Strip Clubs

Ladies - are you ok with your SO going to strip clubs? Why or why not?

Dudes - your opinion doesn't really matter, but what is your view?

I'm cool with it. I married my man because I trust him completely and am convinced of his devotion to me. We've hit up the strip club at the end of drinks and date night together.

Posted by brianafay
Dudes - your opinion doesn't really matter, but what is your view?

Lol 🙂

BF doesn't like going. He used to go with a group of guys who were friends with one of the dancers; but he can't enjoy looking at women he doesn't respect. Although he would give bills to dancers that weren't getting as much as others because he felt sorry for them, lol. That's Aqua for ya.

I personally find it hard to respect guys who frequent strip clubs but I don't get upset over it. I wouldn't date a guy who spends mich time going or looking at a lot of porn.

Posted by sultrykitty
BF doesn't like going. He used to go with a group of guys who were friends with one of the dancers; but he can't enjoy looking at women he doesn't respect. Although he would give bills to dancers that weren't getting as much as others because he felt sorry for them, lol. That's Aqua for ya.

I personally find it hard to respect guys who frequent strip clubs but I don't get upset over it. I wouldn't date a guy who spends mich time going or looking at a lot of porn.

"he can't enjoy looking at women he doesn't respect."

Do you honestly believe that? ^^^^

I don't mind as long as it's not habitual.

Posted by brianafay
Ladies - are you ok with your SO going to strip clubs? Why or why not?

Dudes - your opinion doesn't really matter, but what is your view?

I wouldn't want to date someone who went to strip clubs, in the first place.

Just isn't my cup of tea.

Posted by Rabbit
Strip clubs are a far "safer" place for men.

The women are there to make money.

Unlike a regular club or bar where a lot of the women are there to find dick.

That's exactly how I feel.

I brought this up because last night he was out with a friend for boys night (on a monday, I know, lame) and they decided after a few drinks to go. He called to tell me, and I was like ok, don't wake me up.

His friend's girl, a taurus, went fucking ape shit.
I mean like out of her mind...on both of them. She called both of their phones like at least 20 times and my libra was showing me her texting him telling him I go fuck himself, and how she's driving there, etc. And I was surprised because I know they have gone together and she acts completely cool with that kind of thing.

I'm wondering if it was all a front ...or if she was really just upset because she wasn't with him. But if that's the case, hat is she so afraid of? He's not going to hook up with a stripper... lol... they're professionals

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Posted by brianafay
Ladies - are you ok with your SO going to strip clubs? Why or why not?

Dudes - your opinion doesn't really matter, but what is your view?

I wouldn't want to date someone who went to strip clubs, in the first place.

Just isn't my cup of tea.

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Posted by brianafay
Ladies - are you ok with your SO going to strip clubs? Why or why not?

Dudes - your opinion doesn't really matter, but what is your view?

I wouldn't want to date someone who went to strip clubs, in the first place.

Just isn't my cup of tea.

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only plus side,

IF *I* am the stripper.

lmao @ Shakira, stripping!! on the pole.

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Posted by brianafay
Ladies - are you ok with your SO going to strip clubs? Why or why not?

Dudes - your opinion doesn't really matter, but what is your view?

I can't date a woman unless she enjoys going to the strip club and spending my money.

"Here babe.. put these bills in front of you and flirt with the dancer so she stays in front of us all night. Thanks"

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Yeah, PSA: strippers love women. You will get far more attention if you take your girlfriend/wife. Especially if she's busty lol

We only ever go after we've been drinking - it's never a sober decision. & my Libra loves to buy me lap dances because he's a creep, idk why he finds it so entertaining.

But I will never forget this one time he did - and it was one of those where they do the private dances in the back....she came over and grabbed my hand and I was like panicking. I was like omg, no I don't wanna go!!! You don't have to really, just take his money and we'll say I got a dance. But she wouldn't drop it, she literally made me go with her.
She was really nice actually, we talked about how she was in school for criminal justice... lol... but then she motorboated my va-jayjay and I was like YUP I'm done here. Times up

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Posted by brianafay
Ladies - are you ok with your SO going to strip clubs? Why or why not?

Dudes - your opinion doesn't really matter, but what is your view?

I wouldn't want to date someone who went to strip clubs, in the first place.

Just isn't my cup of tea.

+100000

+ lots

seedy

I wonder how many males would go to see a man stripper with their woman?

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it's not our cup of tea. we might as well be religious folks living in the bible belt. lol
but still have fun with eachother.

Every couple is different, so it's good others are having fun if they like that.

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Posted by Rabbit
Strip clubs are a far "safer" place for men.

The women are there to make money.

Unlike a regular club or bar where a lot of the women are there to find dick.

That's exactly how I feel.

I brought this up because last night he was out with a friend for boys night (on a monday, I know, lame) and they decided after a few drinks to go. He called to tell me, and I was like ok, don't wake me up.

His friend's girl, a taurus, went fucking ape shit.
I mean like out of her mind...on both of them. She called both of their phones like at least 20 times and my libra was showing me her texting him telling him I go fuck himself, and how she's driving there, etc. And I was surprised because I know they have gone together and she acts completely cool with that kind of thing.

I'm wondering if it was all a front ...or if she was really just upset because she wasn't with him. But if that's the case, hat is she so afraid of? He's not going to hook up with a stripper... lol... they're professionals

LOL

It's funny cause I can so see a Taurus spazzing out like that lol.

Did your bf think it was funny? I would have been laughing lol

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Yeah, lol. That's why she started calling and texting him too cussing him out....because he was laughing at her and apparently at one point his friend told her they'd go pick her up and my libra yelled "no! she can't come!"

*shakes head* I feel like I should apologize to her or something. I can't control him, he's a wild animal

I don't want anyone to think I'm targeting them, so in general, if you replied that you wouldn't be ok with it - why?

What about it bothers you? Because you think there's a chance he would cheat? Or just because he's looking at another woman's body?

Last time we went we were sitting cuddled up real close having a deep conversation discussing what we guessed each strippers psychological make up was like and why she was doing it, etc. I'm sure it looked like we were talking about doing dirty stuff with them. haha

Posted by brianafay
I don't want anyone to think I'm targeting them, so in general, if you replied that you wouldn't be ok with it - why?

What about it bothers you? Because you think there's a chance he would cheat? Or just because he's looking at another woman's body?

Neither.

I've been with the ex, before... I've worked in radio (remotes)-- it's not nearly

as exciting as it's made out to be.

The women 'putting themselves through college' are the exception-- and

the clubs in most places are nothing like Vegas. lol

For most of them, it's a job taken out of desperation to support a lifestyle

that's probably not what they envisioned for themselves.

That pall hangs in the air, and it is heavy.

And sad.

Like I said... not my cup of tea.

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Posted by brianafay
I don't want anyone to think I'm targeting them, so in general, if you replied that you wouldn't be ok with it - why?

What about it bothers you? Because you think there's a chance he would cheat? Or just because he's looking at another woman's body?

Neither.

I've been with the ex, before... I've worked in radio (remotes)-- it's not nearly

as exciting as it's made out to be.

The women 'putting themselves through college' are the exception-- and

the clubs in most places are nothing like Vegas. lol

For most of them, it's a job taken out of desperation to support a lifestyle

that's probably not what they envisioned for themselves.

That pall hangs in the air, and it is heavy.

And sad.

Like I said... not my cup of tea.

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So, you wouldn't want him to go because you don't want to go?
Or, you just wouldn't want to be with someone that supports something you don't believe in?

& please don't think I am asking those questions with any kind of tone. I am trying to understand the other side of things as I obviously don't see it that way at all

Male strippers are HILARIOUS

To those have not ever gone to a male review with girlfriends...you really need to. Get good and liquored up, so you're not being a stuffy beotch, and go... it's a riot.

Men are way more flamboyant than women

Chippendales.

THAT is a show. 😛

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Posted by Rabbit
Strip clubs are a far "safer" place for men.

The women are there to make money.

Unlike a regular club or bar where a lot of the women are there to find dick.

That's exactly how I feel.

I brought this up because last night he was out with a friend for boys night (on a monday, I know, lame) and they decided after a few drinks to go. He called to tell me, and I was like ok, don't wake me up.

His friend's girl, a taurus, went fucking ape shit.
I mean like out of her mind...on both of them. She called both of their phones like at least 20 times and my libra was showing me her texting him telling him I go fuck himself, and how she's driving there, etc. And I was surprised because I know they have gone together and she acts completely cool with that kind of thing.

I'm wondering if it was all a front ...or if she was really just upset because she wasn't with him. But if that's the case, hat is she so afraid of? He's not going to hook up with a stripper... lol... they're professionals

LOL

It's funny cause I can so see a Taurus spazzing out like that lol.

Did your bf think it was funny? I would have been laughing lol

Yeah, lol. That's why she started calling and texting him too cussing him out....because he was laughing at her and apparently at one point his friend told her they'd go pick her up and my libra yelled "no! she can't come!"

*shakes head* I feel like I should apologize to her or something. I can't control him, he's a wild animal

If your instincts is telling you to apologize then do it. Taureans take things very seriously lol

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Well she does my hair. & she's good at it...soooooo
😛

Also, she's terrifying. She has a neck tattoo man. Chicks with neck tattoos are not ones to play with

Posted by brianafaySo, you wouldn't want him to go because you don't want to go?
Or, you just wouldn't want to be with someone that supports something you don't believe in?

Believe in?

I forgot... Sagittarians don't read-- they skim. 😛

Your perception of a strip club is not the same as mine.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by brianafaySo, you wouldn't want him to go because you don't want to go?
Or, you just wouldn't want to be with someone that supports something you don't believe in?

Believe in?

I forgot... Sagittarians don't read-- they skim. 😛

Your perception of a strip club is not the same as mine.

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Hahaha

I mean, from your posts I understand why you don't go to them, but I still don't understand why you wouldn't date someone who went to them.
You see it as a character flaw ?

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Posted by brianafay
Also, she's terrifying. She has a neck tattoo man. Chicks with neck tattoos are not ones to play with

Mitchell Rodriguez style lol

Well, you have no choice, you have to apologize.

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I was thinking of commenting on her facebook post she clearly made about my boyfriend and just saying "sorry, he's an animal."
I don't want to talk to her about it because if she starts ranting and yelling about my boyfriend I'll likely have to punch her and she will bury me. lol

No? bad idea?

Posted by exo
every once in a while is fine. i enjoy 'em myself. we still need to go together.

yeah, I feel sorry for those dudes that go regularly :/

Especially those guys that go during the day. ....way over committed.

Posted by feby
I know they can make a ton of cash. I have contemplated it but I feel like you lose a piece of your soul when you deal in that way.
I've always wondered how other women feel about it. It's like a taboo.

Yeah :/ I don't think I could go sober. It does make me a little sad that they have to do that. When I'm drinking I don't think about it like that...I'm just like wooooo tittays!!

Someone earlier said something about an Aqua bf tipping the girl's no one else does...my Aqua friend does the exact same thing. LOL

I tip based on skill. I know that pole shit is hard, so I respect that

Posted by exo
lol, i remember an airhead stripper rubbed my fro and called me a beautiful mulatto. and she assumed my gem friend was jewish (i guess 'cause he has a beard). she was so offensive, but oddly endearing. she thought we were dating so we played along and she went on about sexy interracial couples, smh.

omg, stripping her way through school isn't going to fix that. no hope

Posted by Rabbit

My Libra got prime rib at a strip club once.

*gag*

Posted by feby
My stage name would be dozer

ahahaha

http://www.playbuzz.com/scotto/what-is-your-stripper-name

way more comprehensive than the typical combine the street you grew up on with your mom's middle name...blah blah blah

Posted by feby
I got jack hammer lol

NO! Seriously?

There's a theme coming through lol

Voluptuous Vivian

lol ?

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Voluptuous Vivian

lol ?

i got the same. 😛

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twinning!

Apparently that's a popular one lol

Dazed makes it a 3some

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Apparently that's a popular one lol

Dazed makes it a 3some

Did you pick to pay your bills (and for your automobiles)?

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nope, lol

We need a new one. This is bullshit

ya its ok i guess...plus I heard they have good chicken wings.

Posted by retrogradexy
If I didn't have relatives/family, i'd do it.

If i'm making good tips, why not?

I get to dress up in heels, dance, tease myself and strangers, workout and have the crowd going- who's winning?

I'd probably take muay thai on the side.

I wouldn't do it for long though.

Stage name would be Soleinn.

Strippin with Muay Thai on the side. Nice!

Posted by FrostAndBite
I don't think I could strip. Mostly cause bad dance moves. 😛

I could probably waitress at hooters or twin peaks though. I mean, I serve at a nicer chain restaurant now and it's basically the same thing. I'm whoring out a fake attitude of concern for your cash. I just wear more clothes and get half off house food. Lol.

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Completely agree.

I don't care.

And, it's not because I "trust" him. And, it's not because I do. I don't believe in the word "trust."

I just don't care.

I've been to a female strip club a few times so has he. We've never gone together. He acts so conservative sometimes I want to bite him! Most times I do.

None of us want to go to a male strip club... yuck.

However, I have had some unique experiences with male strippers invited to parties I have attended. It's not his body but, what he did with mine.

Once, a male stripper rocked my mind by asking one female to get on all fours. I got on top of her back, my back on top of her back, legs up. Then, he began illustrating sexually. I was like wow, never thought of that one.

Posted by brianafay
Ladies - are you ok with your SO going to strip clubs? Why or why not?

Dudes - your opinion doesn't really matter, but what is your view?

I used to go with my ex way back in the day before we ever got married. Usually, it was after we left the club but now, NO.

I don't want a man that wants to go to the strip club or even the club period..

and let me just say even then I hated it.. I would hurt me to think of him lusting after other women right in front of me. Others wanted to go so I went along with it, but not now. Never again..

Awwww..

There's nothing like you come back from a strip club and strip for him.

Mmmmmmmm....

🙂

Pole dancing is a workout regime at the gym I occasionally go to. Yeah, I'm lazy.

It feels great working a pole though... In any way you take that statement.

Posted by VenusAquarius
I don't care.

And, it's not because I "trust" him. And, it's not because I do. I don't believe in the word "trust."

I just don't care.

I've been to a female strip club a few times so has he. We've never gone together. He acts so conservative sometimes I want to bite him! Most times I do.

None of us want to go to a male strip club... yuck.

However, I have had some unique experiences with male strippers invited to parties I have attended. It's not his body but, what he did with mine.

Once, a male stripper rocked my mind by asking one female to get on all fours. I got on top of her back, my back on top of her back, legs up. Then, he began illustrating sexually. I was like wow, never thought of that one.

also, in real life, i know some relatives who have/are dating someone whose parents split for awhile; the husband left the wife for a stripper, spent all his money on her, and they have a ton of bills, and he still wants to enjoy life with a sexy stripper. And the poor middle aged wife went to spend more money on her face lift and boob job and some lipo suction to get him back.

he returned, because the stripper didnt want him, when he ran out of money.
and they're back together. true story. i was well.....it happens in life. *sigh*

Posted by DamnatBunny

jeez they're crying at the end. 😢

it must take a toll on them.

but it's sad, because they have no family and loved ones, most of the time. 😢

now they see other women be in that life, and they feel disgusted, so grossed out. But these women weren't used to this. So they can't cope. 😢

now they see how other women live, who don't have options. it's sooo sad.

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Posted by sultrykitty
BF doesn't like going. He used to go with a group of guys who were friends with one of the dancers; but he can't enjoy looking at women he doesn't respect. Although he would give bills to dancers that weren't getting as much as others because he felt sorry for them, lol. That's Aqua for ya.

I personally find it hard to respect guys who frequent strip clubs but I don't get upset over it. I wouldn't date a guy who spends mich time going or looking at a lot of porn.

"he can't enjoy looking at women he doesn't respect."

Do you honestly believe that? ^^^^

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Yup. Been with him 25 years, he's just not into that. He hates tattoos on women, too.

Omg I have an update on the Taurus situation...
My libra owns his own business and his friend has been working for him....he says tonight just because of the way the Taurus talked to him he's making his friend go to Vegas with him for "business"

³

I can't with him