Happygolucky
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Posted by blackphaseYou could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.
Posted by blackphaseLOL. Always assuming I have ill intent. Every word from my mouth has love behind it, no matter how harsh it may seem.Posted by HappygoluckyWhy were you asking me if I had kids? I'm so confused 😢Posted by blackphaseYou could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.
My bad for assuming it was just to throw it in my face :/click to expand
I asked about children to see if you could understand where I was going with this. You don't so you won't. I wasn't being ugly.
Posted by starloverThats just me fucking around and should be taken as such. Seriously? LOL. I wouldn't attempt to connect with a woman here. I don't even like pms. Hidden messagesPosted by HappygoluckyOh rightPosted by starloverI know I do.Posted by HappygoluckyWell you do come across as arrogant.....Posted by blackphaseI'm not "one upping" anyone. Just stating that I have fun and vacation every month. It's a luxury I have worked very hard for and now I am reaping the rewards. ALOT OF FUN.Posted by HappygoluckyVacation does not equal fun for everyone.. Everyone has fun in their own way on different terms.Posted by SoulI bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.
Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
And Soul is supposed to be the Leo here.. Lol.. Why do you feel the need to one up everyone huh?
Also, your arrogance with hitting on women here, isn't too good. Not everyone wants to be told *i bet you are fucking hot, send me a pic*. Is that
your attempt to connect with a woman?
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Posted by Rambunctious76You are still horrible at this. I posted my whole chart for you to see Ram76. Look in the Chart forum.Posted by HappygoluckyHappy, your Mercury is in Aries right?Posted by blackphaseLOL. Always assuming I have ill intent. Every word from my mouth has love behind it, no matter how harsh it may seem.Posted by HappygoluckyWhy were you asking me if I had kids? I'm so confused 😢Posted by blackphaseYou could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.
My bad for assuming it was just to throw it in my face :/
I asked about children to see if you could understand where I was going with this. You don't so you won't. I wasn't being ugly.
And blackphase has a Scorpio moon?
Wrong or right?click to expand
Posted by Rambunctious76DING DING DINGPosted by starloverHe was trolling lol.Posted by HappygoluckyOh rightPosted by starloverI know I do.Posted by HappygoluckyWell you do come across as arrogant.....Posted by blackphaseI'm not "one upping" anyone. Just stating that I have fun and vacation every month. It's a luxury I have worked very hard for and now I am reaping the rewards. ALOT OF FUN.Posted by HappygoluckyVacation does not equal fun for everyone.. Everyone has fun in their own way on different terms.Posted by SoulI bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.
Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
And Soul is supposed to be the Leo here.. Lol.. Why do you feel the need to one up everyone huh?
Also, your arrogance with hitting on women here, isn't too good. Not everyone wants to be told *i bet you are fucking hot, send me a pic*. Is that
your attempt to connect with a woman?
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Posted by febyI'm not saying shes not a sweetheart. I think she is too. She is just young and has not experienced the world as I have.Posted by HappygoluckyThis has to do with the filter and processor that I was talking about before. Her honesty is very sweet and innocent.Posted by blackphaseLOL. Always assuming I have ill intent. Every word from my mouth has love behind it, no matter how harsh it may seem.Posted by HappygoluckyWhy were you asking me if I had kids? I'm so confused 😢Posted by blackphaseYou could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.
My bad for assuming it was just to throw it in my face :/
I asked about children to see if you could understand where I was going with this. You don't so you won't. I wasn't being ugly.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaYou bored too?
Why did everyone troll on here?
Is it a boredom thing?
Posted by HappygoluckyOh now I see. You are bringing you're attitude from work to here. I didn't know the public fourm of dxp was the same place you work. Do you bring work with you every place you go? Like to your friends and family, then treat them like your peons also? That chip on your shoulder seems to be growing.. No worries though. A perfectly strong man who spends his time on the dxp astrology site can manage it lmao!Posted by SoulLiving a healthy life is what life is all about. OK, you have never been a boss man so this is where my logic comes into play. Sometimes you have that stubborn employee that constantly shows up to work late (they are at every work environment). You have supervisors who are all easy going and laid back and never give them a reality check. Just fire them for their laziness. Then you have the supervisor who gets on that ass and straightens them out. Someone who is FIRM and STRONG and wakes them up from their laziness. The employee who never got reality checked will go to his next job and DO THE EXACT SAME SHIT ALL OVER AGAIN. Why? Because nobody taught him to respect himself or his work ethics. Same with raising children.Posted by HappygoluckyWell good for you! Getting out is great isn't it?Posted by SoulI bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.
Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I have fun every day just from going to work. I actually love my job. But no, I don't take a vacation every month. That's ok though I'm still thankful for the life I have.
I'm not a boss either lol. I'm flattered of the thought, but my boss is actually a great person. Very kind, wise, and giving.click to expand
So you don't have to be troubled in looking. 😉
Posted by SoulAwwww! Arrogant Leo can't face reality? Dream land of milk and honey? Mutable moon?Posted by HappygoluckyOh now I see. You are bringing you're attitude from work to here. I didn't know the public fourm of dxp was the same place you work. Do you bring work with you every place you go? Like to your friends and family, then treat them like your peons also? That chip on your shoulder seems to be growing.. No worries though. A perfectly strong man who spends his time on the dxp astrology site can manage it lmao!Posted by SoulLiving a healthy life is what life is all about. OK, you have never been a boss man so this is where my logic comes into play. Sometimes you have that stubborn employee that constantly shows up to work late (they are at every work environment). You have supervisors who are all easy going and laid back and never give them a reality check. Just fire them for their laziness. Then you have the supervisor who gets on that ass and straightens them out. Someone who is FIRM and STRONG and wakes them up from their laziness. The employee who never got reality checked will go to his next job and DO THE EXACT SAME SHIT ALL OVER AGAIN. Why? Because nobody taught him to respect himself or his work ethics. Same with raising children.Posted by HappygoluckyWell good for you! Getting out is great isn't it?Posted by SoulI bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.
Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I have fun every day just from going to work. I actually love my job. But no, I don't take a vacation every month. That's ok though I'm still thankful for the life I have.
I'm not a boss either lol. I'm flattered of the thought, but my boss is actually a great person. Very kind, wise, and giving.click to expand
You missed the ENTIRE point I was making.
Posted by ellleYes it is. The struggle is real.
mercury pisces is a shitty mercury.
Posted by blackphaseSaturn leaving Scorpio. Returning to your normal Scorpio self. Stingers up!
Sorry guys, I don't know what got into my yogurt this morning, but I am awful sassy today! 😛
Posted by HappygoluckyExactly, but you didn't miss mine. It's right there at the end of what I wrote.Posted by SoulAwwww! Arrogant Leo can't face reality? Dream land of milk and honey? Mutable moon?Posted by HappygoluckyOh now I see. You are bringing you're attitude from work to here. I didn't know the public fourm of dxp was the same place you work. Do you bring work with you every place you go? Like to your friends and family, then treat them like your peons also? That chip on your shoulder seems to be growing.. No worries though. A perfectly strong man who spends his time on the dxp astrology site can manage it lmao!Posted by SoulLiving a healthy life is what life is all about. OK, you have never been a boss man so this is where my logic comes into play. Sometimes you have that stubborn employee that constantly shows up to work late (they are at every work environment). You have supervisors who are all easy going and laid back and never give them a reality check. Just fire them for their laziness. Then you have the supervisor who gets on that ass and straightens them out. Someone who is FIRM and STRONG and wakes them up from their laziness. The employee who never got reality checked will go to his next job and DO THE EXACT SAME SHIT ALL OVER AGAIN. Why? Because nobody taught him to respect himself or his work ethics. Same with raising children.Posted by HappygoluckyWell good for you! Getting out is great isn't it?Posted by SoulI bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.
Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I have fun every day just from going to work. I actually love my job. But no, I don't take a vacation every month. That's ok though I'm still thankful for the life I have.
I'm not a boss either lol. I'm flattered of the thought, but my boss is actually a great person. Very kind, wise, and giving.
You missed the ENTIRE point I was making.click to expand
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Posted by SoulThe fact that I am on DXP like you? Upset you that you are not correct? Mr Leo is the one with the chip on his shoulder arguing. 😉Posted by HappygoluckyExactly, but you didn't miss mine. It's right there at the end of what I wrote.Posted by SoulAwwww! Arrogant Leo can't face reality? Dream land of milk and honey? Mutable moon?Posted by HappygoluckyOh now I see. You are bringing you're attitude from work to here. I didn't know the public fourm of dxp was the same place you work. Do you bring work with you every place you go? Like to your friends and family, then treat them like your peons also? That chip on your shoulder seems to be growing.. No worries though. A perfectly strong man who spends his time on the dxp astrology site can manage it lmao!Posted by SoulLiving a healthy life is what life is all about. OK, you have never been a boss man so this is where my logic comes into play. Sometimes you have that stubborn employee that constantly shows up to work late (they are at every work environment). You have supervisors who are all easy going and laid back and never give them a reality check. Just fire them for their laziness. Then you have the supervisor who gets on that ass and straightens them out. Someone who is FIRM and STRONG and wakes them up from their laziness. The employee who never got reality checked will go to his next job and DO THE EXACT SAME SHIT ALL OVER AGAIN. Why? Because nobody taught him to respect himself or his work ethics. Same with raising children.Posted by HappygoluckyWell good for you! Getting out is great isn't it?Posted by SoulI bet I have a lot more fun than you do boss. I vacation every month.
It's not being dumb, it's having fun.
Balance and moderation is key to a good life.
You could use some tips from your opposite.
I have fun every day just from going to work. I actually love my job. But no, I don't take a vacation every month. That's ok though I'm still thankful for the life I have.
I'm not a boss either lol. I'm flattered of the thought, but my boss is actually a great person. Very kind, wise, and giving.
You missed the ENTIRE point I was making.
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Posted by starloverNo thanks.
....and i was just about to send a hot picture of myself to you
Too late now Ram
lol
Posted by ellleHow many times have you deleted Elle?Posted by blackphaseI actually have a pool going.Posted by RabbitHaha, I've got those same placements, and have yet to delete! Proud of myself :3 LOL
@Rambunctious
With a Scorpio Moon and Cancer Mars...if rage delete is the worse thing I've done, we should all count ourselves lucky.
tick....tock....tick.....tock.
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Posted by blackphaseLeo's and Scorpio will be the first to rage quit. Those huge egos struggle.Posted by ellleHahaa, well I am still going strong, don't think I'll be deleting anytime soon 😉Posted by blackphaseI actually have a pool going.Posted by RabbitHaha, I've got those same placements, and have yet to delete! Proud of myself :3 LOL
@Rambunctious
With a Scorpio Moon and Cancer Mars...if rage delete is the worse thing I've done, we should all count ourselves lucky.
tick....tock....tick.....tock.
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I'm on dxp because my chart is mostly feminine all except the sun, and I relate to women better. Lots of people think I'm a female which is funny imo. I do have my girly emotional moments, and say things as woman would probably say. I'm weak sure, but how can one create strength if not for weakness?
Everyone knows I'm nothing special, just another dxp member. I have no problems admitting that, and no reason to hide anything.
Everyone knows I'm nothing special, just another dxp member. I have no problems admitting that, and no reason to hide anything.
Posted by starloverQuit fucking around and send it then. SMH. Nobody likes a tease or a liar. Either send it or shut up about it.Posted by HappygoluckyThank God for thatPosted by starloverNo thanks.
....and i was just about to send a hot picture of myself to you
Too late now Ram
lol
Aries men
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Posted by febyShhhhh lolPosted by Soulyou do not have girly moments lol. whatchu talkin bout
I'm on dxp because my chart is mostly feminine all except the sun, and I relate to women better. Lots of people think I'm a female which is funny imo. I do have my girly emotional moments, and say things as woman would probably say. I'm weak sure, but how can one create strength if not for weakness?
Everyone knows I'm nothing special, just another dxp member. I have no problems admitting that, and no reason to hide anything.click to expand
Posted by RabbitSame
If i delete it won't be ragey.
It will simply to get a new username.
I think I might be getting bored with this one.
Posted by SoulYou are not weak at all. Nobody is TRULY weak. They just think they are. You are a fucking Leo, the strongest of the zodiac in my opinion. You are just a normal Leo, most of them are in touch with their feminine side. Thats not a bad thing at all. Thats why women are drawn to them, they understand the women. How can that ever be a bad thing? Now, quit crying and pull your thumb out of your mouth and FUCKING ROAR!
I'm on dxp because my chart is mostly feminine all except the sun, and I relate to women better. Lots of people think I'm a female which is funny imo. I do have my girly emotional moments, and say things as woman would probably say. I'm weak sure, but how can one create strength if not for weakness?
Everyone knows I'm nothing special, just another dxp member. I have no problems admitting that, and no reason to hide anything.
I never sugar coat people. I'll be straight up with them regardless. Honesty works in most cases.
Posted by starloverVery. Hilarious. I can't contain the laughter! Can you hear it from Alabama?
....i was, to use your words *fucking around*
lol
funny
I probably won't rage delete this time though. Just make a new account. I've learned if you're going to say somthing you will regret being written in stone it's best not to say it at all. With that being said please excuse me while I rage delete.
Posted by blackphaseI'm Jk lol.Posted by SoulI am very thankful for the hide button! :3
I probably won't rage delete this time though. Just make a new account. I've learned if you're going to say somthing you will regret being written in stone it's best not to say it at all. With that being said please excuse me while I rage delete.
Don't delete ya little sneak!click to expand
I will make a new account eventually, but won't delete this one. I have nothing to hide. One of my biggest lessons when I made this account was accepting the past and understanding it can't be changed.
Posted by ellleHope you stay. You have a good head on your shoulders, I don't need to tell you that though.Posted by Happygolucky1st time....can't remember my username. I was here for 1 day. I got pummeled on the cap board.....left sobbing. lolPosted by ellleHow many times have you deleted Elle?Posted by blackphaseI actually have a pool going.Posted by RabbitHaha, I've got those same placements, and have yet to delete! Proud of myself :3 LOL
@Rambunctious
With a Scorpio Moon and Cancer Mars...if rage delete is the worse thing I've done, we should all count ourselves lucky.
tick....tock....tick.....tock.
2nd time....LovelyScorp....deleted because i invited my son here and I was too embarrassed and didn't want him to read my (personal) stuff
3rd time....ellessque.....deleted because of a breakup and I was just not feeling like being here during that
4th time....twirlingstrawberry......deleted because the name annoyed me
5th time....e11e.....emotional deleting (had nothing to do with the boards)....thought I needed a time out
...now I'm ellle
who knows for how long.click to expand
Lol!
Hold on, let me go find some random statistic some guy in his parents basement likely wrote up while rolling on molly.
Hold on, let me go find some random statistic some guy in his parents basement likely wrote up while rolling on molly.
Posted by dontgetmewrongPosted by RabbitPosted by KoniuchaShould I post some racist stuff to liven things up?
Someone needs to rage delete this snoozefest
Go for it, that shit is funny!!click to expand
THE IRISH HAVE THE HIGHEST DOMESTIC ABUSE RATE AND ARE ALCHOKICS!
I HAVE PROOF!
I HAVE PROOF!
Posted by HappygoluckyPosted by SoulLOL. There are weaknesses in the strongest of men. Even the great Achilles had a weakness. I control every word that comes from my mouth. The fact that I am blunt is a choice I make and in no way is a sign of weakness. I do not say rude things out of retaliation or fear of rejection. I say them out of love, that is not weak. Love is the hardest emotion to project, therefore takes the most courage and strength to express. You can say that I am being blunt because I am weak and insecure. You would be wrong.
It's all about having some tact on how you speak to people. Speak tough to those who are strong minded, and soft to those who are touchy.
I think bluntness is a form of weakness. It means you can't control the urge to be tough and seem superior then everyone. Some of the worse and most useless people in life are the ones who are blunt about everything.
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Posted by MontgomeryPosted by HappygoluckyPosted by SoulLOL. There are weaknesses in the strongest of men. Even the great Achilles had a weakness. I control every word that comes from my mouth. The fact that I am blunt is a choice I make and in no way is a sign of weakness. I do not say rude things out of retaliation or fear of rejection. I say them out of love, that is not weak. Love is the hardest emotion to project, therefore takes the most courage and strength to express. You can say that I am being blunt because I am weak and insecure. You would be wrong.
It's all about having some tact on how you speak to people. Speak tough to those who are strong minded, and soft to those who are touchy.
I think bluntness is a form of weakness. It means you can't control the urge to be tough and seem superior then everyone. Some of the worse and most useless people in life are the ones who are blunt about everything.
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Post one for us Monty
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.
Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Posted by Soul
It's all about having some tact on how you speak to people. Speak tough to those who are strong minded, and soft to those who are touchy.
I think bluntness is a form of weakness. It means you can't control the urge to be tough and seem superior then everyone. Some of the worse and most useless people in life are the ones who are blunt about everything.
Yes tact is good, but no bluntness is not a form of weakness. People are just different lol, some are blunt some are not, that has nothing to do with being strong or weak, I don't really see the correlation. Being blunt is needed in certain times just like some people need a softer approach. I guess timing and how you use it is just as important as having tact.
Posted by champrangerPosted by HappygoluckySome people will always associate negative intent to bluntness, IMO.Posted by blackphaseLOL. Always assuming I have ill intent. Every word from my mouth has love behind it, no matter how harsh it may seem.Posted by HappygoluckyWhy were you asking me if I had kids? I'm so confused 😢Posted by blackphaseYou could be a wonderful mother. Balance is key to raising children. You can do it.
Nope, no kids, never will I have any. And I know a "thank fuck for that" is coming.. but my choice to not have them is because I would actually put all of my effort into it, it would take every ounce of my energy to raise a child right, most people half ass it and that just doesn't cut it for me. And right now I have too many places to put my energy to even think about children. And this world is not suited for me to feel comfortable enough to bring another being into it. It's a fkn mess. I would NEVER curse a child with this life.
My bad for assuming it was just to throw it in my face :/
I asked about children to see if you could understand where I was going with this. You don't so you won't. I wasn't being ugly.click to expand
yep. Just like people associating feminism to female radicalism.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.
Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Yes, of course the delivery will make the person more/less receptive to what is being said, but not telling the truth and letting the person live in a world of delusion is far worse imo. However, I am only blunt to certain individuals, if I am asked my true opinion. This also only happens to people that can handle it-I understand some are sensitive and it come off as negative like soul insinuated.
...Is it just moi,
...or is Soul an awesome DXPer?
...or is Soul an awesome DXPer?
Posted by 037
When people need help, it means they usually have some kind of trouble/pain/distress. They don't need an additional dose of harshness or insensitivity to add to that.
Unless, you the person dishing the so-called reality, are afraid of humanness yourself.
And also, your advice is not necessarily what they need. Its rather pompous of you to think you have all the answers.
+1
Posted by ellle1,728Posted by munchykinand how many combinations for mercury?Posted by blackphaseexactly. There are 1,025,110 words in the English language. That's more than enough to phrase something tactfully.Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhy is everyone saying that sugar coating is lying? It is not lying.. it is finding a way to nicely put your words instead of being an asshole.. So tired of hearing everyone calling it lying..
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.
Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Sugarcoating is a stupid term anyways.. I don't even think most of us are trying to defend "sugarcoating" as much as we are just trying to say don't be a fkn asshole and choose your words a bit more carefully.. it is not deceptive it is simply taking the time to consider the person receiving the msgs' feelings -_-click to expand
Posted by GobshiteDude, You just get it
Aaaaaah! Sugarcoat it for me...
~ WACK! ~
Oh, yeah!
~ WACK! ~
Harder!!!
~ WACK! ~
Are you a fucking pussy or what?! HARDER!!!
~ WACK! ~
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST!!!!!! YESSSSSS!!!!!!
~ WACK! ~
Posted by starloverOne mans trash is another mans treasure.Posted by champrangerThere goes the words of a wise Aries lady 🙂Posted by HappygoluckyProblem is, IMO, pure bluntness makes getting your point across to some people in vain.
To all you people that sugarcoat people. You are worse than the ones asking for help.
Yes it often falls on deaf ears, because the recipient (especially if in a bad place in their lives), will just not listen
Imagine going to a counsellor and them not having a *way with words*....it could have no effect at all your money would just
slip through the drain
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Posted by KoniuchaStupid is as stupid does. Mockery fail on their part.
So why post on it if it is so dumb?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamMarry me Rocky. You have no idea how much I love your post.
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.
Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Posted by ellleI was being a smartass.Posted by Happygoluckywrong.Posted by ellle1,728Posted by munchykinand how many combinations for mercury?Posted by blackphaseexactly. There are 1,025,110 words in the English language. That's more than enough to phrase something tactfully.Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhy is everyone saying that sugar coating is lying? It is not lying.. it is finding a way to nicely put your words instead of being an asshole.. So tired of hearing everyone calling it lying..
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.
Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Sugarcoating is a stupid term anyways.. I don't even think most of us are trying to defend "sugarcoating" as much as we are just trying to say don't be a fkn asshole and choose your words a bit more carefully.. it is not deceptive it is simply taking the time to consider the person receiving the msgs' feelings -_-click to expand
Posted by blackphaseSaturn in Sag now. Everyone running in slomo mentally. Just accept it.Posted by HappygoluckyAhh, now I get it :3Posted by ellle1,728Posted by munchykinand how many combinations for mercury?Posted by blackphaseexactly. There are 1,025,110 words in the English language. That's more than enough to phrase something tactfully.Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhy is everyone saying that sugar coating is lying? It is not lying.. it is finding a way to nicely put your words instead of being an asshole.. So tired of hearing everyone calling it lying..
Sugarcoating is an asshole move.
Delivery is key, yes, but flat out lying to preserve feelings when someone needs the reality of the situation- asshole move.
I don't trust people who sugarcoat, tbh. They tend to take that false approach in all areas of life.
Sugarcoating is a stupid term anyways.. I don't even think most of us are trying to defend "sugarcoating" as much as we are just trying to say don't be a fkn asshole and choose your words a bit more carefully.. it is not deceptive it is simply taking the time to consider the person receiving the msgs' feelings -_-
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT7pJbfB_dI This video is funny in the sad way. These are supposed to be professionals, correct?
What made you originally join dxp?
I posted that bitches fat shaming video a while ago and since then there's been recoil from the fatties and the skinnies http://youtu.be/r2YYZBrPwwU
https://instagram.com/byefelipe/ ....— I already knew it was pretty bad, but the evidence is even more depressing. Those of you who are notoriously in denial of how fucking retarded many guys really are in dating, HERE YOU GO. Has fun. It's sti
You and your husband have an argument and he stays with a friend for a few weeks. You mutually agree to take a break for a month to sort your feelings out and get back on track. During this time you go out and play (fuck). You end up pregnant or getting s
Fire-Leo Water-Pisces..especially the men! Air-libra Earth-Capricorn (they love porn) what do you think
It's easy to state your dislikes, but it takes a bit more effort to say your likes. So what do you like about each of the 12 signs? If you can, come from the heart.
Some skinny bitch posted this in facebook http://youtu.be/CXFgNhyP4-A It's a funny video about a chick having a go at fat people. I just found out that I'm obese and it really surprised me lol I'm 6ft 3 and I'm 120 kg so pretty much when I step on t
I am on my fourth month in a six-month bar review period I am preparing for the bar exams. As some of you may know, particularly starlover, I have been on the edge of quitting from law school so many times when I was still there. I already have Ll.B. at t
Life is going to seem a whole lot longer than you'd like." Name the movie game anyone? :) No need to wait until someone answers this one. Post your favorite movie quotes! One rule: No Google cheating!
How come Miss Maryland not only lost but also ranked 4th runner up? I thought she would have won the pageant. I mean, she's the prettiest and most unique among the contestants, and also gave the most decent answers. What happened?
So whatever generation these young people are, Sag, Aqua or Scorp, and no matter if it is based on some kind of feminism, capitalism, naturalism etc., it seems more and more young women start their love career with FWB. Thank to Holleywood. Friends wit
What are some of the best outstanding movie performances you've seen?
Honesty or loyalty? If you could only chose one, which would you prefer in a person? This question is hard for some people to answer, easy for others. Would you pick a loyal person who is willing to stick beside you no matter the situation, and
-222 years out of 239 years - since 1776..meaning we've only had 17 years of peace..lol fact: as long as we continue to fund our military with over 600 billion dollars annually, then we will ALWAYS start and/or get involved in war with someone,period..