Fake one-sided friendships

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by RamOfPeace on Thursday, February 21, 2019 and has 8 replies.

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@FireStarter
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

- Take but don’t give,

- Tells you about their problems but too busy for yours,

- Vetos your plans for activities,

- Only contacts you when they want something.

I've had a few of these, only occasionally they will give a gift or help you out if they're not doing anything. I call them the "care when convenient" friends.

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

- Take but don’t give,

- Tells you about their problems but too busy for yours,

- Vetos your plans for activities,

- Only contacts you when they want something.

to be honest, I never had these type of friends, no fake ass friends, I am too lazy for maintaining any friendships, no chit-chats, with the ones who are not total real ones

real friends are from childhood/school, afterwards its either an instant connection (once in 5 years maybe) or good talk and a no need to hear it again tomorrow

Edit: to be fair, i dont revail my problems, only after like 1-2 years of steady friendship, so I expect them to guess it without telling it and be there for me without telling anything.... i am lucky to have friends like this, but they also know they have to come to me

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8 Years

I’ve had two friends get pissed about their Leo friends. I’ve never had issues with them, but I’ve never been super close to one either.