Jamjamjimjam
@Jamjamjimjam
6 Years
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I have a question regarding finances
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Lord, give this young adult, strength, wisdom, courage, comfort, and know-how.
OP, I am sorry for the loss of your mother but a victim mentality, woe is me attitude etc, will NOT, I repeat, WILL NOT help you.
One never has to ACCEPT ABUSE in exchange for financial help. Never. You have to be open to WEIGHING ALL options. Period.
Lord, give this young adult, strength, wisdom, courage, comfort, and know-how.
OP, I am sorry for the loss of your mother but a victim mentality, woe is me attitude etc, will NOT, I repeat, WILL NOT help you.
One never has to ACCEPT ABUSE in exchange for financial help. Never. You have to be open to WEIGHING ALL options. Period.
You have to be troll post this point. You are always a victim in any scenario that you write about.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
Posted by saggurl88
You have to be troll post this point. You are always a victim in any scenario that you write about.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
This ish here is becoming exhausting FOR REAL 🤦
It is SO IMPORTANT for individuals to LEARN to HELP THEMSELVES.
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88
You have to be troll post this point. You are always a victim in any scenario that you write about.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
This ish here is becoming exhausting FOR REAL 🤦
It is SO IMPORTANT for individuals to LEARN to HELP THEMSELVES.click to expand
He's a 30 year old man supposedly. This has to be a troll account with all these problem "he" ends up getting into.
Posted by sweetpea2977
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Lord, give this young adult, strength, wisdom, courage, comfort, and know-how.
OP, I am sorry for the loss of your mother but a victim mentality, woe is me attitude etc, will NOT, I repeat, WILL NOT help you.
One never has to ACCEPT ABUSE in exchange for financial help. Never. You have to be open to WEIGHING ALL options. Period.
That’s why I’m asking for advice. My mind is all over the place since my mother’s passing and what I would like is helpful and sincere advice rather than being criticised or told I have a victim mentality.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88
You have to be troll post this point. You are always a victim in any scenario that you write about.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
This ish here is becoming exhausting FOR REAL 🤦
It is SO IMPORTANT for individuals to LEARN to HELP THEMSELVES.
He's a 30 year old man supposedly. This has to be a troll account with all these problem "he" ends up getting into.click to expand
30 year old man?!?! 😯 😒😶
Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88
You have to be troll post this point. You are always a victim in any scenario that you write about.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
This ish here is becoming exhausting FOR REAL 🤦
It is SO IMPORTANT for individuals to LEARN to HELP THEMSELVES.
He's a 30 year old man supposedly. This has to be a troll account with all these problem "he" ends up getting into.click to expand
You’re very fucking rude. I think it’s simply because i posted about not liking a sag that you have taken a disliking for no reason. I am in a very dark place at the moment since my mother passed away and have been trying to seek advice on here. She was the only immediate family I had.
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88
You have to be troll post this point. You are always a victim in any scenario that you write about.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
This ish here is becoming exhausting FOR REAL 🤦
It is SO IMPORTANT for individuals to LEARN to HELP THEMSELVES.
He's a 30 year old man supposedly. This has to be a troll account with all these problem "he" ends up getting into.
30 year old man?!?! 😯 😒😶click to expand
I’m not a man.
Posted by JamjamjimjamPosted by sweetpea2977
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Lord, give this young adult, strength, wisdom, courage, comfort, and know-how.
OP, I am sorry for the loss of your mother but a victim mentality, woe is me attitude etc, will NOT, I repeat, WILL NOT help you.
One never has to ACCEPT ABUSE in exchange for financial help. Never. You have to be open to WEIGHING ALL options. Period.
That’s why I’m asking for advice. My mind is all over the place since my mother’s passing and what I would like is helpful and sincere advice rather than being criticised or told I have a victim mentality.click to expand
"Helpful and sincere"? Here's a hint: STOP wearing your emotions on your sleeve and GROW UP. Try that!
Posted by JamjamjimjamPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88
You have to be troll post this point. You are always a victim in any scenario that you write about.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
This ish here is becoming exhausting FOR REAL 🤦
It is SO IMPORTANT for individuals to LEARN to HELP THEMSELVES.
He's a 30 year old man supposedly. This has to be a troll account with all these problem "he" ends up getting into.
30 year old man?!?! 😯 😒😶
I’m not a man.click to expand
Doesn't matter 😒 STOP acting like a victim. SMDH.
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by JamjamjimjamPosted by sweetpea2977
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Lord, give this young adult, strength, wisdom, courage, comfort, and know-how.
OP, I am sorry for the loss of your mother but a victim mentality, woe is me attitude etc, will NOT, I repeat, WILL NOT help you.
One never has to ACCEPT ABUSE in exchange for financial help. Never. You have to be open to WEIGHING ALL options. Period.
That’s why I’m asking for advice. My mind is all over the place since my mother’s passing and what I would like is helpful and sincere advice rather than being criticised or told I have a victim mentality.
"Helpful and sincere"? Here's a hint: STOP wearing your emotions on your sleeve and GROW UP. Try that!click to expand
My mother just died. So you can go fuck yourself. Don’t bother commenting anymore.
Posted by JamjamjimjamPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by JamjamjimjamPosted by sweetpea2977
🙄🙄🙄
Lord, give this young adult, strength, wisdom, courage, comfort, and know-how.
OP, I am sorry for the loss of your mother but a victim mentality, woe is me attitude etc, will NOT, I repeat, WILL NOT help you.
One never has to ACCEPT ABUSE in exchange for financial help. Never. You have to be open to WEIGHING ALL options. Period.
That’s why I’m asking for advice. My mind is all over the place since my mother’s passing and what I would like is helpful and sincere advice rather than being criticised or told I have a victim mentality.
"Helpful and sincere"? Here's a hint: STOP wearing your emotions on your sleeve and GROW UP. Try that!
My mother just died. So you can go fuck yourself. Don’t bother commenting anymore.click to expand
So...you do have a back bone? I hope you take that hardcore speech to the people who are fucking you over in real life you fuc*tard. Get yourself some REAL HELP and stop harassing people with this victim shit.
I'm gonna try my best to give my honest opinions as much as I can without flying off the handle and critizing you as a victim.
No you should definitely not put up with any of that mess just because someone is supporting you financially. No one. And I mean no one has no rights to steal any of your possessions whether they give you money or not. This person sounds like someone you need to get the hell away from. Had that been me in that situation I would make that person pay me ever dollar for everything that was stolen from me.
Are you actually living with this person? You could try and save up to find a place of your own if you living with this person.
And so very sorry to hear of your mother's passing.
No you should definitely not put up with any of that mess just because someone is supporting you financially. No one. And I mean no one has no rights to steal any of your possessions whether they give you money or not. This person sounds like someone you need to get the hell away from. Had that been me in that situation I would make that person pay me ever dollar for everything that was stolen from me.
Are you actually living with this person? You could try and save up to find a place of your own if you living with this person.
And so very sorry to hear of your mother's passing.
Posted by Jamjamjimjam
If someone is temporarily helping you with finances, would you take abuse from them and let them control every element of your expenditure?
Would you allow them to insult you and steal items which don’t belong to them because you’re reliant on them for financial aid until you’re up on your feet again? If they revoke their financial aid, you’ll be in a dire situation.
If you are a female in America you could always go to court and make a big deal out of it, then use that as a reason to why you are now mentally unstable. Then the government will give you money due to a mental disability from abuse. Even if you don't have a mental disability just play it off like a Leo sun would. Dramatic and over the top. Then use that money to get back on your feet. Or just use that money on yourself and be lazy while going from bad relationship to the next and never finding true stability. Whichever you prefer.
Posted by JamjamjimjamPosted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88
You have to be troll post this point. You are always a victim in any scenario that you write about.
This is why it’s always easy to be independent instead of dependent.
This ish here is becoming exhausting FOR REAL 🤦
It is SO IMPORTANT for individuals to LEARN to HELP THEMSELVES.
He's a 30 year old man supposedly. This has to be a troll account with all these problem "he" ends up getting into.
You’re very fucking rude. I think it’s simply because i posted about not liking a sag that you have taken a disliking for no reason. I am in a very dark place at the moment since my mother passed away and have been trying to seek advice on here. She was the only immediate family I had.click to expand
I'm just seeing this and I didn't know you posted about not liking a Sag, I also don't coddle people well, which is a big trait to being a Sag. I was just stating the obvious about always being a victim, I didn't think that was rude at all.
Hopefully someone else can answer whatever questions you have since I'm so fucking rude.
My mom passed away when I was young, so I know what you're gong through and have said my condolences about that. But unfortunately I have no words to help in your current and steady influx of the other things you are dealing with. It's like one thing after another, hopefully you get a break soon!
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