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Posted by blackphase
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.
You could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Posted by blackphase
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.You could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Why were you asking me if I had kids? I'm so confused 😢
My bad for assuming it was just to throw it in my face :/
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LOL. Always assuming I have ill intent. Every word from my mouth has love behind it, no matter how harsh it may seem.
I asked about children to see if you could understand where I was going with this. You don't so you won't. I wasn't being ugly.
Posted by Soul
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
Vacation does not equal fun for everyone.. Everyone has fun in their own way on different terms.
And Soul is supposed to be the Leo here.. Lol.. Why do you feel the need to one up everyone huh?I'm not "one upping" anyone. Just stating that I have fun and vacation every month. It's a luxury I have worked very hard for and now I am reaping the rewards. ALOT OF FUN.
Well you do come across as arrogant.....
I know I do.
Oh right
Also, your arrogance with hitting on women here, isn't too good. Not everyone wants to be told *i bet you are fucking hot, send me a pic*. Is that
your attempt to connect with a woman?lol
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Thats just me fucking around and should be taken as such. Seriously? LOL. I wouldn't attempt to connect with a woman here. I don't even like pms. Hidden messages
Posted by blackphase
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.You could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Why were you asking me if I had kids? I'm so confused 😢
My bad for assuming it was just to throw it in my face :/
LOL. Always assuming I have ill intent. Every word from my mouth has love behind it, no matter how harsh it may seem.
I asked about children to see if you could understand where I was going with this. You don't so you won't. I wasn't being ugly.
Happy, your Mercury is in Aries right?
And blackphase has a Scorpio moon?
Wrong or right?
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You are still horrible at this. I posted my whole chart for you to see Ram76. Look in the Chart forum.
Posted by Soul
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
Vacation does not equal fun for everyone.. Everyone has fun in their own way on different terms.
And Soul is supposed to be the Leo here.. Lol.. Why do you feel the need to one up everyone huh?I'm not "one upping" anyone. Just stating that I have fun and vacation every month. It's a luxury I have worked very hard for and now I am reaping the rewards. ALOT OF FUN.
Well you do come across as arrogant.....
I know I do.
Oh right
Also, your arrogance with hitting on women here, isn't too good. Not everyone wants to be told *i bet you are fucking hot, send me a pic*. Is that
your attempt to connect with a woman?lol
He was trolling lol.
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DING DING DING
Posted by blackphase
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.You could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Why were you asking me if I had kids? I'm so confused 😢
My bad for assuming it was just to throw it in my face :/
LOL. Always assuming I have ill intent. Every word from my mouth has love behind it, no matter how harsh it may seem.
I asked about children to see if you could understand where I was going with this. You don't so you won't. I wasn't being ugly.
This has to do with the filter and processor that I was talking about before. Her honesty is very sweet and innocent.
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I'm not saying shes not a sweetheart. I think she is too. She is just young and has not experienced the world as I have.
Posted by Koniucha
Why did everyone troll on here?Is it a boredom thing?
You bored too?
Posted by Soul
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
Well good for you! Getting out is great isn't it?
I have fun every day just from going to work. I actually love my job. But no, I don't take a vacation every month. That's ok though I'm still thankful for the life I have.
I'm not a boss either lol. I'm flattered of the thought, but my boss is actually a great person. Very kind, wise, and giving.
Living a healthy life is what life is all about. OK, you have never been a boss man so this is where my logic comes into play. Sometimes you have that stubborn employee that constantly shows up to work late (they are at every work environment). You have supervisors who are all easy going and laid back and never give them a reality check. Just fire them for their laziness. Then you have the supervisor who gets on that ass and straightens them out. Someone who is FIRM and STRONG and wakes them up from their laziness. The employee who never got reality checked will go to his next job and DO THE EXACT SAME SHIT ALL OVER AGAIN. Why? Because nobody taught him to respect himself or his work ethics. Same with raising children.
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Oh now I see. You are bringing you're attitude from work to here. I didn't know the public fourm of dxp was the same place you work. Do you bring work with you every place you go? Like to your friends and family, then treat them like your peons also? That chip on your shoulder seems to be growing.. No worries though. A perfectly strong man who spends his time on the dxp astrology site can manage it lmao!
So you don't have to be troubled in looking. 😉
Posted by Soul
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
Well good for you! Getting out is great isn't it?
I have fun every day just from going to work. I actually love my job. But no, I don't take a vacation every month. That's ok though I'm still thankful for the life I have.
I'm not a boss either lol. I'm flattered of the thought, but my boss is actually a great person. Very kind, wise, and giving.
Living a healthy life is what life is all about. OK, you have never been a boss man so this is where my logic comes into play. Sometimes you have that stubborn employee that constantly shows up to work late (they are at every work environment). You have supervisors who are all easy going and laid back and never give them a reality check. Just fire them for their laziness. Then you have the supervisor who gets on that ass and straightens them out. Someone who is FIRM and STRONG and wakes them up from their laziness. The employee who never got reality checked will go to his next job and DO THE EXACT SAME SHIT ALL OVER AGAIN. Why? Because nobody taught him to respect himself or his work ethics. Same with raising children.
Oh now I see. You are bringing you're attitude from work to here. I didn't know the public fourm of dxp was the same place you work. Do you bring work with you every place you go? Like to your friends and family, then treat them like your peons also? That chip on your shoulder seems to be growing.. No worries though. A perfectly strong man who spends his time on the dxp astrology site can manage it lmao!
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Awwww! Arrogant Leo can't face reality? Dream land of milk and honey? Mutable moon?
You missed the ENTIRE point I was making.
Posted by ellle
mercury pisces is a shitty mercury.
Yes it is. The struggle is real.
Posted by blackphase
Sorry guys, I don't know what got into my yogurt this morning, but I am awful sassy today! 😛
Saturn leaving Scorpio. Returning to your normal Scorpio self. Stingers up!
Posted by Soul
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
Well good for you! Getting out is great isn't it?
I have fun every day just from going to work. I actually love my job. But no, I don't take a vacation every month. That's ok though I'm still thankful for the life I have.
I'm not a boss either lol. I'm flattered of the thought, but my boss is actually a great person. Very kind, wise, and giving.
Living a healthy life is what life is all about. OK, you have never been a boss man so this is where my logic comes into play. Sometimes you have that stubborn employee that constantly shows up to work late (they are at every work environment). You have supervisors who are all easy going and laid back and never give them a reality check. Just fire them for their laziness. Then you have the supervisor who gets on that ass and straightens them out. Someone who is FIRM and STRONG and wakes them up from their laziness. The employee who never got reality checked will go to his next job and DO THE EXACT SAME SHIT ALL OVER AGAIN. Why? Because nobody taught him to respect himself or his work ethics. Same with raising children.
Oh now I see. You are bringing you're attitude from work to here. I didn't know the public fourm of dxp was the same place you work. Do you bring work with you every place you go? Like to your friends and family, then treat them like your peons also? That chip on your shoulder seems to be growing.. No worries though. A perfectly strong man who spends his time on the dxp astrology site can manage it lmao!
Awwww! Arrogant Leo can't face reality? Dream land of milk and honey? Mutable moon?
You missed the ENTIRE point I was making.
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Exactly, but you didn't miss mine. It's right there at the end of what I wrote.
😉
Posted by Soul
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
Well good for you! Getting out is great isn't it?
I have fun every day just from going to work. I actually love my job. But no, I don't take a vacation every month. That's ok though I'm still thankful for the life I have.
I'm not a boss either lol. I'm flattered of the thought, but my boss is actually a great person. Very kind, wise, and giving.
Living a healthy life is what life is all about. OK, you have never been a boss man so this is where my logic comes into play. Sometimes you have that stubborn employee that constantly shows up to work late (they are at every work environment). You have supervisors who are all easy going and laid back and never give them a reality check. Just fire them for their laziness. Then you have the supervisor who gets on that ass and straightens them out. Someone who is FIRM and STRONG and wakes them up from their laziness. The employee who never got reality checked will go to his next job and DO THE EXACT SAME SHIT ALL OVER AGAIN. Why? Because nobody taught him to respect himself or his work ethics. Same with raising children.
Oh now I see. You are bringing you're attitude from work to here. I didn't know the public fourm of dxp was the same place you work. Do you bring work with you every place you go? Like to your friends and family, then treat them like your peons also? That chip on your shoulder seems to be growing.. No worries though. A perfectly strong man who spends his time on the dxp astrology site can manage it lmao!
Awwww! Arrogant Leo can't face reality? Dream land of milk and honey? Mutable moon?
You missed the ENTIRE point I was making.
Exactly, but you didn't miss mine. It's right there at the end of what I wrote.
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The fact that I am on DXP like you? Upset you that you are not correct? Mr Leo is the one with the chip on his shoulder arguing. 😉
Posted by starlover
....and i was just about to send a hot picture of myself to youToo late now Ram
lol
No thanks.
Posted by Rabbit
@RambunctiousWith a Scorpio Moon and Cancer Mars...if rage delete is the worse thing I've done, we should all count ourselves lucky.
Haha, I've got those same placements, and have yet to delete! Proud of myself :3 LOL
I actually have a pool going.
tick....tock....tick.....tock.
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How many times have you deleted Elle?
Posted by Rabbit
@RambunctiousWith a Scorpio Moon and Cancer Mars...if rage delete is the worse thing I've done, we should all count ourselves lucky.
Haha, I've got those same placements, and have yet to delete! Proud of myself :3 LOL
I actually have a pool going.
tick....tock....tick.....tock.
Hahaa, well I am still going strong, don't think I'll be deleting anytime soon 😉
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Leo's and Scorpio will be the first to rage quit. Those huge egos struggle.
I'm on dxp because my chart is mostly feminine all except the sun, and I relate to women better. Lots of people think I'm a female which is funny imo. I do have my girly emotional moments, and say things as woman would probably say. I'm weak sure, but how can one create strength if not for weakness?
Everyone knows I'm nothing special, just another dxp member. I have no problems admitting that, and no reason to hide anything.
Posted by starlover
....and i was just about to send a hot picture of myself to youToo late now Ram
lol
No thanks.
Thank God for that
Aries men
smh
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Quit fucking around and send it then. SMH. Nobody likes a tease or a liar. Either send it or shut up about it.
Posted by Soul
I'm on dxp because my chart is mostly feminine all except the sun, and I relate to women better. Lots of people think I'm a female which is funny imo. I do have my girly emotional moments, and say things as woman would probably say. I'm weak sure, but how can one create strength if not for weakness?Everyone knows I'm nothing special, just another dxp member. I have no problems admitting that, and no reason to hide anything.
you do not have girly moments lol. whatchu talkin bout
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Shhhhh lol
Posted by Rabbit
If i delete it won't be ragey.It will simply to get a new username.
I think I might be getting bored with this one.
Same
Posted by Soul
I'm on dxp because my chart is mostly feminine all except the sun, and I relate to women better. Lots of people think I'm a female which is funny imo. I do have my girly emotional moments, and say things as woman would probably say. I'm weak sure, but how can one create strength if not for weakness?Everyone knows I'm nothing special, just another dxp member. I have no problems admitting that, and no reason to hide anything.
You are not weak at all. Nobody is TRULY weak. They just think they are. You are a fucking Leo, the strongest of the zodiac in my opinion. You are just a normal Leo, most of them are in touch with their feminine side. Thats not a bad thing at all. Thats why women are drawn to them, they understand the women. How can that ever be a bad thing? Now, quit crying and pull your thumb out of your mouth and FUCKING ROAR!
I never sugar coat people. I'll be straight up with them regardless. Honesty works in most cases.
Posted by starlover
....i was, to use your words *fucking around*lol
funny
Very. Hilarious. I can't contain the laughter! Can you hear it from Alabama?
I probably won't rage delete this time though. Just make a new account. I've learned if you're going to say somthing you will regret being written in stone it's best not to say it at all. With that being said please excuse me while I rage delete.
Posted by Soul
I probably won't rage delete this time though. Just make a new account. I've learned if you're going to say somthing you will regret being written in stone it's best not to say it at all. With that being said please excuse me while I rage delete.I am very thankful for the hide button! :3
Don't delete ya little sneak!
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I'm Jk lol.
I will make a new account eventually, but won't delete this one. I have nothing to hide. One of my biggest lessons when I made this account was accepting the past and understanding it can't be changed.
Posted by Rabbit
@RambunctiousWith a Scorpio Moon and Cancer Mars...if rage delete is the worse thing I've done, we should all count ourselves lucky.
Haha, I've got those same placements, and have yet to delete! Proud of myself :3 LOL
I actually have a pool going.
tick....tock....tick.....tock.
How many times have you deleted Elle?
1st time....can't remember my username. I was here for 1 day. I got pummeled on the cap board.....left sobbing. lol
2nd time....LovelyScorp....deleted because i invited my son here and I was too embarrassed and didn't want him to read my (personal) stuff
3rd time....ellessque.....deleted because of a breakup and I was just not feeling like being here during that
4th time....twirlingstrawberry......deleted because the name annoyed me
5th time....e11e.....emotional deleting (had nothing to do with the boards)....thought I needed a time out...now I'm ellle
who knows for how long.
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Hope you stay. You have a good head on your shoulders, I don't need to tell you that though.
Lol!
Hold on, let me go find some random statistic some guy in his parents basement likely wrote up while rolling on molly.
Posted by Koniucha
Someone needs to rage delete this snoozefestShould I post some racist stuff to liven things up?
Go for it, that shit is funny!!
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THE IRISH HAVE THE HIGHEST DOMESTIC ABUSE RATE AND ARE ALCHOKICS!
I HAVE PROOF!
Posted by Soul
It's all about having some tact on how you speak to people. Speak tough to those who are strong minded, and soft to those who are touchy.I think bluntness is a form of weakness. It means you can't control the urge to be tough and seem superior then everyone. Some of the worse and most useless people in life are the ones who are blunt about everything.
LOL. There are weaknesses in the strongest of men. Even the great Achilles had a weakness. I control every word that comes from my mouth. The fact that I am blunt is a choice I make and in no way is a sign of weakness. I do not say rude things out of retaliation or fear of rejection. I say them out of love, that is not weak. Love is the hardest emotion to project, therefore takes the most courage and strength to express. You can say that I am being blunt because I am weak and insecure. You would be wrong.
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nooo ‚‚‚
Posted by Soul
It's all about having some tact on how you speak to people. Speak tough to those who are strong minded, and soft to those who are touchy.I think bluntness is a form of weakness. It means you can't control the urge to be tough and seem superior then everyone. Some of the worse and most useless people in life are the ones who are blunt about everything.
LOL. There are weaknesses in the strongest of men. Even the great Achilles had a weakness. I control every word that comes from my mouth. The fact that I am blunt is a choice I make and in no way is a sign of weakness. I do not say rude things out of retaliation or fear of rejection. I say them out of love, that is not weak. Love is the hardest emotion to project, therefore takes the most courage and strength to express. You can say that I am being blunt because I am weak and insecure. You would be wrong.
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Post one for us Monty
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.
Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Posted by Soul
It's all about having some tact on how you speak to people. Speak tough to those who are strong minded, and soft to those who are touchy.I think bluntness is a form of weakness. It means you can't control the urge to be tough and seem superior then everyone. Some of the worse and most useless people in life are the ones who are blunt about everything.
Yes tact is good, but no bluntness is not a form of weakness. People are just different lol, some are blunt some are not, that has nothing to do with being strong or weak, I don't really see the correlation. Being blunt is needed in certain times just like some people need a softer approach. I guess timing and how you use it is just as important as having tact.
Posted by blackphase
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.You could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Why were you asking me if I had kids? I'm so confused 😢
My bad for assuming it was just to throw it in my face :/
LOL. Always assuming I have ill intent. Every word from my mouth has love behind it, no matter how harsh it may seem.
I asked about children to see if you could understand where I was going with this. You don't so you won't. I wasn't being ugly.
Some people will always associate negative intent to bluntness, IMO.
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yep. Just like people associating feminism to female radicalism.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Yes, of course the delivery will make the person more/less receptive to what is being said, but not telling the truth and letting the person live in a world of delusion is far worse imo. However, I am only blunt to certain individuals, if I am asked my true opinion. This also only happens to people that can handle it-I understand some are sensitive and it come off as negative like soul insinuated.
...Is it just moi,
...or is Soul an awesome DXPer?
Posted by 037
When people need help, it means they usually have some kind of trouble/pain/distress. They don't need an additional dose of harshness or insensitivity to add to that.Unless, you the person dishing the so-called reality, are afraid of humanness yourself.
And also, your advice is not necessarily what they need. Its rather pompous of you to think you have all the answers.
+1
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Why is everyone saying that sugar coating is lying? It is not lying.. it is finding a way to nicely put your words instead of being an asshole.. So tired of hearing everyone calling it lying..
Sugarcoating is a stupid term anyways.. I don't even think most of us are trying to defend "sugarcoating" as much as we are just trying to say don't be a fkn asshole and choose your words a bit more carefully.. it is not deceptive it is simply taking the time to consider the person receiving the msgs' feelings -_-exactly. There are 1,025,110 words in the English language. That's more than enough to phrase something tactfully.
and how many combinations for mercury?
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Posted by Gobshite
Aaaaaah! Sugarcoat it for me...~ WACK! ~
Oh, yeah!
~ WACK! ~
Harder!!!
~ WACK! ~
Are you a fucking pussy or what?! HARDER!!!
~ WACK! ~
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST!!!!!! YESSSSSS!!!!!!
~ WACK! ~
Dude, You just get it
Posted by Happygolucky
To all you people that sugarcoat people. You are worse than the ones asking for help.Problem is, IMO, pure bluntness makes getting your point across to some people in vain.
There goes the words of a wise Aries lady 🙂
Yes it often falls on deaf ears, because the recipient (especially if in a bad place in their lives), will just not listen
Imagine going to a counsellor and them not having a *way with words*....it could have no effect at all your money would just
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One mans trash is another mans treasure.
Posted by Koniucha
So why post on it if it is so dumb?
Stupid is as stupid does. Mockery fail on their part.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Marry me Rocky. You have no idea how much I love your post.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Why is everyone saying that sugar coating is lying? It is not lying.. it is finding a way to nicely put your words instead of being an asshole.. So tired of hearing everyone calling it lying..
Sugarcoating is a stupid term anyways.. I don't even think most of us are trying to defend "sugarcoating" as much as we are just trying to say don't be a fkn asshole and choose your words a bit more carefully.. it is not deceptive it is simply taking the time to consider the person receiving the msgs' feelings -_-exactly. There are 1,025,110 words in the English language. That's more than enough to phrase something tactfully.
and how many combinations for mercury?
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wrong.
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I was being a smartass.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Why is everyone saying that sugar coating is lying? It is not lying.. it is finding a way to nicely put your words instead of being an asshole.. So tired of hearing everyone calling it lying..
Sugarcoating is a stupid term anyways.. I don't even think most of us are trying to defend "sugarcoating" as much as we are just trying to say don't be a fkn asshole and choose your words a bit more carefully.. it is not deceptive it is simply taking the time to consider the person receiving the msgs' feelings -_-exactly. There are 1,025,110 words in the English language. That's more than enough to phrase something tactfully.
and how many combinations for mercury?
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Ahh, now I get it :3
Slowww today 😢
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Saturn in Sag now. Everyone running in slomo mentally. Just accept it.
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