Give one thing you don't like

Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
i find it really unsettling when people clear out their entire schedule for the day just to spend time with me. makes me feel selfish. and then they get mad that i'm not being thankful that i interfere with their livelihood and routine.

told a guy that i'd be doing laundry and doing some cleaning around my place so he can do his job while i do my stuff. we can meet later after we're both done but he takes this as an offense?

🙄🙄
Profile picture of PoshChickenLove1111
PoshChickenLove1111
@PoshChickenLove1111
3 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 31 · Posts: 547 · Topics: 19
Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by PoshChickenLove1111

I get annoyed when I have to repeat myself to someone who perceives themselves as intelligent, but is a blithering door knob in reality.

What do you mean?
click to expand


For e.g., when speaking about an ideology or a concept, the other person arrogantly assumes they know what they're talking about, but they do not. While explaining, they misinterpret the meaning of the concept with their ignorance (and arrogance), and then I have to explain it again so they are aware of what it really is. Not only is it annoying, it's exhausting having to navigate through an interaction with someone who is delusional about their (lack of) intelligence.
Profile picture of PoshChickenLove1111
PoshChickenLove1111
@PoshChickenLove1111
3 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 31 · Posts: 547 · Topics: 19
Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by PoshChickenLove1111
Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by PoshChickenLove1111

I get annoyed when I have to repeat myself to someone who perceives themselves as intelligent, but is a blithering door knob in reality.

What do you mean?

For e.g., when speaking about an ideology or a concept, the other person arrogantly assumes they know what they're talking about, but they do not. While explaining, they misinterpret the meaning of the concept with their ignorance (and arrogance), and then I have to explain it again so they are aware of what it really is. Not only is it annoying, it's exhausting having to navigate through an interaction with someone who is delusional about their (lack of) intelligence.

I'm not sure I understand..
click to expand


lol.
Profile picture of aquarius09
Aquarius09
@aquarius09
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 679 · Posts: 11841 · Topics: 2
Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by GC69_

People who are always humble bragging, especially when it’s about stupid stuff like how many men/women pine after them.

It's not really a humble brag they usually act like it's a problem, it's like "Sigh, these guys won't leave me alone - why can't they get the message that I'm not interested?" lol maybe because you keep throwing them bones 🙄

Or guys like "so this woman keeps flirting with me but there's this other woman who always says she wants me and damn it's so difficult..."
click to expand



These people are fooling no one. All it shows is their low self-esteem and need for attention. It’s also humblebrag.
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
there is someone- much older than me who would most times post right after me. and not only that, her topic is usually exactly or almost exactly similar to what i'm discussing.

she just says things in a 'nicer' way. is she trying to befriend me? the problem is she often says the most generic things about everything. and that sort of thing terminates discussions of any substance.

it's really annoying but i gotta spend more time on my yugioh duels anyway. these 'empaths' have zero feel for these things.
Profile picture of Jumpin_Jupiter
5 months without a single dip
@Jumpin_Jupiter
6 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 4217 · Posts: 8451 · Topics: 103
Posted by virgoOPPP

there is someone- much older than me who would most times post right after me. and not only that, her topic is usually exactly or almost exactly similar to what i'm discussing.

she just says things in a 'nicer' way. is she trying to befriend me? the problem is she often says the most generic things about everything. and that sort of thing terminates discussions of any substance.

it's really annoying but i gotta spend more time on my yugioh duels anyway. these 'empaths' have zero feel for these things.


You know, my first instict was to laugh but I come to my senses that it's annoying to have someone following behind you in that sort of way. I find that sort of creepy. Someone who has nobody in their real life. I wouldn't say she or whoever it is trying to befriend you.