
PhoenixRising
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Posted by WaterCup Anyways, I don't what was on her mind at the time she made all those bad decisions but I think it's important to look at her situation...her homelessness with two kids in tow & try to put ourselves in her shoes. Its easy to judge until you walk a mile in somebody's shoes.
I'm not running, be back later...something came up.




Posted by P-Angel
I can't believe this thread was made with intentions of not only defending a child abuser, also to make excuses for her.
the OP even made the implication that the competitiveness of the potential job was a feasible excuse
I hope she doesn't have children of her own, because if she'd condone this ... then she'd do this.

Posted by LetltBPosted by WaterCup
I hope so too. I wonder where the father(s) is/are. He should be the one in jail for not helping out. Couldnt he watch them just for an hour? Some men disgust me.
—? Who was in control & responsible of the kids well being at the time this took place?click to expand

Posted by LetltBPosted by WaterCup
I hope so too. I wonder where the father(s) is/are. He should be the one in jail for not helping out. Couldnt he watch them just for an hour? Some men disgust me.
—? Who was in control & responsible of the kids well being at the time this took place?click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by WaterCup
He should be the one in jail for not helping out. Couldnt he watch them just for an hour? Some men disgust me.
Posted by WaterCup
Let him rot in there for being a useless turd.
She has been talking like this for quite some time, and I seem to be the only person who notices how bad of a person she is.
If a person reads her posting history ... they'd be literally astounded at how awful of person she is.click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescusp
What?
No... I don't believe for one second she didn't have options. Give me a break. There's something not working right in her head.
This couldn't have been her first time doing it either. SHE just got caught.

Posted by P-AngelPosted by WaterCup
It's fucked up that people are making such a big deal about this .....
I mean seriously here .... she talks like this all the time.
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Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by WaterCup
When a poor man bleeds from the head nobody cares, but when a rich man sweats everybody worries. It's fucked up that people are making such a big deal about this woman when there are some rotten offenders out there who don't deserve to be walking free.
I fully agree with this statement. However, the topic at hand is this woman because you raised it. I had no knowledge of her case until I read your thread. I am not suggesting one issue is less to more important. Simply answering the question presented in the OP.
If the OP asked what we thought about her crime in relation to other child abuse crimes, you would get a different response.click to expand

Posted by LetltBPosted by WaterCup
The justice system has been sending "messages" for a long time now & I think all criminals have it memorised by now too. However, I just don't see why this case in particular should be treated any different when people who've intentionally harmed their own children walked away scott-free. What message do you think the case about the dad who raped his own infant son said to masses? That it's ok to rape a child, just make sure to own a fat bank account before tugging at that zipper & pulling down those pants? I think it's unfair that the poor are so harshly judged & punished while the Richie Riches of the world can do whatever the heck they want & it's alright.
When a poor man bleeds from the head nobody cares, but when a rich man sweats everybody worries. It's fucked up that people are making such a big deal about this woman when there are some rotten offenders out there who don't deserve to be walking free.
The point is she is an offender. This is classified as NEGLECT & CHILD ABUSE.
Can you tell us your thoughts if both kids died?click to expand

Posted by LetltBPosted by WaterCup Anyways, I don't what was on her mind at the time she made all those bad decisions but I think it's important to look at her situation...her homelessness with two kids in tow & try to put ourselves in her shoes. Its easy to judge until you walk a mile in somebody's shoes.
I'm not running, be back later...something came up.
That's like saying "Anyways, I don't know what was on his mind at the time he made those bad decisions, but that sex offender hasn't had any sex for a long time and needed to rape a toddler"
C'mon...how many churches are in Scottsdale, Arizona? She could've walked into any one of them and told them what she was doing. They would have watched those kids without hesitation, how about a Fire Department or Police Department— ANYONE with a heart would jump to watch those kids for her and applauded her efforts. At the VERY LEAST, she could have taken them into the interview. No excuses.click to expand

Posted by aquapiscescusp
This type of behavior has nothing to do with being broke or whatnot.
This happened close to where I live, mom left her child in shopping mall parking lot, in a car... kid woke up screaming, someone heard and called the cops!

Posted by P-Angel
Nobody believes it for a second, except the OP, and it's so sad that she is so out of touch with reality.
A normal, responsible woman would go above and beyond her call as a mother to protect her children ..... even if it meant selling a blow job for some bucks.
Not only did she leave them unattended in the car - she left the driver door unlocked with the keys in the ignition .... why would a person do that?
So, the OP and that woman who opened the fundraiser are just going to ignore that tid bit of very important information? ... because ignorance is bliss?


Posted by WaterCupPosted by aquapiscescusp
This type of behavior has nothing to do with being broke or whatnot.
This happened close to where I live, mom left her child in shopping mall parking lot, in a car... kid woke up screaming, someone heard and called the cops!
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It's not the same mom, though. Different issues at play here. Mall (fun)
It is the same issue, you know why? The decision to leave kids unattended in a car is crazy and both chose that. That's what we are talking about. No? I really don't know what or why this woman at the mall did that. Nobody said she was going in for fun. She could have been applying for a job for all I care. You don't leave your kids in cars. Cuz if you are doing that in the open, what are you doing behind closed doors? Child neglect, big time. Those are signs of instability.

Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by WaterCupPosted by aquapiscescusp
This type of behavior has nothing to do with being broke or whatnot.
This happened close to where I live, mom left her child in shopping mall parking lot, in a car... kid woke up screaming, someone heard and called the cops!
It's not the same mom, though. Different issues at play here. Mall (fun)
It is the same issue, you know why? The decision to leave kids unattended in a car is crazy and both chose that. That's what we are talking about. No? I really don't know what or why this woman at the mall did that. Nobody said she was going in for fun. She could have been applying for a job for all I care. You don't leave your kids in cars. Cuz if you are doing that in the open, what are you doing behind closed doors? Child neglect, big time. Those are signs of instability.click to expand
I get your point but it doesnt change how I see this case after reading this mom's story. What she did was wrong, yes, but it's why she did it that makes me feel for her. And I don't believe she's a habitual abuser or the cps would have picked up on that since the chidren are now in their custody. One time stupidity, that's what I believe.

Posted by LetltB
Court documents say that officers entered the car through the unlocked driver's door and found the keys in the ignition. The engine was not running but the blower motor was pumping hot air into the SUV.


Posted by WaterCup
Can you tell us your thoughts if both kids died?


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To clarify, "different response" doesn't mean I think she should be excused in relation to other crimes. Simply, that the focus of the discussion would be different.