Tactfulness is censorship though, no? I'd rather hear it exactly the way you feel it. That way at least I know where to file it.
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Posted by blackphaseNot false picture, But if that's how you feel then be a dick about it is what I'm saying. Tactfulness is for strangers on a train. We can go back and correct later if necessery but I want to hear the raw material first.Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by munchykinTactfulness is censorship though, no? I'd rather hear it exactly the way you feel it. That way at least I know where to file it.
There are 1,025,110 words in the English language. That's more than enough to phrase something tactfully.
[...] No one here is saying that painting a false picture to protect feelings is a good thing.. we are saying don't be a fkn dick about it..click to expand
Posted by ellleAs a lot of folks are to me. It all comes down to our ability to be receptive to words of wisdom. Boils down to egoism. Thats just the brass tax of it. Say what you want. Being sensitive to someone is just catering to their ego. Just like you can't call a Leo out on bullshit. Their wittle egos get all huffy puffy and they wanna fight.
......like our aries friend here.
Posted by ellleThats BS if I've ever seen it. I can be sweet if I want or need to be. I can even fake it if needed.
bottom line.....
those who sugarcoat cannot *not* sugarcoat.
those who are blunt cannot *not* be blunt.
so, no need in bitching about it.
Posted by ellleI'm assuming you have children? Think about it. I am not gonna call my daughter stupid if she breaks her leg doing something stupid. I'm gonna say it in a nice tone and still get the point across. HOWEVER, she is grown now and yes, I tell her like it is now. Just like here. You know what? She don't do that stupid shit anymore. Why? Because I was FIRM with my words and didn't sugarcoat stuff with her. I've seen people complain about their kids REPEATEDLY doing stupid shit, they never really get onto their kids either.Posted by Happygoluckythan you are the worse offender because you force yourself to be something you are not in order to appease others.Posted by ellleThats BS if I've ever seen it. I can be sweet if I want or need to be. I can even fake it if needed.
bottom line.....
those who sugarcoat cannot *not* sugarcoat.
those who are blunt cannot *not* be blunt.
so, no need in bitching about it.
because *you* do this......(and it doesn't come naturally)
then you just assume everyone else is the same.
that's really not the case.click to expand
Posted by blackphaseThere is a hint of love in everything I do and say.Posted by HappygoluckyIt's true.. I've seen your nicer side. 😛Posted by ellleThats BS if I've ever seen it. I can be sweet if I want or need to be. I can even fake it if needed.
bottom line.....
those who sugarcoat cannot *not* sugarcoat.
those who are blunt cannot *not* be blunt.
so, no need in bitching about it.
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Posted by ellleFigured.
your example with your daughter is stupid and doesn't even make any sense. *shrugs*
Posted by ellleAre you serious? You must get ignored if you have kids. My daughter asks me for advice constantly. I am a Father, not a dad.
she doesn't do that stupid shit anymore because she's a grown person and can figure it out on her own. you are just background noise now.
Posted by ellleLOL. Black and white. Fixed signs can't see the difference.
*barking orders
Posted by wecarealotIsn't this 100% the case? We tell the truth as we see it, otherwise its just flat out lying. What I hate is people claiming to tell the truth and they omit shit.
I don't have time to read through all the posts in this thread, but the one thing I've found funny about people who claim to be "brutally honest" is that they're only brutally honest about what THEY consider to be the truth. Which is fine, I guess, but you rarely catch them admitting to this. When people say, "I'm brutally honest; I'll you the truth," what I hear is, "I don't give a fuck about your feelings, and I'll always tell you the truth AS I SEE IT." I'm not saying that attitude is always wrong--no one is obligated to care about my feelings anymore than I'm obligated to care about theirs--but I'd have way more respect for a ~brutally honest~ person who was brutally honest with themselves about this.
Posted by starloverLOL. The simple fact she made the same assumption went right past you. Get out of defense mode and look at shit equally.Posted by HappygoluckySo have you met Elle's kids then and spoken to them??Posted by ellleAre you serious? You must get ignored if you have kids. My daughter asks me for advice constantly. I am a Father, not a dad.
she doesn't do that stupid shit anymore because she's a grown person and can figure it out on her own. you are just background noise now.
*you must get ignored by your kids*
What a very arrogant and foolish assumptionclick to expand
You just made my whole topic for me. I WAS MORE BLUNT AND YOU SAW IT CLEAR. Elle said the same thing I did but in a "nicer" way and it never even hit home for you. OPEN YOUR EYES AND EARS!
Background noise = Ignored.
Posted by starloverThank you for voicing your ignorance.Posted by HappygoluckySo have you met Elle's kids then and spoken to them??Posted by ellleAre you serious? You must get ignored if you have kids. My daughter asks me for advice constantly. I am a Father, not a dad.
she doesn't do that stupid shit anymore because she's a grown person and can figure it out on her own. you are just background noise now.
*you must get ignored by your kids*
What a very arrogant and foolish assumptionclick to expand
Posted by ellleLOL at your Scorpio deflection. I'm waiting for a double standard to appear.Posted by Happygoluckyyour libra moon is showing.
look at shit equally.
you should tuck that back in. looks messy.click to expand
Posted by bmoon8She said my daughter ignores me. I am "background noise". But, she "sugarcoated" it.Posted by Happygolucky"LOL"Posted by starloverLOL. The simple fact she made the same assumption went right past you. Get out of defense mode and look at shit equally.Posted by HappygoluckySo have you met Elle's kids then and spoken to them??Posted by ellleAre you serious? You must get ignored if you have kids. My daughter asks me for advice constantly. I am a Father, not a dad.
she doesn't do that stupid shit anymore because she's a grown person and can figure it out on her own. you are just background noise now.
*you must get ignored by your kids*
What a very arrogant and foolish assumption
You just made my whole topic for me. I WAS MORE BLUNT AND YOU SAW IT CLEAR. Elle said the same thing I did but in a "nicer" way and it never even hit home for you. OPEN YOUR EYES AND EARS!
Nothing funny about it.
Like Elle said... people think, process, and communicate in different ways that are not the same way as you do.
I have no idea what you are talking about....
"Elle said the same thing I did but in a "nicer" way and it never even hit home for you. OPEN YOUR EYES AND EARS!"
So Elle said her kids ignore her? Where did she say that?
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Posted by bmoon8You're right. Its beyond LOL. It's fucking HILARIOUS!Posted by Happygolucky"LOL"Posted by starloverLOL. The simple fact she made the same assumption went right past you. Get out of defense mode and look at shit equally.Posted by HappygoluckySo have you met Elle's kids then and spoken to them??Posted by ellleAre you serious? You must get ignored if you have kids. My daughter asks me for advice constantly. I am a Father, not a dad.
she doesn't do that stupid shit anymore because she's a grown person and can figure it out on her own. you are just background noise now.
*you must get ignored by your kids*
What a very arrogant and foolish assumption
You just made my whole topic for me. I WAS MORE BLUNT AND YOU SAW IT CLEAR. Elle said the same thing I did but in a "nicer" way and it never even hit home for you. OPEN YOUR EYES AND EARS!
Nothing funny about it.
Like Elle said... people think, process, and communicate in different ways that are not the same way as you do.
I have no idea what you are talking about....
"Elle said the same thing I did but in a "nicer" way and it never even hit home for you. OPEN YOUR EYES AND EARS!"
So Elle said her kids ignore her? Where did she say that?
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Posted by ellleYour delivery was "nicer" and made zero impact. Mine was bluntly said and look at the REACTION. Point proven. Thanks Scorpio ladies.
Elle said the same thing I did but in a "nicer" way
^^^^^ this shit cracks me up because I was making a genuine attempt to be rude and obnoxious.
and you took it as "nicer"....being the aries you are.
however.....50% of the rest of the board probably thought I was being a bitch.
I knew full and well you were attempting to be a bitch.
Posted by bmoon8Seriously? She's a Scorpio, it was all "sugarcoated". Don't be a fag.Posted by HappygoluckyWow.Posted by bmoon8She said my daughter ignores me. I am "background noise". But, she "sugarcoated" it.Posted by Happygolucky"LOL"Posted by starloverLOL. The simple fact she made the same assumption went right past you. Get out of defense mode and look at shit equally.Posted by HappygoluckySo have you met Elle's kids then and spoken to them??Posted by ellleAre you serious? You must get ignored if you have kids. My daughter asks me for advice constantly. I am a Father, not a dad.
she doesn't do that stupid shit anymore because she's a grown person and can figure it out on her own. you are just background noise now.
*you must get ignored by your kids*
What a very arrogant and foolish assumption
You just made my whole topic for me. I WAS MORE BLUNT AND YOU SAW IT CLEAR. Elle said the same thing I did but in a "nicer" way and it never even hit home for you. OPEN YOUR EYES AND EARS!
Nothing funny about it.
Like Elle said... people think, process, and communicate in different ways that are not the same way as you do.
I have no idea what you are talking about....
"Elle said the same thing I did but in a "nicer" way and it never even hit home for you. OPEN YOUR EYES AND EARS!"
So Elle said her kids ignore her? Where did she say that?
She didn't sugar coat anything.click to expand
Posted by elllePosted by Happygoluckyhttp://i59.tinypic.com/2z4iqt2.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expandPosted by ellleLOL at your Scorpio deflection. I'm waiting for a double standard to appear.Posted by Happygoluckyyour libra moon is showing.
look at shit equally.
you should tuck that back in. looks messy.
Zero ownership. Deflection at its finest with a funny GIF.
Posted by wecarealot
I don't have time to read through all the posts in this thread, but the one thing I've found funny about people who claim to be "brutally honest" is that they're only brutally honest about what THEY consider to be the truth. Which is fine, I guess, but you rarely catch them admitting to this. When people say, "I'm brutally honest; I'll you the truth," what I hear is, "I don't give a fuck about your feelings, and I'll always tell you the truth AS I SEE IT." I'm not saying that attitude is always wrong--no one is obligated to care about my feelings anymore than I'm obligated to care about theirs--but I'd have way more respect for a ~brutally honest~ person who was brutally honest with themselves about this.
+1
Posted by Rabbit
BA-NA-NAAAAAA
LOOL
Posted by bmoon8I didn't know you were a lady. I apologize. It was more of a wake up and smell the coffee than anything.
Oh happy, I am sure you "fag" comment came from a place of love.... being that I am female and all. Ha.
Posted by ellleThat was playing? You accomplished nothing besides showing your ass and now, running because you got caught. Scorps can't own up to anything. You should be embarrassed.
besides the fag comment.....you were fun to play with!
Posted by ellleNext time you do, come back with Ms. Deflection.
2/3 of your five personal planets are venusian...
......the very first time you rage delete and come back......you should change your username to "yes,dear"
Posted by ellleIt was a balloon, full of air. Never even crossed home plate. Come on Scorpio, I expected better from you.Posted by Happygoluckynext time come back with a catcher's mit so you can actually catch the ball when I throw it.Posted by ellleNext time you do, come back with Ms. Deflection.
2/3 of your five personal planets are venusian...
......the very first time you rage delete and come back......you should change your username to "yes,dear"click to expand
You validated this whole thread by yourself, and you know you did. Can't stand up and say it? Too much pride?
Posted by ellle😉. I'll leave you be. Have a great day Scorpio. Happy stinging the weaker souls!Posted by Happygoluckyeven worse.....Posted by ellleIt was a balloon, full of air. Never even crossed home plate. Come on Scorpio, I expected better from you.Posted by Happygoluckynext time come back with a catcher's mit so you can actually catch the ball when I throw it.Posted by ellleNext time you do, come back with Ms. Deflection.
2/3 of your five personal planets are venusian...
......the very first time you rage delete and come back......you should change your username to "yes,dear"
*sag merc visuals of happy trying to catch a balloon full of hot air*
😄click to expand
Posted by blackphaseIf you honestly think she stung me then you are just showing support or just dont see anything except the bluntness. Either way, you are incorrect.Posted by HappygoluckySo far I only see her stinging you.. Thought you weren't weak? That is the rest of us remember??Posted by ellle😉. I'll leave you be. Have a great day Scorpio. Happy stinging the weaker souls!Posted by Happygoluckyeven worse.....Posted by ellleIt was a balloon, full of air. Never even crossed home plate. Come on Scorpio, I expected better from you.Posted by Happygoluckynext time come back with a catcher's mit so you can actually catch the ball when I throw it.Posted by ellleNext time you do, come back with Ms. Deflection.
2/3 of your five personal planets are venusian...
......the very first time you rage delete and come back......you should change your username to "yes,dear"
*sag merc visuals of happy trying to catch a balloon full of hot air*
😄click to expand
Posted by ellleSag merc....have fun being delusional riding unicorns and shitting rainbows. 😉Posted by Happygoluckyeven worse.....Posted by ellleIt was a balloon, full of air. Never even crossed home plate. Come on Scorpio, I expected better from you.Posted by Happygoluckynext time come back with a catcher's mit so you can actually catch the ball when I throw it.Posted by ellleNext time you do, come back with Ms. Deflection.
2/3 of your five personal planets are venusian...
......the very first time you rage delete and come back......you should change your username to "yes,dear"
*sag merc visuals of happy trying to catch a balloon full of hot air*
😄click to expand
Posted by ellleI enjoyed the banter. Can't change a fixed signs mind. 😉
I still stand on my initial contribution on mercury signs and configurations.....you won't get me to change my mind.
and because of *that*......I'm not stinging anybody....I'm just having a little fun. 🙂
Posted by ellleWith your words dear. Sugarcoating everything with rainbows and unicorns.Posted by Happygoluckyget your placements straight....that's my neptune in the 1st house.Posted by ellleSag merc....have fun being delusional riding unicorns and shitting rainbows. 😉Posted by Happygoluckyeven worse.....Posted by ellleIt was a balloon, full of air. Never even crossed home plate. Come on Scorpio, I expected better from you.Posted by Happygoluckynext time come back with a catcher's mit so you can actually catch the ball when I throw it.Posted by ellleNext time you do, come back with Ms. Deflection.
2/3 of your five personal planets are venusian...
......the very first time you rage delete and come back......you should change your username to "yes,dear"
*sag merc visuals of happy trying to catch a balloon full of hot air*
😄click to expand
Posted by blackphaseI didn't expect you to catch that reference. It was for Elle and she got it.
I haven't even seen all that she has said to you.. Seemed you were implying that because she isn't speaking toward anyone but you.. and she is very tactful in the way she speaks to most of us. I don't think she is out to sting the weaker souls at all.
Posted by ellle*fist bump* *blow it up like 4th of July* *nods in awe*Posted by Happygolucky+1Posted by ellleI enjoyed the banter. Can't change a fixed signs mind. 😉
I still stand on my initial contribution on mercury signs and configurations.....you won't get me to change my mind.
and because of *that*......I'm not stinging anybody....I'm just having a little fun. 🙂
*shakes hand*click to expand
/dead
Posted by champrangerHAHA. You're a cute ram!Posted by HappygoluckyWe tell honest opinion as we see it.Posted by wecarealotIsn't this 100% the case? We tell the truth as we see it, otherwise its just flat out lying. What I hate is people claiming to tell the truth and they omit shit.
I don't have time to read through all the posts in this thread, but the one thing I've found funny about people who claim to be "brutally honest" is that they're only brutally honest about what THEY consider to be the truth. Which is fine, I guess, but you rarely catch them admitting to this. When people say, "I'm brutally honest; I'll you the truth," what I hear is, "I don't give a fuck about your feelings, and I'll always tell you the truth AS I SEE IT." I'm not saying that attitude is always wrong--no one is obligated to care about my feelings anymore than I'm obligated to care about theirs--but I'd have way more respect for a ~brutally honest~ person who was brutally honest with themselves about this.click to expand
Posted by laFilleLOL that's awesome
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