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Posted by P_Ands
i'm her for you rocky...btw may i please see your boobs?
Not into bestiality. Sorry.
"how I mentally raped you"
had bad teachers?
Or lost all the good hopes? You sabotage it cause you know you have no chance.
Posted by renutzu
I don't blame the last guy for getting mad. Quality of the goods need to be seen before being taken for a ride.
So declining makes her a bitch. Wow...you do know that hating women and children is not a new trend, right? Women have been hated for centuries. I'll be glad when society finds something healthy and new to do. Smh
Posted by Nemilicious
Posted by Fox
When these men talk to women like that, do they actually think it will work? or has it been working with some. I don't get it.
i reckon every pot has a lid out there somewhere .....
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Lmao...however cracked or warped it may be
Posted by Rabbit
Like DJ said....it's a numbers game.You ask 10 women for tits pics and you get 1 response you're winning.
There's enough women out there that DO respond to this kind of shit to make it worth these guy's time.
Maybe we should be calling out those women along with the guys.
I agree with this.
also because of the possible catfishing we should call out 5% instead of 10% .
Speakin of TLC
Posted by Rabbit
Like DJ said....it's a numbers game.You ask 10 women for tits pics and you get 1 response you're winning.
There's enough women out there that DO respond to this kind of shit to make it worth these guy's time.
Maybe we should be calling out those women along with the guys.
I have to disagree Rabbit. Just because prostitutes wear short skirts doesn't mean that every woman who wears a short skirt wants sex. It's relevant to expectations in the reverse. So, you're saying that a woman who isn't reserved is responsible for contributing the a mentally unhealthy pradigm in grown men. Not true. People don't respect people, because as adults we don't appreciate differences in people's behaviors. Especially when it comes to women. Guys can be filthy or clean, reserved or expressive and yet other guys still respect them. This thread shows just how far we've yet to come in gender equality. Not yo mean treated the same, but respected the same. We need to be able to take accountability for our oen thoughts, beliefs, and actions without assigning blame to others.
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This one happens on dxp too.
A: ... polite ...
B: fckg... stupid... b1tch... retard ... nasty ... catlady ... feminist .... ugly ... fat....
Posted by renutzu
I don't blame the last guy for getting mad. Quality of the goods need to be seen before being taken for a ride.
Why do you think he's entitled to see her boobs just because he's talking to her online?
Posted by Fox
It's frustrating because now you have men who know there are women who would respond the way they want them to and because of that, a lot of women are harassed online. I've found it can happen with men when they call out to women on the street too - they end up harassed, or verbally abused when they don't get the reaction they want.
Same can be said for men though, must be frustrating to be associated with such pig-like behavior. I get frustrated when girls/women from my generation are constantly put down before we've even lived our lives yet.
I'm sure there may be women out there who do, but I think a lot of this has to do with the entitlement that men have toward women since we're dominantly a patriarchal society. These dudes have been raised with the mindset that if they just simply talk to a woman (doesn't matter what they say or do) they will get what they want. After all, they put out SOME effort here.
Also, it's one on one via the internet. That screen basically gets rid of all societal constructs when it comes to decency, as well as having to look at the woman as an individual and moreso like an object than they normally would.
"You're here, you obviously want male attention, I'm gracing you with my time and presence. Appreciate it. If you don't give me what I want for giving you minimal effort, you're a bitch."
It's almost as if it's the equivalent of "well she was dressed provocatively. She was asking for it."
I'm sure some of these guys are also speaking out opposite to what they really are irl- expressing the aggression that they feel whenever they're rejected and friend zoned because they act like total fools.
Ego is an amazing thing.
Posted by Rabbit
Like DJ said....it's a numbers game.You ask 10 women for tits pics and you get 1 response you're winning.
There's enough women out there that DO respond to this kind of shit to make it worth these guy's time.
Maybe we should be calling out those women along with the guys.
+1
Maybe she got her tits did up and wants to show them off? Some lucky bastard is gonna get to see them.
Posted by Gooober
Posted by Rabbit
Like DJ said....it's a numbers game.You ask 10 women for tits pics and you get 1 response you're winning.
There's enough women out there that DO respond to this kind of shit to make it worth these guy's time.
Maybe we should be calling out those women along with the guys.
+1
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Their boobs better shine like gold and spray milk of immortality for me to go out of my way asking random chicks for tit pics when there is a perfectly hassle free porn site a few clicks away.
I've probably alreafy seen her nude pics there already anyway.
Posted by renutzu
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by renutzu
I don't blame the last guy for getting mad. Quality of the goods need to be seen before being taken for a ride.
Why do you think he's entitled to see her boobs just because he's talking to her online?
For the same reason a woman wants to see a guy's schlong before a hookup, but doesn't have the guts to say it.
No one likes little surprises.
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You're fucking stupid, I'm sorry.
Most women don't go around doing things like guys do. That's where guys are so incredibly stupid. "Hur, I like to see bewbs, so I'll show her my dick since seeing stuff gets ME off. SHE surely will enjoy that!"
Newsflash, most women don't require seeing a dude's dick before a hookup. You live in an alternate reality, troll child.
Dahell is wrong with people?
It's hilarious that so many of these guys equate dick size and money/status in THE things that gets a girl interested.
...then they turn around and bitch about how women are gold diggers. ...because all they attract are gold diggers because they use their finances to get attention- the wrong kind haha.
Utterly amazing to see.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
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This one happens on dxp too.A: ... polite ...
B: fckg... stupid... b1tch... retard ... nasty ... catlady ... feminist .... ugly ... fat....click to expand
Fresh example:
A: Even threads on Astrology board about terrorists, Stalin and Hitler are commented with cooler heads than in this one.
B: And to the idiot who compared me and the other poster to Hitler and Stalin... step into my Lovely shower and I'll dry you off in the oven 😄
They function effortless. need not even to fulfill the logic of "x to y is like w to z". 😉
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Dahell is wrong with people?
I think it's a disservice to judge a person's personality, tastes, or inclinations based on the shirt he/she wears and presume what we believe to be fact. Just because he wears a shirt that has the word "RAPE" on it doesn't make certain he will commit to it. The peace sign and big smile on his face seem to contradict the chaos "RAPE" implies. Of course, I don't mean to imply that I know anything about his character. I just mean to question how we can know for certain how he feels about women and rape simply because he chose to wear an article of clothing that, at the end of they day, will probably be taken off and someday be thrown away as garbage? Perhaps he bought and wore the shirt simply because he thought it was funny that Rape was used instead of something more widely enjoyed like, "Smoke Weed".
The only fact here is that we know nothing of importance about him and I find you taking his shirt seriously offensive (all of this really) a clear sign of weak logical thought. I'm not saying it isn't right. You are very much entitled to take offense to this all. I'm just saying that it's all weak and based entirely on emotion.
I read of one incident last year in which a Rosetta mission physicist responsible for landing the rocket on a comet, Dr. Matt Taylor, was bullied to tears and felt forced to make a public apology by feminists and social justice warriors because he wore a shirt that featured women in lingerie posing in various positions at a press interview. I found this ordeal even more grating when I learned that the shirt was a gift from a woman who made it! So it seems that the only thing these bullies on their high horses succeeded at was making women look weak and petty especially when they can look at Kim Kardashian willfully objectifying herself on a magazine cover and applaud her.
And this is what you're doing with this thread. You weaken the foundation of what you supposedly stand for when you and anyone who thinks like you get all offended about shit boys think they're entitled to because of "the patriarchy". You and so many other feminists like you have have been so blinded by your fascination with the patriarchy that many of you have utterly and consistently failed to realize the only things that actually need to change. But too many of you have been attempting to pursue the wrong targets all this time, constantly betraying the morals you preach, leaving behind such quiet wounds that continue to bleed this very moment due to your hypocracy.
If you had stopped to truly understand. To contrast rather than to adhere to your box of oppresive beliefs and ideology then you would've realized the answer for yourselves.
It's not men with such large egos who have done you wrong that need to be blamed or pursued. If he has committed an unlawful crime then he will account for his actions. But you will always fail if you try to forcibly change a man and will only manage to lay on yourself undue pain and frustration. He will change on his own terms and on his own time. Not by you or anyone else. If you believe yourself to be a strong woman then a strange man calling you a slut because of what you're wearing should have no effect on you because you know that what he thinks of you actually has nothing to do with you. You know exactly who you are and you are strong.
It's not the patriarchy looming over your heads that needs to be teared down. It is not a physical presence that can be broken as simply as concrete. It is merely a grand illusion created and accepted by those who need something to blame—to cast their troubles upon. As well as their accountability.
It's not society that you need to try and reform. When we speak of Society we aren't actually referencing a people. It is only just a tool to describe the resulting culmination of like minded thoughts, ideas, beliefs, and prejudices gathered over a town, city, state, nation, continent. The world. And it'll only change when we all change. And "we all" is too large a scale for a purpose with a direct opposition to successfully tackle. The opposition will always be there to repel it just as I am now.
Whatever opposition you face(d) never was or will be the true target you should be pointing at.
What you can only and surely change is you—all feminists in denial who are feeling offended by my words. You call yourselves feminists not because you're oppressed but because you know deep down that you are simply weak and afraid.
The very idea of Feminism gives you strength.
It makes you feel powerful when you can look at someone and accuse him of being entitled or having a big ego and it makes you feel like you're doing right simply by virtue of aligning yourself with ideology that affected you so easily and deeply. To oppose an illusion crafted and supported by your very own selves.
Is this viscious cycle really what is needed to improve the lives of people in western civilization?
I really don't think so.
it is intellectual luxury to be so generous/tolerant to "RAPE" on a t-shirt put to the same level as food and sleep.
I see you could afford it.
Probably being a male under 25 can catalyze this.
Posted by wecarealot
Posted by Rabbit
Posted by wecarealot
The problem is that you're still placing blame on the woman in this scenario. Why is it that every time a guy does something shitty or stupid to women, people are quick to say the woman enabled or provoked him some way? Meanwhile, when women do dumb shit around dudes, little to no people say, "Well, if only the guy didn't act like an asshole and enable her behavior." A shitty woman is shitty on her own. A shitty man is shitty because some woman allowed him to be.
I see what your saying and I don't disagree. I'm not blaming the women I'm just failing to say it properly....
There will always be men who think its acceptable to think of women as prey and they will always be drawn to the women they believe are easier to get what they want from?
Does that make more sense?
Yeah, I see what you mean, and I also don't disagree with it. I actually do think women enable a lot of shitty behavior from men. My only concern is when people expect women to alter their behavior to change men. When a woman acts up around a man, all the blame is (rightfully) placed on her.
When a man acts up around women, people reach for the heavens trying to find something the woman did to make him act that way. But again, I see what you mean!click to expand
Idk... I think the title and the popularity of this thread says otherwise.
Amandus, you're a freaking asshole in denial. Any time women's rape comes up or anything against women, you find ways to justify it and deny it.
Properly educate yourself further before polluting my thread with your drivel, kthx.
Keys do the same thing too.
I also had to take several "sport" related classes in regard to my major. Kick boxing was one. The instructor knew martial arts and was the wrestling coach. He emphasized the importance of women knowing basic self defense. It's nice to know the basics.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Amandus, you're a freaking asshole in denial. Any time women's rape comes up or anything against women, you find ways to justify it and deny it.Properly educate yourself further before polluting my thread with your drivel, kthx.
You know nothing about me.
You all have missed the point of the truth I brought before you and continued to focus on shallow issues just as you have been taught to. Have any of you here actually experienced abuse? What's it's like to desire the mercy of death at a low point? True oppression?
There will always be assholes in the world who will demand what we are unwilling to give and even forcibly take from us. I learned this from my father who crippled me when he began to display a twisted sense of love, deciding that he would rather have me alive than to have me live.
I am damaged and this is the truth I must live with. But because I was broken all I had left was to gather enough courage to face it and start from there.
I used to blame my father and mistook him as the problem for some time but all that eventually led to thoughts of murder and of my death. I had desired and imagined smashing my fathers face onto a lit stove with the cigarettes he loves so much stuffed into his mouth, screaming for him to give back what he took from me until he finally stopped moving.
I was fortunate to realize I had fallen to terrible darkness and had to learn to stop blaming and accept responsibility for myself. It was only until I accepted responsibility that I began to see my world differently.
And it was so beautiful.
All I wanted was to turn your thoughts away from the distractions of pain and unfairness and focus on the value and power of our inner most desire to live in happiness and fight for it. I believe this is so important for people (especially victims of abuse like myself) to realize and keep in mind and it frustrates me to see that people would rather believe they are of any help by playing the blaming game.
And this makes me an asshole in denial? You can't fucking be serious.
Posted by Amandus
... turn your thoughts away from the distractions of pain and unfairness and focus on the value and power of our inner most desire to live in happiness and fight for it. ...
That's right.
Thankfully there are also many instructions for starting at 0 again. feminist or not.
Thankfully there are thoughts and actions for prevention. The other day Chris Brown put a gif on his IG. Of a small girl practicing boxing. There he wrote, "This is how my daughter is gonna be".
Updating with this gem that popped up in the news.
https://instagram.com/perv_magnet/
She's kept track of all the fucked up comments in the last TEN years that she gets from weirdos.
Again, it's quite disturbing that guys think that talking to a woman like this is a-okay.
probably part of it is that young people want to rebell. So they use words carelessly cause they hear it is cool to say this and that.
I know I sugarcoat the harsh reality. This careless usage of bad words (rape here) can only excuse part of the problem. It can still have an impact. So that young people's behavior follow the word.
I knew a young man who did such a thing with a group of his schoolmates. Ten-13 years ago. He committed suicide seven years ago.
Posted by Amandus
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Dahell is wrong with people?
I think it's a disservice to judge a person's personality, tastes, or inclinations based on the shirt he/she wears and presume what we believe to be fact. Just because he wears a shirt that has the word "RAPE" on it doesn't make certain he will commit to it. The peace sign and big smile on his face seem to contradict the chaos "RAPE" implies. Of course, I don't mean to imply that I know anything about his character. I just mean to question how we can know for certain how he feels about women and rape simply because he chose to wear an article of clothing that, at the end of they day, will probably be taken off and someday be thrown away as garbage? Perhaps he bought and wore the shirt simply because he thought it was funny that Rape was used instead of something more widely enjoyed like, "Smoke Weed".
The only fact here is that we know nothing of importance about him and I find you taking his shirt seriously offensive (all of this really) a clear sign of weak logical thought. I'm not saying it isn't right. You are very much entitled to take offense to this all. I'm just saying that it's all weak and based entirely on emotion.
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Doesn't matter what he's really like and that he's probably not a real rapist. It's an offensive shirt. And I don't want to take the time to get to know anyone that wears a shirt like that in public. Period.
maybe he doesn't uderstand english though
Posted by Nevermore
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Dahell is wrong with people?
Before you judge, I have seen many pictures of asians clothes with a lot of english errors. 😐
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Honey, that picture was taken at a music festival here in America. There was no confusion in wearing that shirt. Stop making excuses for blatantly bad behavior. It just shows how little you are willing to face reality by making up reasons as to why this isn't as fucked as it really is.
Posted by Nevermore
http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/music/festivals/coachella-2015-mans-eat-sleep-rape-repeat-t-shirt-sparks-outrage-10173215.htmlThat explains.
the first comment though:
"Maybe it refers to his experience in prison?"
I still don't know why people are so convinced that rape culture is thriving in America. Rape culture doesn't even thrive in India.
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....— I already knew it was pretty bad, but the evidence is even more depressing.
Those of you who are notoriously in denial of how fucking retarded many guys really are in dating, HERE YOU GO. Has fun.
It's still lulz worthy because the butthurt from these tacky assholes is amazing haha.