Are pisces flirtatious?

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I smile a lot, am unfailingly polite, and am interested in what other people have to say (I hate small talk and ask a lot of questions).

Because of this, guys think I'm flirting. Some women think I'm stupid.

Neither is true, and then it turns out some people don't like me simply because they've underestimated me.

(YOU, sir, are not sexy/smart/funny enough for me to sleep with, and YOU, madam, are a raging mean girl bitch who I could care less about impressing. To quote When Harry Met Sally, "I WAS BEING NICE!")
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Huh? A Pisces was being accidentally flirtacious? I didn't know she was flirting I just thought she was too nice and talked too much. Do I flirt though though? Better believe it, though I think this applies to me since I flirt with women I don't really like and they get the wrong message. I guess if this were Fallout I'd have a really high Luck, Charisma, and Agilty stat with excellent perception. But hey at least when I flirt with women I do like they get the right message.
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Posted by tiziani
Their flirting style IS to "not mean it".


"Oh gosh did I do that? You'd almost think I meant it"


If you read the smallprint, it explicitly states you agree to assume 100% responsibility for all debauchery in the relationship. Just sign right there.
That's more likely to be Virgo style: very indirect at words yet very physical.
From my experience they send mixed signals because they're naturally friendly, like most Pisces, but somehow unaware of their attractiveness and the effect they have on people, which is why they're confusing to many. Sometimes they don't intend to flirt, sometimes they don't even realize how much they actually like the other person.
Another thing I've noticed is that Virgos, once they're confortable, can't control their body language and usually get very touchy as a result of their sexual drive being off the charts, which is what lead them to be misinterpreted.

Pisces flirting style, on the other end, is slightly different, even though it looks very similar due to sharing the same kind of friendliness/playfulness.

First of all in social gatherings we are a bit of a show-off, sometimes even narcissist, and flirting, with literally everyone, is often VITAL for us to keep our confidence high. We don't necessarily mean to get into someone else's pants (not that we don't fantasize about it), here is the part where I agree with you, but when we flirt we do it voluntarily and consciously, we don't fall off the turnip trunk. Pisces, at least men, like to be spoiled, need to be constantly reassured their charm is still there and the only way to be certain we still got it is flirting everytime we get the chance to and receiving positive feedbacks.

Most importantly our issue is that when we lose the ability to entertain random people, which is fun, we usually lose the ability to mentally stimulate our partner too, so basically it's an exercices de style where everyone is the target but at the same time no one is. Yes we are ambigous but ff we're serious we'll find a way to let her know. We don't give usually give other people false hopes.

To conclude, it's good for us to have charte blanche, we're not very likeable around you where we're in a funk and our self-esteem is low.
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Posted by Arrius
The introverts not so much. The extroverts are incorrigible.
The words introverts/extroverts should never be considered in opposition, this is a false myth, and I've noticed many people use these labels erroneously.
Extroversion is not a trait, it's a spectrum, we're not either... or... , we're both, depeding on the situation.

There's no such thing as an "introverted way of flirting", it's a nonsense. Introverts may appear less confident since they flirt less, but they don't really have a different style, they just need a bit of time to get used to the idea of bringing out their extroverted side, and since everyone can be situationally extrovert, given the right circumstances, you just need to unlock that side. So, unless you're Brad Pitt, nothing is going to happen if you don't force yourself to be an extrovert even for just a few seconds.

It's a pretty simple concept: if you're flirting with someone you're not an introvert anymore or, at the very least, not in that precise moment.

Also it's not necessarily a Pisces thing, introverts, flirting-wise, just have hard time in general, nothing new. You should always consider how people interact, depending on the sign, when they're on the other end of the scale.

P.s. Yes I know, I can pretty anal (Virgo rising), I'm sorry 🙂