
Librajean
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A soulmate connection is a deep, intuitive bond that feels instantly familiar and powerful. It often involves intense eye contact, a sense of understanding, and emotional warmth. Many describe feeling a sense of recognition and resonance as if you have known each other before. These connections can bring comfort, excitement, and clarity about your relationship.


Posted by LibrajeanSeperated 🙂
Has anyone ever experienced a soulmate connection? Is it in the eyes when you see each other you know what they are thinking, can you feel them when deprecated? Do you have a warm fuzzy feeling?
What are your stories and experiences...I'm listening ..


Posted by UrsaMediocreThat is so sad that you broke up, why do you mind me asking? How did you find out such things, like both hating your own ears? You've must have had a lot of conversations...
Yup. It was a little scary on how coincidental things were between me & my ex, all the way to the point in which I had to make a list of all the coincidences:
-Libras (me: Sept 30, her: Oct 4)
-both love fashion
-both went to school for marketing (me: fashion, her: business) and both worked in accounting and fashion
-automatically orders crème brûlée if it's on the menu
-makes a lot of puns/punchlines/clever jokes
-black mark in same area of hand from pencil lead accident (me: right hand, her: left hand)
-obsessed with regional accents, colloquiallisms, and etymology
-fav. current artists: The Weeknd & Tinashe
-undercover Belieber & Team Breezy members
-both follow hockey & basketball heavily (me: Blackhawks & Bulls, her: Maple Leafs & Raptors)
-big Russell Peters fans
-bubble wrap obsession
-extreme prejudice against feet
-cinnamon donut addiction
-doesn't like bananas
-will spend hours watching Dr. Sandra Lee and surgery videos
-living grandfathers served in the Korean War
-deceased grandfathers had Alzheimer's and died of cancer
-parents constantly travel & go on cruises
-have close cousins who are serving in Iraq
-embarrassing moments that have to do with "going #2"
-both have weird habit of pulling loose burnt skin from mouth after eating hot soup
-both hate snakes
-trypophobic
-loves ice skating (me: played pee-wee & junior hockey, her: figure skated)
-sensitive stomachs (I do love spicy food though)
-both least favorite part of our bodies: ears
-both drive SUVs and named our cars Spanish names (me: Esperanza, her: Miguel)
-always forgetful of small things (which pissed off our parents when we were younger)
-both have weird habit of list making
Shame we broke up though.

Posted by TheLibraMudraThat's how I'm feeling with a certain someone, we look into each others eyes and just smile at each other like we are just so happy to see one another. No words. Just peace and contentment. Happiness. Just a feeling of wow I really like you. No need for words we embrace and everything falls into place.
Yea. Can't explain, really. Ya just get it. Know it. Its as if you remember the connection.

Posted by SeraphlightThis is exactly right about the circles, we have been Facebook friends for maybe a year? He is in my circle but we have never met. Until a month ago, I feel like he is going to be in my life for a while so we are both pacing ourselves and it's a beautiful thing. I really love the way he is, he is so peaceful and lovely I think we would have a wonderful relationship.
Yes ..
Both in friendships and romantic relationships.
Only one romantic relationship. And no I don't feel connected to him anymore. But I felt it at the time.
Friendships yes..and its like I remember fragments of older relationships from somewhere ..or maybe i see fragments of other people in them from when I was young etc. I still feel connected to the friends after long periods of not seeing each other etc.
It's when you meet and know you are going to be a big part of each other's lives..when you talk and feel you have known each other for years. This person is IN your circle. Your circle can sense they are in your circle. Nothing needs to be said.
An energy thing...it's beyond the logical part of your brain...
You are there ..you are on their side...and you can feel them on yours..
They are the people you merely need to think about to feel you can get through something or feel confident..you don't even need to call them..you just need to think of them.
They bring out feelings in you...I often find there is a like a circle of us ...a familiarity...
Some you move on ..but you learn a lesson from them...not just from the experience etc but from them and their personality..
I don't know i have been like them though.
I don't feel connected to the ex though..I don't see him anymore.


Posted by LibrajeanWe both weren't happy. I wasn't happy because I felt like I was the only one in the relationship that was in love and when I started noticing minute details (ex: things we used to joke about became rather repulsive to her), I tried to bring it up but she never liked talking about things too in depth. She wasn't happy but she never showed it and she "wanted to concentrate on her career", as if I was somehow getting in the way of that (we live in different countries, let alone cities, but we always saw each other every month and spoke/texted/video chatted every day). We never actually fought, I wanted to work things out, she didn't.
That is so sad that you broke up, why do you mind me asking? How did you find out such things, like both hating your own ears? You've must have had a lot of conversations...
Does that initial connection fade after sometime? Do you still feel connected to her?

Posted by SeraphlightHa!! Funny..Posted by LibrajeanWell that's lovely ..but I wouldn't see that as a soul connection...Posted by SeraphlightThis is exactly right about the circles, we have been Facebook friends for maybe a year? He is in my circle but we have never met. Until a month ago, I feel like he is going to be in my life for a while so we are both pacing ourselves and it's a beautiful thing. I really love the way he is, he is so peaceful and lovely I think we would have a wonderful relationship.
Yes ..
Both in friendships and romantic relationships.
Only one romantic relationship. And no I don't feel connected to him anymore. But I felt it at the time.
Friendships yes..and its like I remember fragments of older relationships from somewhere ..or maybe i see fragments of other people in them from when I was young etc. I still feel connected to the friends after long periods of not seeing each other etc.
It's when you meet and know you are going to be a big part of each other's lives..when you talk and feel you have known each other for years. This person is IN your circle. Your circle can sense they are in your circle. Nothing needs to be said.
An energy thing...it's beyond the logical part of your brain...
You are there ..you are on their side...and you can feel them on yours..
They are the people you merely need to think about to feel you can get through something or feel confident..you don't even need to call them..you just need to think of them.
They bring out feelings in you...I often find there is a like a circle of us ...a familiarity...
Some you move on ..but you learn a lesson from them...not just from the experience etc but from them and their personality..
I don't know i have been like them though.
I don't feel connected to the ex though..I don't see him anymore.
It's all connection, no need for words..
Not yet ...
Your soul mate is when you have seen the weakest worst etc..
But you never know ...potentially 😉 in time ..maybeclick to expand

Posted by clayLolPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Tone it down with the exclamation marks or they'll find out soon.
It's called "dicktification"!click to expand


Posted by UrsaMediocreWhat are your signs?Posted by LibrajeanWe both weren't happy. I wasn't happy because I felt like I was the only one in the relationship that was in love and when I started noticing minute details (ex: things we used to joke about became rather repulsive to her), I tried to bring it up but she never liked talking about things too in depth. She wasn't happy but she never showed it and she "wanted to concentrate on her career", as if I was somehow getting in the way of that (we live in different countries, let alone cities, but we always saw each other every month and spoke/texted/video chatted every day). We never actually fought, I wanted to work things out, she didn't.
That is so sad that you broke up, why do you mind me asking? How did you find out such things, like both hating your own ears? You've must have had a lot of conversations...
Does that initial connection fade after sometime? Do you still feel connected to her?
We did have tons of conversations. The ears thing was from me telling her about me messing my hair up while I was cutting it and that it made my ears stick out more. She never showed her ears because of the way she style s her hair and she said she tends to hide them because they stick out. I found out about the black mark on our hands in the middle of a video chat when I noticed the mark on her hand (which I thought was a mole) & showed that I have it in the same place on the opposite hand that mirrored hers when we held it up to the camera. It turned out that it was the result of nearly identical stories from our childhood: we both were trying to catch a pencil from falling off a desk and it ended up stabbing our hands, leaving the lead to be so embedded that it left a permanent mark.
We were complete opposites emotionally and I felt like the connection was fading when I felt like I was starting feel engulfed by my own feelings, whereas she never really emoted to that extent. I currently don't feel connected to her, as I never said a word after the break-up and I actively avoid knowing what she's up to. Whenever I feel a certain energy, I just think of it as a unconscious projection of me trying to fill a void and just put my mind back into my work.click to expand


Posted by Aquarius3189Maybe she'll come back to you when she is ready, the timing has to be right.
it was instant connection when we had eye contact i know she felt it too like we are drawn to each other that is why we always have this eye contact,she is aggressive though and gave me hints the problem is im too shy and i woudnt dare hit on her since she is still with someone,it hurts knowing i cant have her so i need to move on


Posted by UrsaMediocreSo since you both were same sign of similar traits, it was easy and then over time it got to a stall. It happens even for earth and earth signs. So maybe it's true opposite of different signs have alot more differ3nce but in a good and valuable lessons.
Yup. It was a little scary on how coincidental things were between me & my ex, all the way to the point in which I had to make a list of all the coincidences:
-Libras (me: Sept 30, her: Oct 4)
-both love fashion
-both went to school for marketing (me: fashion, her: business) and both worked in accounting and fashion
-automatically orders crème brûlée if it's on the menu
-makes a lot of puns/punchlines/clever jokes
-black mark in same area of hand from pencil lead accident (me: right hand, her: left hand)
-obsessed with regional accents, colloquiallisms, and etymology
-fav. current artists: The Weeknd & Tinashe
-undercover Belieber & Team Breezy members
-both follow hockey & basketball heavily (me: Blackhawks & Bulls, her: Maple Leafs & Raptors)
-big Russell Peters fans
-bubble wrap obsession
-extreme prejudice against feet
-cinnamon donut addiction
-doesn't like bananas
-will spend hours watching Dr. Sandra Lee and surgery videos
-living grandfathers served in the Korean War
-deceased grandfathers had Alzheimer's and died of cancer
-parents constantly travel & go on cruises
-have close cousins who are serving in Iraq
-embarrassing moments that have to do with "going #2"
-both have weird habit of pulling loose burnt skin from mouth after eating hot soup
-both hate snakes
-trypophobic
-loves ice skating (me: played pee-wee & junior hockey, her: figure skated)
-sensitive stomachs (I do love spicy food though)
-both least favorite part of our bodies: ears
-both drive SUVs and named our cars Spanish names (me: Esperanza, her: Miguel)
-always forgetful of small things (which pissed off our parents when we were younger)
-both have weird habit of list making
Shame we broke up though.


Posted by rockyroadicecreamYes I feel such a calm a really nice vibration around him. He feels it too.
Yep.
You just feel at ease around them.

Posted by Librajeanmaybe,but most if the people i've asked told me that i missed my chance to make a move on her so i guess only time will tellPosted by Aquarius3189Maybe she'll come back to you when she is ready, the timing has to be right.
it was instant connection when we had eye contact i know she felt it too like we are drawn to each other that is why we always have this eye contact,she is aggressive though and gave me hints the problem is im too shy and i woudnt dare hit on her since she is still with someone,it hurts knowing i cant have her so i need to move onclick to expand

Posted by Aquarius3189Well is she is with someone else, the timing isn't right. They have to be completely available. Just stay in touch.. Make you're move when it's right. With no bad karma. Yes time will tell.Posted by Librajeanmaybe,but most if the people i've asked told me that i missed my chance to make a move on her so i guess only time will tellPosted by Aquarius3189Maybe she'll come back to you when she is ready, the timing has to be right.
it was instant connection when we had eye contact i know she felt it too like we are drawn to each other that is why we always have this eye contact,she is aggressive though and gave me hints the problem is im too shy and i woudnt dare hit on her since she is still with someone,it hurts knowing i cant have her so i need to move onclick to expand

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And "jinx it?" Hell no!!!!!!!!!!!! We Pisceans learn the first time 😆Posted by EvatheDivaDoes that mean you are now going to create a "Libra Diary" on the Libra board as you did with the "Sag diaries" on the sag board?
list of all the coincidences:
-Piscean (me: 02 March 1965) Libra (him: 29 September 1966)
-makes a lot of puns/punchlines/clever jokes
--both follow hockey & football (me: Dallas Cowboys/him: Broncos & we both love Rampage hockey)
--will spend hours watching Judge Judy (I DVR her)
-we finish one another's sentences
-we are parrots (always talking)
-both drive Fords
-always forgetful of small things
-both have weird habit of list making
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I get dizzy, fluttered, and my heart pounds...my soul mate!!!
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Posted by Librajeanwow guess we have the same situation in a way,can i ask you why your not breaking up with your current relationship if you feel that this guy we are talking about is a soulmate?hope you dont mind since we are same i mean your guy,im pretty shy maybe that is why this girl i like is ignoring me in a way because im not responsivePosted by Aquarius3189Well is she is with someone else, the timing isn't right. They have to be completely available. Just stay in touch.. Make you're move when it's right. With no bad karma. Yes time will tell.Posted by Librajeanmaybe,but most if the people i've asked told me that i missed my chance to make a move on her so i guess only time will tellPosted by Aquarius3189Maybe she'll come back to you when she is ready, the timing has to be right.
it was instant connection when we had eye contact i know she felt it too like we are drawn to each other that is why we always have this eye contact,she is aggressive though and gave me hints the problem is im too shy and i woudnt dare hit on her since she is still with someone,it hurts knowing i cant have her so i need to move on
Here is my deal with the guy I think might be a soul mate. He is shy too I really want him to step it up. I get busy in my life. But I worry he might look for someone else because I'm not available right now. And I really miss him a lot. But I just have to remember if it is meant to be it will be. I think he understands he acts very caring. Such a sweetheart.click to expand

Posted by Librajean
What are your signs?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Exactly, @FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428. In fact, it seems like the relationships that ended well were with incompatible signs (water & earth) and the ones that went sour for me were supposed to be well compatible (all air, never dated any fire signs). I was told a long time ago that I would end up with a Virgo for some reason (out of all the signs, the majority of my friends are Virgos).
So since you both were same sign of similar traits, it was easy and then over time it got to a stall. It happens even for earth and earth signs. So maybe it's true opposite of different signs have alot more differ3nce but in a good and valuable lessons.click to expand
Posted by EvatheDivaGood luck girl! Hope it works out!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And "jinx it?" Hell no!!!!!!!!!!!! We Pisceans learn the first time 😆Posted by EvatheDivaDoes that mean you are now going to create a "Libra Diary" on the Libra board as you did with the "Sag diaries" on the sag board?
list of all the coincidences:
-Piscean (me: 02 March 1965) Libra (him: 29 September 1966)
-makes a lot of puns/punchlines/clever jokes
--both follow hockey & football (me: Dallas Cowboys/him: Broncos & we both love Rampage hockey)
--will spend hours watching Judge Judy (I DVR her)
-we finish one another's sentences
-we are parrots (always talking)
-both drive Fords
-always forgetful of small things
-both have weird habit of list making
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I get dizzy, fluttered, and my heart pounds...my soul mate!!!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
click to expand
Posted by geminidudeWhy did it end?
Ha my ex soulmate is married now and got two babies - not from me.
Me-June15 Gemini / Her-Feb 14 Aquarius
-first class telepathic conversation while in classroom, at party or even when we were on our own halls of residence.
-accidental eye contacts all the time
-receive calls from her whenever I was about to ring her
-i am the planner she is the executor
-we both were early birds
-both turns on with the idea of being caught in public
-both likes walking, walked a million miles together.
-she knows well when I need sex so she bunked classes and popped in.
-both had similar travel plans
-both turns on with each others conversations.
-both got huge circle of friends.
-both of our friends complained we were not spending enough time with them
-both less possessive
-both enjoys art museum & opera
-both of our parents didn't accept inter race relationship - bollocks


Posted by jane84Thanks girl! 🍹Posted by EvatheDivaGood luck girl! Hope it works out!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And "jinx it?" Hell no!!!!!!!!!!!! We Pisceans learn the first time 😆Posted by EvatheDivaDoes that mean you are now going to create a "Libra Diary" on the Libra board as you did with the "Sag diaries" on the sag board?
list of all the coincidences:
-Piscean (me: 02 March 1965) Libra (him: 29 September 1966)
-makes a lot of puns/punchlines/clever jokes
--both follow hockey & football (me: Dallas Cowboys/him: Broncos & we both love Rampage hockey)
--will spend hours watching Judge Judy (I DVR her)
-we finish one another's sentences
-we are parrots (always talking)
-both drive Fords
-always forgetful of small things
-both have weird habit of list making
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I get dizzy, fluttered, and my heart pounds...my soul mate!!!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
click to expand

Posted by Aquarius3189Well that part isn't the same we are both single. I'm out of a relationship, he is ready for one and is Leary that it's too soon for me to get back into one. But I'm ready.. I want a good relationship very badly. But my patience with him will let him know I'm in it with him. He is a Taurus so naturally slow anyway.Posted by Librajeanwow guess we have the same situation in a way,can i ask you why your not breaking up with your current relationship if you feel that this guy we are talking about is a soulmate?hope you dont mind since we are same i mean your guy,im pretty shy maybe that is why this girl i like is ignoring me in a way because im not responsivePosted by Aquarius3189Well is she is with someone else, the timing isn't right. They have to be completely available. Just stay in touch.. Make you're move when it's right. With no bad karma. Yes time will tell.Posted by Librajeanmaybe,but most if the people i've asked told me that i missed my chance to make a move on her so i guess only time will tellPosted by Aquarius3189Maybe she'll come back to you when she is ready, the timing has to be right.
it was instant connection when we had eye contact i know she felt it too like we are drawn to each other that is why we always have this eye contact,she is aggressive though and gave me hints the problem is im too shy and i woudnt dare hit on her since she is still with someone,it hurts knowing i cant have her so i need to move on
Here is my deal with the guy I think might be a soul mate. He is shy too I really want him to step it up. I get busy in my life. But I worry he might look for someone else because I'm not available right now. And I really miss him a lot. But I just have to remember if it is meant to be it will be. I think he understands he acts very caring. Such a sweetheart.click to expand

Posted by HarukkaWhy not? Can you elaborate maybe you just haven't felt it yet. It's happens when your ready.
No
I don't believe in it

Posted by RamOfPeaceLol ok.. This is a website for those that are enlightend, right??
I hate the neverending soulmate/twin flame topics

Posted by UrsaMediocreThis crap means no soulmate.
Yup. It was a little scary on how coincidental things were between me & my ex, all the way to the point in which I had to make a list of all the coincidences:
-Libras (me: Sept 30, her: Oct 4)
-both love fashion
-both went to school for marketing (me: fashion, her: business) and both worked in accounting and fashion
-automatically orders crème brûlée if it's on the menu
-makes a lot of puns/punchlines/clever jokes
-black mark in same area of hand from pencil lead accident (me: right hand, her: left hand)
-obsessed with regional accents, colloquiallisms, and etymology
-fav. current artists: The Weeknd & Tinashe
-undercover Belieber & Team Breezy members
-both follow hockey & basketball heavily (me: Blackhawks & Bulls, her: Maple Leafs & Raptors)
-big Russell Peters fans
-bubble wrap obsession
-extreme prejudice against feet
-cinnamon donut addiction
-doesn't like bananas
-will spend hours watching Dr. Sandra Lee and surgery videos
-living grandfathers served in the Korean War
-deceased grandfathers had Alzheimer's and died of cancer
-parents constantly travel & go on cruises
-have close cousins who are serving in Iraq
-embarrassing moments that have to do with "going #2"
-both have weird habit of pulling loose burnt skin from mouth after eating hot soup
-both hate snakes
-trypophobic
-loves ice skating (me: played pee-wee & junior hockey, her: figure skated)
-sensitive stomachs (I do love spicy food though)
-both least favorite part of our bodies: ears
-both drive SUVs and named our cars Spanish names (me: Esperanza, her: Miguel)
-always forgetful of small things (which pissed off our parents when we were younger)
-both have weird habit of list making
Shame we broke up though.

Posted by -elle-Posted by LibrajeanWaitwat? This ain't reddit?Posted by RamOfPeaceLol ok.. This is a website for those that are enlightend, right??
I hate the neverending soulmate/twin flame topics
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Posted by LibrajeanPosted by Aquarius3189Well that part isn't the same we are both single. I'm out of a relationship, he is ready for one and is Leary that it's too soon for me to get back into one. But I'm ready.. I want a good relationship very badly. But my patience with him will let him know I'm in it with him. He is a Taurus so naturally slow anyway.Posted by Librajeanwow guess we have the same situation in a way,can i ask you why your not breaking up with your current relationship if you feel that this guy we are talking about is a soulmate?hope you dont mind since we are same i mean your guy,im pretty shy maybe that is why this girl i like is ignoring me in a way because im not responsivePosted by Aquarius3189Well is she is with someone else, the timing isn't right. They have to be completely available. Just stay in touch.. Make you're move when it's right. With no bad karma. Yes time will tell.Posted by Librajeanmaybe,but most if the people i've asked told me that i missed my chance to make a move on her so i guess only time will tellPosted by Aquarius3189Maybe she'll come back to you when she is ready, the timing has to be right.
it was instant connection when we had eye contact i know she felt it too like we are drawn to each other that is why we always have this eye contact,she is aggressive though and gave me hints the problem is im too shy and i woudnt dare hit on her since she is still with someone,it hurts knowing i cant have her so i need to move on
Here is my deal with the guy I think might be a soul mate. He is shy too I really want him to step it up. I get busy in my life. But I worry he might look for someone else because I'm not available right now. And I really miss him a lot. But I just have to remember if it is meant to be it will be. I think he understands he acts very caring. Such a sweetheart.
I think you should just be her friend until she is ready.
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Posted by jane84The last one was the reason 😢Posted by geminidudeWhy did it end?
Ha my ex soulmate is married now and got two babies - not from me.
Me-June15 Gemini / Her-Feb 14 Aquarius
-first class telepathic conversation while in classroom, at party or even when we were on our own halls of residence.
-accidental eye contacts all the time
-receive calls from her whenever I was about to ring her
-i am the planner she is the executor
-we both were early birds
-both turns on with the idea of being caught in public
-both likes walking, walked a million miles together.
-she knows well when I need sex so she bunked classes and popped in.
-both had similar travel plans
-both turns on with each others conversations.
-both got huge circle of friends.
-both of our friends complained we were not spending enough time with them
-both less possessive
-both enjoys art museum & opera
-both of our parents didn't accept inter race relationship - bollocks
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Posted by GemitatiThis was so last week but aight wordlife ??Posted by UrsaMediocreThis crap means no soulmate.
Yup. It was a little scary on how coincidental things were between me & my ex, all the way to the point in which I had to make a list of all the coincidences:
-Libras (me: Sept 30, her: Oct 4)
-both love fashion
-both went to school for marketing (me: fashion, her: business) and both worked in accounting and fashion
-automatically orders crème brûlée if it's on the menu
-makes a lot of puns/punchlines/clever jokes
-black mark in same area of hand from pencil lead accident (me: right hand, her: left hand)
-obsessed with regional accents, colloquiallisms, and etymology
-fav. current artists: The Weeknd & Tinashe
-undercover Belieber & Team Breezy members
-both follow hockey & basketball heavily (me: Blackhawks & Bulls, her: Maple Leafs & Raptors)
-big Russell Peters fans
-bubble wrap obsession
-extreme prejudice against feet
-cinnamon donut addiction
-doesn't like bananas
-will spend hours watching Dr. Sandra Lee and surgery videos
-living grandfathers served in the Korean War
-deceased grandfathers had Alzheimer's and died of cancer
-parents constantly travel & go on cruises
-have close cousins who are serving in Iraq
-embarrassing moments that have to do with "going #2"
-both have weird habit of pulling loose burnt skin from mouth after eating hot soup
-both hate snakes
-trypophobic
-loves ice skating (me: played pee-wee & junior hockey, her: figure skated)
-sensitive stomachs (I do love spicy food though)
-both least favorite part of our bodies: ears
-both drive SUVs and named our cars Spanish names (me: Esperanza, her: Miguel)
-always forgetful of small things (which pissed off our parents when we were younger)
-both have weird habit of list making
Shame we broke up though.
My uncle and aunt fought wholw 53 years being together but after work in thheir own business they were holding each other hands and keeping fighting. She told kids not to count on her if he goes first. He went but knowing her plan made her promise she will live for kids and grandkids. She is living. But she better went...
They had not loved same food. They had been together since 17.
Different to the core but solemates indeed!
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