
Is that a good thing or a bad thing? When someone says that to you, do you feel complimented or insulted?



Posted by EarthgoddessDo you ever tell her that?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowagree with this
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Doesn't it depend on the context & timing though? When I was told this, I was kinda being dictatorial. I've had a trying couple days where I've dealt with unbelievable human stupidity on multiple fronts and it ended up being far more than my Fishy nature/Virgin moon could tolerate.
I kinda flipped out for several hours and I practically became a different person than what my Virgo boy is used to seeing. When I get like this, multiple delicious thoughts of revenge take form inside my mind and I more or less obsess on how to get those people back. I do NOT take being crossed lightly.
But this sexy-as-fuck bizarre creature took a step back and observed me for the longest time, then decided to declare "I am so fascinated by you" when there was a lull in my demonic state of mind. He managed to make me crack a smile while still frowning like an old bag's wrinkled ass.
Usually it depends on the context it is in. I have a scorp bf and her level of emotional displays fascinate me. Sometimes in a good way....most time in a " I can't believe you did/said that " way lol. I love her?
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Posted by EarthgoddessLol no I meant if you've ever told her she fascinates you. And by "half here half there" look, I meant the look known around here as the male Gemini-smitten stare. Eyes half open with a faint smile on his lips.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo I never blantly tell her I think she's being crazy. But I do say things like " I love ur capacity to love" which I find SOOO fascinating about her but scary for me.Posted by EarthgoddessDo you ever tell her that?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowagree with this
@OrGasMe
@xXxQueenliciaXxX
Doesn't it depend on the context & timing though? When I was told this, I was kinda being dictatorial. I've had a trying couple days where I've dealt with unbelievable human stupidity on multiple fronts and it ended up being far more than my Fishy nature/Virgin moon could tolerate.
I kinda flipped out for several hours and I practically became a different person than what my Virgo boy is used to seeing. When I get like this, multiple delicious thoughts of revenge take form inside my mind and I more or less obsess on how to get those people back. I do NOT take being crossed lightly.
But this sexy-as-fuck bizarre creature took a step back and observed me for the longest time, then decided to declare "I am so fascinated by you" when there was a lull in my demonic state of mind. He managed to make me crack a smile while still frowning like an old bag's wrinkled ass.
Usually it depends on the context it is in. I have a scorp bf and her level of emotional displays fascinate me. Sometimes in a good way....most time in a " I can't believe you did/said that " way lol. I love her?
Uh.......do you look "half here, half elsewhere" when you say it?
I mean, my Virgo boy hardly ever gets the chance to see my forceful side that I often display here simply because it's never really warranted when we're around each other. Things are very easy when we're in the same room. But of course we all have a "dark side of the moon", and mine came out yesterday. His reaction to it though was fucken weird.
Ummm when she goes crazy on me( she does )
I just disregard her emotional spill and let her have at it. Its annoying ( to much emotion getting everywhere) after a few days she comes back sane.lol
I usually do the " half here, half elsewhere" lol when a person is acting/ talking Wat I consider stupid/ irrational...but unless u push it I would rarely tell someone I love their stupid- unless u push it
Wait wat do u mean forceful? Like u were an ass
Or u put ur foot down on a subject and wouldn't budge?
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingWhy were you offended? Did they catch you at a bad time?
When people have told me this I've usually been offended.
Although when I've told people this I meant it as a compliment...well kind of.
It's better to be interesting than boring imho....even if the reason why you were interesting was because you were a bit of an asshole.

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI took it as them being condescending.Posted by AdreamuponwakingWhy were you offended? Did they catch you at a bad time?
When people have told me this I've usually been offended.
Although when I've told people this I meant it as a compliment...well kind of.
It's better to be interesting than boring imho....even if the reason why you were interesting was because you were a bit of an asshole.click to expand

Posted by AdreamuponwakingBy any chance, have you and them borked each other's lazer? Or........have they ever sent you snaps of their dick "before" and "after (with jizz all over their abdomen)"?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI took it as them being condescending.Posted by AdreamuponwakingWhy were you offended? Did they catch you at a bad time?
When people have told me this I've usually been offended.
Although when I've told people this I meant it as a compliment...well kind of.
It's better to be interesting than boring imho....even if the reason why you were interesting was because you were a bit of an asshole.
It's usually straight white males that say this to me..often followed by a comment that is something along the lines of you're entertaining.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo I like women.Posted by AdreamuponwakingBy any chance, have you and them borked each other's lazer? Or........have they ever sent you snaps of their dick "before" and "after (with jizz all over their abdomen)"?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI took it as them being condescending.Posted by AdreamuponwakingWhy were you offended? Did they catch you at a bad time?
When people have told me this I've usually been offended.
Although when I've told people this I meant it as a compliment...well kind of.
It's better to be interesting than boring imho....even if the reason why you were interesting was because you were a bit of an asshole.
It's usually straight white males that say this to me..often followed by a comment that is something along the lines of you're entertaining.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowThe only dick picz I've received has been on grinder.Posted by AdreamuponwakingBy any chance, have you and them borked each other's lazer? Or........have they ever sent you snaps of their dick "before" and "after (with jizz all over their abdomen)"?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI took it as them being condescending.Posted by AdreamuponwakingWhy were you offended? Did they catch you at a bad time?
When people have told me this I've usually been offended.
Although when I've told people this I meant it as a compliment...well kind of.
It's better to be interesting than boring imho....even if the reason why you were interesting was because you were a bit of an asshole.
It's usually straight white males that say this to me..often followed by a comment that is something along the lines of you're entertaining.
Oh, I forgot to mention "around 3am"click to expand

Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo I like women.Posted by AdreamuponwakingBy any chance, have you and them borked each other's lazer? Or........have they ever sent you snaps of their dick "before" and "after (with jizz all over their abdomen)"?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI took it as them being condescending.Posted by AdreamuponwakingWhy were you offended? Did they catch you at a bad time?
When people have told me this I've usually been offended.
Although when I've told people this I meant it as a compliment...well kind of.
It's better to be interesting than boring imho....even if the reason why you were interesting was because you were a bit of an asshole.
It's usually straight white males that say this to me..often followed by a comment that is something along the lines of you're entertaining.
I feel like they are threatened by me or something... or maybe they feel emasculated since I don't act like the girls they date in that I will challenge you if I think you're talking out of your ass...
........ so they try to put me down.
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Posted by infiresMy Jed.
whi says it
Posted by infiresWith a low, soft voice. The look in his face.....if I had a mirror every time I did it, it'd be almost identical to the look on my face whenever I compliment his looks or a specific part of his chiseled anatomy.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI think he's surprised by your reaction is all...and still cares. I don't think you should look too deeply into whether or not it's a compliment. I think it was more of a statement.
@OrGasMe
@xXxQueenliciaXxX
Doesn't it depend on the context & timing though? When I was told this, I was kinda being dictatorial. I've had a trying couple days where I've dealt with unbelievable human stupidity on multiple fronts and it ended up being far more than my Fishy nature/Virgin moon could tolerate.
I kinda flipped out for several hours and I practically became a different person than what my Virgo boy is used to seeing. When I get like this, multiple delicious thoughts of revenge take form inside my mind and I more or less obsess on how to get those people back. I do NOT take being crossed lightly.
But this sexy-as-fuck bizarre creature took a step back and observed me for the longest time, then decided to declare "I am so fascinated by you" when there was a lull in my demonic state of mind. He managed to make me crack a smile while still frowning like an old bag's wrinkled ass.



Posted by OrGasMeUh......no, not that time lol. See, he'd previously expressed several times his desire to see my "ballshier" side because I'm always so nice to him - I guess his Leo cusp makes him fond of fire, himself being a firecracker to boot lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
@OrGasMe
@xXxQueenliciaXxX
Doesn't it depend on the context & timing though? When I was told this, I was kinda being dictatorial. I've had a trying couple days where I've dealt with unbelievable human stupidity on multiple fronts and it ended up being far more than my Fishy nature/Virgin moon could tolerate.
I kinda flipped out for several hours and I practically became a different person than what my Virgo boy is used to seeing. When I get like this, multiple delicious thoughts of revenge take form inside my mind and I more or less obsess on how to get those people back. I do NOT take being crossed lightly.
But this sexy-as-fuck bizarre creature took a step back and observed me for the longest time, then decided to declare "I am so fascinated by you" when there was a lull in my demonic state of mind. He managed to make me crack a smile while still frowning like an old bag's wrinkled ass.
Then I would take it as a compliment. It sounds like he had the perfect response for you. Intense sex afterwards, yeah?
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Posted by MaxPowerLmao he has called me an asshole once, and eyed me like anticipating my response to that.
I dated a Virgo who said this to me a lot. When we first met it meant she was seeing stars looking at me. Later on it was her nice way of calling me an asshole.
and said "you've known me for 4 years and NOW you just noticed??"
His Leo cusp makes him quirky as hell lol
Posted by MaxPowerIt's not that I try to hide it lol, I'm always myself around Jed. It's just that I utilize it to its full potential only when it's warranted. I don't walk around being an asshole 24/7 because it's just not necessary. The occasion doesn't call for it, until it does.
I'm impressed that you've managed not to show your asshole side this long. I think mine usually slips out after a couple weeks.


Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Only a water sign can dissect such a simple phrase....

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowIt could go either way. Good or bad. It depends on the way it's being said. So if a sarcastic tone of voice is used then it's bad.
Is that a good thing or a bad thing? When someone says that to you, do you feel complimented or insulted?

Posted by MaxPowerOh uh......sorry babe, no sex. Just cleaned the bar.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowDamn, you must be like my girl. I'm kind of a low-key asshole all the time, which I try not to be for her sake. She on the other hand is sweet as pie, until she loses her cool, and then you should hear the shit that comes out of her mouth. So far it hasn't been directed at me...plan to keep it that way.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not that I try to hide it lol, I'm always myself around Jed. It's just that I utilize it to its full potential only when it's warranted. I don't walk around being an asshole 24/7 because it's just not necessary. The occasion doesn't call for it, until it does.
I'm impressed that you've managed not to show your asshole side this long. I think mine usually slips out after a couple weeks.
When we're together we're all laughs and giggles (and some other stuff). We never argue and we never fight, so that side of me never comes out around him. We tease each other mercilessly but it's just for the lulz.
But when I'm dealing with stupid people who allegedly speak english but don't seem to grasp it even after speaking plainly to them multiple times, then you get the asshole who has zero tolerance for retardation.click to expand

Posted by EarthgoddessAha, you both like it ruff!Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by MaxPowerIt's not that I try to hide it lol, I'm always myself around Jed. It's just that I utilize it to its full potential only when it's warranted. I don't walk around being an asshole 24/7 because it's just not necessary. The occasion doesn't call for it, until it does.
I'm impressed that you've managed not to show your asshole side this long. I think mine usually slips out after a couple weeks.
When we're together we're all laughs and giggles (and some other stuff). We never argue and we never fight, so that side of me never comes out around him. We tease each other mercilessly but it's just for the lulz.
But when I'm dealing with stupid people who allegedly speak english but don't seem to grasp it even after speaking plainly to them multiple times, then you get the asshole who has zero tolerance for retardation.
I find that. Absoultly hot asf. To see a nice, sweet, charming man's aggressive side is def a turn on. Especially if I dnt see it that often and Its warranted.
Did I mention I used to be smitten with a guy( ARIes Sun) who would defend me from being taken advantage of consistently. It would make me blush and I would TRY to hid it but I just couldn't. I have a feeling this is the same situationclick to expand



Posted by Mike79Someone I can't stop staring, someone I love to watch.
What does "you being Facinated by a person" mean to you—


Posted by EarthgoddessLike hell you are!!!!Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWho me like it ruff?Posted by EarthgoddessAha, you both like it ruff!Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by MaxPowerIt's not that I try to hide it lol, I'm always myself around Jed. It's just that I utilize it to its full potential only when it's warranted. I don't walk around being an asshole 24/7 because it's just not necessary. The occasion doesn't call for it, until it does.
I'm impressed that you've managed not to show your asshole side this long. I think mine usually slips out after a couple weeks.
When we're together we're all laughs and giggles (and some other stuff). We never argue and we never fight, so that side of me never comes out around him. We tease each other mercilessly but it's just for the lulz.
But when I'm dealing with stupid people who allegedly speak english but don't seem to grasp it even after speaking plainly to them multiple times, then you get the asshole who has zero tolerance for retardation.
I find that. Absoultly hot asf. To see a nice, sweet, charming man's aggressive side is def a turn on. Especially if I dnt see it that often and Its warranted.
Did I mention I used to be smitten with a guy( ARIes Sun) who would defend me from being taken advantage of consistently. It would make me blush and I would TRY to hid it but I just couldn't. I have a feeling this is the same situation![]()
Yeah that's what I thought. I've seen his orgasmic face enough times to recognize when he's "in the mood" for a little light between-the-clothes action. I just had to make sure.![]()
Never I'm a virgo silly??
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWould you agree that facination is a good thing ?Posted by Mike79Someone I can't stop staring, someone I love to watch.
What does "you being Facinated by a person" mean to you—
Vera Farmiga fascinates me as Norma Bates. I can't get enough of that woman. Her overall performance really got to me, and it doesn't help that there are too many similarities between me and Norma.
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Posted by Mike79*sticks head inside bedroom, sees demigod's nude form still sleeping half-covered*Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWould you agree that facination is a good thing ?Posted by Mike79Someone I can't stop staring, someone I love to watch.
What does "you being Facinated by a person" mean to you—
Vera Farmiga fascinates me as Norma Bates. I can't get enough of that woman. Her overall performance really got to me, and it doesn't help that there are too many similarities between me and Norma.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowTo me, you knew this answer all along why the thread ? Did you need us to agree on what you already knew.Posted by Mike79*sticks head inside bedroom, sees demigod's nude form still sleeping half-covered*Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWould you agree that facination is a good thing ?Posted by Mike79Someone I can't stop staring, someone I love to watch.
What does "you being Facinated by a person" mean to you—
Vera Farmiga fascinates me as Norma Bates. I can't get enough of that woman. Her overall performance really got to me, and it doesn't help that there are too many similarities between me and Norma.![]()
Definitely![]()
You're welcome to join us for breakfast, unless you're squeamish
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Posted by Mike79I didn't. Not until I had a chance to drill Jed about it.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowTo me, you knew this answer all along why the thread ? Did you need us to agree on what you already knew.Posted by Mike79*sticks head inside bedroom, sees demigod's nude form still sleeping half-covered*Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWould you agree that facination is a good thing ?Posted by Mike79Someone I can't stop staring, someone I love to watch.
What does "you being Facinated by a person" mean to you—
Vera Farmiga fascinates me as Norma Bates. I can't get enough of that woman. Her overall performance really got to me, and it doesn't help that there are too many similarities between me and Norma.![]()
Definitely![]()
You're welcome to join us for breakfast, unless you're squeamish![]()
Sometimes we need to ask our self the question first then ask others usually we already know the answers to our own questions...click to expand
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