This is what crazy looks like...LMFAO!!!

Posted by Purrrr
Oh wow, I actually find this really depressing. I just read the texts and saw that this went on for two days. That guy's an asshole for letting the text messages go on and on for that long when she was clearly having a nervous breakdown. He should've at least sent her a "sorry, I'm not interested" text after getting the first few crazy messages. I'm sure he was sitting there laughing at her, probably showing all those texts to his friends. Cruel and childish of him to put it on the Internet, too.

Purrrr, it was supposedly to be taken with a grain of salt 🙂

It was after all a understood one night stand, if I was the guy, even I'd be freaked out if someone bombarded my phone that way and he could have very welled turned off his phone after his first few responses or on silent (many guys do in fact). The entire period of her persistent over analysis, she caused her own break down by having no sane grip over her own emotional well-being. She could have just walked away, with her integrity in tact...to walk away slowly.

Ay, it is the weekend! Smile a little!

Posted by Purrrr

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by Purrrr
Oh wow, I actually find this really depressing. I just read the texts and saw that this went on for two days. That guy's an asshole for letting the text messages go on and on for that long when she was clearly having a nervous breakdown. He should've at least sent her a "sorry, I'm not interested" text after getting the first few crazy messages. I'm sure he was sitting there laughing at her, probably showing all those texts to his friends. Cruel and childish of him to put it on the Internet, too.

Purrrr, it was supposedly to be taken with a grain of salt 🙂

It was after all a understood one night stand, if I was the guy, even I'd be freaked out if someone bombarded my phone that way and he could have very welled turned off his phone after his first few responses or on silent (many guys do in fact). The entire period of her persistent over analysis, she caused her own break down by having no sane grip over her own emotional well-being. She could have just walked away, with her integrity in tact...to walk away slowly.

Ay, it is the weekend! Smile a little!

Oh, I know. I hope you didn't think I was criticizing you for posting this. I've gotten lots of text messages like that, so maybe they don't freak me out as much as they'd freak out the average person, lol.

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LOL

No, I didn't think you were criticizing me, you were just being the good ol' empathetic Crab that you are 🙂 Well, we are water signs, such a mess rarely really freaks us out, more often than not, it becomes part hilarious part annoying (sick water humour)!

@ Purrrr

Hahaha, I bet you had a riot laughing at some of those texts, usually they are so ridiculous it becomes a guilty sort of funny, which only makes one laugh all the more! Oy, from boyfriends? How did you manage to keep a straight face afterwards? I'd be giggling every time the memory of those texts come randomly popping into my head 😛

Posted by Sizzurp
I'm being my Pisces Mercury self...so bear with me.

This reminds of that dialogue in "Fightclub" where Tyler is discussing how people these days, are "single-serve." I don't know, I probably would have given the woman a hug and let her talk about whatever for awhile.

Look!

All the water elements are collecting here, wanting to empathize and hug the poor woman yet cannot deny the fits of giggle deaths over taking them. Oh, to be pulled in two directions 😄

that was hiliarious, poor girl, but really this was just funny..the guy must of been freaked the hell out.

Gee let's guess where her Venus is 😛

Hilarious

Posted by everevolvingepithet
She mad?

barking!

Posted by Wynter
Gee let's guess where her Venus is 😛

Hilarious

*drumroll pleaseeeeeeee*

VinS 😛

😄

Posted by Purrrr

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@ Purrrr

Hahaha, I bet you had a riot laughing at some of those texts, usually they are so ridiculous it becomes a guilty sort of funny, which only makes one laugh all the more! Oy, from boyfriends? How did you manage to keep a straight face afterwards? I'd be giggling every time the memory of those texts come randomly popping into my head 😛

Well, the texts I've received were insane, disturbing, threatening, and scary, so I didn't really laugh at them. When you decide to go to bed early and wake up with dozens of missed calls and stuff like THIS:

"What are you doing, baby?"
"Baby, where are you?"
"Helloooo?"
"Are you there?"
"Why aren't you answering your phone?"
"HELLO—"
"Where the fuck are you?"
"Are you on the phone with someone else?"
"Answer your goddamn phone."
"ANSWER ME!"
"Are you talking to your ex?"
"You better not be talking to your fucking f*ggot ex."
"Are you with another guy?"
"HELLO!!!!!—??"
"Fucking cheating bitch. Who the fuck are you with?"
"I'll kill that motherfucker."
"Are you watching TV instead of talking to me?"
"Are you watching that "America's Next Top Model" show?"
"You better not be watching that fucking show. I've seen it, and there are a bunch of f*ggot male models who take off their shirts and shit like that."
"WHERE THE FUCK ARE YOU?"
Etc...

.....you don't really feel like laughing...lol. Not to message the voicemails, oh God.

I do laugh at the ANTM shit now, though. He always acted like I was going to have multiple orgasms just by looking at some random male model on TV. Fucking idiot, lol.

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Dear god, LOL

Now...

you 'must' tell me his sign 😄

*shakes my head, water signs attract all the crazies and then those same crazies bring out the worst in us, roar or sometimes a punch in the face✨

😛

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Awoooo!
Oh come on now,Venus in Scorpio can't be that bad, can it? Everyone makes it out to be a nutty placement.

Hmm, a tie between Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Cancer, both barking mad when crossed and falling on the wrong side of the line, pretty damn nutty when the beast is unleashed.

Posted by ninjutsu
^I am totally feeling that. I was really pained for her and going "oh no!" but also unable to contain my laughter because it's just so goddamn hilarious... And endless... I'm not unsympathetic but I've become less patient of this sort of behaviour in others. It's a really unpleasant thing to be on the receiving end of.

At least the guy texted her back in the end...whilst she was doing all her stalking moves. I mean come on, parking lot, waiting in the car, going to his home!

Posted by xdimplez

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Awoooo!
Oh come on now,Venus in Scorpio can't be that bad, can it? Everyone makes it out to be a nutty placement.

Hmm, a tie between Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Cancer, both barking mad when crossed and falling on the wrong side of the line, pretty damn nutty when the beast is unleashed.

haha i will attest to that. i have a venus in cancer, and i have done some crazy shit back in my cub days. then i found out that silence is the best answer to situations like that

A] prevents you from doing crazy shit
B] prevents you from saying crazy shit
C] its just good for crazy shit

😛

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Yes dimpz, + a million!

Silence, walking away slowly and sanely, keeps one's integrity in tact, it also puts a lid on all those bats hit crazy emotions one gets with such a placement, my god the intensity, the rush of it coming over you. Ay, no wrong ever done by keeping one's trap shut, to save all parties 😛

Posted by everevolvingepithet
There's as many dudes do that though!

Precisely, crazies come in a buffet of variety 😄

@ Purrrr

Now 'that' deserves a one word response-

Fuck!

(I knew it, he must be a Scorpio, we are nut cases to say the least, mix us up with other water elements in the chart and boy, take cover, nuclear warfare of WWIII proportions coming through)

😛 😄

Posted by geminicandle

Posted by Purrrr
Oh wow, I actually find this really depressing. I just read the texts and saw that this went on for two days. That guy's an asshole for letting the text messages go on and on for that long when she was clearly having a nervous breakdown. He should've at least sent her a "sorry, I'm not interested" text after getting the first few crazy messages. I'm sure he was sitting there laughing at her, probably showing all those texts to his friends. Cruel and childish of him to put it on the Internet, too.

Yes, people are idiots and enjoy boosting their ego by making someone act "crazy" over them. The minute I hear a guy say that his ex was a crazy or a bitch, is the minute I am done with that guy. Because he probably has that condescending tone about almost everyone.
The only thing I blame her for is sleeping with a douche. She got what she bargained for, and so did he. I bet there is more to the story too...some people think they can just fuck with people and get away wih it, until they learn they have cooked rabbits in their kitchen, hehe.

And we can all laugh at her, while in reality, we have all done something that now looking back we are not proud of (including OP and that infamous letter to engaged pisces ex!).

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Ay, you are numero deux to rehash the past...

Very Well. Yes I remember!

and guess what ...I can safely say I laugh over my past mistakes (even if ridiculous and embarassing), but it is still funny all the same in my eyes. Damn it, glad I grew wayyyyyy out of that phase. It takes one to go to the deep end, do enough crazy bat shit crazy stuff to learn how to tame the beast and I have, finally 😄

(P.S. back then you found my letter sweet, romantic and endearing so don't try to flip it around and backtrack, it wasn't infamous, it was famous)

😉 😛

Posted by geminicandle
Well yes, lady scorpio, I must admit I was truly hoping you will end up wih that handsome, exotic man and live happily ever after. I did think letter was sweet and romantic, but I guess it wasn't enough.

Ay dear, take it with a grain of salt 🙂 everyone has a different sense of humour, you might not have found it funny but don't go around putting a wet blanket and spoiling the fun for others with your serious airs!

Emotions can be very funny if one isn't overtly sensitive, one has to be able to laugh at oneself to stop oneself from having their own heads stuck up their arse, myself as prime example I do laugh hard at all those ridiculous things I have done and no, it is not a nonchalant mask, I do truly laugh, cause it was so foolish and naive 😄

Agree to disagree, it was meant to be light/tongue in cheek, if it bothered you so deeply, then my apologizes but do allow others to have a bit of a giggle, sounds good?

🙂

Posted by Purrrr

Posted by geminicandle

Posted by Purrrr
Oh wow, I actually find this really depressing. I just read the texts and saw that this went on for two days. That guy's an asshole for letting the text messages go on and on for that long when she was clearly having a nervous breakdown. He should've at least sent her a "sorry, I'm not interested" text after getting the first few crazy messages. I'm sure he was sitting there laughing at her, probably showing all those texts to his friends. Cruel and childish of him to put it on the Internet, too.

Yes, people are idiots and enjoy boosting their ego by making someone act "crazy" over them. The minute I hear a guy say that his ex was a crazy or a bitch, is the minute I am done with that guy. Because he probably has that condescending tone about almost everyone.
The only thing I blame her for is sleeping with a douche. She got what she bargained for, and so did he. I bet there is more to the story too...some people think they can just fuck with people and get away wih it, until they learn they have cooked rabbits in their kitchen, hehe.

And we can all laugh at her, while in reality, we have all done something that now looking back we are not proud of (including OP and that infamous letter to engaged pisces ex!).

Guys who talk about their "crazy" exes are usually the crazy ones...and the ones who will drive you crazy with all of their bullshit.

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Oh my god, Yes!

I learned this the hard way, if a guy talks about a cheating/crazy ex...think again and think hard, there might be an entirely never-ending pool of madness in him too that triggered the bad side from the poor girl.

Never ever dismiss the other side of the coin.

Posted by Purrrr

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@ Purrrr

Now 'that' deserves a one word response-

Fuck!

(I knew it, he must be a Scorpio, we are nut cases to say the least, mix us up with other water elements in the chart and boy, take cover, nuclear warfare of WWIII proportions coming through)

😛 😄

The poor thing has Moon in Pisces and Pisces rising, too. His imagination tortures him.

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Crab/Scorp
Scorp/Merfolk
Merfolk/Crab

Those heavy mixes, oh boy, always a hell of a bumpy ride, put I do empathize with him. It must be hard to live with all that fixed water, much less Mer-blood in as well to mess him up all the more, very reactive people.

@ Purrrr

Major red flag when a guy bad mouths his ex (or rather flip flop between two extremes), especially one that does it with much emotions embedded still. Better to not even dissect the 3rd side of the story but walk swiftly away, saves much potential heartache...unless he proves himself otherwise that is.

Posted by xMoonMan
LOL!

Thank you for that laugh (tears)

You're welcome!

Crab- style ...service with a smile, laughter to boost or a giggle death to follow 😄

Posted by seraph

Posted by TheLadyScorpio


It was after all a understood one night stand, if I was the guy, even I'd be freaked out if someone bombarded my phone that way and he could have very welled turned off his phone after his first few responses or on silent (many guys do in fact). The entire period of her persistent over analysis, she caused her own break down by having no sane grip over her own emotional well-being. She could have just walked away, with her integrity in tact...to walk away slowly.

Ay, it is the weekend! Smile a little!

Ultimately, no matter how someone "makes" you act or what they allegedly encourage in you, your reactions and how you handle yourself in the face of everything you're perceiving is your own responsibility, not anyone else's. Cruel or kind, the reaction comes from you, and you do have a choice. Sometimes life hands us lessons, and we don't get to choose what's on the menu or how it's served to us. We just have to learn.

What you yourself bring into a situation, emotionally and mentally, will determine the outcome for you. What happens on the other end is a big variable. It's not under your control. If I bombard someone with messages and disturbing communication because I'm insecure or emotionally labile, and the response from the other end is somehow negative, who do I really have to blame other than myself?

It's very easy to pass the buck on to someone else and divert attention to whether they're cruel or kind, dismissive or nurturing. But it's a little more difficult to admit to yourself that you usually get in return what you bring to the table.

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+ 1

We are what we get.

Posted by geminicandle

Posted by Purrrr
Completely disagree with "we are what we get."

Me too. Sera has no idea what he is talking about.

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More appropriately worded would be 'we are what we attract' which is true...we consciously and unconsciously project what we want/need/desire and others do pick up on those vibes.

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Yeah, I heard this recording before when it was first released.

Posted by seraph

Posted by TheLadyScorpio


It was after all a understood one night stand, if I was the guy, even I'd be freaked out if someone bombarded my phone that way and he could have very welled turned off his phone after his first few responses or on silent (many guys do in fact). The entire period of her persistent over analysis, she caused her own break down by having no sane grip over her own emotional well-being. She could have just walked away, with her integrity in tact...to walk away slowly.

Ay, it is the weekend! Smile a little!

Ultimately, no matter how someone "makes" you act or what they allegedly encourage in you, your reactions and how you handle yourself in the face of everything you're perceiving is your own responsibility, not anyone else's. Cruel or kind, the reaction comes from you, and you do have a choice. Sometimes life hands us lessons, and we don't get to choose what's on the menu or how it's served to us. We just have to learn.

What you yourself bring into a situation, emotionally and mentally, will determine the outcome for you. What happens on the other end is a big variable. It's not under your control. If I bombard someone with messages and disturbing communication because I'm insecure or emotionally labile, and the response from the other end is somehow negative, who do I really have to blame other than myself?

It's very easy to pass the buck on to someone else and divert attention to whether they're cruel or kind, dismissive or nurturing. But it's a little more difficult to admit to yourself that you usually get in return what you bring to the table.

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by geminicandle

Posted by Purrrr
Completely disagree with "we are what we get."

Me too. Sera has no idea what he is talking about.

More appropriately worded would be 'we are what we attract' which is true...we consciously and unconsciously project what we want/need/desire and others do pick up on those vibes.

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This was how I read it as well ....