To be Loved or To be Understood?

Out of the two, which would you choose. Mutually exclusive or mutually inclusive?

List your Sun/Moon/Venus

I'd say loved, understanding is based on perception you can always question if they truly understand you.

aqua/pisces/pisces

Understood, I like when people GET me & it usually leads them to liking me. I'm misunderstood a lot, so its always refreshing when I'm actually understood.
Aqua Sun, Scorp Moon, and Sadge Venus.

LOVE
I DON'T NEED UNDERSTANDING

Posted by Torro
I don't think that you need to be understood to be loved. Someone just might love you because you're hard for them to understand.

I'd say respected above all. Someone who respects me doesn't have to understand me, and I won't ask them to. Ihe important thing to me is that they respect me, what I do, the decisions I make. They don't have to agree with them or understand them. Just respect them. Love is optional, they can still love me even without understanding or agreement. That'd be an interesting kinda love.

Torro, your Sun/Moon/Venus?

Rule of thumb and in general no matter signs??_

- Women should be loved..

- Men should be understood??_

End of story for happy life.

loved.
Cap/Scorp/Cap

Posted by Pecheresse
Well loved, since understood is not an easy task 😄

Libra Sun/Scorpio Moon/Aries Venus?

Loved - not being understood encourages inquiry and learning...

Cap Sun
Gem Moon
Sag Venus

AFTER SOME THOUGHT
FEAR AND RESPECT.

I KNOW ONE THING DUNCAN DOES NOT FEAR OR RESPECT ME I CAN'T BACK OUT OF A THREAD LIKE I USED TO.

to want to understand one completely is to love

Posted by seraph

Posted by aquapiscescusp
to want to understand one completely is to love

I want to understand Jodi Arias completely.

(Because I'm the prosecution.)

😉

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LOL, what a psycho!

Posted by seraph

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by seraph

Posted by aquapiscescusp
to want to understand one completely is to love

I want to understand Jodi Arias completely.

(Because I'm the prosecution.)

😉

LOL, what a psycho!

Closing arguments are today. Finally.

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I am not up to date... what's going on? Is she getting away with it?

She's a cancer btw. (Jodie Arias)

In other words, if we understood you we wouldn't love you 😛

Knowledge is a great thing 😉

I'd choose understanding because to me, love is a divine understanding.

Love = Understanding

Aquarius/Virgo/Capricorn

I have been most loved because of my understanding.

I am most loved by those who understand me.

Understood.

As TheMoodyVulcan said, "Understanding always has the potential to become love, whereas love may never lead to understanding."

Thinking very primal here, I just imagine being on a desert island with someone who "loves" me but, doesn't understand me...grrrrr!

Aries Sun
Gemini Moon
Aquarius Venus

Understanding is the hotness. Makes me real warm inside.

Posted by seraph
Just with this statement alone from the judge, she needs 1st degree murder

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"The force used may not be greater than reasonably necessary," Stephens said in regard to self-defense.
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AND? what happened?

Posted by SyzygyDresden
To be loved... I don't think anyone can understand me. 😛

SD, your Sun/Moon/Venus?

i am starting to think that for us scorpio's both are next to impossible... sorry but am feeling a bit down today!!!

Posted by Jahlia
To be loved-being understood is not always a good thing IMHO
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Sun-Capricorn
Moon-Gemini
Venus-Sagittarius

Jahlia - I didn't realize that you're a young version of me 🙂

Posted by Jahlia

Posted by lildol

Posted by Jahlia
To be loved-being understood is not always a good thing IMHO
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Sun-Capricorn
Moon-Gemini
Venus-Sagittarius

Jahlia - I didn't realize that you're a young version of me 🙂

LOL, How so? I think this is the first conversation we've had, so I'm rather curious about which similarities we may have 🙂(or well had).

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Placements sweetie 🙂

Posted by Ariangirl

Posted by WaterCup
Understood, I like when people GET me & it usually leads them to liking me. I'm misunderstood a lot, so its always refreshing when I'm actually understood.

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Exactly!!! I'm the same thing. It's when people understand the real you that they start to love you and it's not really easy for people to start liking me because they don't understand where I'm coming from and I'm vice versa.

Well, I even don't understand myself most of the time.. 😉

Aries sun/Scorpio moon/Gemini Venus .