Can Pisces Men Be Wishy-Washy?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by kiirsttnae on Monday, November 27, 2017 and has 4 replies.

I met a pisces man this past weekend at a mutual friends and there seemed to have been a spark but I was burned.

At the friends house, he was very engaged towards me, he would constantly sit next to me or be around me. I noticed he kept finding reasons to touch me, so I felt like he may be kind of interested to me - but the only problem was, at one point in the night, friends brought up a girlfriend of his and he kept reiterating that they weren't together. He said that they had broken up, though he said it had only been a few weeks or a month, I can't remember.

As I was leaving, I was putting things in my car, and he ran after me. He asked for my number to go out for a drink some time. I was hesitant because of the (ex?) girlfriend situation and we were drinking a little bit (he drank a lot a bit, so impaired judgement?). I gave it to him anyway since I felt a connection and NEVER take chances. The whole rest of the night he texted me and was eager to see if we could meet the next night and I agreed, in which he texted back that I seemed really cool and he was really looking forward to it! This changed my hesitance to excitement.

The next day he said he would like to post-pone to the next day since he wasn't feeling good after the night, so I said that's fine. However, I have not heard from him since! Why would he pursue this and then just let it die? Do you think he was embarrassed? Do pisces jump in and then re-evaluate and then hide? Do you think it's the ex girlfriend? He was very persistent with me!

I feel sort of hurt, only because I finally felt ready to date again after my last relationship and it kind of sucks that he didn't give me a chance, you know? I would love some insight into whether this is pisces behavior or just dude behavior? I know this is over before it started but any advice?

Sorry this is so long - thank you to anyone who can help. These types of things keep me up at night wondering what I do wrong - ha.

@sweethearts

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I pretty much had a similar experience a few weeks ago. For me, if I'm frustrated now in the early days as much as I have been with his lack of communication, it's time to realise even if he came back from his little corner of the world he'll go back there and I don't have the patience for this.

Your choice but I don't think things will change.