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Talk to me. I'm a Genie in a bottle. I will make your dreams come true.
Lol maybe nightmares jk. How are you?
I'm a beautifool monster. It's gonna be good nightmares. Are you sure you were jk? Lol!!!

I am fine, Mr Cap! Anyways, why is so hard to connect to your family? I don't live with mine and I think that was one of the best thing ever because once we all meet up, it's gonna be awesome and fun.

In general, people annoys me and as I'm getting older, I think I am beginning to be more picky with whom I let in but I travel as and when, so it's quite nice to meet people from different parts of the world and get connected.

How are you??
I was joking only lol. Don't make me doubt myself 😄

Idk maybe I have been that introverted loner guy who didn't talk much when he was a kid and just was the odd one out from his family and didn't develop much social skills. I wish I was a Gemini it's so easy for you to have awesome fun.

Do Geminis get old? Lol. It's normal as with exp comes discretion and we chose to be with people whom we feel good with. Travelling is awesome. It's easier to connect with strangers rather than our close friends and family. At least in my case.

I am good. You were in Thailand right? How was it? Or are you still there?


Were you stalking on me? Ahahahaha jk jk

Eh, of course Geminis get old but Idk if I'm one of those. My kids told me I'm a teenager wannabe, like whatever dudes. Haha! I think I connect easily to anyone be it strangers, family or close friends unless I don't quite like that person, and that's when I will be distant. I'm an ambivert. I can do both. I don't need people all of the times and I have always enjoyed my own company so I do understand where ya coming from.

I'm already back home and it was an awesome trip with me, myself and I. Are you dating anyone? I will rather just spend my time with my s/o then being around so many people. Tbh, at this age now, I am more of a loner. I don't even have bff, maybe just a few close friends and that is all.

Will you be my bff? 😄


I saw it one day on the dxp comments section. See you can be friends with person of any age group also. Just don't take away your kids' friends from them lol. Good for you that you can connect.

I am not dating anyone rn. But if I would be I would be more worried whether I am being emotionally open or not. I don't want it to be unfair. Hmm yeah old age is sad. It's good you have your kids to take care of.

Sorry but I just choked on that thought.
LooL! Meh my kids are all grown up. It's no longer fun cos' they refused to let me in. I bet they got scared because their friends added me on IG when I had one, previously. I think they don't want me to take their friends away, yeah you're so right! 😆

Actually, it's awesome to be in mid 30's. I am more calm and collected compared to those years when I was in my 20's and early 30's. And I guess, my mission accomplished, so whether or not I am gonna be dating anyone doesn't matter anymore.

You should tho' since you're still single. Why is it so hard for the earth signs to open up? I wonder. It's annoying, you know. JS

PS: Once again I'm gonna ask you this. Will you be my bff? 😬😬🤣🤣
Yeah I feel the same compared to my teenage years and early 20s that my mid 20s are better. I feel more stable. Do we have a mission? Nobody told me that lol.

Hmm idk I don't want to try hard. If it happens it will happen. I am not running after someone now. I did all things stupid already. Not making a fool of myself again. It's annoying to you? Well it's frustrating for us. If we knew how to we would be doing it.

Okay I will be just don't take my food. I don't like that lol.
I think it's okay to be skeptical when it comes to building a rs but too much can be bad. I do understand how it feels to be broken, not like I have never been there myself. People always think Geminis tends to be the heartbreaker but not really. Will you believe me if I said, all of my exes cheated on me? I don't really blame them though, maybe I was a pain in the ass! 😄

You should give people a chance to know you better. Let the genuine ones in. You're a Cap, I am sure you can detect bs easily.

Heheee, don't worry. I am not a fan of food so rest assured I won't do anything like that. Lol
Yeah I take those times as timeless lessons. Atleast I have some exp now. Don't worry you will find an earth sign this year.

I am open to people like a bank locker lol.

How can you not like food? How will we get along then? 😄
LooL! I don't think I am interested to find love anymore. It's boring and I have no more time to chase anyone. I quit.

Bank locker? Wowwwie! Haha! I don't like to eat so much because I ain't wanna get fat so it's good. You won't have to spend to much money on food. 😛
Yes, you just need to be either a world class thief or a bank manager to open the locker lol. Haha yes! you understand us earth signs so well 😉. Money and food 😄
Oey vey! I'm a WORLD CLASS THIEF. Butt....I will only steal your HEART, not your MONEY!

Spoilt me with LOYALTY, I can finance myself.

Okay? Done deal! 😆

Silly you!
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I have no heart lol. Nothing to steal there.

Yes done. See you on the Himalayas. Bring something to eat.
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Talk to me. I'm a Genie in a bottle. I will make your dreams come true.
Lol maybe nightmares jk. How are you?
I'm a beautifool monster. It's gonna be good nightmares. Are you sure you were jk? Lol!!!

I am fine, Mr Cap! Anyways, why is so hard to connect to your family? I don't live with mine and I think that was one of the best thing ever because once we all meet up, it's gonna be awesome and fun.

In general, people annoys me and as I'm getting older, I think I am beginning to be more picky with whom I let in but I travel as and when, so it's quite nice to meet people from different parts of the world and get connected.

How are you??
I was joking only lol. Don't make me doubt myself 😄

Idk maybe I have been that introverted loner guy who didn't talk much when he was a kid and just was the odd one out from his family and didn't develop much social skills. I wish I was a Gemini it's so easy for you to have awesome fun.

Do Geminis get old? Lol. It's normal as with exp comes discretion and we chose to be with people whom we feel good with. Travelling is awesome. It's easier to connect with strangers rather than our close friends and family. At least in my case.

I am good. You were in Thailand right? How was it? Or are you still there?


Were you stalking on me? Ahahahaha jk jk

Eh, of course Geminis get old but Idk if I'm one of those. My kids told me I'm a teenager wannabe, like whatever dudes. Haha! I think I connect easily to anyone be it strangers, family or close friends unless I don't quite like that person, and that's when I will be distant. I'm an ambivert. I can do both. I don't need people all of the times and I have always enjoyed my own company so I do understand where ya coming from.

I'm already back home and it was an awesome trip with me, myself and I. Are you dating anyone? I will rather just spend my time with my s/o then being around so many people. Tbh, at this age now, I am more of a loner. I don't even have bff, maybe just a few close friends and that is all.

Will you be my bff? 😄


I saw it one day on the dxp comments section. See you can be friends with person of any age group also. Just don't take away your kids' friends from them lol. Good for you that you can connect.

I am not dating anyone rn. But if I would be I would be more worried whether I am being emotionally open or not. I don't want it to be unfair. Hmm yeah old age is sad. It's good you have your kids to take care of.

Sorry but I just choked on that thought.
LooL! Meh my kids are all grown up. It's no longer fun cos' they refused to let me in. I bet they got scared because their friends added me on IG when I had one, previously. I think they don't want me to take their friends away, yeah you're so right! 😆

Actually, it's awesome to be in mid 30's. I am more calm and collected compared to those years when I was in my 20's and early 30's. And I guess, my mission accomplished, so whether or not I am gonna be dating anyone doesn't matter anymore.

You should tho' since you're still single. Why is it so hard for the earth signs to open up? I wonder. It's annoying, you know. JS

PS: Once again I'm gonna ask you this. Will you be my bff? 😬😬🤣🤣
Yeah I feel the same compared to my teenage years and early 20s that my mid 20s are better. I feel more stable. Do we have a mission? Nobody told me that lol.

Hmm idk I don't want to try hard. If it happens it will happen. I am not running after someone now. I did all things stupid already. Not making a fool of myself again. It's annoying to you? Well it's frustrating for us. If we knew how to we would be doing it.

Okay I will be just don't take my food. I don't like that lol.
I think it's okay to be skeptical when it comes to building a rs but too much can be bad. I do understand how it feels to be broken, not like I have never been there myself. People always think Geminis tends to be the heartbreaker but not really. Will you believe me if I said, all of my exes cheated on me? I don't really blame them though, maybe I was a pain in the ass! 😄

You should give people a chance to know you better. Let the genuine ones in. You're a Cap, I am sure you can detect bs easily.

Heheee, don't worry. I am not a fan of food so rest assured I won't do anything like that. Lol
Yeah I take those times as timeless lessons. Atleast I have some exp now. Don't worry you will find an earth sign this year.

I am open to people like a bank locker lol.

How can you not like food? How will we get along then? 😄
LooL! I don't think I am interested to find love anymore. It's boring and I have no more time to chase anyone. I quit.

Bank locker? Wowwwie! Haha! I don't like to eat so much because I ain't wanna get fat so it's good. You won't have to spend to much money on food. 😛
Yes, you just need to be either a world class thief or a bank manager to open the locker lol. Haha yes! you understand us earth signs so well 😉. Money and food 😄
Oey vey! I'm a WORLD CLASS THIEF. Butt....I will only steal your HEART, not your MONEY!

Spoilt me with LOYALTY, I can finance myself.

Okay? Done deal! 😆

Silly you!
I have no heart lol. Nothing to steal there.

Yes done. See you on the Himalayas. Bring something to eat.
If you ain't got a heart, you would already been dead by now. Don't make me bite you!

I will bring me some peanuts. Sure! Lol
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Don't you know Caps are dead inside.

Do you eat peanuts for lunch? Do you really want me to die of hunger?
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Reach out to people who are less fortunate...some kind of charity work...homeless shelter or similar

Re connecting with your family...if you can't say things to them, write a letter stating that you would love to connect with them soon, maybe arrange to go out for coffee or lunch etc?

Just smiling at people on a day to day basis makes a huge difference .... it can brighten someone's day up, including your own and just that small gesture can help you feel connected

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Idk how I missed this. I do all these things and I feel somewhat connected with them and it does make me happy inside.

It is just with my family it seems I have always been distant. Moreso after my mom left us. I am connecting but just sometimes it feels like there is a wall which I need to break to get near them or for them to get near me.

I do smile at everyone lol 😊. It feels good and adds an extra spring to my walk. Especially in office. Thank you and have a nice day.
I am sorry to read your mum left. How old were you ?



Keep smiling 😄
I think I had told you about her a long time back. She died when I was 11.

Yes I will 🙂
I sensed she passed when I read that she left you

So your disconnect could be caused by grief.....maybe something you didn't quite work through ?

Did you used to have another user name ?
Yes it might be. But I am fine now.

No, same account, never deleted till now. I PMd you once regarding some tarot reading if you remember. That is when I told you.
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Yes I remember...that was quite some time ago