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Posted by tizianiI thought you were connecting with the former flame guy.
that might be a fool thing. he is married. 😆 an aries married to a virgo 😆
I dont know what to do about him. the whole thing is weird
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by tizianiI thought you were connecting with the former flame guy.
that might be a fool thing. he is married. 😆 an aries married to a virgo 😆
I dont know what to do about him. the whole thing is weird
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we have only see each other twice in the past year. all its been is chats and texting. i get around him and i have no control over myself. that has never happen to me before.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesdo you that feel of needing to connect with someone but everyone is to business or just doesnt care?
Could be because of your rising. Your chart is ruled by Mercury, so the need to connect is there. Sometimes that need can become voracious and you find yourself saying/doing silly stuff just in order to connect with people or your circumstances.
I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
Posted by Ram416Posted by WitchmitchAriesdo you that feel of needing to connect with someone but everyone is to business or just doesnt care?
Could be because of your rising. Your chart is ruled by Mercury, so the need to connect is there. Sometimes that need can become voracious and you find yourself saying/doing silly stuff just in order to connect with people or your circumstances.
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i never thought of that. it can be a pain sometimes when i am trying to focus on stuff. guess it is that gemi thing you posted in facebook 😆
Posted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
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It’s how I feel haha
Posted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
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i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
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Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
Posted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
I wanna feel the heat with somebody
Posted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
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really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
Posted by tctaapPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
I wanna feel the heat with somebody
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😆 I so need to feel that.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
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That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
Posted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
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i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
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I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
Posted by RooSagicornI love Aries men. Lol.. connections come out of nowhere. Sometimes they are friends, sometimes more. You feel it with nobody and then there it is. I’ve been talking with an Aries and it feels like 🔥🔥 I must say I’m like that with Aries men lol. This is far more verbal, still hysterical, and spiritual than my ex-husband. It could be hitting the jackpot or it could be nothing when I meet him. Funny how it works. I really hope it’s soon.
yes, i so get that. the aries guy i have been chatting with sometimes it feels like he is opening me up to see what makes me tick and i have never had anyone do that. I tell myself not to go there with him because he is married, long story there, but he can make me smile when i am very down. plus when he is flirting it is so hard to resist. i tell myself dont go there, but i so feel the need to reply to his text or comments. lol i feel like a stupid school girl around him. it so driving me crazy.
Posted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
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i have not slept with this aries guy i know yet. we have been texting for a year now this coming up this Dec. lol I am thinking just do him and get him out of my system right now so i can move on. I have know this aries guy back in school since 6th grade lol i so had it bad for him back then and learned those feelings were still there when he facebook friended me last year. gggrrr i so dont need this right now but at the sametime he has been so helpful getting me through all the bull i when through this year.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
i have not slept with this aries guy i know yet. we have been texting for a year now this coming up this Dec. lol I am thinking just do him and get him out of my system right now so i can move on. I have know this aries guy back in school since 6th grade lol i so had it bad for him back then and learned those feelings were still there when he facebook friended me last year. gggrrr i so dont need this right now but at the sametime he has been so helpful getting me through all the bull i when through this year.
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Yeah there was another one too who drifts in the background and is now currently hitting me up. It was another thing that didn't go anywhere. His pisces Venus freaked me out. We did not see eye to eye on things. I did like sleeping with him but it's not worth it unless I was really bored and single. Yeah sometimes sleeping with someone takes away that rush maybe you should do it if you don't see him as boyfriend material haha
Posted by SkeletonYes, but I tamed myself to become first making friends and get to know them first.
tamed yourself? interesting term. lol
Posted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
i have not slept with this aries guy i know yet. we have been texting for a year now this coming up this Dec. lol I am thinking just do him and get him out of my system right now so i can move on. I have know this aries guy back in school since 6th grade lol i so had it bad for him back then and learned those feelings were still there when he facebook friended me last year. gggrrr i so dont need this right now but at the sametime he has been so helpful getting me through all the bull i when through this year.
Yeah there was another one too who drifts in the background and is now currently hitting me up. It was another thing that didn't go anywhere. His pisces Venus freaked me out. We did not see eye to eye on things. I did like sleeping with him but it's not worth it unless I was really bored and single. Yeah sometimes sleeping with someone takes away that rush maybe you should do it if you don't see him as boyfriend material haha
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i think he would make a great boyfriend i just dont what to deal with the relationship stuff, plus he is still married. its so funny he married a virgo to just like i did. he is only 5 days older then me. I am so up for the sex and he says he is too but he always has a reason not to get together and then says the strangest things like 'how would you like things to be if we were in a relationship?' and always saying 'my' before a thing he calls me like 'my little sheep' or 'my sweetie' stuff like that. says other stuff too.
its funny. i have this need to pour my heart out but really dont want to take the time to type it or do it. lol
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
i have not slept with this aries guy i know yet. we have been texting for a year now this coming up this Dec. lol I am thinking just do him and get him out of my system right now so i can move on. I have know this aries guy back in school since 6th grade lol i so had it bad for him back then and learned those feelings were still there when he facebook friended me last year. gggrrr i so dont need this right now but at the sametime he has been so helpful getting me through all the bull i when through this year.
Yeah there was another one too who drifts in the background and is now currently hitting me up. It was another thing that didn't go anywhere. His pisces Venus freaked me out. We did not see eye to eye on things. I did like sleeping with him but it's not worth it unless I was really bored and single. Yeah sometimes sleeping with someone takes away that rush maybe you should do it if you don't see him as boyfriend material haha
i think he would make a great boyfriend i just dont what to deal with the relationship stuff, plus he is still married. its so funny he married a virgo to just like i did. he is only 5 days older then me. I am so up for the sex and he says he is too but he always has a reason not to get together and then says the strangest things like 'how would you like things to be if we were in a relationship?' and always saying 'my' before a thing he calls me like 'my little sheep' or 'my sweetie' stuff like that. says other stuff too.
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Oh lol so you guys are having an affair?
Posted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
i have not slept with this aries guy i know yet. we have been texting for a year now this coming up this Dec. lol I am thinking just do him and get him out of my system right now so i can move on. I have know this aries guy back in school since 6th grade lol i so had it bad for him back then and learned those feelings were still there when he facebook friended me last year. gggrrr i so dont need this right now but at the sametime he has been so helpful getting me through all the bull i when through this year.
Yeah there was another one too who drifts in the background and is now currently hitting me up. It was another thing that didn't go anywhere. His pisces Venus freaked me out. We did not see eye to eye on things. I did like sleeping with him but it's not worth it unless I was really bored and single. Yeah sometimes sleeping with someone takes away that rush maybe you should do it if you don't see him as boyfriend material haha
i think he would make a great boyfriend i just dont what to deal with the relationship stuff, plus he is still married. its so funny he married a virgo to just like i did. he is only 5 days older then me. I am so up for the sex and he says he is too but he always has a reason not to get together and then says the strangest things like 'how would you like things to be if we were in a relationship?' and always saying 'my' before a thing he calls me like 'my little sheep' or 'my sweetie' stuff like that. says other stuff too.
Oh lol so you guys are having an affair?
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he has had affairs in the past because his virgo wife will not have sex with him. this has gone on for years for him, but he stays with her. lol my virgo ex would with hold sex if he didnt like how i did something. i dont bring up his wife much. all he says 'he will give her a divorce when she finds someone she falls in love with.' i dont much more because i just dont ask. We only have had lunch once and he came to see me before i moved back to Cottonwood. all we have done is text.
Posted by rejuvenatedheartTrying to get Aqua Moons to connect with you is a monumental task. Fml.
I think there are days its hard for me to connect with anyone even though i really want or need too, but then there are days i connect fine.
Posted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by rejuvenatedheartTrying to get Aqua Moons to connect with you is a monumental task. Fml.
I think there are days its hard for me to connect with anyone even though i really want or need too, but then there are days i connect fine.
Relying on connections with others (the way you want them to be, anyway) necessarily means - by your own admission - that there will be days when you will feel at a loss. In light of this variability, does it then make sense to rely on connections with others for your happiness? Put another way, does it make sense to prioritize it to such a degree?
You’ve created a problem for which there is no solution other than your full acceptance. This acceptance will then remove your feelings of loss.
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i dont think of it as a variability but a human thing. we are a pack animal after all. just saying
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by rejuvenatedheartTrying to get Aqua Moons to connect with you is a monumental task. Fml.
I think there are days its hard for me to connect with anyone even though i really want or need too, but then there are days i connect fine.
I think that's just a natural thing, having off days. I do always have the desire to connect with people but sometimes I'm too exhausted to make room for that kind of emotional vulnerability.
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yes soo true.
Need... or want?!🤔
Posted by nevesNeed... or want?!🤔
both
Posted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by rejuvenatedheartTrying to get Aqua Moons to connect with you is a monumental task. Fml.
I think there are days its hard for me to connect with anyone even though i really want or need too, but then there are days i connect fine.
Relying on connections with others (the way you want them to be, anyway) necessarily means - by your own admission - that there will be days when you will feel at a loss. In light of this variability, does it then make sense to rely on connections with others for your happiness? Put another way, does it make sense to prioritize it to such a degree?
You’ve created a problem for which there is no solution other than your full acceptance. This acceptance will then remove your feelings of loss.
i dont think of it as a variability but a human thing. we are a pack animal after all. just saying
It isn’t beyond you to look into this and inquire, though, to see whether what you’re doing makes any sense. You don’t need to follow your feelings or take them seriously. If you do indeed accept it as a “human thing”, then there is no reason to suffer in the first place - you understand its nature and see into how it works, therefore no need to talk about it.
The issue is whether you’re suffering needlessly because of this particular desire.
There’s no need to expend energy being led around by something like this. Unless you happen to enjoy it on some level.
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for one connecting is a need. there is scientific proof. just putting that out there. so energy has to be put into it just like energy has to be put into getting food. Second do you feel like you have some insight into what i feel and think? or maybe you are making it more then what it is because you are expend energy into this post? Aries mind wants to know or scorp moon wants to know.
My NEED to connect with someone has gone. However, I desire it like I desire pleasurable items. Like it would be a treat, but I'm good.
Connection is a need
Posted by heliumfiascoMy NEED to connect with someone has gone. However, I desire it like I desire pleasurable items. Like it would be a treat, but I'm good.
pleasure is a survival thingy. so its a need but someone people need more then others.
Posted by brzzzYes but they’re never EVER into me. I’m so sick of this
who is never into you? plus you must have other types of connections with people.
Posted by nevesPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by nevesNeed... or want?!🤔
both
Fair enough. (:
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some days its just crazy.
Posted by brzzzPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by brzzzYes but they’re never EVER into me. I’m so sick of this
who is never into you? plus you must have other types of connections with people.
The people I’m attracted to and want to connect with. Yes I do, but that’s not enough to fulfill my need
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so how do you try to connect with others? what do you do?
internet has helped us to find people to connect with.
Posted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by rejuvenatedheartTrying to get Aqua Moons to connect with you is a monumental task. Fml.
I think there are days its hard for me to connect with anyone even though i really want or need too, but then there are days i connect fine.
Relying on connections with others (the way you want them to be, anyway) necessarily means - by your own admission - that there will be days when you will feel at a loss. In light of this variability, does it then make sense to rely on connections with others for your happiness? Put another way, does it make sense to prioritize it to such a degree?
You’ve created a problem for which there is no solution other than your full acceptance. This acceptance will then remove your feelings of loss.
i dont think of it as a variability but a human thing. we are a pack animal after all. just saying
It isn’t beyond you to look into this and inquire, though, to see whether what you’re doing makes any sense. You don’t need to follow your feelings or take them seriously. If you do indeed accept it as a “human thing”, then there is no reason to suffer in the first place - you understand its nature and see into how it works, therefore no need to talk about it.
The issue is whether you’re suffering needlessly because of this particular desire.
There’s no need to expend energy being led around by something like this. Unless you happen to enjoy it on some level.
for one connecting is a need. there is scientific proof. just putting that out there. so energy has to be put into it just like energy has to be put into getting food. Second do you feel like you have some insight into what i feel and think? or maybe you are making it more then what it is because you are expend energy into this post? Aries mind wants to know or scorp moon wants to know.
How much it means to you, only you can decide, obviously. In any case I hope you find what you’re looking for.
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it was just a subject i thought people out there understand and feel. so i posted it. and i have connected with people through the forum on the subject of connecting. there is no underlining thing in this forum just a need to connect with others is all. we are soo connect right now.
there is someone i have not connected with in a long time. @IamTheRam its been way to long. you should put your 2 cents in here. How are you?
Posted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by rejuvenatedheartTrying to get Aqua Moons to connect with you is a monumental task. Fml.
I think there are days its hard for me to connect with anyone even though i really want or need too, but then there are days i connect fine.
Relying on connections with others (the way you want them to be, anyway) necessarily means - by your own admission - that there will be days when you will feel at a loss. In light of this variability, does it then make sense to rely on connections with others for your happiness? Put another way, does it make sense to prioritize it to such a degree?
You’ve created a problem for which there is no solution other than your full acceptance. This acceptance will then remove your feelings of loss.
i dont think of it as a variability but a human thing. we are a pack animal after all. just saying
It isn’t beyond you to look into this and inquire, though, to see whether what you’re doing makes any sense. You don’t need to follow your feelings or take them seriously. If you do indeed accept it as a “human thing”, then there is no reason to suffer in the first place - you understand its nature and see into how it works, therefore no need to talk about it.
The issue is whether you’re suffering needlessly because of this particular desire.
There’s no need to expend energy being led around by something like this. Unless you happen to enjoy it on some level.
for one connecting is a need. there is scientific proof. just putting that out there. so energy has to be put into it just like energy has to be put into getting food. Second do you feel like you have some insight into what i feel and think? or maybe you are making it more then what it is because you are expend energy into this post? Aries mind wants to know or scorp moon wants to know.
How much it means to you, only you can decide, obviously. In any case I hope you find what you’re looking for.
it was just a subject i thought people out there understand and feel. so i posted it. and i have connected with people through the forum on the subject of connecting. there is no underlining thing in this forum just a need to connect with others is all. we are soo connect right now.
Yeah I guess...
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No guessing we so did.
Posted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by seraphPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by rejuvenatedheartTrying to get Aqua Moons to connect with you is a monumental task. Fml.
I think there are days its hard for me to connect with anyone even though i really want or need too, but then there are days i connect fine.
Relying on connections with others (the way you want them to be, anyway) necessarily means - by your own admission - that there will be days when you will feel at a loss. In light of this variability, does it then make sense to rely on connections with others for your happiness? Put another way, does it make sense to prioritize it to such a degree?
You’ve created a problem for which there is no solution other than your full acceptance. This acceptance will then remove your feelings of loss.
i dont think of it as a variability but a human thing. we are a pack animal after all. just saying
It isn’t beyond you to look into this and inquire, though, to see whether what you’re doing makes any sense. You don’t need to follow your feelings or take them seriously. If you do indeed accept it as a “human thing”, then there is no reason to suffer in the first place - you understand its nature and see into how it works, therefore no need to talk about it.
The issue is whether you’re suffering needlessly because of this particular desire.
There’s no need to expend energy being led around by something like this. Unless you happen to enjoy it on some level.
for one connecting is a need. there is scientific proof. just putting that out there. so energy has to be put into it just like energy has to be put into getting food. Second do you feel like you have some insight into what i feel and think? or maybe you are making it more then what it is because you are expend energy into this post? Aries mind wants to know or scorp moon wants to know.
How much it means to you, only you can decide, obviously. In any case I hope you find what you’re looking for.
it was just a subject i thought people out there understand and feel. so i posted it. and i have connected with people through the forum on the subject of connecting. there is no underlining thing in this forum just a need to connect with others is all. we are soo connect right now.
Yeah I guess...
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No guessing we so did.
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I know right 😆
Posted by Ram416Posted by WitchmitchAriesdo you that feel of needing to connect with someone but everyone is to business or just doesnt care?
Could be because of your rising. Your chart is ruled by Mercury, so the need to connect is there. Sometimes that need can become voracious and you find yourself saying/doing silly stuff just in order to connect with people or your circumstances.
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what do you about it when you feel like that my twin?
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
i have not slept with this aries guy i know yet. we have been texting for a year now this coming up this Dec. lol I am thinking just do him and get him out of my system right now so i can move on. I have know this aries guy back in school since 6th grade lol i so had it bad for him back then and learned those feelings were still there when he facebook friended me last year. gggrrr i so dont need this right now but at the sametime he has been so helpful getting me through all the bull i when through this year.
Yeah there was another one too who drifts in the background and is now currently hitting me up. It was another thing that didn't go anywhere. His pisces Venus freaked me out. We did not see eye to eye on things. I did like sleeping with him but it's not worth it unless I was really bored and single. Yeah sometimes sleeping with someone takes away that rush maybe you should do it if you don't see him as boyfriend material haha
i think he would make a great boyfriend i just dont what to deal with the relationship stuff, plus he is still married. its so funny he married a virgo to just like i did. he is only 5 days older then me. I am so up for the sex and he says he is too but he always has a reason not to get together and then says the strangest things like 'how would you like things to be if we were in a relationship?' and always saying 'my' before a thing he calls me like 'my little sheep' or 'my sweetie' stuff like that. says other stuff too.
Oh lol so you guys are having an affair?
he has had affairs in the past because his virgo wife will not have sex with him. this has gone on for years for him, but he stays with her. lol my virgo ex would with hold sex if he didnt like how i did something. i dont bring up his wife much. all he says 'he will give her a divorce when she finds someone she falls in love with.' i dont much more because i just dont ask. We only have had lunch once and he came to see me before i moved back to Cottonwood. all we have done is text.
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That’s too bad :/ hopefully they work that out or he figures out what to do. Sexuality is a deep issue people never wanna talk about than they end up with these problems ha. Well it’s nice to have a friend. Fire signs can be really great for eachother in that way too.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by nevesPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by nevesNeed... or want?!🤔
both
Fair enough. (:
some days its just crazy.
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Posted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
i have not slept with this aries guy i know yet. we have been texting for a year now this coming up this Dec. lol I am thinking just do him and get him out of my system right now so i can move on. I have know this aries guy back in school since 6th grade lol i so had it bad for him back then and learned those feelings were still there when he facebook friended me last year. gggrrr i so dont need this right now but at the sametime he has been so helpful getting me through all the bull i when through this year.
Yeah there was another one too who drifts in the background and is now currently hitting me up. It was another thing that didn't go anywhere. His pisces Venus freaked me out. We did not see eye to eye on things. I did like sleeping with him but it's not worth it unless I was really bored and single. Yeah sometimes sleeping with someone takes away that rush maybe you should do it if you don't see him as boyfriend material haha
i think he would make a great boyfriend i just dont what to deal with the relationship stuff, plus he is still married. its so funny he married a virgo to just like i did. he is only 5 days older then me. I am so up for the sex and he says he is too but he always has a reason not to get together and then says the strangest things like 'how would you like things to be if we were in a relationship?' and always saying 'my' before a thing he calls me like 'my little sheep' or 'my sweetie' stuff like that. says other stuff too.
Oh lol so you guys are having an affair?
he has had affairs in the past because his virgo wife will not have sex with him. this has gone on for years for him, but he stays with her. lol my virgo ex would with hold sex if he didnt like how i did something. i dont bring up his wife much. all he says 'he will give her a divorce when she finds someone she falls in love with.' i dont much more because i just dont ask. We only have had lunch once and he came to see me before i moved back to Cottonwood. all we have done is text.
That’s too bad :/ hopefully they work that out or he figures out what to do. Sexuality is a deep issue people never wanna talk about than they end up with these problems ha. Well it’s nice to have a friend. Fire signs can be really great for eachother in that way too.
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he did say he will be my friend forever even if i dont want to be friends anymore. lol so out of all this i do have that. one time he did ask me how i did my divorce. i asked him why and he said he was so tired of the fighting. but then they talked and he changed his mind. i mean she is the mother of his children and they been together for a very long time. I told him he should only get a divorce because he dont want to be married to her no more and no other reason. its what i did. to told him this because he had women in his past try to get him to divorce his wife to be with them. that to me seems selfish.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag898I wanna dance with somebody. Somebody who loves meee
i love that song back when i was younger. 😆
It’s how I feel haha
i so understand. I want to be loved but not sure i really want to take a chance again because what people say and what they do is not always the same.
Damn, I really like Aries women! I wish the men of your sign were not so lame! Haha
really, i have a lot of aries guy friends and find them so much fun to hang out with. even the aries guy i got it bad for is not lame. its not his felt i got it bad for him. i just need to deal with my feelings.
That's awesome. Yeah my experience hasn't been that great unfortunately, maybe some day!
i so can understand that. my was with a virgo so i have started to avoid virgos lol sorry virgos but i have had way to many of you in my life and need to take a long, very long break for you all.
I hear ya. I dated a virgo before he was pretty sweet. Didn't last long cause I moved away. That first Aries scarred me lol. We had one night together and then he basically dissed me after that. Idk the whole evening was really up and down but he was so fucking hot. Like maybe one of the hottest if not hottest guys I've ever slept with.
i have not slept with this aries guy i know yet. we have been texting for a year now this coming up this Dec. lol I am thinking just do him and get him out of my system right now so i can move on. I have know this aries guy back in school since 6th grade lol i so had it bad for him back then and learned those feelings were still there when he facebook friended me last year. gggrrr i so dont need this right now but at the sametime he has been so helpful getting me through all the bull i when through this year.
Yeah there was another one too who drifts in the background and is now currently hitting me up. It was another thing that didn't go anywhere. His pisces Venus freaked me out. We did not see eye to eye on things. I did like sleeping with him but it's not worth it unless I was really bored and single. Yeah sometimes sleeping with someone takes away that rush maybe you should do it if you don't see him as boyfriend material haha
i think he would make a great boyfriend i just dont what to deal with the relationship stuff, plus he is still married. its so funny he married a virgo to just like i did. he is only 5 days older then me. I am so up for the sex and he says he is too but he always has a reason not to get together and then says the strangest things like 'how would you like things to be if we were in a relationship?' and always saying 'my' before a thing he calls me like 'my little sheep' or 'my sweetie' stuff like that. says other stuff too.
Oh lol so you guys are having an affair?
he has had affairs in the past because his virgo wife will not have sex with him. this has gone on for years for him, but he stays with her. lol my virgo ex would with hold sex if he didnt like how i did something. i dont bring up his wife much. all he says 'he will give her a divorce when she finds someone she falls in love with.' i dont much more because i just dont ask. We only have had lunch once and he came to see me before i moved back to Cottonwood. all we have done is text.
That’s too bad :/ hopefully they work that out or he figures out what to do. Sexuality is a deep issue people never wanna talk about than they end up with these problems ha. Well it’s nice to have a friend. Fire signs can be really great for eachother in that way too.
he did say he will be my friend forever even if i dont want to be friends anymore. lol so out of all this i do have that. one time he did ask me how i did my divorce. i asked him why and he said he was so tired of the fighting. but then they talked and he changed his mind. i mean she is the mother of his children and they been together for a very long time. I told him he should only get a divorce because he dont want to be married to her no more and no other reason. its what i did. to told him this because he had women in his past try to get him to divorce his wife to be with them. that to me seems selfish.
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Yeah sounds like he loves her but they aren’t really connected romantically anymore. I’ve never been married so I have no idea how you keep that together or what kills it but sounds tough. Sounds like he cares about you. That’s always nice.
Posted by SkeletonPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by SkeletonYes, but I tamed myself to become first making friends and get to know them first.
tamed yourself? interesting term. lol
It has to. Otherwise like others, whenever it worked or not, will jump into relationship like chicken without a head.
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ok i get that. i have done that myself. lol
Posted by tizianiX-Men Season 1 - Episode "Cold Vengeance" @seraph
What??
Posted by tizianiPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by tizianiX-Men Season 1 - Episode "Cold Vengeance" @seraph
What??
That's how I picture his current phase right now. He's Wolverine in that episode.
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i looked it up 😆
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do you that feel of needing to connect with someone but everyone is to business or just doesnt care?