Never trust a friend that.....

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Posted by Astrobyn
I don't understand we are all mostly astrofreaks here, and should resign to the idea that different folks get along and don't get along with different folks for different reasons.

So why be offended if someone else gets along with someone you don't. It most likely has nothing to do with you.



Because sadly, too many here act like or think like they are still in high school.... heck no JR high school.

person 1: You can't be friends with so an so because I hate them....really what are we 13?

person 2: I got you, I got your back

person1 :thanks

person 2: (at the one person 1 hates) you're # $ #% $ # $ @# (even though person 2 has never interacted with you before)

Week later
person 1 : person 2 is such a blah blah... backstabbing the friend who had their back.

wash rinse repeat. Seen it every few months here so far!

hope y'all at least get the humor behind this, but also understand that their is a ton of truth written out.
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Posted by tiziani
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Well actually no, in real life even though I too have a mutable moon, the second one often makes sense and has nothing to do with maturity at all.

But if anyone is applying it to dxpnet.com that's always been hilarious to me.




what is this "real life" you speak of? are we not all real? Just figments of the imagination?

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Haha I just think there's a certain quality to meeting up in person that can and will never be replaced. That goes for text messaging/SMS too.
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Agreed!
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Posted by PVandJelleh
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—Never trust a friend that associates themselves with your enemies??

This is retarded logic to me.

Why are you picking on this quote? The person who posted it on the front page does not go to chat. Nor get involved with dxp drama. And probably has no idea you made a thread about it. SMH.
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OMG, this has nothing to do with chat or anyone in it.

This quote just stood out to me as a terrible mentality to carry around, and something I disagree with. The fact that someone else agreed with it was even more motivation to me to want to put it up for discussion. But who posted it or who agreed with it was not important to me.

If you are of the opposite opinion, I would like you to share your thoughts about why you feel this way, how you find it to be a benefit, ect. Now its likely that I'm gonna disagree with you, but I would like to listen to and consider what you say, or at least try to understand where your coming from.
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Posted by PVandJelleh
I'm sure folks will disagree with my assessment. But I'm feminine sun and feminine moon. And I've come to find that people who have these placements have a different concept of loyalty. My other double feminine sign friends tend to be similar. Where as my masculine sign friends, especially masculine moons, don't get it.

For example: I've found with my Scorp moon friends especially, that they are loyal to the point that if they get a whiff someone is giving me the stink eye, that person becomes not just my enemy, but theirs. It's not about your friends only being able to like the people you like. It's about the fact that good friends don't usually go out of their way to rub elbows with those who would do you wrong. And if they do, they're probably suspect. They may be smiling in your face today, and stabbing you in your back tomorrow. Which is why the quote says, "Never trust a friend that would associate themselves with your enemies." Because when I'm close someone, no way in hell can I smile and grin in the face of someone who is a jerk to them, and then call them my friend. Maybe others can, and they don't see it as duplicitous. But I can't. I'm that loyal.



I have to agree.

Obviously, this doesn't apply to acquaintances but friends and fam.

It goes both ways-- I don't like people who treat the people I love like garbage.

It comes naturally-- I don't even have to try.

I don't understand people who think differently but *shrugs*-- I guess they do.

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Posted by PVandJelleh
Apparently I offended some masculine suns/moons with my comments. Apologies. Loyalty isn't based on a placement. It's based on the individual person. People have different views on friendship and the concept of loyalty. My views are MINE. I do not speak for other Pisces suns, Virgo moons, or feminine signs sun or moon. I was simply pointing out a pattern that I noticed with a few friends, specifically Scorp moons. And yes I know this is not true for all Scorp moons as well.

End Disclaimer.

See... this is exactly why I have a strict no pm policy.
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Posted by PVandJelleh
Posted by Astrobyn
Posted by PVandJelleh
Posted by Astrobyn
—Never trust a friend that associates themselves with your enemies??

This is retarded logic to me.

Why are you picking on this quote? The person who posted it on the front page does not go to chat. Nor get involved with dxp drama. And probably has no idea you made a thread about it. SMH.


OMG, this has nothing to do with chat or anyone in it.

This quote just stood out to me as a terrible mentality to carry around, and something I disagree with. The fact that someone else agreed with it was even more motivation to me to want to put it up for discussion. But who posted it or who agreed with it was not important to me.

If you are of the opposite opinion, I would like you to share your thoughts about why you feel this way, how you find it to be a benefit, ect. Now its likely that I'm gonna disagree with you, but I would like to listen to and consider what you say, or at least try to understand where your coming from.
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I'm sure folks will disagree with my assessment. But I'm feminine sun and feminine moon. And I've come to find that people who have these placements have a different concept of loyalty. My other double feminine sign friends tend to be similar. Where as my masculine sign friends, especially masculine moons, don't get it.

For example: I've found with my Scorp moon friends especially, that they are loyal to the point that if they get a whiff someone is giving me the stink eye, that person becomes not just my enemy, but theirs. It's not about your friends only being able to like the people you like. It's about the fact that good friends don't usually go out of their way to rub elbows with those who would do you wrong. And if they do, they're probably suspect. They may be smiling in your face today, and stabbing you in your back tomorrow. Which is why the quote says, "Never trust a friend that would associate themselves with your enemies." Because when I'm close someone, no way in hell can I smile and grin in the face of someone who is a jerk to them, and then call them my friend. Maybe others can, and
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PVJ, what are your friends' sun signs? The scorp moon ones because I'm impressed & a bit shocked. Personally I'd never do such a thing. My friend's enemies are hers & hers ALONE. I don't mix up in other people's drama. I fight alone & expect them to do the same. You have some really good folks there. Wow.




You wouldn't understand the loyalty of a Scorp mooner. It would be a waste of your time to even try.
& yep she is very right with her assessment. Pvaf ftw. 🙂

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No actually I do. I dont only have a scorpio moon but its also conjunct pluto & its in my 8th house. It doesnt get much clearer than that.

But still, WaterCup be possessive & be like "Hands of my enemies, they're MINE!!".

I dont get mixed up & I dont want anybody mixing up in my business hence I asked what sign her friends are. I find it interesting & obviously you're like that too *clap clap*
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End Disclaimer.

See... this is exactly why I have a strict no pm policy.

What about skyping on the side? lulz

Btw Robyn, I'd like to have my Pisces chat room for reals - some day. Please keep your people there.
Thanks and good day.

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wth? I don't got nothing to do with that. If you want em out, keep em out. You're in control of that.
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If a friend of mine saw my enemy as their enemy, I'd really question their sincerity & their sanity. What did MY enemy do to you, dear friend? You cant tell me you're doing it out of loyalty to me. How fake, weak, pathetic & brainless is that. Be your own person. Fact is, nobody can understand & truly feel another person's feelings but the person who is feeling them. So why are YOU angry at my enemies for when you're not me, the hurt & the betrayed one. I cant stand people who react on cue without a real reason of their own. Puppet, parrot, a little sheep & a phony.
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Posted by DonAmanMarat
What if your friend saw your enemy as a friend?
Who do you confide in?
In that situation.



I dont control who people can be friends but I'm not going to lie, I'd watch myself around the said friend just in case they get sent to poison me or something lol . I never trust anybody anyway so I think I'd handle that situation quite well. Only stuff I tell friends are relationship stuff, things I dont care even if they were broadcast to the aliens. Very deep things like my future plans etc are reserved for a select few & thankfully they dont live close enough to ever meet + be friends with an enemy of mine.
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Posted by PVandJelleh
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PVJ, what are your friends' sun signs? The scorp moon ones because I'm impressed & a bit shocked. Personally I'd never do such a thing. My friend's enemies are hers & hers ALONE. I don't mix up in other people's drama. I fight alone & expect them to do the same. You have some really good folks there. Wow.



My friends are Pisces and Cap sun. My friends are protective of me, and I'm protective of them. Sad to hear others don't have good friends. I don't require that my friends make my enemies their enemies. Nor do I make my friends enemies my enemies for no reason. The point of the quote....which everyone seems to be missing...is that the person is saying they would not TRUST a friend who associates with their enemies. And I agree. Mostly for the reasons DonAmarat so eloquently stated. I find it hard to understand how someone can call themselves a friend, then go and smile and grin in the face of people who talk shit about you or wish you harm. But as I said, everyone's concept of friendship is different.

**CAN SOMEONE PLEASE QUOTE POST SO WC CAN READ LATER. I'M EXPECTING TO BE PERMANENTLY DELETED AT ANY MINUTE, BUT DUNCAN IS TAKING HIS SWEET TIME. GRR. **

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No need for quotes, you already gave me an answer to what I specifically asked you. The rest of my posts werent directed at what you said...it was just my own thoughts on what friendship is. I quote people if I have something to say, its more respectful & less confusing that way. The rest was just me speaking to the screen.