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This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Qbone on Friday, May 14, 2010 and has 55 replies.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

The reason of this post..!

After many years of wandering around minding my own business, finally decided to go to this place, having a dinner all by my own(alone) and then??_ BANG.. my first EX was there too (alone)..

Greets and hugs and usual stuff??_ then??_ half an hour later.. my second EX arrived (alone)..! We've all had a nice and peaceful conversations with laughter and all for almost 6 hours.. .!

Come-on is that coincidence..?? Or..?

What do you guys call this.. MAGICAL moments..?? I have no other word for it..!

I mean, what is the chance to meet 2 persons in your life time all at once +/- 20 min without any further contact for years..?

🙂

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Venusianbull

It happened last weekend..!

The incident still occupied my mind??_ what is the odds, chances.. what ever you have word for it..?

And then everything turns to peaceful and actually enjoyable moments? Without saying..(that son of a bitch)..?

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

It's called acceptance Q. Leaving the past where it belongs and being at peace with things. Time softens wounds, heals breaches. That you enjoyed their company and they yours means everyone is grown. Isn't it nice? I think it is. 🙂
As to the time frame, well. It is rather odd, but it touched you. Maybe whatever floats up there in the sky thought you needed a smile.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

It simply means that you've absorbed things, good, bad, indifferent. It matters not. You hold it to yourself and accept it for what it is. What it was. And you move on from it. Absolve yourself in another way. Perhaps I interjected my own experience into the mix in what I went through during my divorce. I think I did. But it's kept me from being bitter about things. To concentrate on what I enjoyed about the man, not what I disliked.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

That's the way as —I?? am (as always) and that's the way (they are), what the hell is this acceptance..?

Care to share your mind more on this —subject?? of co-incidences..?

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Accepting of the past Q, internalizing it. Being able to just relax and enjoy each others company without all the pitfalls and trip wires of old arguments, old hurts. To cut the crap and mind games and be an adult about things.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Perhaps I did. What I read was that one ex had a nice visit, then a bit later another. That is all I read into it. Nothing else. I apologize if I put a spin on it that doesn't jibe with whatever it was you were trying to get across.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Chances, slim to nil. Odds, 1,000,000 to ONE. And I wasn't giving you advice Q, I was explaining what I wrote. I cannot see nor gauge your internal mechanisms over a message board. Nor am I here to verbally spar with you.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Let me help you to understand the situation here

EX are EX and should be remain as EX (it is not a fucking American reality shows crap)

Someday out of the blue you meet ex??s all at once in the same place and same time with no pre programmed meeting agreements..!

What are the odds..?

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Well that would actually mean something if I watched that crap. I do not, I abhor it. Utter waste of time and complete nonsense. The ODDS are very slim that such an occurrence should take place. And YES EX's should remain EX's. Mine is, it's behind me, back there. Toodle-ooo, buh bye. I just thought it rather nice that you had two visits back to back that you enjoyed!

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

There were no meetings, no calls, and no agreements??_!

I was minding my own business; I haven't seen these gorgeous ladies for ages"at least" for the past 10 years or something..

Again.. what are the odds..?

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@MissPirate
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Wow that is some coincidence.

What did your ex's say about why they were there Q? Had you been there before with either of them?

Either way I still say it's spooky.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Getting aneurysm...? Nah.. I am much tougher than that but truth to be told, I haven't seen these gorgeous ladies for ages... More than 10 years, perhaps once a year and a couple of email something in New Year wish and Christmas and that's it.

It is still puzzling me, so many years has passing by and suddenly both of them in that REMOTE area at the same time..!

It is goddamn spooky??_!

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Well thank heavens on the no aneurysm. 🙂 I'd honestly be scratching my head over the whole thing as well. But I'd have shrugged it off as a nice coincidence.
Chalked it up to some universal random occurrence, smiled and shook my head.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by james tate
Kick back just let it happen maybe its a good time the three of you get together and forget hard feelings just enjoy.

How about hugging and singing kumbayah altogether??_.? These ladies and their actions destroyed part of my life that I can not get it back, It is not that easy to forget and forgive..!

I am not seeking revenge, this is not satisfaction to my book.!

Gee I don't know, I may disregard the whole damn incident (like never happened) and walk away as the way I did last time??_!

Thanks for your answers people..!

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

VB

I believe that should go to the first page and the read the OP carefully...

My question was and still is (sort of), what is the chance to meet these destroyers (all together) is that remote place without any notifications..?

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Perhaps to simply show you that you are the bigger human being in all of this. I read most carefully, your English is just fine. But to be honest sometimes I have to wrap my brain around your posts and absorb them. Chew on them awhile until it all falls like dominoes.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Lol

You are not alone with it (my English), it has been under the question for several years right here in DXP it is kind of —_

No worries, you'll get use to it..!

🙂

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