Gemitati
@Gemitati
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Posted by BrosmosisI really wish you had power outage!Posted by GemitatiPut dat crack pipe down, bro.
...if people who matters love you the way you are?
Right? And specially when some of them don't even KNOW how old are you and never asked. So heck with it!
When you done - they will alter your face so no one can recognize you anyways?click to expand
Posted by Gemitati—
When you done - they will alter your face so no one can recognize you anyways?
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
Posted by GlaringTruthNo. This post is made for you to come out and ask stupid questions!
Is this you talking to yourself?
Mission accomplished. Deleting the post.
Duh!
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!click to expand
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
Posted by starwarsI am not wasting it on you.Posted by Gemitatiarent u supposed to be wise and shitPosted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
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Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?click to expand
Posted by starwarsStay stupid and single!Posted by Gemitatistay pissed and wrinklyPosted by starwarsI am not wasting it on you.Posted by Gemitatiarent u supposed to be wise and shitPosted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
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Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
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Posted by starwarsAny word longer then 4 letters is big for you...Posted by Gemitatibig words right therePosted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
click to expand
Posted by starwarsDoes your grandma though you to say that?Posted by Gemitatigo knit or something!Posted by starwarsStay stupid and single!Posted by Gemitatistay pissed and wrinklyPosted by starwarsI am not wasting it on you.Posted by Gemitatiarent u supposed to be wise and shitPosted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
click to expand
Posted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
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I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you been lied a lot to witch hunter?Posted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?click to expand
Seems you are obsessed with catching liars. I would feel for you info cared. Sorry I don't. ?
Posted by Scorpio84Tip isn't enough. I need whole 9 yards...
I can give you good tips to get younger lol
Posted by starwars@teena called itPosted by LadyNeptuneooooPosted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
you think gemitati = DJ? LOL
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Posted by GemitatiYou don't care cause your a troll.Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you been lied a lot to witch hunter?Posted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
Seems you are obsessed with catching liars. I would feel for you info cared. Sorry I don't. ?click to expand
A troll with saggy wrinkly DEFLATED granny tits.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneYou make me yawn...Posted by GemitatiYou don't care cause your a troll.Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you been lied a lot to witch hunter?Posted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
Seems you are obsessed with catching liars. I would feel for you info cared. Sorry I don't. ?
A troll with saggy wrinkly DEFLATED granny tits.
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Posted by GemitatiThanks for the update ?Posted by LadyNeptuneYou make me yawn...Posted by GemitatiYou don't care cause your a troll.Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you been lied a lot to witch hunter?Posted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
Seems you are obsessed with catching liars. I would feel for you info cared. Sorry I don't. ?
A troll with saggy wrinkly DEFLATED granny tits.
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Posted by Scorpio84We've been trough this before.
How old are you now?
Too forgetful for your age? Write important info down. Save. Now you have it!
I am 51 as of May 26.
Posted by Scorpio84And I am not repeating it! ?Posted by GemitatiPosted by Scorpio84We've been trough this before.
How old are you now?
Too forgetful for your age? Write important info down. Save. Now you have it!
I am 51 as of May 26.
lol it's the first time your telling me xDclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneLOL!!Posted by starwars@teena called itPosted by LadyNeptuneooooPosted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
you think gemitati = DJ? LOL
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post your pic gemitati, I'm curious
Posted by TeenaHow is it funny TEE-NA? ?Posted by LadyNeptuneLOL!!Posted by starwars@teena called itPosted by LadyNeptuneooooPosted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
you think gemitati = DJ? LOL
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Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
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since I'll be single forever
Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single foreverclick to expand
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!click to expand
What is going wrong?
Posted by Gemitati??Posted by TeenaHow is it funny TEE-NA? ?Posted by LadyNeptuneLOL!!Posted by starwars@teena called itPosted by LadyNeptuneooooPosted by GemitatiDeflating?? What does that even mean.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.Posted by GemitatiSo there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...Posted by starwarsYou wish you were as wrinkly as I am!Posted by Gemitatichill or you'll get even more wrinkly
@starwars
Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!
You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
you think gemitati = DJ? LOL
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No kidding! Not funny at all ?
Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?click to expand
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Posted by pinkbird03I am packing my stuff and moving outta this thread. So long...?Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by pinkbird03I am packing my stuff and moving outta this thread. So long...?Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!click to expand
Lol oh come on I can't be that bad
Posted by pinkbird03Trust me. You are!Posted by GemitatiPosted by pinkbird03I am packing my stuff and moving outta this thread. So long...?Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Lol oh come on I can't be that bad
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I am afraid it's sociopathic Narcissism.
And there is no cure so far. Bye
Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!click to expand
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?click to expand
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.click to expand
Posted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.click to expand
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Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
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lol yea!
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
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lol yea!
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Lol! And then they run away??
Posted by pinkbird03I can read!!!! ?Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
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lol yea!
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Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
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lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
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Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
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lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
click to expand
Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
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lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
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Thankyiuverymuch!
Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
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I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?
Posted by TeenaI've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!click to expand
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
Posted by TeenaProbably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
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Posted by GemitatiLOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —Posted by TeenaI've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!
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