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The world is a shitty place.. why would you want to feel connected to this floating pile of crap?

Go out into nature.. that's the best and only place to really connect with what matters.
I know that but well I still don't feel completely connected to even my family which I feel is quite unfair to them. I feel like just floating through life with no real connection with anyone.

I have tried many times by going into nature though I will have a good time but I just don't feel connected.
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The world is a shitty place.. why would you want to feel connected to this floating pile of crap?

Go out into nature.. that's the best and only place to really connect with what matters.
I know that but well I still don't feel completely connected to even my family which I feel is quite unfair to them. I feel like just floating through life with no real connection with anyone.

I have tried many times by going into nature though I will have a good time but I just don't feel connected.
I can understand.. I don't feel overly connected to people in general. The most beautiful connections I have ever felt have always been with wildlife. Just sitting and observing a fox or a deer when they stumble upon my path. I can't explain the feeling, but it's very calming to say the least.. it's like the world just stops for a moment.
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Me too. I just love animals. I don't need to speak to them to make a connection, it feels so natural with them. Yes so true very calming indeed.
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I think you're about ready for some Ayahuasca!
Lol what is that?
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Ayahuasca is an brew made out of Banisteriopsis caapi vine and other ingredients. The brew is used as a traditional spiritual medicine in ceremonies among the Indigenous peoples of the Amazon basin. It has been reported that some psychoactive effects can be felt from consuming the ayahuasca vine alone.

People who have consumed ayahuasca report having spiritual revelations regarding their purpose on earth, the true nature of the universe as well as deep insight into how to be the best person they possibly can. This is viewed by many as a spiritual awakening and what is often described as a rebirth.

I haven't done it, but a couple of friends have. They said it works and can be a conduit to deeper life meanings. They both saw the same golden gate in separate hallucigenic visions. Later in the same trip, in South America, they both came upon a temple with that exact same golden gate.

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The world is a shitty place.. why would you want to feel connected to this floating pile of crap?

Go out into nature.. that's the best and only place to really connect with what matters.
I know that but well I still don't feel completely connected to even my family which I feel is quite unfair to them. I feel like just floating through life with no real connection with anyone.

I have tried many times by going into nature though I will have a good time but I just don't feel connected.
I can understand.. I don't feel overly connected to people in general. The most beautiful connections I have ever felt have always been with wildlife. Just sitting and observing a fox or a deer when they stumble upon my path. I can't explain the feeling, but it's very calming to say the least.. it's like the world just stops for a moment.
Me too. I just love animals. I don't need to speak to them to make a connection, it feels so natural with them. Yes so true very calming indeed.
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Maybe animals are your link to feeling more grounded/connected?
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The world is a shitty place.. why would you want to feel connected to this floating pile of crap?

Go out into nature.. that's the best and only place to really connect with what matters.
I know that but well I still don't feel completely connected to even my family which I feel is quite unfair to them. I feel like just floating through life with no real connection with anyone.

I have tried many times by going into nature though I will have a good time but I just don't feel connected.
I can understand.. I don't feel overly connected to people in general. The most beautiful connections I have ever felt have always been with wildlife. Just sitting and observing a fox or a deer when they stumble upon my path. I can't explain the feeling, but it's very calming to say the least.. it's like the world just stops for a moment.
Me too. I just love animals. I don't need to speak to them to make a connection, it feels so natural with them. Yes so true very calming indeed.
Maybe animals are your link to feeling more grounded/connected?
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Maybe but I am too late to become Mowgli lol. And I want to connect to people which seems so difficult.
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I think you're about ready for some Ayahuasca!
Lol what is that?
Ayahuasca is an brew made out of Banisteriopsis caapi vine and other ingredients. The brew is used as a traditional spiritual medicine in ceremonies among the Indigenous peoples of the Amazon basin. It has been reported that some psychoactive effects can be felt from consuming the ayahuasca vine alone.

People who have consumed ayahuasca report having spiritual revelations regarding their purpose on earth, the true nature of the universe as well as deep insight into how to be the best person they possibly can. This is viewed by many as a spiritual awakening and what is often described as a rebirth.

I haven't done it, but a couple of friends have. They said it works and can be a conduit to deeper life meanings. They both saw the same golden gate in separate hallucigenic visions. Later in the same trip, in South America, they both came upon a temple with that exact same golden gate.

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Sorry not trying it.
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The world is a shitty place.. why would you want to feel connected to this floating pile of crap?

Go out into nature.. that's the best and only place to really connect with what matters.
I know that but well I still don't feel completely connected to even my family which I feel is quite unfair to them. I feel like just floating through life with no real connection with anyone.

I have tried many times by going into nature though I will have a good time but I just don't feel connected.
I can understand.. I don't feel overly connected to people in general. The most beautiful connections I have ever felt have always been with wildlife. Just sitting and observing a fox or a deer when they stumble upon my path. I can't explain the feeling, but it's very calming to say the least.. it's like the world just stops for a moment.
Me too. I just love animals. I don't need to speak to them to make a connection, it feels so natural with them. Yes so true very calming indeed.
Maybe animals are your link to feeling more grounded/connected?
Maybe but I am too late to become Mowgli lol. And I want to connect to people which seems so difficult.
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lol, yes, maybe that would be too extreme. What about connecting with people via a shared love of animals? It's a strong point to relate with -- it instantly gives things to talk about, agree on, maybe build on (if there's something like a cause connected to it, to help animals, for example).
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I think you're about ready for some Ayahuasca!
Lol what is that?
Ayahuasca is an brew made out of Banisteriopsis caapi vine and other ingredients. The brew is used as a traditional spiritual medicine in ceremonies among the Indigenous peoples of the Amazon basin. It has been reported that some psychoactive effects can be felt from consuming the ayahuasca vine alone.

People who have consumed ayahuasca report having spiritual revelations regarding their purpose on earth, the true nature of the universe as well as deep insight into how to be the best person they possibly can. This is viewed by many as a spiritual awakening and what is often described as a rebirth.

I haven't done it, but a couple of friends have. They said it works and can be a conduit to deeper life meanings. They both saw the same golden gate in separate hallucigenic visions. Later in the same trip, in South America, they both came upon a temple with that exact same golden gate.


Sorry not trying it.
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lol it's not for everyone

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The world is a shitty place.. why would you want to feel connected to this floating pile of crap?

Go out into nature.. that's the best and only place to really connect with what matters.
I know that but well I still don't feel completely connected to even my family which I feel is quite unfair to them. I feel like just floating through life with no real connection with anyone.

I have tried many times by going into nature though I will have a good time but I just don't feel connected.
I can understand.. I don't feel overly connected to people in general. The most beautiful connections I have ever felt have always been with wildlife. Just sitting and observing a fox or a deer when they stumble upon my path. I can't explain the feeling, but it's very calming to say the least.. it's like the world just stops for a moment.
Me too. I just love animals. I don't need to speak to them to make a connection, it feels so natural with them. Yes so true very calming indeed.
Maybe animals are your link to feeling more grounded/connected?
Maybe but I am too late to become Mowgli lol. And I want to connect to people which seems so difficult.
lol, yes, maybe that would be too extreme. What about connecting with people via a shared love of animals? It's a strong point to relate with -- it instantly gives things to talk about, agree on, maybe build on (if there's something like a cause connected to it, to help animals, for example).
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Yes seems like a good idea. Will contact PETA. But they would want me to turn Vegan :/

But jokes aside it really is a good idea to get some common ground with people. But how do I connect with my family?🤔
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The world is a shitty place.. why would you want to feel connected to this floating pile of crap?

Go out into nature.. that's the best and only place to really connect with what matters.
I know that but well I still don't feel completely connected to even my family which I feel is quite unfair to them. I feel like just floating through life with no real connection with anyone.

I have tried many times by going into nature though I will have a good time but I just don't feel connected.
I can understand.. I don't feel overly connected to people in general. The most beautiful connections I have ever felt have always been with wildlife. Just sitting and observing a fox or a deer when they stumble upon my path. I can't explain the feeling, but it's very calming to say the least.. it's like the world just stops for a moment.
Me too. I just love animals. I don't need to speak to them to make a connection, it feels so natural with them. Yes so true very calming indeed.
Maybe animals are your link to feeling more grounded/connected?
Maybe but I am too late to become Mowgli lol. And I want to connect to people which seems so difficult.
lol, yes, maybe that would be too extreme. What about connecting with people via a shared love of animals? It's a strong point to relate with -- it instantly gives things to talk about, agree on, maybe build on (if there's something like a cause connected to it, to help animals, for example).
Yes seems like a good idea. Will contact PETA. But they would want me to turn Vegan :/

But jokes aside it really is a good idea to get some common ground with people. But how do I connect with my family?🤔
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Thankfully PETA isn't the only option, lol.

Finding common ground with people seems to help no matter what. I don't know what common ground you have with your family, but hopefully there is something. But, in some cases, people can't connect with their family, no matter how hard they try, if there are too many differences so they have to create family in other ways, with non relatives.

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Do you have something that clears your mind whenever you're stressed about all the situations in life? For example I found out even as a kid that water calms me completely. Whenever I was stressed about something I'd go sit for a while near the river completely alone and think about what's bothering me. Animals are helpful too, like simply some close time with your pet, whatever it is, dog, bird...as for connecting with people, might want to try more socializing. Play some team games. Talk with people in groups about that game. I find that to be better way of socializing than meeting people through dating apps. Cause it doesn't necessarily point out at any sort of dating but simply being around people. For family I can't suggest much since I'm quite detached from my own as well.
Working out clears my mind. I feel alive and active after a good session. I just don't connect with people even when I socialize. Anyways thanks for your inputs.
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The world is a shitty place.. why would you want to feel connected to this floating pile of crap?

Go out into nature.. that's the best and only place to really connect with what matters.
I know that but well I still don't feel completely connected to even my family which I feel is quite unfair to them. I feel like just floating through life with no real connection with anyone.

I have tried many times by going into nature though I will have a good time but I just don't feel connected.
I can understand.. I don't feel overly connected to people in general. The most beautiful connections I have ever felt have always been with wildlife. Just sitting and observing a fox or a deer when they stumble upon my path. I can't explain the feeling, but it's very calming to say the least.. it's like the world just stops for a moment.
Me too. I just love animals. I don't need to speak to them to make a connection, it feels so natural with them. Yes so true very calming indeed.
Maybe you need to be in a place where you are more exposed to wildlife? I couldn't imagine it any other way 🙂
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Yeah I thought of joining a wildlife conservatory as a child but not possible now. Maybe I need to make a trip to the woods soon.
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Reach out to people who are less fortunate...some kind of charity work...homeless shelter or similar

Re connecting with your family...if you can't say things to them, write a letter stating that you would love to connect with them soon, maybe arrange to go out for coffee or lunch etc?

Just smiling at people on a day to day basis makes a huge difference .... it can brighten someone's day up, including your own and just that small gesture can help you feel connected

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Meditate outside feet on soil. Become one back with nature. Buy you some healing crystals, and keep them. On you at all times. Obtain and burn some white sage, Palo Santo, and or other incesnse.....
Hmm thanks for the suggestions. I tried walking on earth bare feet a few times but still didn't quite feel the connection.
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Smoke some weed, then walk.

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Meditate outside feet on soil. Become one back with nature. Buy you some healing crystals, and keep them. On you at all times. Obtain and burn some white sage, Palo Santo, and or other incesnse.....
Hmm thanks for the suggestions. I tried walking on earth bare feet a few times but still didn't quite feel the connection.
Smoke some weed, then walk.

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Never tried. Will I be able to walk after that?
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Do you have something that clears your mind whenever you're stressed about all the situations in life? For example I found out even as a kid that water calms me completely. Whenever I was stressed about something I'd go sit for a while near the river completely alone and think about what's bothering me. Animals are helpful too, like simply some close time with your pet, whatever it is, dog, bird...as for connecting with people, might want to try more socializing. Play some team games. Talk with people in groups about that game. I find that to be better way of socializing than meeting people through dating apps. Cause it doesn't necessarily point out at any sort of dating but simply being around people. For family I can't suggest much since I'm quite detached from my own as well.
Working out clears my mind. I feel alive and active after a good session. I just don't connect with people even when I socialize. Anyways thanks for your inputs.
Hm been thinking what you said. Depends on what you expect to feel when socializing. Maybe you expect to feel in some different way cause you think others feel it different? Maybe you feel exactly as you should but think that's not enough or that others are "better" at it. I think it's more about how you feel inside than how it is, you probably think you're missing something that others have but truth is majority of people is detached in some ways. We can all socialize and not connect really when you think about it so I think it's more likely you're inner feeling you're not doing it right.

Maybe just work on feeling more relaxed around people instead of worrying you're not getting connections with them
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Hmm maybe you are right. It's really a good point. I will work on being more relaxed and less over thinking. Thanks.
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Talk to me. I'm a Genie in a bottle. I will make your dreams come true.
Lol maybe nightmares jk. How are you?
I'm a beautifool monster. It's gonna be good nightmares. Are you sure you were jk? Lol!!!

I am fine, Mr Cap! Anyways, why is so hard to connect to your family? I don't live with mine and I think that was one of the best thing ever because once we all meet up, it's gonna be awesome and fun.

In general, people annoys me and as I'm getting older, I think I am beginning to be more picky with whom I let in but I travel as and when, so it's quite nice to meet people from different parts of the world and get connected.

How are you??
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I was joking only lol. Don't make me doubt myself 😄

Idk maybe I have been that introverted loner guy who didn't talk much when he was a kid and just was the odd one out from his family and didn't develop much social skills. I wish I was a Gemini it's so easy for you to have awesome fun.

Do Geminis get old? Lol. It's normal as with exp comes discretion and we chose to be with people whom we feel good with. Travelling is awesome. It's easier to connect with strangers rather than our close friends and family. At least in my case.

I am good. You were in Thailand right? How was it? Or are you still there?

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Talk to me. I'm a Genie in a bottle. I will make your dreams come true.
Lol maybe nightmares jk. How are you?
I'm a beautifool monster. It's gonna be good nightmares. Are you sure you were jk? Lol!!!

I am fine, Mr Cap! Anyways, why is so hard to connect to your family? I don't live with mine and I think that was one of the best thing ever because once we all meet up, it's gonna be awesome and fun.

In general, people annoys me and as I'm getting older, I think I am beginning to be more picky with whom I let in but I travel as and when, so it's quite nice to meet people from different parts of the world and get connected.

How are you??
I was joking only lol. Don't make me doubt myself 😄

Idk maybe I have been that introverted loner guy who didn't talk much when he was a kid and just was the odd one out from his family and didn't develop much social skills. I wish I was a Gemini it's so easy for you to have awesome fun.

Do Geminis get old? Lol. It's normal as with exp comes discretion and we chose to be with people whom we feel good with. Travelling is awesome. It's easier to connect with strangers rather than our close friends and family. At least in my case.

I am good. You were in Thailand right? How was it? Or are you still there?


Were you stalking on me? Ahahahaha jk jk

Eh, of course Geminis get old but Idk if I'm one of those. My kids told me I'm a teenager wannabe, like whatever dudes. Haha! I think I connect easily to anyone be it strangers, family or close friends unless I don't quite like that person, and that's when I will be distant. I'm an ambivert. I can do both. I don't need people all of the times and I have always enjoyed my own company so I do understand where ya coming from.

I'm already back home and it was an awesome trip with me, myself and I. Are you dating anyone? I will rather just spend my time with my s/o then being around so many people. Tbh, at this age now, I am more of a loner. I don't even have bff, maybe just a few close friends and that is all.

Will you be my bff? 😄

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I saw it one day on the dxp comments section. See you can be friends with person of any age group also. Just don't take away your kids' friends from them lol. Good for you that you can connect.

I am not dating anyone rn. But if I would be I would be more worried whether I am being emotionally open or not. I don't want it to be unfair. Hmm yeah old age is sad. It's good you have your kids to take care of.

Sorry but I just choked on that thought.
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Talk to me. I'm a Genie in a bottle. I will make your dreams come true.
Lol maybe nightmares jk. How are you?
I'm a beautifool monster. It's gonna be good nightmares. Are you sure you were jk? Lol!!!

I am fine, Mr Cap! Anyways, why is so hard to connect to your family? I don't live with mine and I think that was one of the best thing ever because once we all meet up, it's gonna be awesome and fun.

In general, people annoys me and as I'm getting older, I think I am beginning to be more picky with whom I let in but I travel as and when, so it's quite nice to meet people from different parts of the world and get connected.

How are you??
I was joking only lol. Don't make me doubt myself 😄

Idk maybe I have been that introverted loner guy who didn't talk much when he was a kid and just was the odd one out from his family and didn't develop much social skills. I wish I was a Gemini it's so easy for you to have awesome fun.

Do Geminis get old? Lol. It's normal as with exp comes discretion and we chose to be with people whom we feel good with. Travelling is awesome. It's easier to connect with strangers rather than our close friends and family. At least in my case.

I am good. You were in Thailand right? How was it? Or are you still there?


Were you stalking on me? Ahahahaha jk jk

Eh, of course Geminis get old but Idk if I'm one of those. My kids told me I'm a teenager wannabe, like whatever dudes. Haha! I think I connect easily to anyone be it strangers, family or close friends unless I don't quite like that person, and that's when I will be distant. I'm an ambivert. I can do both. I don't need people all of the times and I have always enjoyed my own company so I do understand where ya coming from.

I'm already back home and it was an awesome trip with me, myself and I. Are you dating anyone? I will rather just spend my time with my s/o then being around so many people. Tbh, at this age now, I am more of a loner. I don't even have bff, maybe just a few close friends and that is all.

Will you be my bff? 😄


I saw it one day on the dxp comments section. See you can be friends with person of any age group also. Just don't take away your kids' friends from them lol. Good for you that you can connect.

I am not dating anyone rn. But if I would be I would be more worried whether I am being emotionally open or not. I don't want it to be unfair. Hmm yeah old age is sad. It's good you have your kids to take care of.

Sorry but I just choked on that thought.
LooL! Meh my kids are all grown up. It's no longer fun cos' they refused to let me in. I bet they got scared because their friends added me on IG when I had one, previously. I think they don't want me to take their friends away, yeah you're so right! 😆

Actually, it's awesome to be in mid 30's. I am more calm and collected compared to those years when I was in my 20's and early 30's. And I guess, my mission accomplished, so whether or not I am gonna be dating anyone doesn't matter anymore.

You should tho' since you're still single. Why is it so hard for the earth signs to open up? I wonder. It's annoying, you know. JS

PS: Once again I'm gonna ask you this. Will you be my bff? 😬😬🤣🤣
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Yeah I feel the same compared to my teenage years and early 20s that my mid 20s are better. I feel more stable. Do we have a mission? Nobody told me that lol.

Hmm idk I don't want to try hard. If it happens it will happen. I am not running after someone now. I did all things stupid already. Not making a fool of myself again. It's annoying to you? Well it's frustrating for us. If we knew how to we would be doing it.

Okay I will be just don't take my food. I don't like that lol.
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Reach out to people who are less fortunate...some kind of charity work...homeless shelter or similar

Re connecting with your family...if you can't say things to them, write a letter stating that you would love to connect with them soon, maybe arrange to go out for coffee or lunch etc?

Just smiling at people on a day to day basis makes a huge difference .... it can brighten someone's day up, including your own and just that small gesture can help you feel connected

🙂
Smiling may not help some people to get connected to the world especially if their plutonian like me. If I smile at anyone people gone think somethings wrong with me.

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I guess it depends....

Works like magic for me 🌟😄🌟
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Reach out to people who are less fortunate...some kind of charity work...homeless shelter or similar

Re connecting with your family...if you can't say things to them, write a letter stating that you would love to connect with them soon, maybe arrange to go out for coffee or lunch etc?

Just smiling at people on a day to day basis makes a huge difference .... it can brighten someone's day up, including your own and just that small gesture can help you feel connected

🙂
Idk how I missed this. I do all these things and I feel somewhat connected with them and it does make me happy inside.

It is just with my family it seems I have always been distant. Moreso after my mom left us. I am connecting but just sometimes it feels like there is a wall which I need to break to get near them or for them to get near me.

I do smile at everyone lol 😊. It feels good and adds an extra spring to my walk. Especially in office. Thank you and have a nice day.
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Talk to me. I'm a Genie in a bottle. I will make your dreams come true.
Lol maybe nightmares jk. How are you?
I'm a beautifool monster. It's gonna be good nightmares. Are you sure you were jk? Lol!!!

I am fine, Mr Cap! Anyways, why is so hard to connect to your family? I don't live with mine and I think that was one of the best thing ever because once we all meet up, it's gonna be awesome and fun.

In general, people annoys me and as I'm getting older, I think I am beginning to be more picky with whom I let in but I travel as and when, so it's quite nice to meet people from different parts of the world and get connected.

How are you??
I was joking only lol. Don't make me doubt myself 😄

Idk maybe I have been that introverted loner guy who didn't talk much when he was a kid and just was the odd one out from his family and didn't develop much social skills. I wish I was a Gemini it's so easy for you to have awesome fun.

Do Geminis get old? Lol. It's normal as with exp comes discretion and we chose to be with people whom we feel good with. Travelling is awesome. It's easier to connect with strangers rather than our close friends and family. At least in my case.

I am good. You were in Thailand right? How was it? Or are you still there?


Were you stalking on me? Ahahahaha jk jk

Eh, of course Geminis get old but Idk if I'm one of those. My kids told me I'm a teenager wannabe, like whatever dudes. Haha! I think I connect easily to anyone be it strangers, family or close friends unless I don't quite like that person, and that's when I will be distant. I'm an ambivert. I can do both. I don't need people all of the times and I have always enjoyed my own company so I do understand where ya coming from.

I'm already back home and it was an awesome trip with me, myself and I. Are you dating anyone? I will rather just spend my time with my s/o then being around so many people. Tbh, at this age now, I am more of a loner. I don't even have bff, maybe just a few close friends and that is all.

Will you be my bff? 😄


I saw it one day on the dxp comments section. See you can be friends with person of any age group also. Just don't take away your kids' friends from them lol. Good for you that you can connect.

I am not dating anyone rn. But if I would be I would be more worried whether I am being emotionally open or not. I don't want it to be unfair. Hmm yeah old age is sad. It's good you have your kids to take care of.

Sorry but I just choked on that thought.
LooL! Meh my kids are all grown up. It's no longer fun cos' they refused to let me in. I bet they got scared because their friends added me on IG when I had one, previously. I think they don't want me to take their friends away, yeah you're so right! 😆

Actually, it's awesome to be in mid 30's. I am more calm and collected compared to those years when I was in my 20's and early 30's. And I guess, my mission accomplished, so whether or not I am gonna be dating anyone doesn't matter anymore.

You should tho' since you're still single. Why is it so hard for the earth signs to open up? I wonder. It's annoying, you know. JS

PS: Once again I'm gonna ask you this. Will you be my bff? 😬😬🤣🤣
Yeah I feel the same compared to my teenage years and early 20s that my mid 20s are better. I feel more stable. Do we have a mission? Nobody told me that lol.

Hmm idk I don't want to try hard. If it happens it will happen. I am not running after someone now. I did all things stupid already. Not making a fool of myself again. It's annoying to you? Well it's frustrating for us. If we knew how to we would be doing it.

Okay I will be just don't take my food. I don't like that lol.
I think it's okay to be skeptical when it comes to building a rs but too much can be bad. I do understand how it feels to be broken, not like I have never been there myself. People always think Geminis tends to be the heartbreaker but not really. Will you believe me if I said, all of my exes cheated on me? I don't really blame them though, maybe I was a pain in the ass! 😄

You should give people a chance to know you better. Let the genuine ones in. You're a Cap, I am sure you can detect bs easily.

Heheee, don't worry. I am not a fan of food so rest assured I won't do anything like that. Lol
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Yeah I take those times as timeless lessons. Atleast I have some exp now. Don't worry you will find an earth sign this year.

I am open to people like a bank locker lol.

How can you not like food? How will we get along then? 😄
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Meditate outside feet on soil. Become one back with nature. Buy you some healing crystals, and keep them. On you at all times. Obtain and burn some white sage, Palo Santo, and or other incesnse.....
Hmm thanks for the suggestions. I tried walking on earth bare feet a few times but still didn't quite feel the connection.
Smoke some weed, then walk.

😋


Never tried. Will I be able to walk after that?
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I don't recommend marijuana if you haven't tried it mostly because your beliefs may be different from mine but I started smoking at 25 when I realized I was mature enough to know its uses.

One of my favorite most relaxing thing to do is to hike up a mountain near my house (about 50min hike to a beautiful view) and smoke. I stay there for at least 2hrs in silence (even if I go with other people.

it makes me feel connected to the world and disconnected from the daily routine.

It makes me feel closer to myself.

Marijuana apparently makes you feel as if you are in a meditative state, but I notice that it makes me think a lot about my life purpose and ideas.
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Reach out to people who are less fortunate...some kind of charity work...homeless shelter or similar

Re connecting with your family...if you can't say things to them, write a letter stating that you would love to connect with them soon, maybe arrange to go out for coffee or lunch etc?

Just smiling at people on a day to day basis makes a huge difference .... it can brighten someone's day up, including your own and just that small gesture can help you feel connected

🙂
Idk how I missed this. I do all these things and I feel somewhat connected with them and it does make me happy inside.

It is just with my family it seems I have always been distant. Moreso after my mom left us. I am connecting but just sometimes it feels like there is a wall which I need to break to get near them or for them to get near me.

I do smile at everyone lol 😊. It feels good and adds an extra spring to my walk. Especially in office. Thank you and have a nice day.
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I am sorry to read your mum left. How old were you ?



Keep smiling 😄
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Reach out to people who are less fortunate...some kind of charity work...homeless shelter or similar

Re connecting with your family...if you can't say things to them, write a letter stating that you would love to connect with them soon, maybe arrange to go out for coffee or lunch etc?

Just smiling at people on a day to day basis makes a huge difference .... it can brighten someone's day up, including your own and just that small gesture can help you feel connected

🙂
Idk how I missed this. I do all these things and I feel somewhat connected with them and it does make me happy inside.

It is just with my family it seems I have always been distant. Moreso after my mom left us. I am connecting but just sometimes it feels like there is a wall which I need to break to get near them or for them to get near me.

I do smile at everyone lol 😊. It feels good and adds an extra spring to my walk. Especially in office. Thank you and have a nice day.
I am sorry to read your mum left. How old were you ?



Keep smiling 😄
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I think I had told you about her a long time back. She died when I was 11.

Yes I will 🙂
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Reach out to people who are less fortunate...some kind of charity work...homeless shelter or similar

Re connecting with your family...if you can't say things to them, write a letter stating that you would love to connect with them soon, maybe arrange to go out for coffee or lunch etc?

Just smiling at people on a day to day basis makes a huge difference .... it can brighten someone's day up, including your own and just that small gesture can help you feel connected

🙂
Idk how I missed this. I do all these things and I feel somewhat connected with them and it does make me happy inside.

It is just with my family it seems I have always been distant. Moreso after my mom left us. I am connecting but just sometimes it feels like there is a wall which I need to break to get near them or for them to get near me.

I do smile at everyone lol 😊. It feels good and adds an extra spring to my walk. Especially in office. Thank you and have a nice day.
I am sorry to read your mum left. How old were you ?



Keep smiling 😄
I think I had told you about her a long time back. She died when I was 11.

Yes I will 🙂
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I sensed she passed when I read that she left you

So your disconnect could be caused by grief.....maybe something you didn't quite work through ?

Did you used to have another user name ?
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Reach out to people who are less fortunate...some kind of charity work...homeless shelter or similar

Re connecting with your family...if you can't say things to them, write a letter stating that you would love to connect with them soon, maybe arrange to go out for coffee or lunch etc?

Just smiling at people on a day to day basis makes a huge difference .... it can brighten someone's day up, including your own and just that small gesture can help you feel connected

🙂
Idk how I missed this. I do all these things and I feel somewhat connected with them and it does make me happy inside.

It is just with my family it seems I have always been distant. Moreso after my mom left us. I am connecting but just sometimes it feels like there is a wall which I need to break to get near them or for them to get near me.

I do smile at everyone lol 😊. It feels good and adds an extra spring to my walk. Especially in office. Thank you and have a nice day.
I am sorry to read your mum left. How old were you ?



Keep smiling 😄
I think I had told you about her a long time back. She died when I was 11.

Yes I will 🙂
I sensed she passed when I read that she left you

So your disconnect could be caused by grief.....maybe something you didn't quite work through ?

Did you used to have another user name ?
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Yes it might be. But I am fine now.

No, same account, never deleted till now. I PMd you once regarding some tarot reading if you remember. That is when I told you.
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Talk to me. I'm a Genie in a bottle. I will make your dreams come true.
Lol maybe nightmares jk. How are you?
I'm a beautifool monster. It's gonna be good nightmares. Are you sure you were jk? Lol!!!

I am fine, Mr Cap! Anyways, why is so hard to connect to your family? I don't live with mine and I think that was one of the best thing ever because once we all meet up, it's gonna be awesome and fun.

In general, people annoys me and as I'm getting older, I think I am beginning to be more picky with whom I let in but I travel as and when, so it's quite nice to meet people from different parts of the world and get connected.

How are you??
I was joking only lol. Don't make me doubt myself 😄

Idk maybe I have been that introverted loner guy who didn't talk much when he was a kid and just was the odd one out from his family and didn't develop much social skills. I wish I was a Gemini it's so easy for you to have awesome fun.

Do Geminis get old? Lol. It's normal as with exp comes discretion and we chose to be with people whom we feel good with. Travelling is awesome. It's easier to connect with strangers rather than our close friends and family. At least in my case.

I am good. You were in Thailand right? How was it? Or are you still there?


Were you stalking on me? Ahahahaha jk jk

Eh, of course Geminis get old but Idk if I'm one of those. My kids told me I'm a teenager wannabe, like whatever dudes. Haha! I think I connect easily to anyone be it strangers, family or close friends unless I don't quite like that person, and that's when I will be distant. I'm an ambivert. I can do both. I don't need people all of the times and I have always enjoyed my own company so I do understand where ya coming from.

I'm already back home and it was an awesome trip with me, myself and I. Are you dating anyone? I will rather just spend my time with my s/o then being around so many people. Tbh, at this age now, I am more of a loner. I don't even have bff, maybe just a few close friends and that is all.

Will you be my bff? 😄


I saw it one day on the dxp comments section. See you can be friends with person of any age group also. Just don't take away your kids' friends from them lol. Good for you that you can connect.

I am not dating anyone rn. But if I would be I would be more worried whether I am being emotionally open or not. I don't want it to be unfair. Hmm yeah old age is sad. It's good you have your kids to take care of.

Sorry but I just choked on that thought.
LooL! Meh my kids are all grown up. It's no longer fun cos' they refused to let me in. I bet they got scared because their friends added me on IG when I had one, previously. I think they don't want me to take their friends away, yeah you're so right! 😆

Actually, it's awesome to be in mid 30's. I am more calm and collected compared to those years when I was in my 20's and early 30's. And I guess, my mission accomplished, so whether or not I am gonna be dating anyone doesn't matter anymore.

You should tho' since you're still single. Why is it so hard for the earth signs to open up? I wonder. It's annoying, you know. JS

PS: Once again I'm gonna ask you this. Will you be my bff? 😬😬🤣🤣
Yeah I feel the same compared to my teenage years and early 20s that my mid 20s are better. I feel more stable. Do we have a mission? Nobody told me that lol.

Hmm idk I don't want to try hard. If it happens it will happen. I am not running after someone now. I did all things stupid already. Not making a fool of myself again. It's annoying to you? Well it's frustrating for us. If we knew how to we would be doing it.

Okay I will be just don't take my food. I don't like that lol.
I think it's okay to be skeptical when it comes to building a rs but too much can be bad. I do understand how it feels to be broken, not like I have never been there myself. People always think Geminis tends to be the heartbreaker but not really. Will you believe me if I said, all of my exes cheated on me? I don't really blame them though, maybe I was a pain in the ass! 😄

You should give people a chance to know you better. Let the genuine ones in. You're a Cap, I am sure you can detect bs easily.

Heheee, don't worry. I am not a fan of food so rest assured I won't do anything like that. Lol
Yeah I take those times as timeless lessons. Atleast I have some exp now. Don't worry you will find an earth sign this year.

I am open to people like a bank locker lol.

How can you not like food? How will we get along then? 😄
LooL! I don't think I am interested to find love anymore. It's boring and I have no more time to chase anyone. I quit.

Bank locker? Wowwwie! Haha! I don't like to eat so much because I ain't wanna get fat so it's good. You won't have to spend to much money on food. 😛
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Yes, you just need to be either a world class thief or a bank manager to open the locker lol. Haha yes! you understand us earth signs so well 😉. Money and food 😄
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Meditate outside feet on soil. Become one back with nature. Buy you some healing crystals, and keep them. On you at all times. Obtain and burn some white sage, Palo Santo, and or other incesnse.....
Hmm thanks for the suggestions. I tried walking on earth bare feet a few times but still didn't quite feel the connection.
Smoke some weed, then walk.

😋


Never tried. Will I be able to walk after that?
I don't recommend marijuana if you haven't tried it mostly because your beliefs may be different from mine but I started smoking at 25 when I realized I was mature enough to know its uses.

One of my favorite most relaxing thing to do is to hike up a mountain near my house (about 50min hike to a beautiful view) and smoke. I stay there for at least 2hrs in silence (even if I go with other people.

it makes me feel connected to the world and disconnected from the daily routine.

It makes me feel closer to myself.

Marijuana apparently makes you feel as if you are in a meditative state, but I notice that it makes me think a lot about my life purpose and ideas.

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I have heard about its effects and a few of my friends have tried it. But don't know if I want to try it. Anyways thanks for the suggestion.
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