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21 Years
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Suzy-Q/Sunflower
I think it would be easier on the rest of us if you let down on your exclamation points a bit. Whenever I read your posts it sounds like you're shouting at me.
Also, whenever you post, you never go right out there and speak just your mind, you take what other poeple said and call their opinions expressed in their words as wrong. I'm not saying that anything you say is wrong, but that you need proof to back it up and a lot of what you say is lacking that extra bit of objectivity that allows you to see the other side. You preach how your opinions are always being stepped on by everyone but I think the reason for this is the fact that you step on everyone else's opinions first without care. You say you're just being honest, wel so am I am, but I manage it without seeming to be rude to everyone. I think your appraoch in speaking needs a little refinement- you still get to speak your mind, but you do so without the rudeness mixed with it.
Personally, I find your opinions, though very rudely expressed, to be facinating. I've never met anyone with such fanatical devotion to your principles as you (and I'm not using "fanatical" in a bad way).
Oh and by the way, I forgive you for your outbreaks of rudeness =)
Can I get a spanking too! 🙂
Cant talk to my other girls because they have all been ex-communicated from the church!
They were protesting heavily and the preists got a little ticked off at em and they were thrown out. They were told that there is no room for any rougness and that they have to listen and not be heard.
Well, I just want to thank the majority of my peeps here. They have taught me many things like patience for one and so much more, I am listening to you!
Much Love, I do Love you all very much and I forgive you all too!
Your Mother Treetrunker! 🙂
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Libragirl,
I agree and disagree. I think you should forgive, not for them but for yourself, so that you won't walk around with pent up angry. More than likely the person is going to go on living there life, while you sit there carrying around negative energy. I do agree however, that you shouldn't continue the relationship with that person as if nothing ever happened, becaused it did and because it did,it has probably changed the dynamic of the relationship.
So in other words, I guess what I'm saying is forgive but don't forget. If you do your're just setting yourself up for another let down. Yes, there are a few exceptions to this rule but I don't feel like getting into them right now.