Would you.....

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by GemsRaGalsBestPal on Wednesday, March 14, 2012 and has 29 replies.

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Date, Fuck, or Kill this person—?

Sun is in 04 Degrees Virgo.
Moon is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mercury is in 29 Degrees Virgo.
Venus is in 16 Degrees Leo.
Mars is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Jupiter is in 05 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 19 Degrees Libra.
Uranus is in 00 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 24 Degrees Libra.
N. Node is in 12 Degrees Cancer.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

He'll be courting, serious minded ( after you get close ) and want to make sure you're only his. The Sag will be more playful however..that's his Moon, and emotions come into play with your Moon. It's a truer self, sometimes even more so than your Sun.

Go out on a date and see how things go. What's the worst that could happen? He turns into a turnip at midnight? 🙂 The Scorp will claim, the Leo will want flattery and worship, the Sag will run back and forth, the Virgo will lint pick your jumper and that Node in Cancer will mean he'd like to stay at home a bit. On the up side being a Virgo he won't scratch his butt in public and smell his fingers.

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

They would only be interested in sex and what ever else they could get out of the relationship as far as them feeling worthy then criticize you for it (on multiple levels)... He's a player. I'll go with kill.

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@lildol
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Virgo will criticize to no end to the partner's detriment (Sun and Merc, NO stopping that), Leo Venus will want all the attention (they may love well, but they want it more than they give) and Scorp Mars will be all for the sexual pleasure they can get. But, not one woman will be good enough as his Sag moon will continue to seek out others to fulfill his emotional needs (which can never be fulfilled and he shall forever wander and wonder what HIS problem is due to his Leo Venus questioning why no one wants to stay with him when it is he who cannot settle or commit).

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

As for the balloons and kids... feeds his Sag emotional needs due to the shear number of people (kids) he can bring joy to and they all 'love' him back for it - with more emphasis being placed on what he is getting out of it rather than what he is giving, although there is clearly some give and take in this scenario.

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

Beware, he is likely to be highly intuned to you in the beginning (North Node in Cancer), only to wane as time goes on given his other placements. He most likely enjoys the thrill of the chase and the thought of what could be, but will not be able to hold true to that given other POTENTIAL opportunities to succeed (in life, love, happiness, etc.).

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, I know, I know..... but he's in the theater community and so am I. The balloons thing is a side gig for him, he actually teaches theater as well as directs and performs in shows. Basically, he's a theater geek. We met through the theater friends we have.

Still though.... that was fucking funny RNAP!

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

He is not afraid of PDA.

His mother is as Christian as they come. Crying when she overheard him talking about sex. Not having it BTW, just talking about it.

He was a virgin until his honeymoon.

He thinks my opinions (all vastly different from his life) are beyond interesting.

He talks a lot when he's nervous.... he never shut up.

I feel like I'm being set up to corrupt someone.

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Eh, it was ok..... He apparently has been having a dry spell for about a year so when he went to kiss me he went for last Thanksgiving's dinner.... through my throat. I was like... ummn, I live here in this neighborhood, could we not? Yeah.... reservations, he hasn't met them.

I've been getting over being sick and yet he still wanted me to come out. I'm still so "not well" my voice hasn't recovered completely. I tell him all this and yet still.... come out! kiss me!! blah, blah, he got sick this morning, ha!

I'm extrememly well versed in religion from college, but I tend to dislike ANYTHING organized due to my studies. This does not bode well.

He was texting me like a fool for days before our date, texted right after the date, and then more today, however when I ask when I will be seeing him again... it's radio silence for a few hours and then he says something to the effect of "I dunno, I guess when we're both not sick". Like really fool———

Yeah, I'm not liking where this is headed, there were a lot of things that I did enjoy about him, but I am pretty ticked about the massive blow off he just gave me.... fuck that.

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@lildol
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Posted by lildol
They would only be interested in sex and what ever else they could get out of the relationship as far as them feeling worthy then criticize you for it (on multiple levels)... He's a player. I'll go with kill.

REQUOTE above (NOTE: he hasn't got to the criticizing point yet)
Just saying.... All my love *blows kisses*
Be careful!

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by lildol

Posted by lildol
They would only be interested in sex and what ever else they could get out of the relationship as far as them feeling worthy then criticize you for it (on multiple levels)... He's a player. I'll go with kill.

REQUOTE above (NOTE: he hasn't got to the criticizing point yet)
Just saying.... All my love *blows kisses*
Be careful!

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YOU RIGHT!!! YOU RIGHT!!!!

I had to go on the date to figure it out, ya know?

Thing is.... he's playing the high school game and I thought I'd evolved past that game. In a sense I am, but I'm still irritated, lol. I know better.

He's on radio silence from me. 🙂

Thanks Lil. 🙂

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Well I would certainly like to meet this person as we have important things in common (like Sun in the same degree of Virgo): I think we should get on pretty well and just see what happens. :-) Why would I want to kill her—??