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@DMV
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Posted by DonJohnson
i don't get why are people getting caught up.
The men that DMV is attracting is a very very small minority in the real world. Even majority of black men would think those girls in the video are too big.
Look at black athletes or movie stars. which one of them has a big girl like that when they have choices? very rare.

Posted by DMVPosted by DonJohnson
i don't get why are people getting caught up.
The men that DMV is attracting is a very very small minority in the real world. Even majority of black men would think those girls in the video are too big.
Look at black athletes or movie stars. which one of them has a big girl like that when they have choices? very rare.
BUT, lets take another look at celebs. Groupies study these men and conform to the women of their dreams. i dont see a problem with this.click to expand

Posted by DonJohnsonPosted by DMVPosted by DonJohnson
i don't get why are people getting caught up.
The men that DMV is attracting is a very very small minority in the real world. Even majority of black men would think those girls in the video are too big.
Look at black athletes or movie stars. which one of them has a big girl like that when they have choices? very rare.
idk about athletes or movie stars. celebs front in general for everyone. Look at Tiger Woods ratechet ass. His wife was grade AOK, but that wasnt who he was out screwing. he was screwing the total opposite of her clean cut image.
don't get confused dmv.
there are women men date/marry. there are women men fuck on the side.
which one do you want to be?click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by DonJohnsonPosted by DMVPosted by DonJohnson
i don't get why are people getting caught up.
The men that DMV is attracting is a very very small minority in the real world. Even majority of black men would think those girls in the video are too big.
Look at black athletes or movie stars. which one of them has a big girl like that when they have choices? very rare.
idk about athletes or movie stars. celebs front in general for everyone. Look at Tiger Woods ratechet ass. His wife was grade AOK, but that wasnt who he was out screwing. he was screwing the total opposite of her clean cut image.
don't get confused dmv.
there are women men date/marry. there are women men fuck on the side.
which one do you want to be?
yes it matters. I need to be his end all be all. If he marries me looking one way and is fucking something completely different, we have a problem!click to expand

Posted by DonJohnson
silliness.
cheating almost has nothing to do with how a wife/gf looks.
i know this first hand.
vast majority of time,let me simplify this....... guy just wants a new pussy.

Posted by DMV
There are man who marry a girl who has all that he is looking for in a wife. looks, personality, etc.
He marries a size 6 but is out screwing 16s and 20s. we all need to get on the same page here lol.
Stop frontin for the streets.



Posted by fembot
"yes it matters. I need to be his end all be all."
I'm not sure it's possible to be someones end all be all in the looks department. I mean I think Japanese men are the hottest men walking the face of the earth; however the guy I love is not at all japanese. If we make it official it's not going to cancel my obsession with Japanese men, it's merely me making the decision to share myself with him and him only. IMO ofcourse
Posted by DMVPosted by fembot
"yes it matters. I need to be his end all be all."
I'm not sure it's possible to be someones end all be all in the looks department. I mean I think Japanese men are the hottest men walking the face of the earth; however the guy I love is not at all japanese. If we make it official it's not going to cancel my obsession with Japanese men, it's merely me making the decision to share myself with him and him only. IMO ofcourse
end all be all involves the whole spectrum. I dont think its a far stretch. If i want to be someones end all be all, there has to be a guy out there who wants to be my end all be all.
a billion people on the earth, i cant be the only one with this mindset.click to expand

Posted by TheProphetProdigy
Black men love big women, love white women, love black women yes they will date all sizes which is why their stock is so high.
Yeah you can't speak for all black men but by saying this you can speak for me.


Posted by tiki33
+1 Fembot
Cheating has very little to do with size and has more to do with a man desiring variety outside of his marriage, we can't blame size on cheating.
Cheating is a lacking character and boundaries issue not a size issue.

Posted by PVandJellehPosted by DonJohnsonPosted by feby16aqua
Don't all men like variety? DJ would you say the majority of men cheat?
man 55% of men ADMIT to cheating.
this is a fact.
I personally know several men who thinks visiting massage parlors or hookers isn't cheating.
LOL
the world's oldest industry doesn't support itself. the main clientelle isn't young, fit men. it's married men.
This thread is making me wish I was a lesbian. Men suck. I think I'll stay single for a while.click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by tiki33
+1 Fembot
Cheating has very little to do with size and has more to do with a man desiring variety outside of his marriage, we can't blame size on cheating.
Cheating is a lacking character and boundaries issue not a size issue.
lets say size is an issue. then what? do you divorce or do you make your partner happy?click to expand

Posted by PVandJellehPosted by MoonArtist
Now wouldn't that be funny! Women go on a lesbian kick because men become too douchebaggy for our liking. Men get left to fend for themselves.
LOL!! Someone should make a movie about this.click to expand

Posted by DonJohnson
you women are too impressionable.
the modern divorce and break-up has been successfully marketed to you just like a myriad of ridiculous things concepts. that is why over 70% of divorces are initiated by women now.
unhappiness has been marketed to you.
you people are tearing yourselves apart over accepted norms since the dawn of mankind.
*cues mangina intercepting this thread to white knight whilst being a cheater on the downlow.
I'm just being real with y'all. it is what it is. accept it perhaps...... and move forward with life. men and women are different. find a good provider whose heart stays home. that is enough. live happily ever after.



Posted by PVandJellehPosted by DMV
i already know im kinda impressionable. If a man gives me a compliment on my leggings, best believe i will have 3 more pairs before the week is over.
Same with anything really. If i man tells me he likes my hair, if he likes a certain color, shit i could go on for days. shoes, earrings, weaves, etc etc
if he likes it, im doing it.
click to expand
That sounds obsessive. 😐 Do you feel your self esteem is connected to gaining approval from men?

Posted by DonJohnsonPosted by DMV
men are impressionable 2. theyre not as open about it.
not even close to females and children.
malls are created for women.click to expand

Posted by fembot
"If someone told me they like me a brunette, im not going to swerve to blonde right?"
You would if YOU wanted to be blond. Why would you stay brunette to please someone else IF you'd prefer to be blond? Wouldn't you want to make yourself happy first?

Posted by DonJohnsonPosted by MoonArtist
I'm going to play devil's advocate here. Lets say that you, DJ, are happily married but you like some variety on the side and someone you can disrespect, etc. for pure sexual gratification. Lets say your wife is also doing the same behind your back. Is it a problem?
typical comeback that i've addressed time and time again.
the liberal media has successfully brainwashed most into thinking the genders are equal on all levels.
i do not subscribe to that theory. men and women are very different on many many levels. we are talking psychologically. biologically and emotionally.
when i say female i mean most females, so don't come at me with I KNOW THIS GIRL bs.
Females are emotionally linked to sex. they are emotionally vulnerable before, during and after the act. this can not be disputed. so by the time a female has finished cheating with a man.... her emotional stability would've changed.
This is on top of the biological fact that the female runs far greater risk. she is more likely to get pregnant by another man and she is more likely to be a carrier of STD. all of this natural arrangements should psychologically lead her to be the prize in courtship.
Meaning she should naturally guard her sexuality more closely. dicks are free. pussy isn't free afterall. remember that.
so by the time she's willing to forego her emotional, psychological and biological vulnerabilities to cheat on her man...... it is a far more serious act than a man cheating on a female. not even close when you carefully examine every aspect that I just outlined.click to expand


Posted by DonJohnsonPosted by MoonArtist
And you didn't actually answer the question, DJ....you side-stepped it.
i did answer it.
i wouldn't accepted it because it's a far more serious act by the time a female cheats with another man. she would've changed emotionally and psychologically. much deeper than a physical act.click to expand
Posted by DonJohnsonPosted by MoonArtist
And you didn't actually answer the question, DJ....you side-stepped it.
i did answer it.
i wouldn't accepted it because it's a far more serious act by the time a female cheats with another man. she would've changed emotionally and psychologically. much deeper than a physical act.click to expand


Posted by Prince_PiscesPosted by TMV
I feel like you're thinking the same thing im thinking LOL!click to expand

Posted by fembotPosted by DMVPosted by tiki33
+1 Fembot
Cheating has very little to do with size and has more to do with a man desiring variety outside of his marriage, we can't blame size on cheating.
Cheating is a lacking character and boundaries issue not a size issue.
lets say size is an issue. then what? do you divorce or do you make your partner happy?
Exactly @Tiki33
I'd hope that the 2 people could find a happy compromise...especially in the case of a marriage. For me personally I'm unwilling to change things about the foundation of myself (that I don't already want to change) just to keep a man. If I start doing that for him, where does it end? I've basically just shown him that I can be bent to serve his will (regardless of my own identity). That's just not something I can allow myself to do. I'd like to think the 2 people would work out the cosmetic issues prior to marriage though...click to expand


Posted by TMVPosted by Prince_PiscesPosted by TMV
I feel like you're thinking the same thing im thinking LOL!
😄click to expand



Posted by PVandJelleh
@DMV- It's nothing wrong at wanting to please your man. 🙂 As long as you ain't dying your hair blonde, wearing blue contacts, and surgically altering your facial features... 😱 then I guess it's alright.

Posted by tiki33Posted by fembotPosted by DMVPosted by tiki33
+1 Fembot
Cheating has very little to do with size and has more to do with a man desiring variety outside of his marriage, we can't blame size on cheating.
Cheating is a lacking character and boundaries issue not a size issue.
lets say size is an issue. then what? do you divorce or do you make your partner happy?
Exactly @Tiki33
I'd hope that the 2 people could find a happy compromise...especially in the case of a marriage. For me personally I'm unwilling to change things about the foundation of myself (that I don't already want to change) just to keep a man. If I start doing that for him, where does it end? I've basically just shown him that I can be bent to serve his will (regardless of my own identity). That's just not something I can allow myself to do. I'd like to think the 2 people would work out the cosmetic issues prior to marriage though...
+1 Fembot
Marriage has layers DMV and size can be USED as an excuse to cheat. People cheat b/c they choose to cheat, if they lack something within themselves they'll cheat.
No one can make a man cheat, if he's a cheater he'll cheat just because it's his choice to cheat whether the excuse is valid or not valid.
I love chubby, to me chubby is adorable, my husband is fit, very fit but I don't want nor desire to cheat on him with a chubby person.
Preference is not a necessity. We may prefer a certain type but we won't die or stop breathing if we have something or someone outside of that preference.click to expand


Posted by DonJohnsonPosted by LilliLou
actually yep- I've been thinking about the recent exes/ trials and tribulations, been on a couple of dates lately with guys who just don't float my boat, and if the ultimate outcome of it all- getting married to someone who is more than likely to cheat on me, I think I'll stick with what I've got...
2 cats and a fine ass... 😄
okay you still have a fine ass.
what happens when it turns to cottage cheese in 10 yrs? with another 50 yrs of life to go.
you sincerely do not want kids?click to expand

Posted by tiki33
DMV although you say "I love myself" none of what you've said actually describes you loving yourself.
You come across codependent and lack a strong sense of self b/c women who have evolved and developed an authentic self do not just chunk it away for a compliment or to get more compliments which is a form of approval seeking behavior.
Don't you think you're enough? Is who you are right now, without morphing and changing and turning yourself inside out enough?

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idk about athletes or movie stars. celebs front in general for everyone. Look at Tiger Woods ratechet ass. His wife was grade AOK, but that wasnt who he was out screwing. he was screwing the total opposite of her clean cut image.