@questionoflustquestionoftrust
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What are you experiences with jealous and insecure people?
I recently had a friend tell me she was jealous of me because I've a good relationship with my son and hers doesn't speak to her. She wrote to me later apologising
I felt bad for her but it made me realise how fragile people can be. She is riddled with guilt because she detached from her sons when they were quite young.....so.....
During a psychic development meeting, the psychic told me the people in my town were jealous of me because like you, I exude happiness and they think "what's she so up about". I found that hilarious lol 😆
People need to get over themselves and get lives
Lol.
I like to make my haters suffer. They are but one of many reminders that life is good and that I got plenty to be grateful for. Blame my immature Aries stellium if you want. My oh-so-humble Virgo moon takes a backseat in these matters.
I focus too much on my own life to notice or care if people are envious of me. Why do people seem to like to flaunt that they have haters is my question?
That's the thing blackphase...
I'm not flaunting I'm noticing.
I love myself and I live my life.
And at the end I'm asking in general what everyone's experiences were if they had any.
I recently had a friend tell me she was jealous of me because I've a good relationship with my son and hers doesn't speak to her. She wrote to me later apologising
I felt bad for her but it made me realise how fragile people can be. She is riddled with guilt because she detached from her sons when they were quite young.....so.....
During a psychic development meeting, the psychic told me the people in my town were jealous of me because like you, I exude happiness and they think "what's she so up about". I found that hilarious lol 😆
People need to get over themselves and get lives
Lol.
Yes gurl yes!!!
Like Ive learned not to dim my light worried about insecure people.
Like I'm going let my light shine no matter what.
"Let your light shine." - (Matthew 5:16)
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I like to make my haters suffer. They are but one of many reminders that life is good and that I got plenty to be grateful for. Blame my immature Aries stellium if you want. My oh-so-humble Virgo moon takes a backseat in these matters.
Yeah its better to take a backseat sooner or later the cookie will crumble.
A.k.a. Justice Will Be Served!!
turned out my own mother was envious/jealous of me - go figure that - but it never clicked until I was way older ... she was a piece of Leo work
the only thing that I have noticed in the last 10 or so years is that women start to dress like me and style their hair like me and I mean it has become very obvious but I normally don't really even know these women so I don't care cause I don't want to know them if they ain't got their own original self they gotta copy others - get a life
I've learned to always stay classy and rise about the haters cause they are their own downfall.
We had this dude who talked a big game about how great he was in sales and couldn't close the deal. He also liked to throw me under the bus when shit didn't go his way. I didn't even bother defending myself cause the angies list reviews did that for me. Clients would also call him out by name and trash him in reviews. One super cringe one called him a used cars salesmen vibe. Ouch.
He ended up bailing on LA and moved his family to canada. Couldn't hang. Boy byeeeeeee
I feel like I’m the epitome of minding my own business and not giving a shit about others (I lack water in my chart). But some people are so miserable out there in their own life’s shit that they can’t stand that energy on others and can try to attempt to bring it down (consistently at times). I ignore it and mind no existence to it and write them off as having a really sad and pathetic life since clearly if it was any ounce good they would be sticking to their own business. Sometimes even ignoring it fuels them to try harder in bringing you down... if they’re mental enough (which is my situation) they can make it as a personal challenge to destroy you. These people are toxic.
turned out my own mother was envious/jealous of me - go figure that - but it never clicked until I was way older ... she was a piece of Leo work
the only thing that I have noticed in the last 10 or so years is that women start to dress like me and style their hair like me and I mean it has become very obvious but I normally don't really even know these women so I don't care cause I don't want to know them if they ain't got their own original self they gotta copy others - get a life
That's crazy ive seen this before. Its quite sad. Leo can be very selfish.
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turned out my own mother was envious/jealous of me - go figure that - but it never clicked until I was way older ... she was a piece of Leo work
the only thing that I have noticed in the last 10 or so years is that women start to dress like me and style their hair like me and I mean it has become very obvious but I normally don't really even know these women so I don't care cause I don't want to know them if they ain't got their own original self they gotta copy others - get a life
That's crazy ive seen this before. Its quite sad. Leo can be very selfish.
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Oh the stories of my Leo mother I won't go there lol - and I had a LEO co-worker that was off the charts mental so I am partial and cautious to female Leo energy. I even had a Libra friend of many - many years that turned out to be jealous of me as well. I am blind to this crap, and forgetful apparently - I didn't even remember to mention during my first post. LOL see I don't recognize nor find it important enough to remember. She is no longer my friend. I'm too focused on just being me which is part of my Taurus nature. We truly don't GAF what other people are doing around us LOL we just do our thing and we are very content to do that.
Its like it became way easier once I grew up and realized things and could see whats going on. So now its like whatever, I see the exposing of their jealousy, frustration, craziness etc. haha. I focus on what Im doing and moving forward like now I decided to work more hours at my job so my first off day in 6 days people around went crazy about what Im not doing...while Im doing something to help one of them on my one off day. Of the 3 others in the house Im the only one working, well maybe one is working part time the youngest one and one is retired and the other is grown but refuses to work. So its kind of ridiculous that of course its criticize me for not doing enough. Craziness. Im staying with family currently as myhouse needs work to be livable and realize there are sacrifices and things that I will have to deal with in that situation. And part of it is the fact Im not there all the time Im working and out which actually helps mentally a lot but they are there way more so they dont have that. So I can focus on moving forward which makes a huge difference. I have a move to make...its just best to be patient which is what Im trying to do but Im working toward goals and thats my focus. But once I move...I wont be around to help like I do and was doing... so its really ridiculous. But again Im trying to hang and do things in somewhat of an order and not be derailed.
So its like ok no matter how hard I work its obviously for the benefits I find and no one else's business so be away as much as possible and "ok working more and being away is obviously the move" now that I know "the deal" I can respond better and basically stay focused and on track and get away soon as I can. I like to avoid craziness and ridiculousness as much as I can so...a lot of it is motivation...ok thats the end of that its just when it comes to this type of subject its like its always something.
Wow you work very hard.
God has blessed you enough that you can take care of many people.
Dont look at it as a burden.
Stick to your plan.
Keep feeding your dream. ☺
I've learned to always stay classy and rise about the haters cause they are their own downfall.
This is laughable.
I've learned to always stay classy and rise about the haters cause they are their own downfall.
This is laughable.
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Here’s one now. Hey Pontus how you been
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"Do not judge, or you too will be judged.
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For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
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"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
(Matthew7:1-3)
Basically the only one that can judge me is above me.
My thread. My Choice. Dont like.
Seek your way out.
Have a nice day!! ☺
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
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"Do not judge, or you too will be judged.
2
For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
3
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
(Matthew7:1-3)
Basically the only one that can judge me is above me.
My thread. My Choice. Dont like.
Seek your way out.
Have a nice day!! ☺
Amen 🙏🏼
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I've always had haters since 8th grade lol.
Before because I was outgoing and friendly.
Now its because I'm making great money as an adult. Boss and manager are hating Big time. Employees too. They see my numbers going up so high even I'm surprised.
I can feel their envy down my back but I let it slide. I dust it off. Keep doing my work efficiently with a smile on my face. I feel like that bugs them even more.
Anywho why can't people focus on their own life? Do they realize they can be happy and successful too? What were your experiences with envious people?