the girl (Page 2)

Lol, I always thought men were sexist because they were afraid of us.

lolz!! morgan, possibly, yes 😄 😄

I do consider myself to be a feminist...but, yeah, I can see your point, Libragirl. Why must there be a label. It is essentially about equality, fairness...what is only just!
I have always just been 'me' and have done what I think is best in any given situation.
And I have stood up for myself with men...God, I had to start declining my girlfriends offers to go out for a drink, because I was afraid I would get into a fight with a man! I mean..it really bugs me that they think if a woman is in a bar, she is looking for a man! How treetrunking conceited!! One guy put a pool cue between my legs..I had my back to him...he thought he was funny! marker! I knew him...went up to him, pushed him in the chest with the palm of my hand (not hard) and said, "know what, Larry? A woman can come into a bar just like a man, have a good time just like a man. I will make a deal with you. You don't touch my body and I won't touch yours." The treetrunking marker pushed me in the chest and said "oh, yeah, what are you going to do about it." What did I do? I took the coward way out and got another guy I knew to stick up for me. Rats!
I probably shouldn't have pushed him...but, it just made me so pissed that a guy would think he should be able to just demean a female like that and get away with it.
Another time, I was playing pool with a girlfriend. (I would only play pool in non-crowded areas...because of men...the asswipes like my butt for some reason...) Anyway, we are playing...it is my shot. Before I can make the shot, a guy comes up and puts himself against me from behind and offers to help me with the shot. I can feel that he is hard. What do I do? I whip around, firmly plant my pool cue on the floor and say, "Don't be doing that butter to me! I'll treetrunk you up bad!!" At least this time I had a weapon! His friend says, "she does have a stick'...and they leave.
It is not really that I am a tough chick...I just can't stand this stuff. It is superior-type thinking that leads to demeaning behavior, and it majorly pisses me off!
Needless to say...I stopped going out with the girls...

what you get is what you see

"maybe because we intimidate men suzy Q, mu har har 😉"

Wuzzer,
I think that may be a little true, but I have always gotten along the best with men and they have always treated me with respect. As a matter of fact they have always been nothing but helpful and kind to me. There was one guy who replaced my favorite boss who got transfered and then fired. I am sure you have heard me mentioned him before. He was the best boss I ever had, and treated me like his kid! Anyway, after he left there was this guy named, Jarid ,who was trying to move into Bobby's old place. He came up to me all smily one day and got me cornered and said to me "I'm gonna be your daddy now" and I just laughed in his face and told him " you dont know who the hell you are dealing with! There was another guy that over heard him say what he did and turned him in and he was put on third shift and then got fired later on! I never had any respect for him and let him know it every chance I got. When Bobby (the good boss) was around, he use to always side with me! He(Jarrid) and I use to go at it all the time!

I'm back! I am worried about YOU, Morgan! Morgan, you dont have to go through anything alone! Please, come back and talk to me!!!

Star, when I got down reading your story, it mad me feel very sad. That is terrible that you had to go through that. Remember that movie with Jodie Foster when she is raped in the bar? That movie made me cry so much. It happens all the time. I think you are right to stay out of places like that. I wont go in to them either!

Yeah, the movie, "The Accused" was what I thought of at the time too. I never thought the girl in the movie was 'asking for it'...but, I am even more conservative in dress and manner than the character was in the movie...oh well...

My friend's eyes were as big as saucers! She thought I was brave...but, the truth was that I was scared and when I am scared another part of me takes over and I don't even think and suddenly I am doing and saying stuff just to get myself out of a situation that I don't want to be in...adrenaline rush, I guess.
Thanks for your support, Suzy.

Stories like those make me so angry...
I think I'll buy a gun...
For protection.

you know... if you had a man you could use him instead

for target practice... not protection

=P