@fishworry
19 YearsPisces
Can we cope with Long distance Reationship?
I'm a Libra, and I was in a long distance relationship with my Pisces boyfriend. He constantly needed pictures or phone calls, anything to have a lil bit of me with him, and I appreciated that. Although, we went through a rough patch, and he dated a Cancer girl for 8 months. This was mainly to do with the emotional detachment, "friends to lovers" kinda issue that his Venus In Aquarius deals with (stupid Aquarius - no offense).
So, my Venus In Scorpio detected that he was upto something, because his need to have a part of me, kinda faded away. So I did some detective work and when I found out, I literally exploded, and revenge tasted VERY sweet. But after I calmed and cooled myself down, we talked and he said that he was "bored", not of us, but he was in need for excitement. He told me that he actually treated her like "sh!t", mainly because she was no me, that she was a "pretty substitute with no substance", and that he truly loves me. Of course I was having none of it, because all the "bad" traits my Venus deals with took over me, but as hard as I tried to pull myself away from him, I couldn't. Neither could he.
Right now, we're basically starting over, and trust is an issue of course, but we're just seeing the the issue lightly, and the fact that before we weren't actually together in each other's presence, and that our relationship wasn't as serious as it could've been if we were, just gives us an optimistic outlook. We see it as a test, and we managed not to break away from each other completely because we're very much deep in love.
However, if a similar occurence like this happens again, he'll be sure to feel my wrath. 🙂
So, my Venus In Scorpio detected that he was upto something, because his need to have a part of me, kinda faded away. So I did some detective work and when I found out, I literally exploded, and revenge tasted VERY sweet. But after I calmed and cooled myself down, we talked and he said that he was "bored", not of us, but he was in need for excitement. He told me that he actually treated her like "sh!t", mainly because she was no me, that she was a "pretty substitute with no substance", and that he truly loves me. Of course I was having none of it, because all the "bad" traits my Venus deals with took over me, but as hard as I tried to pull myself away from him, I couldn't. Neither could he.
Right now, we're basically starting over, and trust is an issue of course, but we're just seeing the the issue lightly, and the fact that before we weren't actually together in each other's presence, and that our relationship wasn't as serious as it could've been if we were, just gives us an optimistic outlook. We see it as a test, and we managed not to break away from each other completely because we're very much deep in love.
However, if a similar occurence like this happens again, he'll be sure to feel my wrath. 🙂
Fuk me over once shame on you, Fuk me over twice shame on me - yea i say give it a second chance but not a third
"yea i say give it a second chance but not a third"
Golden words.
Golden words.
Of course we can. We are the only one who can do that. Actually we like it. I like it. We dream...
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Do we need the physical presence of a partner or we can cop with LDR?