@Alana
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Quicky Help Please
Well, the hours have passed and there's been no quicky help! from anyone:-) so I've had to help myself:-)
Plan of action is to meet Mr. New Guy at 8.30pm tonite in city centre pub.
I have also made plans to meet Mr. Virgo at 10.30pm so that gives me 2 hours to size up new guy.....oh well, it will be an adventure into the unknown I suppose....
Onwards and upwards through the fog of ponytaildom!......:-)
Plan of action is to meet Mr. New Guy at 8.30pm tonite in city centre pub.
I have also made plans to meet Mr. Virgo at 10.30pm so that gives me 2 hours to size up new guy.....oh well, it will be an adventure into the unknown I suppose....
Onwards and upwards through the fog of ponytaildom!......:-)
Alana, why don't you give me your number and you can try a Gemini and take a break from the Virgos for awhile. 🙂
Thanks for that tip Vanessa:-) - must remember that in future.
Lazlow, consider my no. winging its way to you Mister:-) - I only once had a gemini.....what a man~!!!
Well, her met the new mister at 8.45 - well I made it my business to be 15 mins late:-)
and we headed to a pub by the river. He turned out to be a Mr. Taurus. He had been at his christmas party the nite before and was in bits!!! The hair didn't even looked brushed, no aftershave, not much effort........and then next he proceeded to tell me his life story (no holds barred and I mean no holds barred)....yep, he's married (if I had known that previously I wouldn't have even arranged to meet! I don't "do" marrieds!!!His wife in on dialaysis 4 days a week, bad kidneys, has 2 children, his wife has agreed that he see other women because she can't satisfy him.yeah, right!!!!! He told me a bout his other "lady" friends etc. - again every nook and cranny - TMI...too much information!!! Has been in trouble with police abroad and here.....He asked me about my life....I told him my story - pretty tame:-) Anyway, sufficeth to say, that I was very glad at 10pm to get a phone-call from Mr. Virgo asking was I coming over.....Mr. V. made a lovely dinner...asking where I had been and who I had met beforehand!!!...just passed it off lightly saying - well, you just wouldn't believe it!!! Mr. V. wants things back like they were...if circumstances were different, I might....but I've changed - it's like there's a wall around my heart and I ain't letting anyone back in......I can almost feel the wall physically....it's a strange feeling indeed......
Anyway, that's what happened.........nothing more, nothing less......
Bye for now my pals.
A x
Lazlow, consider my no. winging its way to you Mister:-) - I only once had a gemini.....what a man~!!!
Well, her met the new mister at 8.45 - well I made it my business to be 15 mins late:-)
and we headed to a pub by the river. He turned out to be a Mr. Taurus. He had been at his christmas party the nite before and was in bits!!! The hair didn't even looked brushed, no aftershave, not much effort........and then next he proceeded to tell me his life story (no holds barred and I mean no holds barred)....yep, he's married (if I had known that previously I wouldn't have even arranged to meet! I don't "do" marrieds!!!His wife in on dialaysis 4 days a week, bad kidneys, has 2 children, his wife has agreed that he see other women because she can't satisfy him.yeah, right!!!!! He told me a bout his other "lady" friends etc. - again every nook and cranny - TMI...too much information!!! Has been in trouble with police abroad and here.....He asked me about my life....I told him my story - pretty tame:-) Anyway, sufficeth to say, that I was very glad at 10pm to get a phone-call from Mr. Virgo asking was I coming over.....Mr. V. made a lovely dinner...asking where I had been and who I had met beforehand!!!...just passed it off lightly saying - well, you just wouldn't believe it!!! Mr. V. wants things back like they were...if circumstances were different, I might....but I've changed - it's like there's a wall around my heart and I ain't letting anyone back in......I can almost feel the wall physically....it's a strange feeling indeed......
Anyway, that's what happened.........nothing more, nothing less......
Bye for now my pals.
A x
You didn't have to say it like that! Now I'm heart broken. 😢
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Yikes!
Alana...sounds like a nightmare! LOL What is it about you Water Bearers, alcohol, and standing people up? My Scorp sister is "dating" a Aqua man and he is forever getting drunk, saying he is coming over, but falls asleep before the taxi gets there. That would drive me nuts! NUTS!
Anyway, don't put up the wall for some loser! I missed what happened to Mr. Virgo so I can't say anything about that but I hope things get better for you in the luv department!
CL/Cm2
Alana...sounds like a nightmare! LOL What is it about you Water Bearers, alcohol, and standing people up? My Scorp sister is "dating" a Aqua man and he is forever getting drunk, saying he is coming over, but falls asleep before the taxi gets there. That would drive me nuts! NUTS!
Anyway, don't put up the wall for some loser! I missed what happened to Mr. Virgo so I can't say anything about that but I hope things get better for you in the luv department!
CL/Cm2
I didn't know you were a Gemini Lazlow!
Yes, I am CL. Is that a good thing? 🙂
Of COURSE! Why wouldn't it be?
Well, because a lot of people don't like us Gems. Especially Water signs for some reason. But I'm glad that you do CL. 😉
"Well, because a lot of people don't like us Gems. Especially Water signs for some reason"
At least for myself the geminis i've met have acted more like what water signs are supposed to act like lol,they have been very negative,maniplutive and childish people for most of the ones i've met,there is a couple who has broken that routine though.I don't like being around hippocrits and one(like the other "bad" gems) of the gems will sit there accusing or constantly be suspecious of the boyfriend of cheating and stuff and then turn around and do it herself,but it's supposed to be okay because la de da*some lame excuse about being treated badly(mainly imagination or straight up lie)*.They seem to always want you to drop everything for them but they don't want to give back anything,very self centered,would've ended up being taken advantage of if I had trusted those individuals.
At least for myself the geminis i've met have acted more like what water signs are supposed to act like lol,they have been very negative,maniplutive and childish people for most of the ones i've met,there is a couple who has broken that routine though.I don't like being around hippocrits and one(like the other "bad" gems) of the gems will sit there accusing or constantly be suspecious of the boyfriend of cheating and stuff and then turn around and do it herself,but it's supposed to be okay because la de da*some lame excuse about being treated badly(mainly imagination or straight up lie)*.They seem to always want you to drop everything for them but they don't want to give back anything,very self centered,would've ended up being taken advantage of if I had trusted those individuals.
Help my Alana..??
Touch lady like you don?t need help? ! might like to hear options?.but helps..?? NO WAY
Touch= Tough
Damn keyboard—
Damn keyboard—
QQQ........no words needed...you know me too well for my own good:-)
Laz......you are a gem among gems:-)
CL - thanks for the good wishes - as for what happened with Mr. Virgo - probably what best sums it up is the lyrics by Beautiful South - he wanted a little freedom.....he tasted it.....then wanted me back.......but I tasted it too and don't want him back -
"The freedom that you wanted bad
Is yours for good
I hope you?re glad
Sad into unsad
I had a little time
To think it over
Had a little room
To work it out
I found a little courage
To call it off
I?ve had a little time
I?ve had a little time
I?ve had a little time
I?ve had a little time
......................................I digress into lyric-dom......but really I am in good form overall.........
So my warning to anyone out there who's thinking of taking a little time out "to sort things out" in their head! or others beds!!!!.....is think carefully, very carefully.......your lover may not take you back when you're ready to come back to them......oh yeah, I can and will be his friend but certainly not his lover - I don't do "rejection" well - "revenge" - now that's another story:-)!!!!!
Alana x
PS. Hoping my two sugar-babes are doing so well......and as for what I wrote re. motherhood - you are the opposite of me for that CL - you are so lovey dovey for kids etc. - I can just see you holding hands and skipping through the poppy fields with the two beauties:-) and that's very lovely.
Laz......you are a gem among gems:-)
CL - thanks for the good wishes - as for what happened with Mr. Virgo - probably what best sums it up is the lyrics by Beautiful South - he wanted a little freedom.....he tasted it.....then wanted me back.......but I tasted it too and don't want him back -
"The freedom that you wanted bad
Is yours for good
I hope you?re glad
Sad into unsad
I had a little time
To think it over
Had a little room
To work it out
I found a little courage
To call it off
I?ve had a little time
I?ve had a little time
I?ve had a little time
I?ve had a little time
......................................I digress into lyric-dom......but really I am in good form overall.........
So my warning to anyone out there who's thinking of taking a little time out "to sort things out" in their head! or others beds!!!!.....is think carefully, very carefully.......your lover may not take you back when you're ready to come back to them......oh yeah, I can and will be his friend but certainly not his lover - I don't do "rejection" well - "revenge" - now that's another story:-)!!!!!
Alana x
PS. Hoping my two sugar-babes are doing so well......and as for what I wrote re. motherhood - you are the opposite of me for that CL - you are so lovey dovey for kids etc. - I can just see you holding hands and skipping through the poppy fields with the two beauties:-) and that's very lovely.
I am glad that you are OK my Alana?
I always wish you well and happiness? you know that well enough?.
You are my Alana?.
I always wish you well and happiness? you know that well enough?.
You are my Alana?.
Alana...
La Dee Da Dee DAAAAA...Poppy fields with the twins! LOL
Hey that's funny because I have SO dumped good people then wanted them back but they don't want me back...Trust me that is the best revenge!!! He is a stupid dummy for letting you go....GREAT LADY!
CL/Cm2
La Dee Da Dee DAAAAA...Poppy fields with the twins! LOL
Hey that's funny because I have SO dumped good people then wanted them back but they don't want me back...Trust me that is the best revenge!!! He is a stupid dummy for letting you go....GREAT LADY!
CL/Cm2
"So my warning to anyone out there who's thinking of taking a little time out "to sort things out" in their head! or others beds!!!!.....is think carefully, very carefully.......your lover may not take you back when you're ready to come back to them......oh yeah, I can and will be his friend but certainly not his lover - I don't do "rejection" well - "revenge" - now that's another story:-)!!!!!"
^^Thats so true,how many more"the whole grass is greener on the otherside of the fence" is wrongs does it take to get the point across to people.
^^Thats so true,how many more"the whole grass is greener on the otherside of the fence" is wrongs does it take to get the point across to people.
what would Alana want with a frozen norweeeeegan? How about a hot blooded Welshman. She would have more fun and less frostbite.
"Laz......you are a gem among gems:-)"
Why thank you m'lady. Now dance with me!
Tiamat, I know what you mean about the Gems you were talking about. I've known some like that myself. But I'm not like that, honest! hahaha
Why thank you m'lady. Now dance with me!
Tiamat, I know what you mean about the Gems you were talking about. I've known some like that myself. But I'm not like that, honest! hahaha
i like gems, and i'm a scorp 🙂 but that's probably what you wanted to hear anyway, fishing for compliments, ey 😉
seriously, i think it's the other way round. gems usually don't like me. maybe they get the feeling that i'm being too intense and too serious, which i'm really not!, and they like to take things lightly...————— go figure!
maybe that was one of the reasons for the cold war - each side thought that the other side hated them...
alana: good to see you're still having fun 🙂
your stories are so much better than any tv show, hehe. hope you'll find a special one to keep, soon. if that's your wish, that is. until then, keep playing. hey, it's a new year after all! yahooooooooooo.........
cl: is you're belly growing as it should? how d'you feel? did you get the pics? i've got more recent ones, really funny ones... one can act so silly with children! not that i need kids to be silly, lol
tia: don't be so hard on the gems, they can't fool you anyway 😉
king james! glad you didn't get killed in a street fight somewhere 😛
qbone: when's africa calling?
did i forget anyone? well, if i did, feel made fun of... but hugged afterwards!
all the best for 2006!
liz
seriously, i think it's the other way round. gems usually don't like me. maybe they get the feeling that i'm being too intense and too serious, which i'm really not!, and they like to take things lightly...————— go figure!
maybe that was one of the reasons for the cold war - each side thought that the other side hated them...
alana: good to see you're still having fun 🙂
your stories are so much better than any tv show, hehe. hope you'll find a special one to keep, soon. if that's your wish, that is. until then, keep playing. hey, it's a new year after all! yahooooooooooo.........
cl: is you're belly growing as it should? how d'you feel? did you get the pics? i've got more recent ones, really funny ones... one can act so silly with children! not that i need kids to be silly, lol
tia: don't be so hard on the gems, they can't fool you anyway 😉
king james! glad you didn't get killed in a street fight somewhere 😛
qbone: when's africa calling?
did i forget anyone? well, if i did, feel made fun of... but hugged afterwards!
all the best for 2006!
liz
Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Liz Scorp.......so welcome back buddy:-) so nice to see you back in the driving seat and delivering your quips as only you can:-)!!!!
Sure hope that new babe is behaving herself and not giving you too many sleepless nites in seattle!!!!:-) May 06 bring you and yours the very best of the best.
Alana
PS Tatey....when you comin' to Dublin man— - you promised!!!! And your a cap and caps never go back on their promises now, do they:-)!!!??
A x
PS - Laz - oh I am all danced out with you - tangoed in Paris style :-)
A x
Sure hope that new babe is behaving herself and not giving you too many sleepless nites in seattle!!!!:-) May 06 bring you and yours the very best of the best.
Alana
PS Tatey....when you comin' to Dublin man— - you promised!!!! And your a cap and caps never go back on their promises now, do they:-)!!!??
A x
PS - Laz - oh I am all danced out with you - tangoed in Paris style :-)
A x
My Chris wish I were with you now, life sucks and then you die. come to think of it life doesn't suck enough. I am down and out just felling down I am staying in Canterbury at this time hoping to get out of town soon. hope to come to Dublin someday soon will give you a call I think I still have your cell number. We can get drunk together. If you smoke we will freeze our aris off right now unless we start a fire in the tarts cart.
lov you Tate
lov you Tate
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Am technically finished with Mr. Virgo now - we decided that we would be "forever friends" - OK. We talk, we meet for drinks and meals, he has a new apartment and I've visited to check it out once for coffee:-)!!!!
Now, for the last six months of so, have been having an on-off telephone sweet-talk conversation with another guy - he's been ringing all this week every day and tonite wants to meet for date. I met him one nite in a hotel about 6 months ago, he was quite cheeky coming straight over and asking for my no. etc!but that's alright! And once or twice, I've stood him up.....well lets just say some drinkys got in the way and I didn't make it on time to meet but he was cool enough about it!!!!
Now, here's the crunch......new guy is like an exact replica clone of Mr. Virgo looks-wise.....he has same brown eyes, long black pony-tail (as eveyone knows I have a penchant for long hair on guys!!!:-) and funnily enough he even comes from the same country as him!!!.....so he has the same talk and accent as Mr. Virgo!!! I can't sort out my motivations or real feelings for new guy...am I just looking for a substitute Mr. Virgo all the time—??
Also tonite, Mr. Virgo wants to meet later (if I would like to!).......I would like to but I was thinking if I meet new guy first, see what he's like - if I like him, I can stay put but if I don't like him, I can call Mr. Virgo and arrange to meet up later.....am I using Mr. Virgo or using new guy— just to keep my options so open......I am all of a doo-dah! lu-la at the moment....I don't know who or what I want.....anyway, Her of the usually detached advise...is all butterflyish! with tension...about what to do......
Any comments or observations appreciated quickly ..... as I've got to make arrangments in a few hours for everything..........(the guys are ringing...I can't keep saying I am in meetings all day at the office.......)!!!!
Ciao for now my pals......
A x