Posted by Nefer
Plenty of people see my sweet, even-tempered, loving, giving nature and then take it for granted. They even start thinking I'm too loyal, too forgiving, too weak, and that they can do whatever they want to me, hurt me however and whenever they feel like it.. and think I'll just keep taking it over and over.
Takes A LOT (a WHOLE lot!) to get me to "Wrath of Satan"... So if you push me or trample me far enough to get me to morph into Shark Mode.. well, your blood in the tank water is just collateral damage, and you had it coming.
*shrug* {--- and that shrug.. yeah, that's pretty much Pisces' trademark.
Posted by Nefer
And damn, I'm gonna get my hand slapped. Again. For giving away Pisces' secrets. Again.
Posted by EusiveSoulllPosted by PoissonPosted by Nefer
And damn, I'm gonna get my hand slapped. Again. For giving away Pisces' secrets. Again.
If I'm not mistaken, I think most people feel they have been fooled by our gentle and loving nature, but they are wrong to believe so, because we are/were truly loving (well most of us I'd like to believe), however, thanx to our duality, there is the dark side to us as well.... as Nefer so descriptively putclick to expand
I'm pretty sure you hit the nail on the head as to how I or someone else might feel when they bear witness to the anger. But, as with anybody, there's always 2 sides to a coin.
Posted by 88NPISCESPosted by Nefer
Oh, I don't doubt that some Pisces women cheat.. I just wondered (since he's technically just an observer, and mostly hearing Leo's side).. does he know for certain she cheated, and that it's not just shit inside Leo's head? Cuz I've been on the receiving end of that psychotic behavior.. ugh.
Maybe Pisces woman cheated with him.. hehheeclick to expand
Posted by WiserThruHeartbreak
I find myself comparing it my personal anger when it does crop up, and the similarities are are much like that of my own.
Posted by Nefer
I don't cheat, never have and never will. I don't condone cheating, I find it to be a revolting character flaw. If you aren't happy, if it's not what you want, if you want someone or something else.. LEAVE. Cheating is never the answer.
However...
Damn, I gotta wonder what your Leo homie did to that supposedly so (formerly?) sweet and wonderful Pisces chick to get what he got from her??
Cheated, like WHOA cheated.. multiple times?... Left him, probably a really UGLY breakup. And then basically used a flamethrower on the messenger bringing a message from said Leo? Dafuq did that Leo DO to her?!
All except the cheating part, I can see myself there.. I've BEEN there... I'd probably bite the head off of MY fucktarded abusive Leo ex's buddy for even DARING to speak that douchebag's name to me, oh yes I could definitely see me doing just that. Cuz I did. And his ass was sorry he got involved.
"Asshole. You gonna bring me a message from YOUR BOY LEO, that spineless, one-balled, woman-beating FUCK that I'd HOPED was OUT of my life FOREVER? Here, have a taste of my wrath too, since you like to stick your nose into shit like this. Now begone.. and take THIS message back to Leo *two middle fingers way, WAY up*"
Posted by Nefer
PS - Are you even *positive* the Pisces cheated? I mean, I ask cuz... MY Leo ex was so pissed about the breakup, he went around telling everybody I was cheating on him before we broke up. I started seeing a Libra several months AFTER the breakup.. I was a cheating whore who must have been fucking him already to be with that guy "so soon" (nevermind that Leo was with at least THREE other women within that same time frame).. and when I started dating a different Libra (the one I'm still with 4 years later) after almost 10 months broken up with Leo.. oh yeah, I was cheating with THAT guy too, cuz I'm just a whore like that.
But he was a dramatic, jealous, raging fuckhead of a Leo. And I do not give a fuck what people think of me, so his rumors and lies didn't bother me personally. I laughed, in fact. The people who mattered, they knew better. The ones that would believe his bullshit.. didn't matter.
*shrug*
Posted by EISREGEN
Yes they are. They lie to your face, just like that. They will cheat on you behind your back and then turn around and smile in your face like nothing happened. you think they love you sooooooooooo much, but the next day everything is different. because you said a wrong word or whatever. pisces are even worse then scorpios
Posted by incandescentcancer
Meh, the trouble with pisceans in general is that the other party rarely knows what perceived injustice and melodrama is going on in their head for which they have set out to punish you. It's like a wound festering away over some slight which the other party is unaware of. The statement, "if you have to ask what, you don't deserve to know" was probably invented by a piscean. They are always watching you so that you will screw something up so that they can feel victimized and then punish you so that you come back begging for forgiveness. I have loads of experience if anyone wants more 😛.
Posted by ninjafishPosted by incandescentcancer
All that said, I do like pisces women...there is definitely something about them....
Yah, and that "something" is the sex. You know it's true.click to expand
Posted by ninjafishPosted by incandescentcancer
All that said, I do like pisces women...there is definitely something about them....
Yah, and that "something" is the sex. You know it's true.click to expand
Posted by DMV
id say outside of the sex is where the problems occur. sex allows everyone to stay in a dream world. its when the sex ends, reality tends to strike.
pisces is ruled by the 12th house
Bob Marks
The Twelfth House has a terrible reputation. It is here that astrologers look to find restrictions, hidden enemies (as opposed to open enemies, shown by the seventh house), psychological problems, and of course the killer --- self undoing, the tendency to do ourselves in. Any planet in this house represents something we are hiding from the world, and, frequently, from ourselves as well. Of course knowing about a problem is the first step to deal with it.
pisces are always 2 people. the charmer and the martyr
Posted by DMV
its the self-undoing that grinds my gears
Posted by ninjafish
Since you're bringing up your old threads though, may I reiterate the sentiments of an old post of mine which specifically broached my desire to get to know more suns of this sign better...
Yeah, let's get our water sign memories hyped here.
The rest of what you and DMV have said though, strikes a nerve. Just makes me sad.
Posted by PoissonPosted by koi
Multifaceted. Like gems. And disco balls 🙂.
I like that analogy...
"I'm not 2-faced. I'm a discoball."click to expand
Posted by Lex
my initial response oh heavens no we're not two faced, and those who think we are just don't understand us (but isn't that a typical pisces response).
I see it more like this, any sign with two of anything, like gemini, libra, and pisces can end up with this reputation. Its usually due to the dual natures that those signs represent. There are two sides to Pisces, the notions of what we think and what we feel and they are often not on the same page hence why its common for a pisces to think not to show their feelings initial anger. I think this is why people can see us and two faced.
When we are sad we can appear happy or if we look sad we could actually be quite content. We are good actors if we think we need to be which is why we had renowned actresses like Elizabeth Taylor. But to explain the infamous pisces rage consider this, Where there is great kindness can also come great anger. The pisces is not just kind and sweet nor vindictive and angry. We have various sides to us, I just think that other sides have a hard time comprehending that duality, and just think wow because I didn't see this coming they must be two faced.
Posted by Poisson
Ouch...
I think all these game-playing and misguided perceptions can be alleviated by some honest communication... and a fuckload of maturity. Maturity can be hard to find... in all spectrums of the zodiac.
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by DMV
its the self-undoing that grinds my gears
Yeah, no one can destroy a good thing quite like a pisces. They just have to sabotage it by perceiving all kinds of injustice.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by Poisson
Ouch...
I think all these game-playing and misguided perceptions can be alleviated by some honest communication... and a fuckload of maturity. Maturity can be hard to find... in all spectrums of the zodiac.
Bingo sweets! That's where it's at, Pisces women are great to be with and if they would just tell the guy when their feelings ar ehurt everything would be wonderful. No normal person goes out of their way to hurt someone, pisces have to understand that. More often than not, it's a genuine oversight or mistake and if pointed out it will certainly be fixed. Other than this aspect there is really nothing not to like about pisces.click to expand
Posted by DMV
as one paranoid scorpio moon, i can relate to perceived in justice. we all know scorpios are fucked in the head but at least we all know what will make a scorpio sting. with the fish, they are so much about hiding their true selves you never quite know.
Posted by Poisson
I'm not going to attack your views either. I can understand because I've done it, I'm quite ashamed to say. In my younger years there had been times that my partners have had to coax me into calmness when I went batshit crazy and had driven them away. But I have gotten better as I got older. These are hard lessons to be learned and I kind of hurts to think about it now. It's a learning process...
Posted by 88NPISCESPosted by koi
🙂 88!
Obviously I am facetious just now ;p.
But seriously, I'm sort of surprised that people would be surprised we have a bad side, and such a horrible one at that. Of course we have our lousy side. We're human.
I think the contrast and surprise element possibly lend it that traumatic impact.
But with these kind of reactions... I'm left thinking, 'Would they rather I was consistently lousy with the occasional burst of kindness'? Isn't being consistently lousy with the occasional act of kindness also being 2 faced?
People don't understand, or should understand that anyone can be two faced.
the one that acts as a friend & lets you in treats you well & then goes behing your back talking about you or have other intentions to hurt you in some form in the end is a two faced, period.
Fishes are misunderstood most of the time because we are mixed with all the signs & we blend into any situation and at times we can become a carbon copy of the other person we hang out with. Then other people are shocked and label us as two faced.
that is my opinion on this. 🙂
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Posted by DMVPosted by incandescentcancerPosted by Poisson
Ouch...
I think all these game-playing and misguided perceptions can be alleviated by some honest communication... and a fuckload of maturity. Maturity can be hard to find... in all spectrums of the zodiac.
Bingo sweets! That's where it's at, Pisces women are great to be with and if they would just tell the guy when their feelings ar ehurt everything would be wonderful. No normal person goes out of their way to hurt someone, pisces have to understand that. More often than not, it's a genuine oversight or mistake and if pointed out it will certainly be fixed. Other than this aspect there is really nothing not to like about pisces.
i concur. quit the lying. your partner can deal with your warped realty. trust me 🙂click to expand
Posted by Poisson
"asking a Pisces to be more straight forward would be like asking a Sagittarius to not be so blunt and honest."
I think this can be attained through practice. A lot of it. And being surrounded by people who have a lot of patience also, because this doesn't happen over night.
I was only able use that "I'm misunderstood" motto for so long until it got exxxhhhaaaauuuuutiiiiiiinngggggg, for me and for the people around me. And you're right, it isn't in our nature to be straightforward- and trust me I am still working on this and it is a constant battle. But I have learned that for me to get a straightforward response, I have to be straightforward as well.
I think our deep sensitivity has a large part with Pisces being so vague because being straightforward leaves us feeling very vulnerable and we don't want to be seen as weak... it almost feels like being naked in front of a crowd - and it is not a comfortable feeling. I don't like saying "I'm angry," "I'm unhappy," "I am XYZ" and that's when the passive-aggressiveness comes out... they get bottled up until the pressure blows.
Even now, typing this is making me cringe a bit...
But let me be understood, I am not generalizing for every single Pisces out there, but rather from personal experience - just to give some background about that statement I made.
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