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Posted by pisceanloves
And in my honest opinion men are unable to love. Throw shit at me dxp, not going to change my mind period lolYeah right...
Said no frigid woman ever lol click to expand
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I've had a few men love me deeply and sincerely 💙. I feel some of them still do.
My father loved my mother for over 40 years...I'd say more than she did him. My uncle loved my aunt and my brother in law loved my sis so much, he nursed her through cancer until she passed
Posted by Palerio
It would backfire with meSo you will hate her ? Or what? click to expand
I'll make you feel better than wanting just sex to begin with click to expand
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Cool!
The man I’m talking about tried everything with me, but the feelings is gone for good
I guess I have a very cold heart, I don’t forgive or forget .. in my mind he is just for sex and ego boost.
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
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A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
I'd be okay with it for a couple of years provided we had an agreement.
Sex would be on my terms.
She'd also have to pay for stuff and agree to travel with me at least 3-4 weeks out of the year.Lol, you've given this some thought. click to expand
What do YOU think of this venusaquarius?
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Been there, done that. I recall a Gemini who didn't seem in love but I found out later he was. Broke it off with him when I meet my husband and told him, "I met my husband." It seemed very open as I would ask him questions about other women past and present. I wasn't seeing anyone else and didn't plan to. I discussed that openly too. He was and an inspiring dancer. I found out when years later, my husband, my toddler son and I were in Krispy Kreme doughnuts. I saw him sitting at a table alone. I turned away because my husband is combative (w/men) and possessive (w/me). He saw me and looked somber. When I turned around, he was gone.
Then there was a Scorpio... we were not compatible and he didn't care. Longer story... but, he said he would take sex. He wanted to shack and I don't shack. If I'm going to give up my freedom, my space in a bathroom, cook, etc. It's marriage. He tried to bargain with me. Said I could keep all my money and he would pay all the bills because he's been paying them anyway. Now, that was tempting. Ran it past my girlfriends but, no. He explained thar he was the type of guy that when he comes home, if I'm on the phone, he expects you to hang up and greet him at the door... No. I do that sometimes but to expect it and feel some type of way... No.
We were very intimate, one of my closest friends and confidants and I his. But, only compatible as lovers.
Truly a Venus Aquarius afterall...
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
I'd be okay with it for a couple of years provided we had an agreement.
Sex would be on my terms.
She'd also have to pay for stuff and agree to travel with me at least 3-4 weeks out of the year.Lol, you've given this some thought. click to expand
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lol i have
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
I'd be okay with it for a couple of years provided we had an agreement.
Sex would be on my terms.
She'd also have to pay for stuff and agree to travel with me at least 3-4 weeks out of the year.Lol, you've given this some thought. click to expand
What do YOU think of this venusaquarius?
Been there, done that. I recall a Gemini who didn't seem in love but I found out later he was. Broke it off with him when I meet my husband and told him, "I met my husband." It seemed very open as I would ask him questions about other women past and present. I wasn't seeing anyone else and didn't plan to. I discussed that openly too. He was and an inspiring dancer. I found out when years later, my husband, my toddler son and I were in Krispy Kreme doughnuts. I saw him sitting at a table alone. I turned away because my husband is combative (w/men) and possessive (w/me). He saw me and looked somber. When I turned around, he was gone.
Then there was a Scorpio... we were not compatible and he didn't care. Longer story... but, he said he would take sex. He wanted to shack and I don't shack. If I'm going to give up my freedom, my space in a bathroom, cook, etc. It's marriage. He tried to bargain with me. Said I could keep all my money and he would pay all the bills because he's been paying them anyway. Now, that was tempting. Ran it past my girlfriends but, no. He explained thar he was the type of guy that when he comes home, if I'm on the phone, he expects you to hang up and greet him at the door... No. I do that sometimes but to expect it and feel some type of way... No.
We were very intimate, one of my closest friends and confidants and I his. But, only compatible as lovers.Truly a Venus Aquarius afterall... click to expand
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Waaah... yours is also gemini
Poor man I don’t know why, but I felt sorry for him.
I mean yeah, I really understand you, and what you’re talking about.
Maybe it’s our gemini moon.. I never know this side of me, that I can use a man, I never did, but in my mind I think it will be very fun, he did a lot of bad things to me, I know he did it because he loved me, but I don’t have anything just I fancy his body, he is really good kisser
Whatever.... I’m not gonna do it, cuz My pride as woman stop me ..
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
I'd be okay with it for a couple of years provided we had an agreement.
Sex would be on my terms.
She'd also have to pay for stuff and agree to travel with me at least 3-4 weeks out of the year.Lol, you've given this some thought. click to expand
What do YOU think of this venusaquarius?
Been there, done that. I recall a Gemini who didn't seem in love but I found out later he was. Broke it off with him when I meet my husband and told him, "I met my husband." It seemed very open as I would ask him questions about other women past and present. I wasn't seeing anyone else and didn't plan to. I discussed that openly too. He was and an inspiring dancer. I found out when years later, my husband, my toddler son and I were in Krispy Kreme doughnuts. I saw him sitting at a table alone. I turned away because my husband is combative (w/men) and possessive (w/me). He saw me and looked somber. When I turned around, he was gone.
Then there was a Scorpio... we were not compatible and he didn't care. Longer story... but, he said he would take sex. He wanted to shack and I don't shack. If I'm going to give up my freedom, my space in a bathroom, cook, etc. It's marriage. He tried to bargain with me. Said I could keep all my money and he would pay all the bills because he's been paying them anyway. Now, that was tempting. Ran it past my girlfriends but, no. He explained thar he was the type of guy that when he comes home, if I'm on the phone, he expects you to hang up and greet him at the door... No. I do that sometimes but to expect it and feel some type of way... No.
We were very intimate, one of my closest friends and confidants and I his. But, only compatible as lovers.Truly a Venus Aquarius afterall... click to expand
Waaah... yours is also gemini
Poor man I don’t know why, but I felt sorry for him.
I mean yeah, I really understand you, and what you’re talking about.
Maybe it’s our gemini moon.. I never know this side of me, that I can use a man, I never did, but in my mind I think it will be very fun, he did a lot of bad things to me, I know he did it because he loved me, but I don’t have anything just I fancy his body, he is really good kisserWhatever.... I’m not gonna do it, cuz My pride as woman stop me ..
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I don't think I used though. It was an open discussion with the Gemini. We met at a club. I guess he liked my moves. I like to dance.
The Scorpio literally asked for it.
Good luck. Nothing's wrong with honesty. Hey, I thought my husband was going to be a one night stand... and look what happened. 😆 Even a after a four year, no contact divorce.
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
I'd be okay with it for a couple of years provided we had an agreement.
Sex would be on my terms.
She'd also have to pay for stuff and agree to travel with me at least 3-4 weeks out of the year.Lol, you've given this some thought. click to expand
What do YOU think of this venusaquarius?
Been there, done that. I recall a Gemini who didn't seem in love but I found out later he was. Broke it off with him when I meet my husband and told him, "I met my husband." It seemed very open as I would ask him questions about other women past and present. I wasn't seeing anyone else and didn't plan to. I discussed that openly too. He was and an inspiring dancer. I found out when years later, my husband, my toddler son and I were in Krispy Kreme doughnuts. I saw him sitting at a table alone. I turned away because my husband is combative (w/men) and possessive (w/me). He saw me and looked somber. When I turned around, he was gone.
Then there was a Scorpio... we were not compatible and he didn't care. Longer story... but, he said he would take sex. He wanted to shack and I don't shack. If I'm going to give up my freedom, my space in a bathroom, cook, etc. It's marriage. He tried to bargain with me. Said I could keep all my money and he would pay all the bills because he's been paying them anyway. Now, that was tempting. Ran it past my girlfriends but, no. He explained thar he was the type of guy that when he comes home, if I'm on the phone, he expects you to hang up and greet him at the door... No. I do that sometimes but to expect it and feel some type of way... No.
We were very intimate, one of my closest friends and confidants and I his. But, only compatible as lovers.Truly a Venus Aquarius afterall... click to expand
Waaah... yours is also gemini
Poor man I don’t know why, but I felt sorry for him.
I mean yeah, I really understand you, and what you’re talking about.
Maybe it’s our gemini moon.. I never know this side of me, that I can use a man, I never did, but in my mind I think it will be very fun, he did a lot of bad things to me, I know he did it because he loved me, but I don’t have anything just I fancy his body, he is really good kisserWhatever.... I’m not gonna do it, cuz My pride as woman stop me ..
I don't think I used though. It was an open discussion with the Gemini. We met at a club. I guess he liked my moves. I like to dance.
The Scorpio literally asked for it.
Good luck. Nothing's wrong with honesty. Hey, I thought my husband was going to be a one night stand... and look what happened. 😆 Even a after a four year, no contact divorce. click to expand
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I said that before.. this man talk about marry me more than once ??
I just can’t do this to him, I will burn in hell for it
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
I'd be okay with it for a couple of years provided we had an agreement.
Sex would be on my terms.
She'd also have to pay for stuff and agree to travel with me at least 3-4 weeks out of the year.Lol, you've given this some thought. click to expand
What do YOU think of this venusaquarius?
Been there, done that. I recall a Gemini who didn't seem in love but I found out later he was. Broke it off with him when I meet my husband and told him, "I met my husband." It seemed very open as I would ask him questions about other women past and present. I wasn't seeing anyone else and didn't plan to. I discussed that openly too. He was and an inspiring dancer. I found out when years later, my husband, my toddler son and I were in Krispy Kreme doughnuts. I saw him sitting at a table alone. I turned away because my husband is combative (w/men) and possessive (w/me). He saw me and looked somber. When I turned around, he was gone.
Then there was a Scorpio... we were not compatible and he didn't care. Longer story... but, he said he would take sex. He wanted to shack and I don't shack. If I'm going to give up my freedom, my space in a bathroom, cook, etc. It's marriage. He tried to bargain with me. Said I could keep all my money and he would pay all the bills because he's been paying them anyway. Now, that was tempting. Ran it past my girlfriends but, no. He explained thar he was the type of guy that when he comes home, if I'm on the phone, he expects you to hang up and greet him at the door... No. I do that sometimes but to expect it and feel some type of way... No.
We were very intimate, one of my closest friends and confidants and I his. But, only compatible as lovers.Truly a Venus Aquarius afterall... click to expand
Waaah... yours is also gemini
Poor man I don’t know why, but I felt sorry for him.
I mean yeah, I really understand you, and what you’re talking about.
Maybe it’s our gemini moon.. I never know this side of me, that I can use a man, I never did, but in my mind I think it will be very fun, he did a lot of bad things to me, I know he did it because he loved me, but I don’t have anything just I fancy his body, he is really good kisserWhatever.... I’m not gonna do it, cuz My pride as woman stop me .. click to expand
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what did he do to you exactly?
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
I'd be okay with it for a couple of years provided we had an agreement.
Sex would be on my terms.
She'd also have to pay for stuff and agree to travel with me at least 3-4 weeks out of the year.Lol, you've given this some thought. click to expand
What do YOU think of this venusaquarius?
Been there, done that. I recall a Gemini who didn't seem in love but I found out later he was. Broke it off with him when I meet my husband and told him, "I met my husband." It seemed very open as I would ask him questions about other women past and present. I wasn't seeing anyone else and didn't plan to. I discussed that openly too. He was and an inspiring dancer. I found out when years later, my husband, my toddler son and I were in Krispy Kreme doughnuts. I saw him sitting at a table alone. I turned away because my husband is combative (w/men) and possessive (w/me). He saw me and looked somber. When I turned around, he was gone.
Then there was a Scorpio... we were not compatible and he didn't care. Longer story... but, he said he would take sex. He wanted to shack and I don't shack. If I'm going to give up my freedom, my space in a bathroom, cook, etc. It's marriage. He tried to bargain with me. Said I could keep all my money and he would pay all the bills because he's been paying them anyway. Now, that was tempting. Ran it past my girlfriends but, no. He explained thar he was the type of guy that when he comes home, if I'm on the phone, he expects you to hang up and greet him at the door... No. I do that sometimes but to expect it and feel some type of way... No.
We were very intimate, one of my closest friends and confidants and I his. But, only compatible as lovers.Truly a Venus Aquarius afterall... click to expand
Waaah... yours is also gemini
Poor man I don’t know why, but I felt sorry for him.
I mean yeah, I really understand you, and what you’re talking about.
Maybe it’s our gemini moon.. I never know this side of me, that I can use a man, I never did, but in my mind I think it will be very fun, he did a lot of bad things to me, I know he did it because he loved me, but I don’t have anything just I fancy his body, he is really good kisserWhatever.... I’m not gonna do it, cuz My pride as woman stop me .. click to expand
what did he do to you exactly? click to expand
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He hacked my phone.. he was thinking I was talking with multiple men, he hacked everything that you could ever think of, Twitter.. What’sapp... ect... It was really fkd up
lol!!
Posted by Masterful
it would cause me to join an online astrology forum from the deep seeded scars it would formclick to expand
Xd omg
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
if they love her they will want it no matter if she dont love him back. smh
Posted by Taniwha
Have sex with her, either she's gonna fall for me after the sex because oxytocin. Or I'm gonna lose interest with her afterwards anyway because sex seems to do that.+ still banged her.
so you’re saying that every woman will fall for every man as long as he having sex with her?
Then why there is a lot of wives does not love their husbands?
Posted by Impulsv
Ah you want revenge lolNo
He come back .. so I just think about it, that’s it click to expand😱 click to expand
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What ?
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
if they love her they will want it no matter if she dont love him back. smh
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You mean ALL men will be ok with this?
Like Scarlet did in the movie? She was in love with the painter but he is married... so she used Cillian for sex and intimacy .. very hurtful but maybe men can take it.
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
if they love her they will want it no matter if she dont love him back. smh
You mean ALL men will be ok with this?
Like Scarlet did in the movie? She was in love with the painter but he is married... so she used Cillian for sex and intimacy .. very hurtful but maybe men can take it. click to expand
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sometimes life is not fair....that's all. lol
Posted by Taniwha
Have sex with her, either she's gonna fall for me after the sex because oxytocin. Or I'm gonna lose interest with her afterwards anyway because sex seems to do that.+ still banged her.
so you’re saying that every woman will fall for every man as long as he having sex with her?
Then why there is a lot of wives does not love their husbands?
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lolol because she fell for him in the beginning, that's what oxytocin does. And maybe they should have more sex, it might fix the relationship. click to expand
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excuse me but this is not real, if a woman don’t love a man, sex can’t change that
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
if they love her they will want it no matter if she dont love him back. smh
You mean ALL men will be ok with this?
Like Scarlet did in the movie? She was in love with the painter but he is married... so she used Cillian for sex and intimacy .. very hurtful but maybe men can take it. click to expand
sometimes life is not fair....that's all. lol
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Lol remind me of my aqua sister when the conversation became deep, she willjust end it
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
@Squishy_Marshmallow
Tell me what did u hide?
There are men out there that aren't ruled by their genitals and want sex to have an emotional connection
I've met and had rships with a few of them.
Posted by Taniwha
Have sex with her, either she's gonna fall for me after the sex because oxytocin. Or I'm gonna lose interest with her afterwards anyway because sex seems to do that.+ still banged her.
so you’re saying that every woman will fall for every man as long as he having sex with her?
Then why there is a lot of wives does not love their husbands?
click to expand
lolol because she fell for him in the beginning, that's what oxytocin does. And maybe they should have more sex, it might fix the relationship. click to expand
excuse me but this is not real, if a woman don’t love a man, sex can’t change that
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Oxytocin is real lady click to expand
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Maybe it’s real, but you make it look like magic or something
Sex is a big deal, yeah but we can’t build a relationship just on sex
Posted by Haruuka
The user who posted this message has hidden it.Tell me what did u hide?
I forgot! Rofl
I said something like he said he gets fed up or loses interest after physical intimacy. I forgot the rest. click to expandclick to expand
Who said that? The scorpio
Posted by MyStarsShine
There are men out there that aren't ruled by their genitals and want sex to have an emotional connectionI've met and had rships with a few of them.
I aspire to reach these levels of manhood some day. click to expand
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If you've not reached them by your Uranus oposition......give up
😆
Posted by MyStarsShine
There are men out there that aren't ruled by their genitals and want sex to have an emotional connectionI've met and had rships with a few of them.
All men are animals in some level.. we also like this
But when I was about to tell him yesterday about my thoughts.. I just could not, I felt that I just can’t lol I’m so evil
Posted by pisceanloves
And in my honest opinion men are unable to love. Throw butter at me dxp, not going to change my mind period lolMen love just as deep as a woman. We just show it differently.
If anything, women don’t even recognize reciprocated love click to expand
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So you’re not ok with this idea? Woman using you for sex?
Posted by Taniwha
Have sex with her, either she's gonna fall for me after the sex because oxytocin. Or I'm gonna lose interest with her afterwards anyway because sex seems to do that.+ still banged her.
so you’re saying that every woman will fall for every man as long as he having sex with her?
Then why there is a lot of wives does not love their husbands?
click to expand
lolol because she fell for him in the beginning, that's what oxytocin does. And maybe they should have more sex, it might fix the relationship. click to expand
excuse me but this is not real, if a woman don’t love a man, sex can’t change that
click to expand
Oxytocin is real lady click to expand
Maybe it’s real, but you make it look like magic or something
Sex is a big deal, yeah but we can’t build a relationship just on sex
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heaps of people do just that, hence why there are over 7 billion people on this planet. click to expand
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Not me ... I’m very honest with myself
Posted by Taniwha
Have sex with her, either she's gonna fall for me after the sex because oxytocin. Or I'm gonna lose interest with her afterwards anyway because sex seems to do that.+ still banged her.
so you’re saying that every woman will fall for every man as long as he having sex with her?
Then why there is a lot of wives does not love their husbands?
click to expand
lolol because she fell for him in the beginning, that's what oxytocin does. And maybe they should have more sex, it might fix the relationship. click to expand
excuse me but this is not real, if a woman don’t love a man, sex can’t change that
click to expand
Oxytocin is real lady click to expand
Maybe it’s real, but you make it look like magic or something
Sex is a big deal, yeah but we can’t build a relationship just on sex
click to expand
heaps of people do just that, hence why there are over 7 billion people on this planet. click to expand
Not me ... I’m very honest with myself click to expand
said every women ever. click to expand
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Ah
This is your type
Posted by Haruuka
The user who posted this message has hidden it.Tell me what did u hide?
I forgot! Rofl
I said something like he said he gets fed up or loses interest after physical intimacy. I forgot the rest. click to expandbut you can unhide your post gemini, click to expand
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What do u think she said
Posted by MyStarsShine
There are men out there that aren't ruled by their genitals and want sex to have an emotional connectionI've met and had rships with a few of them.
All men are animals in some level.. we also like this
But when I was about to tell him yesterday about my thoughts.. I just could not, I felt that I just can’t lol I’m so evil click to expand
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All people are animals
Some are more sensitive than others
💙
Posted by pisceanloves
And in my honest opinion men are unable to love. Throw shit at me dxp, not going to change my mind period lolMen love just as deep as a woman. We just show it differently.
If anything, women don’t even recognize reciprocated love click to expand
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I am bergnning to believe this
The differences can cause confusion at times ....
Posted by Taniwha
Have sex with her, either she's gonna fall for me after the sex because oxytocin. Or I'm gonna lose interest with her afterwards anyway because sex seems to do that.+ still banged her.
so you’re saying that every woman will fall for every man as long as he having sex with her?
Then why there is a lot of wives does not love their husbands?
click to expand
lolol because she fell for him in the beginning, that's what oxytocin does. And maybe they should have more sex, it might fix the relationship. click to expand
excuse me but this is not real, if a woman don’t love a man, sex can’t change that
click to expand
Oxytocin is real lady click to expand
Maybe it’s real, but you make it look like magic or something
Sex is a big deal, yeah but we can’t build a relationship just on sex
click to expand
heaps of people do just that, hence why there are over 7 billion people on this planet. click to expand
Not me ... I’m very honest with myself click to expand
said every women ever. click to expand
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I think the lady is being honest with herself
Posted by pisceanloves
And in my honest opinion men are unable to love. Throw shit at me dxp, not going to change my mind period lolMen love just as deep as a woman. We just show it differently.
If anything, women don’t even recognize reciprocated love click to expand
I am bergnning to believe this
The differences can cause confusion at times .... click to expand
A man and a women dig a hole each. Both start to dig deep from the opposite sides of the earth, they dig so deep yet miss by a few meters and drig straight past each other, all the way to the other side. Every time. click to expand
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Yes sir
....but not every time or all the time
😊
Posted by Taniwha
Have sex with her, either she's gonna fall for me after the sex because oxytocin. Or I'm gonna lose interest with her afterwards anyway because sex seems to do that.+ still banged her.
For some reason, this left me cold 😬💨
Posted by Taniwha
Have sex with her, either she's gonna fall for me after the sex because oxytocin. Or I'm gonna lose interest with her afterwards anyway because sex seems to do that.+ still banged her.
For some reason, this left me cold 😬💨 click to expand
It's a sad story. She would probably get pregnant aswel, with twins. Followed by a life time of lies. click to expand
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No, the word *banged* leaves me cold.....you bang nails into wood .....
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
There's not much difference between men and women in this regard. That's what FWB (friends with benefits) - is all about. Two people - who use each-other for sex - with no expectations for anything more. Though, there's quite a lot of cases - where it stared like that - but things changed along the way... Despite the initial intention (just sex). I guess that's not something one could foresee (the probability of developing feelings or desiring a relationship with the one in question) - if sex was the main and only expectation. More often than not - it's the woman who happens to develop feelings - after getting physically intimate with him. Scientifically proven.
Ofc, this also depends on women and the type of sex - cause it's less likely to happen with some types (like rough sex - the types that are more focused on objectifying the partner / more focused on the surface - with no interest for something more/deeper, on a emotional level... a lot like porn). It's usually the sensual/bonding type - that can influence the ones in question to yearn for more. But again, for some people sex is their main goal - and they tend to loose interest after the deed is done - even if that happens in repeated cases. And yes, usually men fit this role - "if they didn't get the chance to bond emotionally - prior to having sex". That's also - why it's recommended to take it slow and get to know each-other first (form an emotional bond and such).
That being said, if he's really in love with you - and you two didn't agree to a FWB type of relationship (just sex / no strings attached), then it's quite likely that he doesn't see it like that ("ima let her use me for sex"). He just wants to be by your side as often as possible - maybe hopping that one day you'll chose him and see him as the right man for you (maybe looking at it - as if you're playing hard to get). There have been many such cases - where the guy kept on trying till he succeeded. So, maybe that's his hope. As for other men, if their main interest is just sex - they might be ok with it, but... based on what you mentioned before (him hacking your phone and stuff like that) - he seems really obsessed with you (your Scorpio placements - can find that appealing /it can even be a requirement/expectation from a men you'd like - to be a little obsessed/possessive of you 🙂 / while "indifference" can be a major turn-off).
Or at least that's how i see it.
On the other side of this, as a woman. This might affect my karma for even saying so, but if I had no other arrangements at that moment, and I needed warmth / companionship. It would be a great temptation for me to use a man that loved me, who I did not love back, for sex. Though even if I were brave enough to damage my own karma to do so, I would not drag it out for long. It would be like an emergency cure, a back up plan, and I would let him go, back into the wild open waters.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
On the other side of this, as a woman. This might affect my karma for even saying so, but if I had no other arrangements at that moment, and I needed warmth / companionship. It would be a great temptation for me to use a man that loved me, who I did not love back, for sex. Though even if I were brave enough to damage my own karma to do so, I would not drag it out for long. It would be like an emergency cure, a back up plan, and I would let him go, back into the wild open waters.
To use someone who loved you?
Oh God, I'd rather die than do that 😢. Where is your moon, Lady?
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
On the other side of this, as a woman. This might affect my karma for even saying so, but if I had no other arrangements at that moment, and I needed warmth / companionship. It would be a great temptation for me to use a man that loved me, who I did not love back, for sex. Though even if I were brave enough to damage my own karma to do so, I would not drag it out for long. It would be like an emergency cure, a back up plan, and I would let him go, back into the wild open waters.To use someone who loved you?
Oh God, I'd rather die than do that . Where is your moon, Lady?
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Well, I have never done it ... but I could not deny that the thought has crossed my mind before. Though, acting upon it is another matter. That, I have not taken action upon.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
On the other side of this, as a woman. This might affect my karma for even saying so, but if I had no other arrangements at that moment, and I needed warmth / companionship. It would be a great temptation for me to use a man that loved me, who I did not love back, for sex. Though even if I were brave enough to damage my own karma to do so, I would not drag it out for long. It would be like an emergency cure, a back up plan, and I would let him go, back into the wild open waters.To use someone who loved you?
Oh God, I'd rather die than do that . Where is your moon, Lady?
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Well, I have never done it ... but I could not deny that the thought has crossed my mind before. Though, acting upon it is another matter. That, I have not taken action upon.
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Would it bother you if a man did that to you Lady?
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
On the other side of this, as a woman. This might affect my karma for even saying so, but if I had no other arrangements at that moment, and I needed warmth / companionship. It would be a great temptation for me to use a man that loved me, who I did not love back, for sex. Though even if I were brave enough to damage my own karma to do so, I would not drag it out for long. It would be like an emergency cure, a back up plan, and I would let him go, back into the wild open waters.To use someone who loved you?
Oh God, I'd rather die than do that . Where is your moon, Lady?
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Well, I have never done it ... but I could not deny that the thought has crossed my mind before. Though, acting upon it is another matter. That, I have not taken action upon.
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Would it bother you if a man did that to you Lady? click to expand
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Men have already done it to me, I simply wished they did not lead me on by pretending they cared.
If I were to do what they did, I would in no way deny the fact that I do not love them.
Also, I would watch the threshold of the individual, and cut it off before it went too deep.
However, we are only discussing hypothetical situations here.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
On the other side of this, as a woman. This might affect my karma for even saying so, but if I had no other arrangements at that moment, and I needed warmth / companionship. It would be a great temptation for me to use a man that loved me, who I did not love back, for sex. Though even if I were brave enough to damage my own karma to do so, I would not drag it out for long. It would be like an emergency cure, a back up plan, and I would let him go, back into the wild open waters.To use someone who loved you?
Oh God, I'd rather die than do that . Where is your moon, Lady?
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Well, I have never done it ... but I could not deny that the thought has crossed my mind before. Though, acting upon it is another matter. That, I have not taken action upon.
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Would it bother you if a man did that to you Lady? click to expand
Men have already done it to me, I simply wished they did not lead me on by pretending they cared.
If I were to do what they did, I would in no way deny the fact that I do not love them.
Also, I would watch the threshold of the individual, and cut it off before it went too deep.
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Sorry to hear that
Luckily it didn't happen to me
😥
Posted by kitten_
Quincunxes Relationship problem no 1.What does Quincunxes mean ? click to expand
Five signs apart, darling
ie Scorpio and Aries
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Aha... I gor it now
Like sag and cancer, oh What about our lovely opposite??
They are perfect for this 😂😂 click to expand
Yes ma'am
Opposites more push and pull......quincunx lots of misunderstandings and not getting each other 🤔 click to expandclick to expand
So do you think I will be bad person if I use the gemini just for this?
When I think about it.. I feel so evil... but whatever I just got this idea from the movie.. and the funny part is she is sagittarius and use a gemini
I’m so evil 😭 click to expand
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What happened to this? Plan implemented already?
Im thinking the same thing about a Gemini too. I want more but i can sniff a player (i can be wrong) so im thinking it doesnt matter he is hot, take what he can offer 😈
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
There's not much difference between men and women in this regard. That's what FWB (friends with benefits) - is all about. Two people - who use each-other for sex - with no expectations for anything more. Though, there's quite a lot of cases - where it stared like that - but things changed along the way... Despite the initial intention (just sex). I guess that's not something one could foresee (the probability of developing feelings or desiring a relationship with the one in question) - if sex was the main and only expectation. More often than not - it's the woman who happens to develop feelings - after getting physically intimate with him. Scientifically proven.
Ofc, this also depends on women and the type of sex - cause it's less likely to happen with some types (like rough sex - the types that are more focused on objectifying the partner / more focused on the surface - with no interest for something more/deeper, on a emotional level... a lot like porn). It's usually the sensual/bonding type - that can influence the ones in question to yearn for more. But again, for some people sex is their main goal - and they tend to loose interest after the deed is done - even if that happens in repeated cases. And yes, usually men fit this role - "if they didn't get the chance to bond emotionally - prior to having sex". That's also - why it's recommended to take it slow and get to know each-other first (form an emotional bond and such).
That being said, if he's really in love with you - and you two didn't agree to a FWB type of relationship (just sex / no strings attached), then it's quite likely that he doesn't see it like that ("ima let her use me for sex"). He just wants to be by your side as often as possible - maybe hopping that one day you'll chose him and see him as the right man for you (maybe looking at it - as if you're playing hard to get). There have been many such cases - where the guy kept on trying till he succeeded. So, maybe that's his hope. As for other men, if their main interest is just sex - they might be ok with it, but... based on what you mentioned before (him hacking your phone and stuff like that) - he seems really obsessed with you (your Scorpio placements - can find that appealing /it can even be a requirement/expectation from a men you'd like - to be a little obsessed/possessive of you 🙂 / while "indifference" can be a major turn-off).
Or at least that's how i see it.
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Some men (people) bond with you before they even meet you or before introducing themselves. They watch you... or, have been looking for you all along.
No one ever think about the concept of lovers or simple love affairs. They do still exist. Geez.
Posted by pisceanloves
And in my honest opinion men are unable to love. Throw butter at me dxp, not going to change my mind period lolMen love just as deep as a woman. We just show it differently.
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So you’re not ok with this idea? Woman using you for sex? click to expand
Who would actually be ok with this?
If you’re ok with it then you don’t actually love them
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You can love them as a wonderful person but not be compatible or be in "romantic love."
Posted by pisceanloves
And in my honest opinion men are unable to love. Throw butter at me dxp, not going to change my mind period lolMen love just as deep as a woman. We just show it differently.
If anything, women don’t even recognize reciprocated love click to expand
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Oh yeah?? Can you explain how you guys show love? differently like how? SPEAK !
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
There's not much difference between men and women in this regard. That's what FWB (friends with benefits) - is all about. Two people - who use each-other for sex - with no expectations for anything more. Though, there's quite a lot of cases - where it stared like that - but things changed along the way... Despite the initial intention (just sex). I guess that's not something one could foresee (the probability of developing feelings or desiring a relationship with the one in question) - if sex was the main and only expectation. More often than not - it's the woman who happens to develop feelings - after getting physically intimate with him. Scientifically proven.
Ofc, this also depends on women and the type of sex - cause it's less likely to happen with some types (like rough sex - the types that are more focused on objectifying the partner / more focused on the surface - with no interest for something more/deeper, on a emotional level... a lot like porn). It's usually the sensual/bonding type - that can influence the ones in question to yearn for more. But again, for some people sex is their main goal - and they tend to loose interest after the deed is done - even if that happens in repeated cases. And yes, usually men fit this role - "if they didn't get the chance to bond emotionally - prior to having sex". That's also - why it's recommended to take it slow and get to know each-other first (form an emotional bond and such).
That being said, if he's really in love with you - and you two didn't agree to a FWB type of relationship (just sex / no strings attached), then it's quite likely that he doesn't see it like that ("ima let her use me for sex"). He just wants to be by your side as often as possible - maybe hopping that one day you'll chose him and see him as the right man for you (maybe looking at it - as if you're playing hard to get). There have been many such cases - where the guy kept on trying till he succeeded. So, maybe that's his hope. As for other men, if their main interest is just sex - they might be ok with it, but... based on what you mentioned before (him hacking your phone and stuff like that) - he seems really obsessed with you (your Scorpio placements - can find that appealing /it can even be a requirement/expectation from a men you'd like - to be a little obsessed/possessive of you 🙂 / while "indifference" can be a major turn-off).
Or at least that's how i see it. click to expand
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Neves, im thinking that some men just want sex but if you tell them 'im not one for casual sex, go find in bars/Tinder' but they wont because they also dont want easy sometimes and they want something they cant have. But even after a long time, my mind is still stuck with their first (and maybe main only) intention of scoring you for sex. Im not sure.. i could be mistaken
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
There's not much difference between men and women in this regard. That's what FWB (friends with benefits) - is all about. Two people - who use each-other for sex - with no expectations for anything more. Though, there's quite a lot of cases - where it stared like that - but things changed along the way... Despite the initial intention (just sex). I guess that's not something one could foresee (the probability of developing feelings or desiring a relationship with the one in question) - if sex was the main and only expectation. More often than not - it's the woman who happens to develop feelings - after getting physically intimate with him. Scientifically proven.
Ofc, this also depends on women and the type of sex - cause it's less likely to happen with some types (like rough sex - the types that are more focused on objectifying the partner / more focused on the surface - with no interest for something more/deeper, on a emotional level... a lot like porn). It's usually the sensual/bonding type - that can influence the ones in question to yearn for more. But again, for some people sex is their main goal - and they tend to loose interest after the deed is done - even if that happens in repeated cases. And yes, usually men fit this role - "if they didn't get the chance to bond emotionally - prior to having sex". That's also - why it's recommended to take it slow and get to know each-other first (form an emotional bond and such).
That being said, if he's really in love with you - and you two didn't agree to a FWB type of relationship (just sex / no strings attached), then it's quite likely that he doesn't see it like that ("ima let her use me for sex"). He just wants to be by your side as often as possible - maybe hopping that one day you'll chose him and see him as the right man for you (maybe looking at it - as if you're playing hard to get). There have been many such cases - where the guy kept on trying till he succeeded. So, maybe that's his hope. As for other men, if their main interest is just sex - they might be ok with it, but... based on what you mentioned before (him hacking your phone and stuff like that) - he seems really obsessed with you (your Scorpio placements - can find that appealing /it can even be a requirement/expectation from a men you'd like - to be a little obsessed/possessive of you 🙂 / while "indifference" can be a major turn-off).
Or at least that's how i see it. click to expand
Neves, im thinking that some men just want sex but if you tell them 'im not one for casual sex, go find in bars/Tinder' but they wont because they also dont want easy sometimes and they want something they cant have. But even after a long time, my mind is still stuck with their first (and maybe main only) intention of scoring you for sex. Im not sure.. i could be mistaken click to expand
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That's true some men - are just like that. Also, depends of your entourage. If you're in high school or college - that percentage can be as high as 60% if not more. And not just because they're immature - but also because their sexual drive is at the highest peak during that time. Thus, there's more men who may feel incline to go with their instinct (to think with their dick - if you will). That's supposedly a natural tendency of the human species - intended for reproduction (: the best time to have babies / a health related statistic - involving both the mother and the new born... after 30+ there's room for more complications 😕). Tough, as mentioned above - if they form a bond (if they get attached), even if sex was initially their main interest (their instinctual drive) - their feelings and thoughts - can be stuck on this one person "as the one and only". And that, can lead to a relationship - "if the feelings are mutual". Same goes for Tinder. Cause of the way it works (focused mainly on appearance - thus the sexual attraction is the main ingredient) - it's bound to be a place where you find more men like that (women too). And yet, even among those who met on tinder - there's some who end-up in a relationship (for same reason).
Anyway, my point is... the majority of men (women also) - are not like that (interested in scoring you for sex - as you put it). This fact it's quite easy to notice - if you take in consideration the world at large. 🙂
I mean woman who use a man she know he is really in love with her??
Like Scarlet did with Cillian Murphy in their movie together
...
A woman you really love-not just like, use you for her sexual pleasure...
Will you be ok with that —
There's not much difference between men and women in this regard. That's what FWB (friends with benefits) - is all about. Two people - who use each-other for sex - with no expectations for anything more. Though, there's quite a lot of cases - where it stared like that - but things changed along the way... Despite the initial intention (just sex). I guess that's not something one could foresee (the probability of developing feelings or desiring a relationship with the one in question) - if sex was the main and only expectation. More often than not - it's the woman who happens to develop feelings - after getting physically intimate with him. Scientifically proven.
Ofc, this also depends on women and the type of sex - cause it's less likely to happen with some types (like rough sex - the types that are more focused on objectifying the partner / more focused on the surface - with no interest for something more/deeper, on a emotional level... a lot like porn). It's usually the sensual/bonding type - that can influence the ones in question to yearn for more. But again, for some people sex is their main goal - and they tend to loose interest after the deed is done - even if that happens in repeated cases. And yes, usually men fit this role - "if they didn't get the chance to bond emotionally - prior to having sex". That's also - why it's recommended to take it slow and get to know each-other first (form an emotional bond and such).
That being said, if he's really in love with you - and you two didn't agree to a FWB type of relationship (just sex / no strings attached), then it's quite likely that he doesn't see it like that ("ima let her use me for sex"). He just wants to be by your side as often as possible - maybe hopping that one day you'll chose him and see him as the right man for you (maybe looking at it - as if you're playing hard to get). There have been many such cases - where the guy kept on trying till he succeeded. So, maybe that's his hope. As for other men, if their main interest is just sex - they might be ok with it, but... based on what you mentioned before (him hacking your phone and stuff like that) - he seems really obsessed with you (your Scorpio placements - can find that appealing /it can even be a requirement/expectation from a men you'd like - to be a little obsessed/possessive of you 🙂 / while "indifference" can be a major turn-off).
Or at least that's how i see it.
Some men (people) bond with you before they even meet you or before introducing themselves. They watch you... or, have been looking for you all along.
No one ever think about the concept of lovers or simple love affairs. They do still exist. Geez. click to expand
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That's also true. Unfortunately... this type of bonding can be a figment of your imagination (it's not based on reality)". That's usually the case with unrequited love. Where one party is deeply in love with the one question - while the other party - might find this idea uncomfortable (repulsive even - as far as romance goes). 😐
Posted by pisceanloves
And in my honest opinion men are unable to love. Throw butter at me dxp, not going to change my mind period lolMen love just as deep as a woman. We just show it differently.
If anything, women don’t even recognize reciprocated love click to expand
Oh yeah?? Can you explain how you guys show love? differently like how? SPEAK ! click to expand
Everyone shows love differently.
Several things have to be taken into consideration. What’s their personality type? Love language? Where’s their moon and Venus? What’s their past?
So many people never get to actually KNOW someone. People can’t put pride aside and just be flexible enough for someone to let their guard down click to expand
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Your response is completely irrelevant and literally suggest playing games, I don't do that bs and take none from nobody. Tell me you care and show it that's all I need, the rest is bullshit sorry. There's no such thing as love language and if someone truly cares that being said you will eventually know, well if you have to guess then this is complete lie and someone is feeding you with crap. When they start coming up with excuses you will know what's up, when they had plans and all of a sudden they get so caught up with work/school etc that says it's done, at least be a fucking decent human being and fucking say the way it is so we can move on to the next person. Their past? it was communication problems and he literally begged her to stay, while she didn't give a flying fuck about him and went on her life, left states and lives happily in Europe. Now he's doing the same to me, all of that crap for what? I didn't deserve that, oh wait let me guess, maybe he was less invested? wtf investment is all about? Do I need to make a guy spend tons of money on me? but what if I don't want to do that? I just can not allow that kind of behavior when I'm into someone and if I'm not then yes, no matter how much money they spend it's not gonna work and I'll never be yours, also isn't that gold digger attitude? having multiple guys putting lot of effort and she's not giving herself to any of them? what the fuck do you guys want? no seriously what the fuck all of you want?
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