PHYSICAL APPEARANCE

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by WaterCup on Saturday, March 24, 2012 and has 20 replies.

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@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts

How many of u judge people based on their physical appearance?

It could be a fat person walking by and u going, 'eww, i would never let myself look like that!'.
Or a guy in baggy clothes who makes u wanna clutch at your handbag tighter..

Which one are u guilty of? And let me just add that, we are not looking down on anybody, we are humans and these kind of things happen.

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@WaterCup
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Well, i'll start..just now as i came from the corner store, a guy who was behind me in line at the store just walked behind me from the store. He wore his cap down low and i couldnt see his eyes. When i saw him behind me, i walked faster and ran inside as soon as i got to the main gate of our flats. The street was quiet so my paranoia got the best of me, lol. I watch too much crime channel and murder mysteries.

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@WaterCup
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And i judge girls in revealing clothes as sluts. I also judge women in polygamous marriages as desperate, low self-esteemed and dumb. The women in that TLC show, Sister Wives, they make me wanna eat my tv.

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@WaterCup
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I get what u mean about the shorts, but i believe there are ways to make even the trashiest outfit classy. But walking around with a thong/butt crack showing isnt a pretty sight. Oh well, 'What not to wear' can deal with that. The hippies..spit it out

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@WaterCup
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A few years back, two hippies won the amazing race. And they decided that one of them was gonna use the money for a visit to space. Wtf? I was practicall drooling for the cash, wished they would give it to me instead, lol. Do u guys remember them? I forgot their names, they walked barefoot and drove a bus and both had long hair. They made that season fun to watch.

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@SillyFilly
14 Years

EEE- no worries! That's one of my favorite things
to say!! But I wasn't worried, just interested.

WC- okay I don't know for sure but I think of hipsters
as those attempting to be hip but just obvious
that they are trying but not succeeding so much.
Anyone correct me if I'm wrong, please!!

Hippies I think of usually older, long hair, laid back (usually due
to being dedicated to their cannabis (not a bad trait imo)

Oh, I don't judge on appearance, may be cautious if alone
at night and scary guy following me. And I may feel pity
for some people based on appearance. But I am guilty
of being a bit judgemental of ignorance more than anything.

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@sheathedclaws
14 Years1,000+ Posts

I judge white people. Yes, I am mostly Caucasian (and 100% pale as heck!).

I've just always gotten along with immigrants or first generation Americans much MUCH better, from ANYWHERE. I think it has to do with the area I've grown up in. Most white Americans in my vicinity are stuck in their own little view of the Earth and know how things should be run even though they've never tried anything differently in their life. Every other phrase consists of reserved double talk table manners.

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@chemengin
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i judge women that have their bottom bellies hanging over their pants and dont have a big enough shirt to cover it out. so they just have the waist of their pants under the belly part, a section of the belly hanging out under the shirt. that is not cute. i see this entirely too much and sometimes the pants are new. so they bought that shit like that. lets face it your put on some weight, you gotta buy a bigger size.

also the women that wear low rise jeans and when they bend over you see them wearing granny panties, a thong or you just see their ass. no! that is not cute. especially if you know you got dry skin and your ass is ashy as hell. that shit pisses me off.

people that wear dirty pajamas to the grocery store at 1pm in the afternoon with construction boots. thats not cute.

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@RealTalk
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I plead guilty. I can't STAND to see a chick with a freaking scarf on her head outside...really? Put a damn hat on or just throw your hair in a ponytail, or better yet, don't go out. That is just so tacky. I'm also guilty of judging people by their shoes, really skinny/obese people, & people who match too much, lol. IDK why but it drives me bananas!

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@WaterCup
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Reindeer *whispers* i judge profile pics too, some ppl are really cute in here and others not so much. The later ones u feel like throwing them a veil or press the hide button.

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@TaurusBadGirl
14 Years500+ Posts

I have only admited this to one person and now to you guys..not proud of it but here it goes.

When I was growing up I would never date anyone that was over weight..well actually I never have...I would look at every little thing about them to make sure he was close to perfect. I always went for the guys that were built or not fat at all.

I would not be nasty to anyone but I would think it in my mind..I WAS SHALLOW!!! Very Shallow.
God punished me I think, because 3 months later after I gave birth to my twins I gained weight and it took me a long time to get back to my old size again..So there I was overweight and my husband was built and looking good.. Isnt that a bitch!!! And listen to this..My husband had never dated anyone that was overweight either..he did not like big girls..but here I was FAT. By me being shallow I attracted the wrong guys...concidet,stuck up,not very nice to others, and they were also shallow! I really never took the time to know who my husband was inside..we just went for the physical. Not a good thing!!

That was yrs ago..Im not that way anymore, I mean I do have my taste in men But what I mean is that Im willing to give anyone a chance to get to know them..Im not just looking at the physical appearance😉