Cancer moon confessions

I do that shit way too much but sometimes I just need to organize my thoughts and things that I need to finish and get done and I can't do that when I'm trying to stroke other peoples egos. Like I don't want to be around them and be fake and pretend a mystery and what they have to say because my mind is not with that person at the moment and I know that sounds insensitive but i'd rather be around when I can be attentive. The tricky part is letting people know that I need space it's hard because I don't want them to think that they're bugging me but I guess it's wise to just ignore people. Often times I know this and I say this in my head but I still do this because secretly I feel like if you know me you should KNOW me. You know that I mostly happy and bubbly so when I am pushing off the leave me alone vibe Why not just do that? But if I'm honest myself I only really ignore those people I feel like I want something from me especially if they want an emotional response. I don't have time I'm dealing with my own.

You're good- Staying true to yourself. Don't worry about other people. You do you ?

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You're good- Staying true to yourself. Don't worry about other people. You do you ?

Hey girly! I hope you are well!

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Posted by ladylibra21
I do that shit way too much but sometimes I just need to organize my thoughts and things that I need to finish and get done and I can't do that when I'm trying to stroke other peoples egos. Like I don't want to be around them and be fake and pretend a mystery and what they have to say because my mind is not with that person at the moment and I know that sounds insensitive but i'd rather be around when I can be attentive. The tricky part is letting people know that I need space it's hard because I don't want them to think that they're bugging me but I guess it's wise to just ignore people. Often times I know this and I say this in my head but I still do this because secretly I feel like if you know me you should KNOW me. You know that I mostly happy and bubbly so when I am pushing off the leave me alone vibe Why not just do that? But if I'm honest myself I only really ignore those people I feel like I want something from me especially if they want an emotional response. I don't have time I'm dealing with my own.

Presuming others should know how you feel is a bit egocentrical dont ya think? My friends tell me when they need space, i tell them as well and we are all good. Communication is a great thing 😄

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I didn't say it made sense just said it is how i feel LOL

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You're good- Staying true to yourself. Don't worry about other people. You do you ?

Hey girly! I hope you are well!

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Thanks!! I'm great. Have a second date tomorrow 😄 hope things are still going well for you too!

Posted by ladylibra21
I do that shit way too much but sometimes I just need to organize my thoughts and things that I need to finish and get done and I can't do that when I'm trying to stroke other peoples egos. Like I don't want to be around them and be fake and pretend a mystery and what they have to say because my mind is not with that person at the moment and I know that sounds insensitive but i'd rather be around when I can be attentive. The tricky part is letting people know that I need space it's hard because I don't want them to think that they're bugging me but I guess it's wise to just ignore people. Often times I know this and I say this in my head but I still do this because secretly I feel like if you know me you should KNOW me. You know that I mostly happy and bubbly so when I am pushing off the leave me alone vibe Why not just do that? But if I'm honest myself I only really ignore those people I feel like I want something from me especially if they want an emotional response. I don't have time I'm dealing with my own.

I have a couple of friends who really suck some energy out of me. And sometimes I need my space. Or as you say, it feels fake to just listen to them when your mind is not there with them.

I can't tell them blantly. It would for sure bring a bad energy to the friendship. So Im starting to ignore.

Sometimes like you I need time and space to deal with my own shit to the point I cant take someone elses.

It happened they be calling and I dont answer. Then they call through whatsapp, then through facebook....and the more they call the less I feel like picking up. They dont seem to get the hint.

I even stop opening facebook and whatsapp so they dont see Im online ?

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Posted by ladylibra21
I do that shit way too much but sometimes I just need to organize my thoughts and things that I need to finish and get done and I can't do that when I'm trying to stroke other peoples egos. Like I don't want to be around them and be fake and pretend a mystery and what they have to say because my mind is not with that person at the moment and I know that sounds insensitive but i'd rather be around when I can be attentive. The tricky part is letting people know that I need space it's hard because I don't want them to think that they're bugging me but I guess it's wise to just ignore people. Often times I know this and I say this in my head but I still do this because secretly I feel like if you know me you should KNOW me. You know that I mostly happy and bubbly so when I am pushing off the leave me alone vibe Why not just do that? But if I'm honest myself I only really ignore those people I feel like I want something from me especially if they want an emotional response. I don't have time I'm dealing with my own.

I have a couple of friends who really suck some energy out of me. And sometimes I need my space. Or as you say, it feels fake to just listen to them when your mind is not there with them.

I can't tell them blantly. It would for sure bring a bad energy to the friendship. So Im starting to ignore.

Sometimes like you I need time and space to deal with my own shit to the point I cant take someone elses.

It happened they be calling and I dont answer. Then they call through whatsapp, then through facebook....and the more they call the less I feel like picking up. They dont seem to get the hint.

I even stop opening facebook and whatsapp so they dont see Im online ?

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This ^^

That is exactly how I feel! The more contact the more I retreat. I feel like telling them I need space brings up too much to explain and explaining mixed emotions is not an easy feat.

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You're good- Staying true to yourself. Don't worry about other people. You do you ?

Hey girly! I hope you are well!

Thanks!! I'm great. Have a second date tomorrow 😄 hope things are still going well for you too!

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Yass! Good luck! I am glad you are moving forward! He is on vacation right now, but I am not sure where we are right now. My gut says he is evaluating all kinds of relationships in his life at the moment so i wont be surprised if he is distant next week. I shall see Monday, but I am not really holding my breath with him anymore I am just trying to get my life together lol.

The main issues I have with water sign actions..

Just say you need space. But cancers I've noticed in general really have trouble with emotions and feelings. Like it exhausts you guys. For someone who needs communication that's painful to say the least, but we all have our ways

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You're good- Staying true to yourself. Don't worry about other people. You do you ?

Hey girly! I hope you are well!

Thanks!! I'm great. Have a second date tomorrow 😄 hope things are still going well for you too!

Yass! Good luck! I am glad you are moving forward! He is on vacation right now, but I am not sure where we are right now. My gut says he is evaluating all kinds of relationships in his life at the moment so i wont be surprised if he is distant next week. I shall see Monday, but I am not really holding my breath with him anymore I am just trying to get my life together lol.

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Awe man why are cap men so confusing?? I hope he comes around soon! It's definitely good to focus on yourself right now. But I don't know. I guess I realized some things after ending it with the cap. If the feelings are mutual, the effort is equal. And the opposite is true too. Just something to think about.

Posted by arose32
The main issues I have with water sign actions..

Just say you need space. But cancers I've noticed in general really have trouble with emotions and feelings. Like it exhausts you guys. For someone who needs communication that's painful to say the least, but we all have our ways

The shity conflicting thing is I do need communication as well. I'm mainly behave this way with people who I'm not as close to but they are trying to get closer to me. Like is Aries guy likes me he's a wonderful guy he's very pleasant he's a sweetheart and a great friend Hell he is doctor a damn good one doing cancer research he's an all-around wonderful guy but I just don't know if I am attracted to him the way he is attracted to me and I distance myself because I don't want to lead him on and even though he has a positive influence he still doesn't really understand the things that are going on in my life he still very new so trusting him completely with my life is an issue. I can knows the basics but we are not at a point where I could just trust him with my thoughts and feelings you know what I mean.

My ex is a cancer moon and I can hear the pain in her sometimes and regrets. She would never say it.. but she hints at times. But, yeah you guys are so cowardly to me at times.. idk. Mess things up and run away etc because "it's too much" etc.. very very very selfish to say the least. But I understand her now, and picked up my own pieces and getting ready to change my number etc...

Just make sure you realize that it's not always about what you're feeling and others are involved. But I guess that's what make people different

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The main issues I have with water sign actions..

Just say you need space. But cancers I've noticed in general really have trouble with emotions and feelings. Like it exhausts you guys. For someone who needs communication that's painful to say the least, but we all have our ways

The shity conflicting thing is I do need communication as well. I'm mainly behave this way with people who I'm not as close to but they are trying to get closer to me. Like is Aries guy likes me he's a wonderful guy he's very pleasant he's a sweetheart and a great friend Hell he is doctor a damn good one doing cancer research he's an all-around wonderful guy but I just don't know if I am attracted to him the way he is attracted to me and I distance myself because I don't want to lead him on and even though he has a positive influence he still doesn't really understand the things that are going on in my life he still very new so trusting him completely with my life is an issue. I can knows the basics but we are not at a point where I could just trust him with my thoughts and feelings you know what I mean.

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A doctor likes you—

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Posted by arose32
The main issues I have with water sign actions..

Just say you need space. But cancers I've noticed in general really have trouble with emotions and feelings. Like it exhausts you guys. For someone who needs communication that's painful to say the least, but we all have our ways

The shity conflicting thing is I do need communication as well. I'm mainly behave this way with people who I'm not as close to but they are trying to get closer to me. Like is Aries guy likes me he's a wonderful guy he's very pleasant he's a sweetheart and a great friend Hell he is doctor a damn good one doing cancer research he's an all-around wonderful guy but I just don't know if I am attracted to him the way he is attracted to me and I distance myself because I don't want to lead him on and even though he has a positive influence he still doesn't really understand the things that are going on in my life he still very new so trusting him completely with my life is an issue. I can knows the basics but we are not at a point where I could just trust him with my thoughts and feelings you know what I mean.

A doctor likes you—

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Yes is a wonderful guy but I'm not romantically attracted to him which sucks because this guy looks perfect on paper with how sweet he is and how understanding and caring he is but I'm not romantically attracted to him maybe somethings wrong with me LOL. but I have no desire to pretend like I am he deserves way better than that.

I ignore people sometimes, purposely. I have this gem friend with taurus placements who comes from rich family and he's got problems with his parents, he lives with friends for more than a year now. Since I met him he's always desperate, whining too much, cursing his bad luck etc. I did my best to help him find his way in life, but nothing has changed. I have feeling that he doesn't put enough effort to start all over again. I really wanna help him I just don't know what else I can do or what he expects me to do. I'm trying to convince him to call his father and ask for a job as he owns some company but he won't do it. I also have feelings that he doesn't tell me much and there's something else he keeps secret. He sent messages a few days ago but I didn't respond. I just can't deal with this. Come on now, I'm trying to help, listen to me and do what I think is the best, if not why do you keep texting and whining over the same stuff. It's not cowardly that we back off, it's just that nobody listens

@piscean

Girl no. This girl led me on and then switched up etc. when I tried to get closer wouldn't.. if I asked for blue she would get red, if I asked for yellow green... and so on. She told me when she left she was never in love and never liked women... come back around and I'm frustrated says well it's too much and you know I didn't mean it...

Your situation is very much different .. so, not saying all. But my friends that are cancers have emotionally abused someone and then leave once the person begins to fight back or call them out. It's different in wanting to start stuff and not being able to fight when it's time. That's why I say cowardly. Not saying all of you so no offense if it's not you. But cancers can be the ultimate manipulators

And she can't talk about anything.. that's why I said it's like it exhausts you guys. Her moon sigh is in cancer and I feel so bad for her, because it's like she's trapped in her shell. She's doing drugs and drinking heavy right now, mentioned depression..

You guys just have to TALK. Let it out. I promise it won't kill you bro. Not everything is going to hurt you... water signs can be so self destructive at times... but I can understand the depth you guys feel for sure. My advice is just get it out.

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@piscean

Girl no. This girl led me on and then switched up etc. when I tried to get closer wouldn't.. if I asked for blue she would get red, if I asked for yellow green... and so on. She told me when she left she was never in love and never liked women... come back around and I'm frustrated says well it's too much and you know I didn't mean it...

Your situation is very much different .. so, not saying all. But my friends that are cancers have emotionally abused someone and then leave once the person begins to fight back or call them out. It's different in wanting to start stuff and not being able to fight when it's time. That's why I say cowardly. Not saying all of you so no offense if it's not you. But cancers can be the ultimate manipulators

I can see it being a cancer issue but it mostly sounds like an identity issue. Did she exhibits signs of being unsure about her sexuality because if you were the first woman she was with and she wasn't sure about what she wanted you always run the risk of falling into that you're my secret lover trap.

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Posted by arose32
The main issues I have with water sign actions..

Just say you need space. But cancers I've noticed in general really have trouble with emotions and feelings. Like it exhausts you guys. For someone who needs communication that's painful to say the least, but we all have our ways

The shity conflicting thing is I do need communication as well. I'm mainly behave this way with people who I'm not as close to but they are trying to get closer to me. Like is Aries guy likes me he's a wonderful guy he's very pleasant he's a sweetheart and a great friend Hell he is doctor a damn good one doing cancer research he's an all-around wonderful guy but I just don't know if I am attracted to him the way he is attracted to me and I distance myself because I don't want to lead him on and even though he has a positive influence he still doesn't really understand the things that are going on in my life he still very new so trusting him completely with my life is an issue. I can knows the basics but we are not at a point where I could just trust him with my thoughts and feelings you know what I mean.

A doctor likes you—

Yes is a wonderful guy but I'm not romantically attracted to him which sucks because this guy looks perfect on paper with how sweet he is and how understanding and caring he is but I'm not romantically attracted to him maybe somethings wrong with me LOL. but I have no desire to pretend like I am he deserves way better than that.

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Did you try to date him? Why aren't you romantically attracted to him. I understand because I dated a doctor once too. He was shorter than his online profile said- too short. He was the worst kisser ever!! Always pouting about something too in public! And lots of other things. I just couldn't so I do understand!!!

Passive aggressive water moons always assume people should read their minds. Just say what is on your mind and save others the headache.

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Passive aggressive water moons always assume people should read their minds. Just say what is on your mind and save others the headache.

At least someone understands my point of view, lol.

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Passive aggressive water moons always assume people should read their minds. Just say what is on your mind and save others the headache.

At least someone understands my point of view, lol.

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I didn't say that I didn't

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Passive aggressive water moons always assume people should read their minds. Just say what is on your mind and save others the headache.

At least someone understands my point of view, lol.

I didn't say that I didn't

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Noted.