whats your 'bodycount' ?

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by heartofsag on Monday, August 17, 2015 and has 18 replies.

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@heartofsag
10 Years

do you guys (women included here) have a *max* number ur partner has slept with?

i mean is there a certain number which is TOO much for u?

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I won't judge the number at all.

I will judge what went behind that number. Health is very important, both physically and mentally. I'm looking more towards patterns.

If you've been with 100 people but have no health issues, have good self esteem, no issues pushed in the back of the skeleton closet.. and you're also capable of forming deep attachments..no problem.

As for me, my number is low. There's a simillar bias here with low numbers = self respect, innocence, wholesome person etc. That bias is as wrong as the high number bias is. I've met people with low numbers who were the opposite of that, and actually bitter they didn't get more. I steer clear of that too.

The character behind the numbers is what I'm looking for.

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

8

2 Leo, 2 Capricorn, 1 Virgo, 1 Aries, 1 Pisces, 1 Cancer.

Virgo was my first at 14, Aries was the last at 22. I'm 25 now. Need any more information? lol

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Poor op, chases off by all the dumb sluts of dxp (myself included)

The question wasn't how many people have you slept with, but rather if you knew the number of how many people your lover slept with what is too much?

In that case 10. If my partner slept with more then 10 people I wouldn't date her long. Her pussy would likely prove this, given I didn't catch an std and die first.

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh so we didn't scare you off from totally taking the topic out of context. Great!

Well now you know some of our opinions, and sex life. Damn you are good.

😉

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm 25. The last guy made 11 only 3 times 😢 damn I didn't even get my fill 😢. Not ready to up my number again, but I am defiantly sexually frustrated. I guess the reason I am concerned with it is that I don't want to meet the man of my dreams and him to be appalled by how many men i've slept with.

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@LadyYin
11 Years500+ Posts

they had a life before meeting me. i dont need to know all the details. just as long as they are std free and are able to commit. not be a person who jumps from person to person, bed to bed.