Ever Hit on a Gay Guy?

So there is this Gay Guy and I find him so attractive and interesting. I think hes a pisces.

I've been wondering about him and I think hes been wondering about me.

Sexuality is a spectrum right?

I find alot of gay men to be intrigued by me.

Im like 90% straight myself.

Anyone have a gay crush?

Hes a cycle instructor.

Hes very friendly. So I just dont know lol.

I spoke to another gay friend of mine and he told me not say a damn word. Too much trouble.

Ugh

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Hes a cycle instructor.

Hes very friendly. So I just dont know lol.

I spoke to another gay friend of mine and he told me not say a damn word. Too much trouble.

? Bit dramatic isn’t it? Couldn’t you just ask a few casual questions about his sexuality? Did he always know, was he ever with a girl etc etc etc? I mean nothing intense just chill... you’re a lovely friendly sagittarius I’m sure you could get away with it! 😁 Nothing wrong with a few harmless questions, you’ll know what you need from the way he answers, I reckon, no harm in it!

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Oh oh oh. I've been slowly creeping up on him. I already have made successful contact with him DM inbox. Lol.

I may ask him out for a cocktail.

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Girl—??

All penis

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It’s definitely possible! It could go either way though.... like I think my hairdresser is soooo lovely and hot and all that but I can tell he’s just like being a nice guy and it’s safe harmless flirting .... but I did have a guy I worked with once say he was attracted to me/found me sexy and he was gay... I was worried it meant I was somehow masculine, but I really do think it’s a spectrum and chemistry just happens regardless... maybe make a comment like ‘oh if only you were straight’ or something just kind of jokingly, see how he reacts?

Maybe this is true because one of my closest gay friends is also a drag queen in Houston but he’s a Sagittarius and our energy mingles soo well. I’ll sit on his lap, with my arm around his neck and he’ll start rubbing on my thigh kissing me on the cheek, basically being a flirt. Some think we’re too close but I’m not sure if it’s platonic behavior lol

Whatever 🤷🏽‍♀️

🤷‍♀️I don’t know either 😊 sometimes it’s nice to just have that level of comfort with someone spiritually similar and sort of safe from all the usual girl/boy drama that can bring such headaches... just everyone do whatever feels right for them I guess! 😁✌️You can definitely have non sexual chemistry anyways... I had been starting to blame it on astrology if I’m honest lol!

Lol I mean we’re super comfy with each other, maybe too much. 😄

@_Dazed

Explain this for us, why gay guys do this. Is it them just being big flirts? Or is it somewhat feeling a connection out of the sexuality spectrum?

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You would have to ask a gay man.

Invite him out as a friends thing and gather more information.

He may not even be gay.

He may be bi.

He may just be metro and straight.

My gbff became gym buddies with an Abbey dancer he though was gay and lowkey wanted that ass. He's straight (like most of them are) and now they are just friends. But hey, no risk no reward.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Invite him out as a friends thing and gather more information.

He may not even be gay.

He may be bi.

He may just be metro and straight.

My gbff became gym buddies with an Abbey dancer he though was gay and lowkey wanted that ass. He's straight (like most of them are) and now they are just friends. But hey, no risk no reward.

I'm going to make a few more song requests and then slide in with a cocktail invite.

At the very least he has alot of positive energy.

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It’s definitely possible! It could go either way though.... like I think my hairdresser is soooo lovely and hot and all that but I can tell he’s just like being a nice guy and it’s safe harmless flirting .... but I did have a guy I worked with once say he was attracted to me/found me sexy and he was gay... I was worried it meant I was somehow masculine, but I really do think it’s a spectrum and chemistry just happens regardless... maybe make a comment like ‘oh if only you were straight’ or something just kind of jokingly, see how he reacts?

Maybe this is true because one of my closest gay friends is also a drag queen in Houston but he’s a Sagittarius and our energy mingles soo well. I’ll sit on his lap, with my arm around his neck and he’ll start rubbing on my thigh kissing me on the cheek, basically being a flirt. Some think we’re too close but I’m not sure if it’s platonic behavior lol

Whatever 🤷🏽‍♀️

🤷‍♀️I don’t know either 😊 sometimes it’s nice to just have that level of comfort with someone spiritually similar and sort of safe from all the usual girl/boy drama that can bring such headaches... just everyone do whatever feels right for them I guess! 😁✌️You can definitely have non sexual chemistry anyways... I had been starting to blame it on astrology if I’m honest lol!

Lol I mean we’re super comfy with each other, maybe too much. 😄

@_Dazed

Explain this for us, why gay guys do this. Is it them just being big flirts? Or is it somewhat feeling a connection out of the sexuality spectrum?

You would have to ask a gay man.

Hmm.. you’re right.

@lethalfantasia

I think it's different for everybody. I am not sexually attracted to women but I have had genuine feelings for women throughout my life. And if they eve dor pop up again and I meet the right girl or whatever and she'd be open to dating me, I wouldn't rule it out. I don't know, I feel like everyone is different.

I have a cousin who is 100% gay and has a super gay voice and is effeminate acting and everything but if he has one or two drinks over his limit, he's known to sleep with women.

lolz

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A drunk spectrum lol

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It’s definitely possible! It could go either way though.... like I think my hairdresser is soooo lovely and hot and all that but I can tell he’s just like being a nice guy and it’s safe harmless flirting .... but I did have a guy I worked with once say he was attracted to me/found me sexy and he was gay... I was worried it meant I was somehow masculine, but I really do think it’s a spectrum and chemistry just happens regardless... maybe make a comment like ‘oh if only you were straight’ or something just kind of jokingly, see how he reacts?

Maybe this is true because one of my closest gay friends is also a drag queen in Houston but he’s a Sagittarius and our energy mingles soo well. I’ll sit on his lap, with my arm around his neck and he’ll start rubbing on my thigh kissing me on the cheek, basically being a flirt. Some think we’re too close but I’m not sure if it’s platonic behavior lol

Whatever 🤷🏽‍♀️

If you feel him getting hard when you're sitting on his lap, then you know it's not platonic behavior lol. 😝

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Yes and no.

After all my clit doesn't care whether its a genderless toy or a dudes fingers.

You sure he's gay? I have a Pisces man after me and I swear up and down that he's bi. He's like a dramatic gay man, but I guess that's just his personality. I've actually asked him and he said he wasn't but gets hit on by guys all the time. I just don't believe him. 😆

I can't hang with it though. He's just too feminine for my taste. I really think he's gay and just trying to trick me, for some reason. Make me fall in love and then use a dildo on him.

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Invite him out as a friends thing and gather more information.

He may not even be gay.

He may be bi.

He may just be metro and straight.

My gbff became gym buddies with an Abbey dancer he though was gay and lowkey wanted that ass. He's straight (like most of them are) and now they are just friends. But hey, no risk no reward.

I'm going to make a few more song requests and then slide in with a cocktail invite.

At the very least he has alot of positive energy.

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Every connection is a good one imo.

Who knows, he may have a tall dark handsome brother or cousin...

Posted by saggurl88

You sure he's gay? I have a Pisces man after me and I swear up and down that he's bi. He's like a dramatic gay man, but I guess that's just his personality. I've actually asked him and he said he wasn't but gets hit on by guys all the time. I just don't believe him. 😆

I can't hang with it though. He's just too feminine for my taste. I really think he's gay and just trying to trick me, for some reason. Make me fall in love and then use a dildo on him.

Bisexual is fine by me. I've dated a Taurus b4.

Well his insta is rainbow flags galore and he definitely has a bit more sugar in his tea.

Still, asking would be 100% sure.

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You sure he's gay? I have a Pisces man after me and I swear up and down that he's bi. He's like a dramatic gay man, but I guess that's just his personality. I've actually asked him and he said he wasn't but gets hit on by guys all the time. I just don't believe him. 😆

I can't hang with it though. He's just too feminine for my taste. I really think he's gay and just trying to trick me, for some reason. Make me fall in love and then use a dildo on him.

Bisexual is fine by me. I've dated a Taurus b4.

Well his insta is rainbow flags galore and he definitely has a bit more sugar in his tea.

Still, asking would be 100% sure.

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Well then what would it really matter, if he's showing interest in you and you don't mind him liking both sex's?

I actually don't like the thought of competing with the opposite sex, it would make me insecure 😆. I can handle women, but I can't handle the thought of competing with 2 sexes!

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It’s definitely possible! It could go either way though.... like I think my hairdresser is soooo lovely and hot and all that but I can tell he’s just like being a nice guy and it’s safe harmless flirting .... but I did have a guy I worked with once say he was attracted to me/found me sexy and he was gay... I was worried it meant I was somehow masculine, but I really do think it’s a spectrum and chemistry just happens regardless... maybe make a comment like ‘oh if only you were straight’ or something just kind of jokingly, see how he reacts?

Maybe this is true because one of my closest gay friends is also a drag queen in Houston but he’s a Sagittarius and our energy mingles soo well. I’ll sit on his lap, with my arm around his neck and he’ll start rubbing on my thigh kissing me on the cheek, basically being a flirt. Some think we’re too close but I’m not sure if it’s platonic behavior lol

Whatever 🤷🏽‍♀️

🤷‍♀️I don’t know either 😊 sometimes it’s nice to just have that level of comfort with someone spiritually similar and sort of safe from all the usual girl/boy drama that can bring such headaches... just everyone do whatever feels right for them I guess! 😁✌️You can definitely have non sexual chemistry anyways... I had been starting to blame it on astrology if I’m honest lol!

Lol I mean we’re super comfy with each other, maybe too much. 😄

@_Dazed

Explain this for us, why gay guys do this. Is it them just being big flirts? Or is it somewhat feeling a connection out of the sexuality spectrum?

You would have to ask a gay man.

Hmm.. you’re right.

@lethalfantasia

I think it's different for everybody. I am not sexually attracted to women but I have had genuine feelings for women throughout my life. And if they eve dor pop up again and I meet the right girl or whatever and she'd be open to dating me, I wouldn't rule it out. I don't know, I feel like everyone is different.

I have a cousin who is 100% gay and has a super gay voice and is effeminate acting and everything but if he has one or two drinks over his limit, he's known to sleep with women.

lolz

😅 I knew it..

Okay so sag friend could totally still be flirting. The hell he's feeling on my thigh like that but for my sake and his, I wouldn’t go beyond friendship.

Yeah, I think he's probably flirting too. lol. Also Sags.... Probably one of the horniest signs ever.

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I agree! 😄

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Invite him out as a friends thing and gather more information.

He may not even be gay.

He may be bi.

He may just be metro and straight.

My gbff became gym buddies with an Abbey dancer he though was gay and lowkey wanted that ass. He's straight (like most of them are) and now they are just friends. But hey, no risk no reward.

dumb advice

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At best he is straight and gives her babies and a toned ass.

At worst he is gay and gives her a class discount and a toned ass.

I see no losers here lol

Posted by Black-Mamba

You ask the universe to give you kids and yet your crushing on a gay man?

like you're telling the universe you dont want stability or a marriage or children

Maybe they will become besties in a Will and Grace kinda besties scenario. And he gives her his sperms and they buy matching bungalows on the same lot and coparent the triplets they have cause invitro always gives you bonus babies.