@RamOfPeace
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Why are you so triggered lately? Is there a backstory to why you brought all this up? It’s almost like you’re calling someone out specifically.
I'm not bothered but just maybe confused sometimes
Like do trans feel like the opposite sex inside or do they just "choose" a gender
Does being trans and liking ur original sex make u gay ( like a boy turned girl liking boys)
I have so many questions for trans people
Also bi people
Is it like ur attracted to both sexual organs
Or are u sexual organs not a thing.
Or is it basically you fall for a person then become attracted to whatever organ they have.
I get loving a person but sexual attraction is different
🤔 shit I actually don't understand most of this kind of stuff
Posted by EarthyI'm not bothered but just maybe confused sometimes
Like do trans feel like the opposite sex inside or do they just "choose" a gender
Does being trans and liking ur original sex make u gay ( like a boy turned girl liking boys)
I have so many questions for trans people
They feel like and identify with the opposite. sex .
Sexuality wise, if you're confused, just remember that sexuality =/= gender. A trans person can identify with any of the sexualities, not necessarily those assigned by cisgender society.
Posted by EarthyAlso bi people
Is it like ur attracted to both sexual organs
Or are u sexual organs not a thing.
Or is it basically you fall for a person then become attracted to whatever organ they have.
I get loving a person but sexual attraction is different
Bisexual here so I can answer these, but ofc I am not a speaker for every bisexual. Bisexuality is a huge spectrum, some people have preferences, some don't. Some are attracted to any and all genders, some prefer to date people with a male or female gender. I would say for most bisexual people who's sexual and romantic attraction match up, and can have long relationship's with whatever gender, it's about the person and the genitalia is an after thought.
I have a preference for women but at the end of the day it's about the other person's personality, their ideals etc.
And I'm not trans but being in the community I've gotten to know and talk with a lot of trans folks, as well as advocate for them.
Trans people don't choose a gender as much as you chose to be your gender. Basically their brain determines them as one gender but the body is biologically opposite. And no trans person is attracted to their pre trans body, even if they like it on another. In fact it gives them dysphoria. Lastly they are only gay if whatever they transition to only likes that same gender. So a trans woman who only likes other women is gay or a lesbian.
Posted by black773Why are you so triggered lately? Is there a backstory to why you brought all this up? It’s almost like you’re calling someone out specifically.
I just turned all of my filters off because fuck ‘em.
Also, I don’t even know your username and I’ve been on here for years.
Posted by CancerAquaSaggNo one cares about them. I belong to one of these groups and I don't want to be defended or whatever. Live and let live.
Dang I miss the 90s early 2000s where no one would utter words like cultural appropriation or people having to say Im x or y and bullshit like that. Everyone is so self centered these days.
“These days” lol
Posted by RamOfPeacePosted by black773Why are you so triggered lately? Is there a backstory to why you brought all this up? It’s almost like you’re calling someone out specifically.
I just turned all of my filters off because fuck ‘em.
Also, I don’t even know your username and I’ve been on here for years.
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I don’t know you either. I just notice your most recent threads/posts.
Posted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
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I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
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Your list is missing something....
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
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Shhh! If you speak it's name it will appear. It's the Voldemort effect.
Posted by FireStarterPosted by EarthyAlso bi people
Is it like ur attracted to both sexual organs
Or are u sexual organs not a thing.
Or is it basically you fall for a person then become attracted to whatever organ they have.
I get loving a person but sexual attraction is different
Bisexual here so I can answer these, but ofc I am not a speaker for every bisexual. Bisexuality is a huge spectrum, some people have preferences, some don't. Some are attracted to any and all genders, some prefer to date people with a male or female gender. I would say for most bisexual people who's sexual and romantic attraction match up, and can have long relationship's with whatever gender, it's about the person and the genitalia is an after thought.
I have a preference for women but at the end of the day it's about the other person's personality, their ideals etc.
And I'm not trans but being in the community I've gotten to know and talk with a lot of trans folks, as well as advocate for them.
Trans people don't choose a gender as much as you chose to be your gender. Basically their brain determines them as one gender but the body is biologically opposite. And no trans person is attracted to their pre trans body, even if they like it on another. In fact it gives them dysphoria. Lastly they are only gay if whatever they transition to only likes that same gender. So a trans woman who only likes other women is gay or a lesbian.
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You have officially blown my mind
But actually that all makes sense. I hope I didn't offend anyone as I want trying to be rude but I stare sometimes wanting to understand and was always to afraid to ask since I've never been extremely close with anyone open enough to educate me.
Thanks
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by ItsSupes2People worry about others business too damn much. Also, people are so concerned about being considered “normal”.
Why is this huge push for forcing others to recognize others sexuality?
People want others to stay in their lanes while at the same time putting their business on the streets.
What’s so wrong with recognising other sexualities other than heterosexuality? The only thing that’s being pushed is heterosexuality. It’s shoved down our throat 24/7. For any example of non heterosexuality in our society I can give you 100 examples of heterosexuality.
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Tbf I have encountered gay people who force sexuality on trans,bi and straight people. Not as common as heteros who do the same thing, but IMO it's a lot worse when it's being imposed by someone from your own community.
Posted by Ram416Posted by EarthyI'm not bothered but just maybe confused sometimes
Like do trans feel like the opposite sex inside or do they just "choose" a gender
Does being trans and liking ur original sex make u gay ( like a boy turned girl liking boys)
I have so many questions for trans people
They feel like and identify with the opposite. sex .
Sexuality wise, if you're confused, just remember that sexuality =/= gender. A trans person can identify with any of the sexualities, not necessarily those assigned by cisgender society.
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Mind blown again but also the second half caused more confusion
Sorry but this has always been a interest so I can't stop but
Isn't gender a relative marker of sexuality?
As in - "purpose of being born female is to reproduce with males"
As in "purpose of reproductive organs"
As in " preset to me enjoying meat😁
Praying no one get mad at me.
Um what I'm trying to say is if gender isn't = to sexuality wats the purpose of gender?
Yes that's a better way to say it😁
Posted by EarthyPosted by FireStarterPosted by EarthyAlso bi people
Is it like ur attracted to both sexual organs
Or are u sexual organs not a thing.
Or is it basically you fall for a person then become attracted to whatever organ they have.
I get loving a person but sexual attraction is different
Bisexual here so I can answer these, but ofc I am not a speaker for every bisexual. Bisexuality is a huge spectrum, some people have preferences, some don't. Some are attracted to any and all genders, some prefer to date people with a male or female gender. I would say for most bisexual people who's sexual and romantic attraction match up, and can have long relationship's with whatever gender, it's about the person and the genitalia is an after thought.
I have a preference for women but at the end of the day it's about the other person's personality, their ideals etc.
And I'm not trans but being in the community I've gotten to know and talk with a lot of trans folks, as well as advocate for them.
Trans people don't choose a gender as much as you chose to be your gender. Basically their brain determines them as one gender but the body is biologically opposite. And no trans person is attracted to their pre trans body, even if they like it on another. In fact it gives them dysphoria. Lastly they are only gay if whatever they transition to only likes that same gender. So a trans woman who only likes other women is gay or a lesbian.
You have officially blown my mind
But actually that all makes sense. I hope I didn't offend anyone as I want trying to be rude but I stare sometimes wanting to understand and was always to afraid to ask since I've never been extremely close with anyone open enough to educate me.
Thanks
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I blew your mind?! That's such a great thing to hear!
Well I wasn't offended. Sometimes people in the lgbtq people can be sensitive, not that I blame them, they have valid reasons. But I always try to remind people of intent. If someone just doesn't know and asks things in a seemingly insensitive way but with honest intent to know, we should take this as an opportunity to teach, to enlighten, and to not just shut them out or call names. Not to say you asked in an insensitive way, I think it was fine.
So thank you for being open and listening!😊
I'm kinda using my own experiences as a guide here for example
I saw a trans 🤔 guy before and was super attracted like super!!!!!
But upon him telling me that he was trans and still had lady bits I was almost instantly unattracted....like instantly
Maybe my own experiences with sexuality or gender or whatever is driving my confusion
Posted by EarthyPosted by Ram416Posted by EarthyI'm not bothered but just maybe confused sometimes
Like do trans feel like the opposite sex inside or do they just "choose" a gender
Does being trans and liking ur original sex make u gay ( like a boy turned girl liking boys)
I have so many questions for trans people
They feel like and identify with the opposite. sex .
Sexuality wise, if you're confused, just remember that sexuality =/= gender. A trans person can identify with any of the sexualities, not necessarily those assigned by cisgender society.
Mind blown again but also the second half caused more confusion
Sorry but this has always been a interest so I can't stop but
Isn't gender a relative marker of sexuality?
As in - "purpose of being born female is to reproduce with males"
As in "purpose of reproductive organs"
As in " preset to me enjoying meat😁
Praying no one get mad at me.
Um what I'm trying to say is if gender isn't = to sexuality wats the purpose of gender?
Yes that's a better way to say it😁
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Yes, as assigned by society. I.e. You have female parts therefore your purpose in life is to reproduce with males and have kids to perpetuate the human race.
Do you entirely agree with that statement?
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
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He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
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Depends on which one rejected him.
So I guess they all fall into Camp 2.
Posted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
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He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by ItsSupes2People worry about others business too damn much. Also, people are so concerned about being considered “normal”.
Why is this huge push for forcing others to recognize others sexuality?
People want others to stay in their lanes while at the same time putting their business on the streets.
What’s so wrong with recognising other sexualities other than heterosexuality? The only thing that’s being pushed is heterosexuality. It’s shoved down our throat 24/7. For any example of non heterosexuality in our society I can give you 100 examples of heterosexuality.
Tbf I have encountered gay people who force sexuality on trans,bi and straight people. Not as common as heteros who do the same thing, but IMO it's a lot worse when it's being imposed by someone from your own community.
That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m not talking about individuals, I’m talking about society. In movies, tv shows, ads, sex education etc.
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It's been done in tv shows like L Word and QAF.
QAF - some of their characters were heterophobic and transphobic - but I still loved the show because at least I got to see what intolerance in LGBT community looked like. So maybe that was the writer's purpose.
L Word was very isolationist and dismissive of bi and trans people. They weren't so obvious with their intolerant portrayals.
Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Honestly most of the people on that list cannot be compared to vegans. A lot of the types of people in that list have not historically had equal rights and fair treatment. There are places in the world where being gay or trans is a prison sentence, or even a death sentence. Even in more socially progressive countries there are still inequalities, hate crimes, violence, abuse, and high suicide rates. That is why there still needs to be a voice, a fight, an advocacy. Cause sometimes silence is as deadly as physical harm.
Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
The concept of "live and let live" is dying.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
No that’s fake news. He got dumped.
He also told us that he’s a veteran. He’s also said he works in a uni. He’s also claimed to be a working in therapy.
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He's also a prehistoric shatk.
And....
Posted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
No that’s fake news. He got dumped.
He also told us that he’s a veteran. He’s also said he works in a uni. He’s also claimed to be a working in therapy.
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Ahh ok. I guess that makes sense, I thought he was all MGTOE or whatever but maybe that was someone else...
Posted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
No that’s fake news. He got dumped.
He also told us that he’s a veteran. He’s also said he works in a uni. He’s also claimed to be a working in therapy.
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SMDH
Posted by Arielle83Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
No that’s fake news. He got dumped.
He also told us that he’s a veteran. He’s also said he works in a uni. He’s also claimed to be a working in therapy.
He's also a prehistoric shatk.
And....
Oh shit I remember he went after u hard cuz he thought u were white knighting me once cuz we both were trolling him.
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He had a confrontational thing about Male Crabs. Probably coming up "short".
I didn't troll him until he went after me first.
Plus, he was imho an online predator (with a weird fixation on female crabs).
I dont take kindly to that.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Posted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
No that’s fake news. He got dumped.
He also told us that he’s a veteran. He’s also said he works in a uni. He’s also claimed to be a working in therapy.
SMDH
I loved Brian
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So did I. Even though he was so incredibly heterophobic at times. But then again there were times he did come through for everyone, including heterosexuals ( the episodes on the gay vigilante group).
Posted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
No that’s fake news. He got dumped.
He also told us that he’s a veteran. He’s also said he works in a uni. He’s also claimed to be a working in therapy.
Ahh ok. I guess that makes sense, I thought he was all MGTOE or whatever but maybe that was someone else...
No that’s him too.
Hahaaahaa
He’s going his own way. He used to pm me back in 2012 after I came back for a bit. He’d bag on the ppl I talked to and once I told him Pisces men aren’t for me he flipped and just hated on me everywhere.
Think he even catfishes as a girl to get more haters on me but a lot of straight chicks on here do that too so not sure
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Well at least he's consistently uh "classy".
Posted by FireStarterPosted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
No that’s fake news. He got dumped.
He also told us that he’s a veteran. He’s also said he works in a uni. He’s also claimed to be a working in therapy.
Ahh ok. I guess that makes sense, I thought he was all MGTOE or whatever but maybe that was someone else...
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He likes trolling people most of the time in dxp. So if he comes across as incel-like or MGTOW, he's trolling.
I recommend not taking him too seriously. Unless of course you insult his family.
Edit: I was talking about Ssupes, not the crazy fish dude.
Posted by Ram416Posted by FireStarterPosted by Arielle83Posted by FireStarterPosted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by FawnePosted by shakedownYou'll find no problem here. People are people. "Period."
Same. I don’t even notice these things, and their existence doesn’t bother me.
I'm surprised at how much that isn't a thing here. I thought it would be a lot worse. There are a small handful of users on here who do apparently have a problem with the people on the list though.
Effortless springs to my mind.
He just needs a cancer woman to cook for him.
Haaaaa
Camp one or camp two? I forget which one is the good one or the bad one!
He has Venus in manboobs so probably. I think though his wife has Venus Aries.
He has a wife?! My condolences to her.
No that’s fake news. He got dumped.
He also told us that he’s a veteran. He’s also said he works in a uni. He’s also claimed to be a working in therapy.
Ahh ok. I guess that makes sense, I thought he was all MGTOE or whatever but maybe that was someone else...
He likes trolling people most of the time in dxp. So if he comes across as incel-like or MGTOW, he's trolling.
I recommend not taking him too seriously. Unless of course you insult his family.
Edit: I was talking about Ssupes, not the crazy fish dude.
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I was really confused before that edit lol
Either way I take neither of em seriously, at the same time I don't take the whole "I'm just trolling" as a pass. Imo if you spend your free time being unnecessarily hateful like that, you're probably a big turd blossom anyway.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Did u watch that kid videotaping the dairy farmer through the car in W.A.?
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Nope. Was he vegan?
Posted by FireStarterPosted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Honestly most of the people on that list cannot be compared to vegans. A lot of the types of people in that list have not historically had equal rights and fair treatment. There are places in the world where being gay or trans is a prison sentence, or even a death sentence. Even in more socially progressive countries there are still inequalities, hate crimes, violence, abuse, and high suicide rates. That is why there still needs to be a voice, a fight, an advocacy. Cause sometimes silence is as deadly as physical harm.
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I understand in some countries it's much more serious but in western countries, people are complaining about dumb stuff like salad instead of just going about their own life. They don't just live their own way and keep to themselves. They try to push their own agenda on others. Heterosexuals do it to gay people and gay people do it to heterosexuals. They want their way to be accepted by the other instead of just being whoever they are and not caring what anyone else thinks. They try to rally up support and be pro or against something in masses and want the opposite side to change or adapt to them and be heard by them, instead of just worrying about their own life and letting others feel however they want about it. Anyway, that's what bothers me about it. That people make issues out of shit that's no ones business by making it everyone's business.
Posted by CancerAquaSaggNo one cares about them. I belong to one of these groups and I don't want to be defended or whatever. Live and let live.
Dang I miss the 90s early 2000s where no one would utter words like cultural appropriation or people having to say Im x or y and bullshit like that. Everyone is so self centered these days.
This! I appreciate PEOPLE who just do what they love and aren‘t insecure about it nor attention thirsty. Minding their own damn business.
Seriously, it has come to a point where vegans and them act alike. „Look here, I‘m vegan. I do this and this because I‘m vegan“
It‘s tiring.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Did u watch that kid videotaping the dairy farmer through the car in W.A.?
Nope. Was he vegan?
Yep
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.news.com.au/life style /real-life/news-life/shots-fired-as-farmer-and-vegans-clash-in-western-australia/news-story/fc8170df9f870a1afd658b2c271fb40b
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That's what I mean. People gotta stop trying to dictate or impose their own shit on each other and just live and let live. Humans are annoying
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Did u watch that kid videotaping the dairy farmer through the car in W.A.?
Nope. Was he vegan?
Yep
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.news.com.au/life style /real-life/news-life/shots-fired-as-farmer-and-vegans-clash-in-western-australia/news-story/fc8170df9f870a1afd658b2c271fb40b
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I don't have much interaction with vegans in general, but with the few that I have come across, it was either very educational or bewildering.
I seem to notice that the obnoxious ones are usually the ones who embrace veganism as a life style choice, whereas for the ones who observe and practice it as part of a religious requirement (e.g. Buddhists), tend to not try to impose their practices on non-vegans.
This vegan acquaintance of mine invited me and a few other omnivores to her husband's birthday bbq, kept trying to force us to eat her tofu burgers, and I later found out she purposely delayed delivery of the meat for the bbq (which is one way she tried to force her tofu burgers onto us). We only started eating bbq meats around 9.30-10pm (the bbq started at 6pm). This woman was a vegan by choice, and she tried to take away our right to choose what we want to eat.
Posted by AquaNextDoorPosted by CancerAquaSaggNo one cares about them. I belong to one of these groups and I don't want to be defended or whatever. Live and let live.
Dang I miss the 90s early 2000s where no one would utter words like cultural appropriation or people having to say Im x or y and bullshit like that. Everyone is so self centered these days.
This! I appreciate PEOPLE who just do what they love and aren‘t insecure about it nor attention thirsty. Minding their own damn business.
Seriously, it has come to a point where vegans and them act alike. „Look here, I‘m vegan. I do this and this because I‘m vegan“
It‘s tiring.
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Yes, because in these people's minds, being vegan automatically makes them "good people".
Posted by Ram416Posted by AquaNextDoorPosted by CancerAquaSaggNo one cares about them. I belong to one of these groups and I don't want to be defended or whatever. Live and let live.
Dang I miss the 90s early 2000s where no one would utter words like cultural appropriation or people having to say Im x or y and bullshit like that. Everyone is so self centered these days.
This! I appreciate PEOPLE who just do what they love and aren‘t insecure about it nor attention thirsty. Minding their own damn business.
Seriously, it has come to a point where vegans and them act alike. „Look here, I‘m vegan. I do this and this because I‘m vegan“
It‘s tiring.
Yes, because in these people's minds, being vegan automatically makes them "good people".
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I think they do good on some levels or intend to do good. But imo if you really want to do good then just do it and don‘t aim for praise and attention.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Ram416Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Did u watch that kid videotaping the dairy farmer through the car in W.A.?
Nope. Was he vegan?
Yep
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.news.com.au/life style /real-life/news-life/shots-fired-as-farmer-and-vegans-clash-in-western-australia/news-story/fc8170df9f870a1afd658b2c271fb40b
I don't have much interaction with vegans in general, but with the few that I have come across, it was either very educational or bewildering.
I seem to notice that the obnoxious ones are usually the ones who embrace veganism as a life style choice, whereas for the ones who observe and practice it as part of a religious requirement (e.g. Buddhists), tend to not try to impose their practices on non-vegans.
This vegan acquaintance of mine invited me and a few other omnivores to her husband's birthday bbq, kept trying to force us to eat her tofu burgers, and I later found out she purposely delayed delivery of the meat for the bbq (which is one way she tried to force her tofu burgers onto us). We only started eating bbq meats around 9.30-10pm (the bbq started at 6pm). This woman was a vegan by choice, and she tried to take away our right to choose what we want to eat.
Remember that time when I left you alone whilst I went to the Body Shop during the vegan protest.
Was that when they thought ram couldn’t speak englishh
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Oh that one was a different one. That one was what I think was a homeless person wanting to bum a cigarette off me.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Ram416Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Did u watch that kid videotaping the dairy farmer through the car in W.A.?
Nope. Was he vegan?
Yep
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.news.com.au/life style /real-life/news-life/shots-fired-as-farmer-and-vegans-clash-in-western-australia/news-story/fc8170df9f870a1afd658b2c271fb40b
I don't have much interaction with vegans in general, but with the few that I have come across, it was either very educational or bewildering.
I seem to notice that the obnoxious ones are usually the ones who embrace veganism as a life style choice, whereas for the ones who observe and practice it as part of a religious requirement (e.g. Buddhists), tend to not try to impose their practices on non-vegans.
This vegan acquaintance of mine invited me and a few other omnivores to her husband's birthday bbq, kept trying to force us to eat her tofu burgers, and I later found out she purposely delayed delivery of the meat for the bbq (which is one way she tried to force her tofu burgers onto us). We only started eating bbq meats around 9.30-10pm (the bbq started at 6pm). This woman was a vegan by choice, and she tried to take away our right to choose what we want to eat.
Remember that time when I left you alone whilst I went to the Body Shop during the vegan protest.
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Yes. That experience was both educational and bewildering.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Ram416Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Did u watch that kid videotaping the dairy farmer through the car in W.A.?
Nope. Was he vegan?
Yep
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.news.com.au/life style /real-life/news-life/shots-fired-as-farmer-and-vegans-clash-in-western-australia/news-story/fc8170df9f870a1afd658b2c271fb40b
I don't have much interaction with vegans in general, but with the few that I have come across, it was either very educational or bewildering.
I seem to notice that the obnoxious ones are usually the ones who embrace veganism as a life style choice, whereas for the ones who observe and practice it as part of a religious requirement (e.g. Buddhists), tend to not try to impose their practices on non-vegans.
This vegan acquaintance of mine invited me and a few other omnivores to her husband's birthday bbq, kept trying to force us to eat her tofu burgers, and I later found out she purposely delayed delivery of the meat for the bbq (which is one way she tried to force her tofu burgers onto us). We only started eating bbq meats around 9.30-10pm (the bbq started at 6pm). This woman was a vegan by choice, and she tried to take away our right to choose what we want to eat.
Remember that time when I left you alone whilst I went to the Body Shop during the vegan protest.
Yes. That experience was both educational and bewildering.
What happened?
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This was during the vegan protest at Hay Street mall. I was waiting outside body shop for alien, and this representative of the protesters approached me, wanting to talk to me about boycotting the meat industry as well as the benefits of veganism. I mostly listened, added in a few questions here and there. She seemed very nice and non-confrontational at first, but when I started asking questions she gradually became confrontational.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Ram416Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Did u watch that kid videotaping the dairy farmer through the car in W.A.?
Nope. Was he vegan?
Yep
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.news.com.au/life style /real-life/news-life/shots-fired-as-farmer-and-vegans-clash-in-western-australia/news-story/fc8170df9f870a1afd658b2c271fb40b
I don't have much interaction with vegans in general, but with the few that I have come across, it was either very educational or bewildering.
I seem to notice that the obnoxious ones are usually the ones who embrace veganism as a life style choice, whereas for the ones who observe and practice it as part of a religious requirement (e.g. Buddhists), tend to not try to impose their practices on non-vegans.
This vegan acquaintance of mine invited me and a few other omnivores to her husband's birthday bbq, kept trying to force us to eat her tofu burgers, and I later found out she purposely delayed delivery of the meat for the bbq (which is one way she tried to force her tofu burgers onto us). We only started eating bbq meats around 9.30-10pm (the bbq started at 6pm). This woman was a vegan by choice, and she tried to take away our right to choose what we want to eat.
Remember that time when I left you alone whilst I went to the Body Shop during the vegan protest.
Yes. That experience was both educational and bewildering.
What happened?
This was during the vegan protest at Hay Street mall. I was waiting outside body shop for alien, and this representative of the protesters approached me, wanting to talk to me about boycotting the meat industry as well as the benefits of veganism. I mostly listened, added in a few questions here and there. She seemed very nice and non-confrontational at first, but when I started asking questions she gradually became confrontational.
I could imagine. Working at Norfolk in freo brought it all there.
What she get upset about in your question?
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Yeah cos I think my questions made her rethink the stuff she was telling me. Just like the question about fish/seafood.
Posted by Ram416Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Ram416Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18This applies to most of the list but I'm using vegans as an example. They don't just eat their salad and shut up about it. They tell you they're vegan and that you should make them special food (cater to them) or that you shouldn't eat meat (change for them). They can't they just have their own preferences quietly and leave everyone to their own. They're screaming "equal rights", "not fair", "I'm a victim" and demonizing everyone else instead of just eating their salad without making demands or forcing expectations of special treatment on others.
Did u watch that kid videotaping the dairy farmer through the car in W.A.?
Nope. Was he vegan?
Yep
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.news.com.au/life style /real-life/news-life/shots-fired-as-farmer-and-vegans-clash-in-western-australia/news-story/fc8170df9f870a1afd658b2c271fb40b
I don't have much interaction with vegans in general, but with the few that I have come across, it was either very educational or bewildering.
I seem to notice that the obnoxious ones are usually the ones who embrace veganism as a life style choice, whereas for the ones who observe and practice it as part of a religious requirement (e.g. Buddhists), tend to not try to impose their practices on non-vegans.
This vegan acquaintance of mine invited me and a few other omnivores to her husband's birthday bbq, kept trying to force us to eat her tofu burgers, and I later found out she purposely delayed delivery of the meat for the bbq (which is one way she tried to force her tofu burgers onto us). We only started eating bbq meats around 9.30-10pm (the bbq started at 6pm). This woman was a vegan by choice, and she tried to take away our right to choose what we want to eat.
Remember that time when I left you alone whilst I went to the Body Shop during the vegan protest.
Yes. That experience was both educational and bewildering.
What happened?
This was during the vegan protest at Hay Street mall. I was waiting outside body shop for alien, and this representative of the protesters approached me, wanting to talk to me about boycotting the meat industry as well as the benefits of veganism. I mostly listened, added in a few questions here and there. She seemed very nice and non-confrontational at first, but when I started asking questions she gradually became confrontational.
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Normal human behavior. When you listen to people's stories - they're the nicest people you ever met (generally speaking). When you start questioning their stories - in disparagement - two things usually happen: they walk away or they turn aggressive.
Posted by PurplePassion38I'm not bothered by anything listed, but I do have a tendency to prejudge people who are polyamorous in the sense that I tend to view non-monogamous relationships as less meaningful. Mostly because I cannot fathom the concept of being in love with more than one person at a time. I feel like someone would always end up getting the shit end of the stick in a polyamorous relationship. Plus I don't like to share.
Well, the preconceived notions (reasons) of yours that you have listed here absolutely don’t support the theory of poly relationships being “less meaningful”.
If anything, I’ve had more meaningful relationships and connections with people in the recent years, than I have had back when i was living the mono life.
Heck, I don’t even bitch about my relationships on here as much anymore, because there’s nothing to bitch about in that regard.
I just bitch all of you out, apparently. Lol
Posted by RamOfPeacePosted by PurplePassion38I'm not bothered by anything listed, but I do have a tendency to prejudge people who are polyamorous in the sense that I tend to view non-monogamous relationships as less meaningful. Mostly because I cannot fathom the concept of being in love with more than one person at a time. I feel like someone would always end up getting the shit end of the stick in a polyamorous relationship. Plus I don't like to share.
Well, the preconceived notions (reasons) of yours that you have listed here absolutely don’t support the theory of poly relationships being “less meaningful”.
If anything, I’ve had more meaningful relationships and connections with people in the recent years, than I have had back when i was living the mono life.
Heck, I don’t even bitch about my relationships on here as much anymore, because there’s nothing to bitch about in that regard.
I just bitch all of you out, apparently. Lol
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