Fixed moons - do you have trouble letting go?

Boy it takes me forever. I didn’t really realize how much til all this Aries stuff.

Of course we all know the Cap story! 🙄🤦‍♀️

Just wondering if it may have to do with fixed moon.. stuck in that love place, unable to get out. Even when you need to.

I’m aqua & if I let you in, it’s soooooo hard to get you out. Possible but usually takes years.

Anyone else?

In ways yes. I can let stuff go pretty well physically, but mentally it could take years. Anything from 1 to 10 years. Within the first year I will think about that person at least once a day in some way. Its either comparing people, problems, and flaws, or I just think about something that went wrong. Sometimes things that went right too. I'm not the type to wish things went differently, or I wish they were still around. I think about how in many ways I am still acttached to them spiritually and subconsciously. It has very little to do with the future, and everything to do with the past. I will dream about them quite often, but as the years pass the dreams and thoughts become more and more distant. But still, they will cross my mind every now and then, and still end up in my dreams from time to time even after many years. Perhaps for life.

So on the surface I've completely moved on, but deep down I still hold a grudge, or have expectations I want to see from that person. That doesn't mean ill go out of my way to get them back, or ruin their lives. As a Scorpio moon the thoughts tend to stay as mental turmoil, and puts me in a state of mind that is haunted by past experiences. As life would have it though somehow the haunted thoughts escape me in tiny bursts, which subconsciously ends up haunting their thoughts too. Basically anyone I'm attached to is still attached to me in ways too, which makes it even harder to completley let stuff go.

Scorp moon conjunct Uranus

Nope. No problems letting go

Posted by Soul

In ways yes. I can let stuff go pretty well physically, but mentally it could take years. Anything from 1 to 10 years. Within the first year I will think about that person at least once a day in some way. Its either comparing people, problems, and flaws, or I just think about something that went wrong. Sometimes things that went right too. I'm not the type to wish things went differently, or I wish they were still around. I think about how in many ways I am still acttached to them spiritually and subconsciously. It has very little to do with the future, and everything to do with the past. I will dream about them quite often, but as the years pass the dreams and thoughts become more and more distant. But still, they will cross my mind every now and then, and still end up in my dreams from time to time even after many years. Perhaps for life.

So on the surface I've completely moved on, but deep down I still hold a grudge, or have expectations I want to see from that person. That doesn't mean ill go out of my way to get them back, or ruin their lives. As a Scorpio moon the thoughts tend to stay as mental turmoil, and puts me in a state of mind that is haunted by past experiences. As life would have it though somehow the haunted thoughts escape me in tiny bursts, which subconsciously ends up haunting their thoughts too. Basically anyone I'm attached to is still attached to me in ways too, which makes it even harder to completley let stuff go.

Sounds familiar

Posted by DMV

Scorp moon conjunct Uranus

Nope. No problems letting go

With someone you loved? Or just random people 😉 who were not That important?

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Posted by DMV

Scorp moon conjunct Uranus

Nope. No problems letting go

With someone you loved? Or just random people 😉 who were not That important?

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Both

Not anymore, life has thrust so much letting go on me ie deaths, breakups, the worst one our son leaving home two years ago which seemed to open the wounds to all my family

passing over. I was brought to my knees.

Now for a woman who as a kid couldn’t let go of a paper bag, I’ve learned big style to let go💜

Posted by Lastwill

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Boy it takes me forever. I didn’t really realize how much til all this Aries stuff.

Of course we all know the Cap story! 🙄🤦‍♀️

Just wondering if it may have to do with fixed moon.. stuck in that love place, unable to get out. Even when you need to.

I’m aqua & if I let you in, it’s soooooo hard to get out out. Possible but usually takes years.

Anyone else?

I think Leo moons are the only ones who don't struggle too much with this.

I'm Taurus moon and it takes quite some time to get over things and people - if ever. That's why I'm pretty discerning as to who I give the time of the day these days.

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Yep that’s why I get so hesitant.

Posted by Redbull

Sometimes but a lot of times no. My thing is to look forward. It can be irritating to me when people wanna talk about the past and stuff. I was out of town with family earlier this year and its like my mentality was Im there and the present they asking me about people back where I wasnt at at the time Im like Im not there Im here so this is where my attention is. It was kind of jarring because my mind really wasnt going in that direction. I may need to be cognizant and tell people thats not really my thing talking about the past its onward. I can have a hard time getting rid of "stuff" possessions. Like for homeowners how do you sell your house? how do you know its not a mistake? how do you know you shouldnt keep it? How could you really know though? so what kind of decision is that to have to make? and etc stuff like that.

Oh finding the right path is so hard too. Do I move or not? Do I sell my townhouse or not? What if it was the wrong decision? Yes in theory to look forward, but when the emotions are big, I have to shut them off & then they bite me in the ass later! When it’s time to deal with them lol .. gets me into trouble though. Do I really work at dealing, feeling, etc. til it’s no longer a problem.

Posted by MyStarsShine

Not anymore, life has thrust so much letting go on me ie deaths, breakups, the worst one our son leaving home two years ago which seemed to open the wounds to all my family

passing over. I was brought to my knees.

Now for a woman who as a kid couldn’t let go of a paper bag, I’ve learned big style to let go💜

Boy the impending empty nest thing is rough! Then the ex getting sick too. It’s like it’s transition & I have to get rid of the stuff that’s been left over. So I can move in for real. Everything I’ve been choosing since October has been about what I want.. for self care. Vs what someone else chooses. So I think that’s good. And letting go has been a theme iver the last few years too. Learning how to. Kids, exes, friends, plans, etc. but my process takes so long when the emotions are really big.

Posted by TheRabbit

Depends. If you've crossed me in a significant way, you'll be dead as fuck to me.

This is me too

Most of the time I move on quickly and don’t hold grudges

But once in a while someone crosses a specific line and we gon BEEF FOREVA

I’m Aqua moon and it’s takes years to forget a person. I know the same is true for Scorp moons.

I wonder if it’s the same for Taurus and Leo moons.

It really depends. I'm usually ALL IN in friendship and relationships. I will try and try and try. But the moment someone crosses the line and I give up on them? I'm really done and I don't look back hahahah. The hardest to let go for me are the what-ifs/almosts.

Oh hell....I used to hold on for grim death 😱 and then llfe showed me how to, big time..

..so now I can

❤️

Posted by LibraLion

Posted by aquarius09

I wonder if it’s the same for Taurus and Leo moons.

I’m a Leo moon, and I’m still stuck on an Aqua chick from my past. I’m also a double Libra, so I’m really not sure what characteristic to blame.

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Leo moons move fast. It’s actually your libra placements.