@KittenLaRouge
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Fathers that sexually abuse their sons
Posted by 88aka
Why do you bring this up? , where do you even get these thoughts of posting about this?Me personally this never goes through my mind. If it did I wished all the abusers got the lethal injection on the spot. and goes for the moms who abuse and kill their children.
They don't deserve a second chance.
The dude she's banging has problems. She's upset because it's affecting HER sex life. I doubt she cares how it affects him.
I have an ex who has come back in my life. We were together for years and years and is the love of my life and we are back together. He is unable to kiss and views female body parts as dirty. He is black and for the life of me I couldnt figure out his intimacy issues. Apparently sexual abuse in the african american family is largely hidden. It was confirmed to me he was abused by his father but he doesnt know I know. When I found out I just lost, it my heart is absolutely crushed. He is much older, early fifties and the effects have been devastating on him. I would put a bullet in the head of the perpetrator without a second thought.
Hes a sag btw.
Posted by 88aka
Why do you bring this up? , where do you even get these thoughts of posting about this?Me personally this never goes through my mind. If it did I wished all the abusers got the lethal injection on the spot. and goes for the moms who abuse and kill their children.
They don't deserve a second chance.
The dude she's banging has problems. She's upset because it's affecting HER sex life. I doubt she cares how it affects him.
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You couldnt be more wrong. He cant "bang". My concern is for him.
Posted by 88aka
Why do you bring this up? , where do you even get these thoughts of posting about this?Me personally this never goes through my mind. If it did I wished all the abusers got the lethal injection on the spot. and goes for the moms who abuse and kill their children.
They don't deserve a second chance.
And the mothers that turn their head and dont report abuse.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
I have an ex who has come back in my life. We were together for years and years and is the love of my life and we are back together. He is unable to kiss and views female body parts as dirty. He is black and for the life of me I couldnt figure out his intimacy issues. Apparently sexual abuse in the african american family is largely hidden. It was confirmed to me he was abused by his father but he doesnt know I know. When I found out I just lost, it my heart is absolutely crushed. He is much older, early fifties and the effects have been devastating on him. I would put a bullet in the head of the perpetrator without a second thought.
so white american people openly discuss sexual abuse from other family members? cool..
would you mind sharing any of your stories?
Kitten you're 23 and your boyfriend is in his early 50s
Isn't able to satisfy you sexually
You claim he has had a bad past because yu heard from someone else and have never brought this up with him even though you guys have been together for years and year.....
He thinks your vagina is dirty and he wont kiss you or be intimate.
Honestly babe you're mental as fuck firstly for getting involved with someone with someone with such a big generational gap but the list of shit goes on and on, why are you so hell bent on making life harder for yourself?
Posted by 88aka
Why do you bring this up? , where do you even get these thoughts of posting about this?Me personally this never goes through my mind. If it did I wished all the abusers got the lethal injection on the spot. and goes for the moms who abuse and kill their children.
They don't deserve a second chance.
The dude she's banging has problems. She's upset because it's affecting HER sex life. I doubt she cares how it affects him.
You couldnt be more wrong. He cant "bang". My concern is for him.
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If he's in his early 50s, how do you know it's not age related? Read: viagra needed.
You've proven on several occasions how gross you are. This post is full of lolz coming from you, of all people, really.
If this guy truly had something that terrible happen to him, total sympathies of course. But the fact you're bringing it up, pretending to be upset for him- you're not. You've proven how stupidly promiscuous you are, and you think anyone here is going to take a post like this from you seriously? Bitch please.
Also, 23, love of your life, for years? Who's the real sexual predator here? No wonder your vag is a revolving door.
Sexual abuse period is largely hidden among all types of families. It doesn't matter whether or not they're white families, black, asian, hispanic, etc. There are still going to be about the same amount of abuse distributed among all races.
I think someone needs some viagra
Or he could go see therapist or something.
Posted by Blue18
Or he could go see the rapist or something.
that isn't going to help
Posted by LillyBlossom
I watched a very dark documentary on a very serious issue of sex trafficking of boys in a southern state (if escapes my mind!) It was so organized that even mayors and people of power were clients; major corporations were involved. These boys, most often white, were run-always from broken or abusive homes. In one part of the documentary, one of the investigators said that his problems was most prevalent among white kids across all states. He went on to explain family dynamics, structure, and culture between whites and blacks. It was uploaded on YouTube, so I'll look for it and link you. It debunks the myth that only girls are vulnerable to sex trafficking or abuse. Young boys are big targets. They even spoke about how hard it is for the victims to find help because there is the stigma that the child CHOSE that life and that being a boy he has the power to get out. It also talked about how very young boys were in high demand where the older boys would get paid less but forced to endure more. One case was of how this white man raped a boy and his fetish was to break glass bottles in the boy. I was sick for days after watching it.
Sadly, crap like this happens more often than we realize. The OP is just a clueless ho that has no idea if she thinks this is some secret racial issue. It's not.
I read an article awhile back of a first hand account of a victim and how her own parents basically were selling her to guys. It was pretty horrific. Her OWN MOTHER was willingly pimping out her kid. I think there was a step dad involved, that may have pushed the idea on the mom.
Again, I am not a huge fan of women who prioritize the current flavor of the week boyfriend over their kids in any capacity. It's just effing sick.
Posted by LillyBlossom
I watched a very dark documentary on a very serious issue of sex trafficking of boys in a southern state (if escapes my mind!) It was so organized that even mayors and people of power were clients; major corporations were involved. These boys, most often white, were run-always from broken or abusive homes. In one part of the documentary, one of the investigators said that his problems was most prevalent among white kids across all states. He went on to explain family dynamics, structure, and culture between whites and blacks. It was uploaded on YouTube, so I'll look for it and link you. It debunks the myth that only girls are vulnerable to sex trafficking or abuse. Young boys are big targets. They even spoke about how hard it is for the victims to find help because there is the stigma that the child CHOSE that life and that being a boy he has the power to get out. It also talked about how very young boys were in high demand where the older boys would get paid less but forced to endure more. One case was of how this white man raped a boy and his fetish was to break glass bottles in the boy. I was sick for days after watching it.
Yup, tragic and shows the suffering the innocent and powerless endure over ignorant prejudices like that. Those poor boys will be scared for life and I hope/pray that ones that manage to be saved from that life can recover as much as possible.
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Need to be taken out by a firing squad. You ruin a man that way. He is unable to engage in normal sexual behavior with a female at a later age due to the damage caused. Unable to kiss and enjoy real intimacy. The damage you have done is so deep. I.hope you experience torture in the deepest part of hell forever.