SeaVixen ....

Your thread bothers me.

In just referring to the OP, it serves to reiterate that it's up to men to decide whether a woman is acceptable ... it asks of the guys to say what they think.

Women, thus far, have suffered greatly at this kind of thinking ... if we aren't beautiful according to men's standards then we are overlooked.

I understand where this motivation came from .. to be excited about the rounder woman showing her stuff for all to see and isn't it beautiful .. yes, I get that.

However, you have asked this question of the men, as if it is only valuable with their approval.

But, carry on .. it doesn't mean anything. I'm just saying, it bothers me.

Or maybe when you said "guys" you didn't mean men literally.

*rolls eyes* FFS!

the rat belongs in a home someplace. maybe she is in a home someplace. HUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

"But apparently, quite a lot of women disagree and would rather not."

Isnt' that interesting .. why would women have an issue with how another woman looks publicly?

^ don't bother. mother-of-all-trolls lives for this shit.

"But someone brought up that women want to relate to the models and if they saw a larger sized model wearing an outfit..it wouldn't make them want to go out and buy it"

I see .... however, a larger woman has no option except to see clothes on smaller women, do they?

I should think that it goes deeper than that, and perhaps women don't even realize it and merely think it's a conscious decision.

We are programmed, women have been breeding for ages with this programme telling them that in order to be sexually seductive that they must be thin and beautiful. Even little tiny girls watch their mothers primp, suck in their bellies, flex & exercise muscles ... if we allow chunky girls to stand next to skinny supermodels on equal terms, then this becomes a threat to womanhood.

We have to compete for men .. if a fat girl can get him just as easily as a skinny one .. then how are we suppose to compete?
And if a fat model is equal to the skinny one in terms of being sexy (which is the main attribute to be considered a model) .. then eventually women will become ordinary, mediocre will become normal .... and we can't have that.

All ego, eh?

Anyway, thanks for explaining.

Posted by Claro de Luna

Posted by deresqar
IMO, there are only attractive and unattractive people. If beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and yet everyone finds a flower beautiful then beauty/ugly can only be found in nature- not humans.

It is the human mind that thinks it is beautiful. Without the human present it would be neither beautiful or ugly!! It would just be.

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For sure. Akin to the "A rose by any other name..." business.

lmao. I loveee you today Domz
don't fuck it up.

BTW what are you going to put in your e-harmony account. Excessive eye liner and emo hair?

mine too!!! maybe I'll end up as one of your matches and we can both lol

Not really - trying to work it out with the BF still, and I don't have an e-harmony account, lol.

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mine too!!! maybe I'll end up as one of your matches and we can both lol

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