's 24 years old. Then he has family obligations; falls for the female protagonist; whole still having unresolved feelings with his ex....drama....and doesn't know how to keep female friendships...just that friendships.
Don't know where he falls under. James Dean kind of guy; he's very charismatic; can be quiet at times. That's basically the drama of the novel. I little bit of it.

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by SugarAries
I can relate to this a little bit. It's like I put them on a pedestal and I don't want to do those bad things to them. I don't want to defile them because I like them too much. It wears off though, eventually lol 😛

Yes, that's EXACTLY it! It is only when I get fully comfortable around a person, and when that initial attraction wears off, that I can start to fully enjoy sex on my own terms. This can take anything from a couple of weeks, to couple of months, possibly even a year! Depends a lot on how the other person is and what kind of energy they give out.

Ironically I have no problem 'bearing it all' to those I have no emotional investment in! Isn't that meesed up? That basically means a prostitute would get to know me faster in certain areas, than someone I actually love.

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I understand the opening up to strangers faster then the one you possibly love. In love we can over think things; or think the worst. With a strangers if you mess up, they won't really hold you accountable. We never want to mess things up with the one we love; so we analyze everything. Over think things and so on. I'm guilty of that....damn Virgo Moon! Then there is the whole mystery of getting to know that person.
I'm trying to not over think everything; I also got that from my Cappy ex...ugh! Drove me insane; now I drive others up the wall as well. Because in all honesty I can't walk in to something completely blind; I need a little bit of direction so I can at least know what in dealing with.
I think sex, it's the same thing....especially in the beginning.

"I would say; famous guy who is trying to separate his private life from his celeb life. Has a hard time finish love with woman because he can't differentiate the what's real and what's superficial. Very cautious in the love department; tends to fall in love pretty hard and at the same time pushes love away for fear of getting hurt again. So he has to keep his composure; yet wants to find love; in the public eye has to be mister perfect and he's 24 years old. Then he has family obligations; falls for the female protagonist; whole still having unresolved feelings with his ex....drama....and doesn't know how to keep female friendships...just that friendships.
Don't know where he falls under. James Dean kind of guy; he's very charismatic; can be quiet at times. That's basically the drama of the novel. I little bit of it."


Hmm try reading up on James Dean type biographies and men who live charismatic lives/in the fast lane. Sounds like this guy is a romantic. Because he values "romance" and "love" while finds it difficult because of his celebrity status.

^^ ops i mean no. 1 guy, the romantic man women go for.

Posted by lisabethur8
^^ ops i mean no. 1 guy, the romantic man women go for.

Thank you; I will do that. I love James Dean. Trying to do as much research as I can; want to get it right. Have guys appreciate the novel as well; of course target audience is woman; but I want the guys that do read it; say it was a good read....so good they thought a guy wrote.

Posted by May31Baby

Posted by Sagittarius2315
I don't know; I find imperfections kind of sexy( to a degree). I mean don't get me wrong I like the body to be clean, but a scar and so on won't bother me. I'd probably lick it ; especially if I feel you are insecure about it. Insecurities; to me are sexy; I will play with it; but to show you that know matter what in my eyes your even more sexy because of it.
Besides there's all kind of cremes and stuff for blemishes.
But I understand, just hope ya made her feel comfortable. As long it's not hygiene problems; or looking like the wicked witch from the east(hope I got that right) then it's not that bad....I hope; don't know the extent of the blemishes.

I like this. Its very cute. It reminds me of m bf, he always finds every littlw scar or bump, like he likes to play with them. I have this scar from a spider bite its a little lump and hes always playing with it. Imperfections are what make us unique

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Yeah I don't find a simple blemish a turn off. Didn't get it; but to each is own. We are all imperfect; that's the beauty of falling in love with someone and even sex. You find beauty in things that your partner might night find beautiful. It lets you know your human; unique, and just sets you aside from others.
Crappy personality is far less attractive then something small like a blemish. The whole finding off the lights thing....why?
I like to find out the behind the stories. I have two spiders bites myself...lol. My ex found it endearing because of where I have them. So it gives room to have my partner open up a little bit more; and have them feel more comfortable. I prefer sex with the lights on or dim lightning; like to see every reactions from my partner; however of they prefer the lights off; I don't mind.

Can't knock'em for being honest....right?

@Nina and Sug: I am respectful to your personal situations but I stand by what I said as it's been my and others experience. Could it be mistaken for cheating? Yes and I acknowledge that. But we all can agree that sex isn't just sex. There's a lot more going on and when you've been with one person for a while you can tell when they're sleeping with someone else and I've stated how.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
@Nina and Sug: I am respectful to your personal situations but I stand by what I said as it's been my and others experience. Could it be mistaken for cheating? Yes and I acknowledge that. But we all can agree that sex isn't just sex. There's a lot more going on and when you've been with one person for a while you can tell when they're sleeping with someone else and I've stated how.

Has there ever been in your own personal experience; where it felt different. Where it wasn't accustomed to you the way you were use to? Beyond that; was their an energy, that told you she was or had been with someone else?
I think it takes a more mature man to be able to know the actual difference instead of a paranoid insecure guy who just constantly feels like someone is cheating one him.
I know many guy friends of mine who new the difference and called their girls out on it and the results were true; their girls were cheating.
It's like a woman; a woman can also feel when her man is cheating or suddenly has lost interest in her not only sexually but emotionally as well.

Posted by Sagittarius2315

I'm writing a book from a mans POV and as a woman I'm limited when it comes to the way a man thinks ...

Trust me in this topic I'm very open minded.

successful writers, write about topic they are familiar with ... being open-minded won't help you in actualizing what it's like to be a man.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Sagittarius2315

I'm writing a book from a mans POV and as a woman I'm limited when it comes to the way a man thinks ...

Trust me in this topic I'm very open minded.

successful writers, write about topic they are familiar with ... being open-minded won't help you in actualizing what it's like to be a man.

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I don't completely agree; a lot writers write according to others experiences and they put their own twist on it. I'm pretty sure Ann Rice when she wrote the sleeping beauty books she didn't know all about BDSM. So I don't completely agree.
I might not think like a man; but how woman and man feel aren't that completely different. I know a lot of my male friends who actually live the fast life; and had really bad break ups; I've seen then cry; break down; loose it and had difficulty separating their career with their love life and were put in positions where they had to choose. A lot of what I'm writing about is due to my own observation; as well as what I've seen. Doing it from a mans POV to me is rather unique; and so far both male and female like it. I just feel the physical and sexual can be a little bit more authentic and less scattered. But my attraction to woman helps a lot, since I find them to be beautiful creatures, so I believe I might see the woman species the way a man does. I just need to get a bit more insight from a man to learn at least in my novel how to think more like a man; as well as language, but that's something different all in it's own.
I have my personal reasons why I chose the story like and plot.
It's good to know; but it's also good not to know so you won't be stuck in one mindset and be bias towards the situation. In my opinion woman always write from a woman's point of view because it's what they know; and are comfortable with it. I like a challenge and I don't like comfortable I like to step outside of my comfort zone as a writer and writing from a mans POV allows me just that.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Sagittarius2315

I'm writing a book from a mans POV and as a woman I'm limited when it comes to the way a man thinks ...

Trust me in this topic I'm very open minded.

successful writers, write about topic they are familiar with ... being open-minded won't help you in actualizing what it's like to be a man.

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'Successful' writers also have an inquisitive mind, and a need to re-invent themselves by stretching beyond their comfort zones. Curiosity is the best creative drive in any artistic proffession and real writers use their pen to explorer the things they are curious about, and not their own dusty backyards!

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Sagittarius2315

I'm writing a book from a mans POV and as a woman I'm limited when it comes to the way a man thinks ...

Trust me in this topic I'm very open minded.

successful writers, write about topic they are familiar with ... being open-minded won't help you in actualizing what it's like to be a man.

'Successful' writers also have an inquisitive mind, and a need to re-invent themselves by stretching beyond their comfort zones. Curiosity is the best creative drive in any artistic proffession and real writers use their pen to explorer the things they are curious about, and not their own dusty backyards!

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Thank you. I think the whole open-minded bit got him/her confused. I keep and open mind and also read in to the answers I was given. I like man to feel comfortable and not hold back when discussing such a topic as sex and emotions.
Man have different ways of approaching a topic or situation and I want that approach to be as pure and honest as possible. If you have a vulgar way of doing it; don't be shy about it; if you have an emotional approach about it; don't hold back either. The answers also help me in the way a man communicates, I am writing from a mans POV after all and that level of openness and realness means a lot to me; because my male protagonist has to show a level of vulnerability depending on the situations he is put or puts himself in. Also when expressions himself to those he can be completely open with; say his mother or brother or father.
Any who....I like doing things that are considered different; I like to push my own envelope and so on. So I'll push forward with my project.
Actually a bit upset; cause their is no one rule to writing, fiction gives room for so much. I have a lot of room in my creative soul.

Which brings me to this question. Is there someone you know; that you can bare your all emotional with out feeling judged by this person. Or do you still withhold parts of yourself with even the ones you trust wholeheartedly. I'm approaching this from and emotion point of view. Since we all have different levels of openness and it depends on the level of trust you have with this person(s)

At this point my ex girlfriend would be the only one I can be totally open with among those people I feel matter to me, regardless if she judges me or not. She's a Scorpio with Pisces moon, go figure. Emotional, occasionally judgemental, super defensive but all-in-all understanding. I'm can be more open with her now than when we were dating, even if we do get on eachother's nerves all the time. We're like best friends these days, I don't think she'll never recover from us breaking up, and I'll never fully recover from doing that to her. I just wish I could let go of this guilt I have. Oh wait, this is not my private therapy session.... lol!

Regarding my sexuality, yes my fantasies can be rather vulgar, un-erotic even! Not like 'deepthroat my dick bitch' - vulgar, but much more elaborated. I have a very rich inner life, to the extent that reality rarely matches it. There's so much I could tell you, even though I don't think it would benefit your novel or expand your knowledge of the male psyche, but unfortunately I haven't got enough time to analyze myself that deeply right now. Maybe we should book a private chat session some time... and you can pick my brain any way you want 😉

Posted by enfant_terrible
At this point my ex girlfriend would be the only one I can be totally open with among those people I feel matter to me, regardless if she judges me or not. She's a Scorpio with Pisces moon, go figure. Emotional, occasionally judgemental, super defensive but all-in-all understanding. I'm can be more open with her now than when we were dating, even if we do get on eachother's nerves all the time. We're like best friends these days, I don't think she'll never recover from us breaking up, and I'll never fully recover from doing that to her. I just wish I could let go of this guilt I have. Oh wait, this is not my private therapy session.... lol!

Regarding my sexuality, yes my fantasies can be rather vulgar, un-erotic even! Not like 'deepthroat my dick bitch' - vulgar, but much more elaborated. I have a very rich inner life, to the extent that reality rarely matches it. There's so much I could tell you, even though I don't think it would benefit your novel or expand your knowledge of the male psyche, but unfortunately I haven't got enough time to analyze myself that deeply right now. Maybe we should book a private chat session some time... and you can pick my brain any way you want 😉

Just let me know when and I'll reserve a time for you....privately.
As if now, I have no one; only paper and pen. My fantasies are too out there for anyone in my inner circle to understand, maybe my cousin is an exception, she's a Virgo and we are extremely close. I haven't tried telling her my darkest most deepest secrets. I'll try it one day.
Let me know about our private session. I'll be more then happy to have a private session with you.

Looking forward to it, and being an explorer of the human condition myself, I shall of course want to hear all about you 'unmentionables' as well. 😉

I'll let you know when I have some peace of mind.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Me and my homie talk about everything. Emotional, sexual, intellectual, moral codes, religion, etc. I've known him since I was 7 years old living in the projects. We coincedentally stayed right next door to each other. Go figure...
I damn near trust him with anything besides my own life and that's because I don't trust anyone up to that point. If it's about life and death, I'd rather handle it alone. However, if it came down to me having no choice but to trust him with my life, then I wouldn't think twice. Nonetheless, I wouldn't purposely put him in that position knowing it could end his life for my own gain. And there have been situations where we both were put in the predicament where we had to trust each other, or die. Most people would call that your best friend. I call him my brother.

I don't worry about petty shit like will he sleep with my gf, or steal money from me, etc. We're past that. I trust him more than I trust my own blood brother. Which is kind of sad, but it is what it is. We help each other throughout any struggle. We break break bread each other no matter how poor we are. And when we are both breaded, we shine "with" each other, not the other way around. With me and him, we leave our egos at the door. It's heart to heart man to man and it shows when other people are amongst us. Some men will allow a woman to come between him and his best friend and that shit is just disgusting when I see it. That's some hoe shit. 😕

But anywho. If I'm having relationship problems, financial problems, family problems, etc. He's the first person I would go to for advice because I know it's pure. And vice versa. We've cried around each other, had fights, disagreements, and not once did we question our motives afterwards for anything. We don't fight much at all these days though. I feel like I'm blessed to have him and god put us next door to each other for a reason because honestly, I don't even know where the fuck I would be without that nigga, lol. To be completely real with you.....and I'm not scared to admit that.

That's my mother fucking DAWG! WOOF! WOOF! Hahah!😄😏

I hope this has helped you because I had to bring out the keyboard for this, lol.

That's beautiful; I had that connection with my cousin; we had a falling out because of my own family, they try to always break our bound. But we reconne

Darn was cut off....lol

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Oh yeah, LOLOL, I hate when that happens. When you see someone write a storyline(lol) like the one I just typed remember not to quote it. That's actually the best time to just start a fresh post and put @ to whomever you are speaking with. Just in case you didn't know. 🙂

I'll keep that in mind. Just poured my heart out only to have it cut short....lol

Posted by Sagittarius2315
Which brings me to this question. Is there someone you know; that you can bare your all emotional with out feeling judged by this person. Or do you still withhold parts of yourself with even the ones you trust wholeheartedly. I'm approaching this from and emotion point of view. Since we all have different levels of openness and it depends on the level of trust you have with this person(s)

Yes I do. She's always bern a friend and never a lover. I've told her things I wouldn't tell my mother lol. She has also reciprocated. She's a fellow Sag.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
@Nina and Sug: I am respectful to your personal situations but I stand by what I said as it's been my and others experience. Could it be mistaken for cheating? Yes and I acknowledge that. But we all can agree that sex isn't just sex. There's a lot more going on and when you've been with one person for a while you can tell when they're sleeping with someone else and I've stated how.

Has there ever been in your own personal experience; where it felt different. Where it wasn't accustomed to you the way you were use to? Beyond that; was their an energy, that told you she was or had been with someone else?
I think it takes a more mature man to be able to know the actual difference instead of a paranoid insecure guy who just constantly feels like someone is cheating one him.
I know many guy friends of mine who new the difference and called their girls out on it and the results were true; their girls were cheating.
It's like a woman; a woman can also feel when her man is cheating or suddenly has lost interest in her not only sexually but emotionally as well.

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Absolutely and its much like how your friends descibe. It's happened to me a couple of times. The first time only made me suspicious because even before penetration she vibe and energy was off. If a person wasn't "paying attention" they wouldn't have noticed the difference. But once penetration occurred, I immediately knew and honestly I stopped. We got into an argument and she admitted it. The second time I knew before and I was reluctant to have sex with her and yes...it felt different.

Hello!
I'm going to make this place my little playground. Been in a vary happy mood, and in like others to share my happiness.
@PHV; I tried remembering; but I couldn't remember what I wrote. But it's nice to see such brotherly love; maybe you two were brothers in a past life. I consider my cousin my soulmate; we need to reconnect though we had a bad falling out and lost tough with each other.

Posted by May31Baby
Ay you see whos her number one though right? 😉 you can be a close second

Missed ya; you should play with me in my dungeon; think I might start another thread....hmmm. How does thou feel?

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Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Sagittarius2315

I'm writing a book from a mans POV and as a woman I'm limited when it comes to the way a man thinks ...

Trust me in this topic I'm very open minded.

successful writers, write about topic they are familiar with ... being open-minded won't help you in actualizing what it's like to be a man.

... a lot writers write according to others experiences and they put their own twist on it.

A lot of what I'm writing about is due to my own observation; as well as what I've seen.

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lol, you talk about observation on one side of your mouth and the other says that it, being a female, can speak from a male point of view.

Observe to your hearts content ... but, you will still be commenting from an observers point of view. Unless you are male inside of your body, you cannot speak from a man's point of view. You can speak according to how you interpret what you observe.



::: shakes head :::


silly will stop being cute when you grow up

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Posted by Sagittarius2315

I'm writing a book from a mans POV and as a woman I'm limited when it comes to the way a man thinks ...

Trust me in this topic I'm very open minded.

successful writers, write about topic they are familiar with ... being open-minded won't help you in actualizing what it's like to be a man.

... a lot writers write according to others experiences and they put their own twist on it.

A lot of what I'm writing about is due to my own observation; as well as what I've seen.

lol, you talk about observation on one side of your mouth and the other says that it, being a female, can speak from a male point of view.

Observe to your hearts content ... but, you will still be commenting from an observers point of view. Unless you are male inside of your body, you cannot speak from a man's point of view. You can speak according to how you interpret what you observe.



::: shakes head :::


silly will stop being cute when you grow up

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Relax silly billy cause it's been done before and I can name a few. It shows you have no vision; and no imagination. I might not be a man( have a penis) but everyone feels; every one cries ; everyone loves and everyone hates, we just have different genitalia. And as for thinking like a man, I might not think like one. But remember those roles of male ; female is imprinted in us by how society thinks a man should think or act and so on. It all boils down to many other factors that both man and woman at a point can relate to.
Relax yourself; if you don't like the idea of a woman show casing a mans emotions(which by the way is not to paint man as horny mindless heartless dogs) then ignore my thread.

Breath; regroup and go about your business; and I'm no little girl trust me. Don't get my easy going nature mistaken with inexperience; or a naive mindset.

@P-Angel- FYI- don't let this innocent face fool you; I'm not all unicorns and rainbows. Now let the door hit you were it hurts the most....and I'm not talking about where the sun don't shine.

Posted by May31Baby
Saggie dont mind p angel. Seriously this is her only purpose in life, to piss others off on dxp. Lol trust me i been here too with this one. Dont let her pop your bubble boo 🙂

I won't; at first I thought it was a guy. Then I found out last night:

1) it has a pu $ $ y
2)54

And 3) Her opinion doesn't matter.


I'm good though_??

Kitty*

Posted by Sagittarius2315

.... but everyone feels; every one cries ; everyone loves and everyone hates, we just have different genitalia.

I might not think like one. But remember those roles of male ; female is imprinted in us by how society thinks a man should think or act and so on.

By you implying the only difference is the genitalia, proves my point ... you are clueless in your ability to speak from a man's point of view. You can speak from how you interpret what you believe the man feels according to what you've observed.

But you cannot speak from his point of view.

That would be like me saying I know what it's to be black because I'm open minded and have been watching.

what a crock of shit .... you're deluding yourself.

Jeez, I'd hate to have you for a parent! Do you write yourself? If you don't, what can you possibly know about the process? If you do, then you should know every writer has their own way of going about things, and their own purpose. Some of the greatest writers haven't lived a day in their life, yet they seem to know everything about the human condition.

And why didn't you tackle my response instead of reapeating what you've basically already said? I'll tell you, because she a vulnerable target for putting herself out there, and you're just an internet bully.

@may- did you have a good time last night?

FYI-
I acknowledge that everyone is entitled to their own opinions whether male or female in accordance to this thread. I take in to account all; and dismiss what doesn't work for me. After all it was meant for a specific reason that thankfully because of the man that assisted has been fulfilled.

With that said, Pangel said her peace; I said mine; and that's it.
Meaning as of now it's behind me.

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Posted by May31Baby
Saggie dont mind p angel. Seriously this is her only purpose in life, to piss others off on dxp. Lol trust me i been here too with this one. Dont let her pop your bubble boo 🙂

I won't; at first I thought it was a guy. Then I found out last night:

1) it has a pu $ $ y
2)54

And 3) Her opinion doesn't matter.


I'm good though_—

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Ditto. Its a rite of passage of sorts lol. I wasn't here a week when we had out first argument and we've had a couple since. Yours was actually on the light end lol.

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Posted by May31Baby
Saggie dont mind p angel. Seriously this is her only purpose in life, to piss others off on dxp. Lol trust me i been here too with this one. Dont let her pop your bubble boo 🙂

I won't; at first I thought it was a guy. Then I found out last night:

1) it has a pu $ $ y
2)54

And 3) Her opinion doesn't matter.


I'm good though_—

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How disappointing.

Posted by May31Baby

Posted by Sagittarius2315
@may- did you have a good time last night?

No. I fell asleep before he got off work! Now im extra fuckin crabby today. Fml

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That sucks....I would help...but I'm moody myself. R u seeing him tonight?

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Posted by May31Baby
Saggie dont mind p angel. Seriously this is her only purpose in life, to piss others off on dxp. Lol trust me i been here too with this one. Dont let her pop your bubble boo 🙂

I won't; at first I thought it was a guy. Then I found out last night:

1) it has a pu $ $ y
2)54

And 3) Her opinion doesn't matter.


I'm good though_—

Ditto. Its a rite of passage of sorts lol. I wasn't here a week when we had out first argument and we've had a couple since. Yours was actually on the light end lol.

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She's I believe gonna keep poking she seems to thrive on reactions when it comes to her indirect negativity. It's all good what ever makes her happy.

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Posted by Sagittarius2315

Posted by May31Baby
Saggie dont mind p angel. Seriously this is her only purpose in life, to piss others off on dxp. Lol trust me i been here too with this one. Dont let her pop your bubble boo 🙂

I won't; at first I thought it was a guy. Then I found out last night:

1) it has a pu $ $ y
2)54

And 3) Her opinion doesn't matter.


I'm good though_—

Ditto. Its a rite of passage of sorts lol. I wasn't here a week when we had out first argument and we've had a couple since. Yours was actually on the light end lol.

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Who would want to battle it out with you in the first place....your so sweet.

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Posted by May31Baby
Saggie dont mind p angel. Seriously this is her only purpose in life, to piss others off on dxp. Lol trust me i been here too with this one. Dont let her pop your bubble boo 🙂

I won't; at first I thought it was a guy. Then I found out last night:

1) it has a pu $ $ y
2)54

And 3) Her opinion doesn't matter.


I'm good though_—

How disappointing.

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Indeed! Some can't see the forest...

I think it's strange that you would want to be descriptive about how a male experiences an orgasm in a romance story. All you have to depend on is the input you receive from the other males and I'm not sure if that is enough. Would entice your readers or would it detach them and make them question?

But I don't mean to dissuade you in any way. There definitely is an audience for this explicit stuff.

I just wanted to let my own opinion on orgasm in written word and even as a whole to be seen.



As a fan of romance the details on how either gender experiences orgasm in their point of view I feel are not at all important but then I already know that how I experience romance is vastly different from a the majority of other males.

For me, the "high" is the emotional connection between the couple—the journey their hearts took before wholly accepting each other. When the couple physically connects the orgasm for me represents the couple's acceptance of a new journey of love together. Safe sex in a romance seem to indicate that there are challenges that the couple need to overcome (note that this is not how I feel about safe sex).

Although it would make me real happy if my favorite author would stop keeping her books PG and make more of her couples make love for me like in my old favorites of hers for a more complete romantic experience its not that important. I already know that sex is a given and that they'll do it eventually even if the story hadn't directed it.

In reality I feel the same way about romance, sex, and orgasm. They aren't just hormonal rushes that make me feel good. It really is a new journey of acceptance, understanding, and joy that I could choose to travel along with someone else.

With all that was said I would like to repeat that I don't mean to come across as preaching to you about what is "write".

It just only seems that way because I write with strong Leo influence.

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Who would want to battle it out with you in the first place....your so sweet.

It's you're, not your.

Pretty lousy grasp on the language .... write much?

@Amandus-

Your right; my strongest suit with my approach is the emotional; that's what I'm show casing the most because that is important to me. I'm a very emotional individual and that level of vulnerability and exposure in a male character is beautiful to me.

However; to me it's also important to know Whats going on in a mans head while in the act as well as how he feels at every level while in the act. Just because it's explained explicitly here doesn't mean I will describe it in the same format in my novel. To me; it's still important because in this I want to see what is the difference between a woman and a man.
The delivery when it comes to sex sense is very important; if your too PG13 it's boring and if it's too Rated-R, it's appalling. I'm keeping it in the in between; playing more in to the emotional for the targeted audience I'm trying to reach out to.


Thank you for your in put. I read a lot of romance novels as well and I always take in to each authors approach and delivery. This helped me a lot. I always take what others have to say in to account. I've been writing for a long time, and my delivery isn't on the raunchy side; this novel is very special to me ; it's my baby, I treat it with lots of love and care.

BACK TO THE SUBJECT MANS TAKE ON SEX MANY DIFFERENT VIEWS ON HERE
I HAVE MADE SO MANY SEX FILMS THAT IS BOERING TO ME NOW IT USED TO BE
EXCITING I REMEMBER MY FIRST FILM (ZIPPER SNAKE JOHENNY) AFTER THE NEXT 100 OR SO ITS WAS JUST A JOB IM OLDER NOW DOESN'T HAVE THE KICK IT USED TO HAVE SO IM OUT OF THE BUSINESS.
THATS ABOUT IT.

ZIPPER SNAKE JOHENNY

Ahhh...the classics.

IM GLAD ITS ONE OF YOUR FAV'S WY.