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Posted by DeedleFaerie
Being with someone who fulfilled me emotionally I would 100% never cheat.
Imo I'd just leave. No point cheating, just leave.
You can't expect anyone to know exactly how to fulfill you're personal needs, for they are not you. It's not their fault YOU are not happy, and it isn't their fault YOU can't control emotions.
That's the lesson for Scorpio moons. It's learning how to complete and control your emotional needs all by yourself, and to quit expecting the world to know how to do it for you while walking on egg shells around you.
Posted by DeedleFaerie
Being with someone who fulfilled me emotionally I would 100% never cheat.Imo I'd just leave. No point cheating, just leave.
You can't expect anyone to know exactly how to fulfill you're personal needs, for they are not you. It's not their fault YOU are not happy, and it isn't their fault YOU can't control emotions.
That's the lesson for Scorpio moons. It's learning how to complete and control your emotional needs all by yourself, and to quit expecting the world to know how to do it for you while walking on egg shells around you.
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Im pretty sure having a standard for emotional reciprocity is normal.?
Posted by DeedleFaerie
Being with someone who fulfilled me emotionally I would 100% never cheat.Yeah emotional fulfillment is the most important thing in the life of lunar scorps. But how one can fulfill you emotionally ? Any thing you specifically want in a relationship? and what are your other placements ?
Sun Cancer 8°22'
Ascendant Aquarius 18°08'
Moon Scorpio 20°12'
II Aries 7°27'
Mercury Cancer 28°10'
III Taurus 12°22'
Venus Taurus 23°44'
IV Gemini 6°54'
Mars Virgo 3°57'
V Gemini 27°35'
Jupiter Libra 5°59'
VI Cancer 19°08'
Saturn Pisces 0°00' R
VII Leo 18°08'
Uranus Capricorn 20°42' R
VIII Libra 7°27'
Neptune Capricorn 20°05' R
IX Scorpio 12°22'
Pluto Scorpio 23°02' R
Midheaven Sagittarius 6°54'
Lilith Pisces 28°37'
XI Sagittarius 27°35'
Asc node Sagittarius 12°07'
XII Capricorn 19°08I would like for the person accept me as I am,for them to care for me as much as I do about them or at least make an effort,accept my polyamorous nature and keep up with me!!I am all over the place all the time lols.Not be sedentary!!oh and have similar goals.
Majority of the people would have problem accepting your polyamorous life style. I don't have any right to judge you but may I ask why polyamorous ?
Its like being gay or straight,im not monogamous I'm polyamorous.Monogamy doesn't make sense to me.It is very confining and I would like to live my life exploring my feelings for other people instead of repressing them.
That's where the actual problem lies it will lead to cheating no matter you are emotionally fulfilled or not
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Not really,its more of a chastity thing being with someone monogamous.I can definitely not cheat and would never cheat unless ignored and hurt a lot.. :x
Posted by DeedleFaerie
Being with someone who fulfilled me emotionally I would 100% never cheat.Imo I'd just leave. No point cheating, just leave.
You can't expect anyone to know exactly how to fulfill you're personal needs, for they are not you. It's not their fault YOU are not happy, and it isn't their fault YOU can't control emotions.
That's the lesson for Scorpio moons. It's learning how to complete and control your emotional needs all by yourself, and to quit expecting the world to know how to do it for you while walking on egg shells around you.
Im pretty sure having a standard for emotional reciprocity is normal.?
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Nope. Geting over yourself and realizing that in this life absolutely nothing is perfect is normal.
Posted by lisabethur8
but she doesn't have scorpio moon. so maybe @cheakyfairie, you have 7th house because I read if you have 7th house or libra you want to EVEN the SCORE.is that even true? so if you have a combo of scorpio and libra 7th/8th, you want to REVENGE, and EVEN STEVEN.
that's the dark side though. what do you all think?
Who doesn't have a Scorpio moon? I'm not sure who you were talking to. Mine's in the 11th. I have Taurus on the cusp, but an empty 7th house.
Nevermind. I see who you were talking about now.
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Oh She was telling about her mother in law who is a cap sun', aqua venus like you but she doesn't have scorpio moon.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
I'd agree with all of those. I could be a remorseless POS if I wanted to be.Any reason behind that ? you are also a capricorn venus right ? they are very faithful or atleast that's what I think
Cap sun/Aqua Venus
I've cheated, both emotionally and physically. I've been in relationships where arguing was foreplay. I can be incredibly possessive. I don't trust my temper. At my best, I'm none of those things, but at my absolute worst, I've been everything that was mentioned and then some.
Same question to you why cheating ? If you are not happy you can break up
I know. I just didn't care. The not caring was what caught my attention. I should care. That much I knew. Now I do.
So you mean to say you didn't love the ones you cheated ? Or else what did they do to deserve that ?
I didn't say they deserved it. I said I did it. Nobody deserves that.
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Thankyou cheeky although I didn't understand what was it that made you cheat in the first place but I appreciate that you do care now :-)
Posted by DeedleFaerie
Being with someone who fulfilled me emotionally I would 100% never cheat.Yeah emotional fulfillment is the most important thing in the life of lunar scorps. But how one can fulfill you emotionally ? Any thing you specifically want in a relationship? and what are your other placements ?
Sun Cancer 8°22'
Ascendant Aquarius 18°08'
Moon Scorpio 20°12'
II Aries 7°27'
Mercury Cancer 28°10'
III Taurus 12°22'
Venus Taurus 23°44'
IV Gemini 6°54'
Mars Virgo 3°57'
V Gemini 27°35'
Jupiter Libra 5°59'
VI Cancer 19°08'
Saturn Pisces 0°00' R
VII Leo 18°08'
Uranus Capricorn 20°42' R
VIII Libra 7°27'
Neptune Capricorn 20°05' R
IX Scorpio 12°22'
Pluto Scorpio 23°02' R
Midheaven Sagittarius 6°54'
Lilith Pisces 28°37'
XI Sagittarius 27°35'
Asc node Sagittarius 12°07'
XII Capricorn 19°08I would like for the person accept me as I am,for them to care for me as much as I do about them or at least make an effort,accept my polyamorous nature and keep up with me!!I am all over the place all the time lols.Not be sedentary!!oh and have similar goals.
Majority of the people would have problem accepting your polyamorous life style. I don't have any right to judge you but may I ask why polyamorous ?
Its like being gay or straight,im not monogamous I'm polyamorous.Monogamy doesn't make sense to me.It is very confining and I would like to live my life exploring my feelings for other people instead of repressing them.
That's where the actual problem lies it will lead to cheating no matter you are emotionally fulfilled or not
Not really,its more of a chastity thing being with someone monogamous.I can definitely not cheat and would never cheat unless ignored and hurt a lot.. :x
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Thankyou DeedleFaerie
I have seen a martyr complex but the person's chart had other things affecting it. Heavily.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
my gad, please keep me away from scorpio moons, wtf.no honor or loyalty
Every moon sign has potential for these negative qualities.
Our moon doesn't hide behind pretty words, though. We say it in the cold hard truth. We have no illusions about our nature.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
my gad, please keep me away from scorpio moons, wtf.no honor or loyalty
Every moon sign has potential for these negative qualities.
Our moon doesn't hide behind pretty words, though. We say it in the cold hard truth. We have no illusions about our nature.
No actually. Not every moon. You're moon is known for being weak tho. Cheating is weak. Emotional selfishness is weak.
shall i go on
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This thread only wanted to address the negative aspects of our moon. It asked, we answered. We are far from weak and we are absolutely not known for cheating. Of course all the 'cheating scorpio moons' are coming out of the woodwork now because the thread was asking them to answer.
Posted by lisabethur8
but she doesn't have scorpio moon. so maybe @cheakyfairie, you have 7th house because I read if you have 7th house or libra you want to EVEN the SCORE.is that even true? so if you have a combo of scorpio and libra 7th/8th, you want to REVENGE, and EVEN STEVEN.
that's the dark side though. what do you all think?
Who doesn't have a Scorpio moon? I'm not sure who you were talking to. Mine's in the 11th. I have Taurus on the cusp, but an empty 7th house.
Nevermind. I see who you were talking about now.
Oh She was telling about her mother in law who is a cap sun', aqua venus like you but she doesn't have scorpio moon.
Yeah, I edited my comment after I back read. Missed it the first time though.
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oh lol got confused too.
but yes my mother in law has the SAME sun, venus and mars like yourself.
but when you said your scorpio moon is in the 11th house, I thought immediately of Elizabeth Taylor!! and her and Richard Burton cheated on eachother, via revenge. She does have Pluto in the 7th house. she's automatically attracted to plutonic peeps. I mean sure, she has scorpio moon natally and pisces sun and pisces mars, but pluto 7th is already just going to go for the pluto peeps. And since its in the 7th house, it's EVEN STEVEN. balance. so you hurt me, so i'm gonna hurt you kind of child's play.
I've even read on that site that the authoress says that is a powerful thing to do instead of sitting around and being a doormat. I thought to myself...hm, that just accrues more CURSES in your life and unhappiness. doesn't sound very good.
basically it is powerful to ACT upon it. like "ooohh i'm gonna getcha and make you PAY! motherfucker for hurting me, you gonna get it!!" stabity stab stab.
then sitting around going, "woeee is mee" SOB SOB. sigh.
life sucks sometimes.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
I'd agree with all of those. I could be a remorseless POS if I wanted to be.Any reason behind that ? you are also a capricorn venus right ? they are very faithful or atleast that's what I think
Cap sun/Aqua Venus
I've cheated, both emotionally and physically. I've been in relationships where arguing was foreplay. I can be incredibly possessive. I don't trust my temper. At my best, I'm none of those things, but at my absolute worst, I've been everything that was mentioned and then some.
Same question to you why cheating ? If you are not happy you can break up
I know. I just didn't care. The not caring was what caught my attention. I should care. That much I knew. Now I do.
So you mean to say you didn't love the ones you cheated ? Or else what did they do to deserve that ?
I didn't say they deserved it. I said I did it. Nobody deserves that.
Thankyou cheeky although I didn't understand what was it that made you cheat in the first place but I appreciate that you do care now :-)
Sorry. It's just that it wasn't the same motivation and I didn't wanna go into tawdry details. Simply put, when I started to empathize, I changed. When I started to equate cheating with lying, I changed. Cheating is a huge deal for me now. I wasn't in love with those people or I didn't respect those people or I was making excuses for my selfishness. Either way, I put myself first in the worst way possible and it was inexcusable.
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Thankyou cheeky I really appreciate that you have changed now. Cheating breaks the victim from inside it shatters every thing and loss done is irreversible. You are also a lunar scorpio I am sure you are quite familiar with this. Thankyou for your input
Posted by DeedleFaerie
Being with someone who fulfilled me emotionally I would 100% never cheat.Imo I'd just leave. No point cheating, just leave.
You can't expect anyone to know exactly how to fulfill you're personal needs, for they are not you. It's not their fault YOU are not happy, and it isn't their fault YOU can't control emotions.
That's the lesson for Scorpio moons. It's learning how to complete and control your emotional needs all by yourself, and to quit expecting the world to know how to do it for you while walking on egg shells around you.
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+100
That's exactly what a person should do. There is no point in cheating I agree. Just leave
Posted by SensitiveBlues
my gad, please keep me away from scorpio moons, wtf.no honor or loyalty
SensitiveBlues, I wouldnt say there is no honor or loyalty, scorp moons have lots ot it, but it takes a strong person to deal with it....... they are no weak by any means, and respect only the strong and independent with deep emotions🙂 I am born to tame scorp moons 🙂 🙂
never cheaterd even when my ex leo would treat me less than.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
my gad, please keep me away from scorpio moons, wtf.no honor or loyalty
SensitiveBlues, I wouldnt say there is no honor or loyalty, scorp moons have lots ot it, but it takes a strong person to deal with it....... they are no weak by any means, and respect only the strong and independent with deep emotions🙂 I am born to tame scorp moons 🙂 🙂
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I am very curious about your placements! How do you function?? You have a very detached sun with a very attached moon. How does that work...
Posted by DeedleFaerie
Being with someone who fulfilled me emotionally I would 100% never cheat.Yeah emotional fulfillment is the most important thing in the life of lunar scorps. But how one can fulfill you emotionally ? Any thing you specifically want in a relationship? and what are your other placements ?
Sun Cancer 8°22'
Ascendant Aquarius 18°08'
Moon Scorpio 20°12'
II Aries 7°27'
Mercury Cancer 28°10'
III Taurus 12°22'
Venus Taurus 23°44'
IV Gemini 6°54'
Mars Virgo 3°57'
V Gemini 27°35'
Jupiter Libra 5°59'
VI Cancer 19°08'
Saturn Pisces 0°00' R
VII Leo 18°08'
Uranus Capricorn 20°42' R
VIII Libra 7°27'
Neptune Capricorn 20°05' R
IX Scorpio 12°22'
Pluto Scorpio 23°02' R
Midheaven Sagittarius 6°54'
Lilith Pisces 28°37'
XI Sagittarius 27°35'
Asc node Sagittarius 12°07'
XII Capricorn 19°08I would like for the person accept me as I am,for them to care for me as much as I do about them or at least make an effort,accept my polyamorous nature and keep up with me!!I am all over the place all the time lols.Not be sedentary!!oh and have similar goals.
Majority of the people would have problem accepting your polyamorous life style. I don't have any right to judge you but may I ask why polyamorous ?
Its like being gay or straight,im not monogamous I'm polyamorous.Monogamy doesn't make sense to me.It is very confining and I would like to live my life exploring my feelings for other people instead of repressing them.
That's where the actual problem lies it will lead to cheating no matter you are emotionally fulfilled or not
Not really,its more of a chastity thing being with someone monogamous.I can definitely not cheat and would never cheat unless ignored and hurt a lot.. :x
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
my gad, please keep me away from scorpio moons, wtf.no honor or loyalty
SensitiveBlues, I wouldnt say there is no honor or loyalty, scorp moons have lots ot it, but it takes a strong person to deal with it....... they are no weak by any means, and respect only the strong and independent with deep emotions🙂 I am born to tame scorp moons 🙂 🙂
I am very curious about your placements! How do you function?? You have a very detached sun with a very attached moon. How does that work...
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Pandora hasn't answered so I was curious why you asked, so i'll answer. she can come back of course and answer. I've been wanting to answer/reply to this but i'm not even sure that Pandora is an aqua herself.
for me, I haven't had any problems at all. it feels at times that I have a 12th house sun, because I can be invisible. and I like that.
i'm married to a dominant water/fire husband with some earth, NO air. I lack air myself, and from what most astrology dictates, dominant air is detached, that's all 3 air signs.
my ex's are mostly water/fire with exception of the 2nd ex that had aqua. and I felt he was too detached for my taste.
supposedly I lack an ego because the men I choose have big egos. lol I notice my men usually LEAD.
what about you? why do you ask this question, cause it sounds like you've never met any aquarius suns ever in your life.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
my gad, please keep me away from scorpio moons, wtf.no honor or loyalty
SensitiveBlues, I wouldnt say there is no honor or loyalty, scorp moons have lots ot it, but it takes a strong person to deal with it....... they are no weak by any means, and respect only the strong and independent with deep emotions🙂 I am born to tame scorp moons 🙂 🙂
I am very curious about your placements! How do you function?? You have a very detached sun with a very attached moon. How does that work...
Pandora hasn't answered so I was curious why you asked, so i'll answer. she can come back of course and answer. I've been wanting to answer/reply to this but i'm not even sure that Pandora is an aqua herself.
for me, I haven't had any problems at all. it feels at times that I have a 12th house sun, because I can be invisible. and I like that.i'm married to a dominant water/fire husband with some earth, NO air. I lack air myself, and from what most astrology dictates, dominant air is detached, that's all 3 air signs.
my ex's are mostly water/fire with exception of the 2nd ex that had aqua. and I felt he was too detached for my taste.
supposedly I lack an ego because the men I choose have big egos. lol I notice my men usually LEAD.
what about you? why do you ask this question, cause it sounds like you've never met any aquarius suns ever in your life.
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What's your sun sign?
I have met a lot of Aquas, and have one as a close friend. He is super detached with Aqua: sun, Merc, and Venus. He has an earth moon. Very very detached! I was curious to know if an Aqua sun makes attachments with a moon such as Scorpio. Its a strange combo! A person with the most detached sun that has the most attached moon!
Let me see...from what I have personally experienced (dated a Libra with Scorpio moon) they are:
Concise, critical, investigative, jealous, manipulative, secretive, selfish (at times), temper prone, uncommunicative unless it benefits them, have a "do as I want, not as I do" mentality...
I am probably missing some but I am sure others will fill it in.
Ugh....but the sexual aspect was good! lol
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That's where the actual problem lies it will lead to cheating no matter you are emotionally fulfilled or not