ladyvie
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Do Pisces Men in general have issues with touching
Yes. It's an issue.
How on earth does a girl deal with no touching— Or does it change when it's a deep love?
Dunno. Never had it that far.
Hmm I wish I knew of this board at that time in my life, might have saved me wondering what the beep was wrong with him which I did at the time. He talked a great game, but no follow through.
Ladyvie
The only Pisces man I have ever known to have any issue with touching had a Venus Aqua and Venus Mars. That physical detachment can echo throughout with Aqua placements. You would think the Pisces would sofften or break that down btu I am not so certain. Both signs can be guarded but Pisces can really come flooding through when they make that decision and I do not find Aquas to ever come gusing through.
Also I do think Pisces are passive physically until they really know and trust someone. One that I can think of would often place his hand on my back but as I recall he had a crush on me (i was unaware--we were good friends) and one day he simply began kissing me which startled me. They have a keen way of stripping you down in their heads and I say this in regards to the emotional figurative connection before even beginning to have that physical dance.
As for him calling the shots...he sounds a bit odd and jerky. Aquas like to maintian their distance--they are so very airy and Pisces run and hide when they get stressed.
The only Pisces man I have ever known to have any issue with touching had a Venus Aqua and Venus Mars. That physical detachment can echo throughout with Aqua placements. You would think the Pisces would sofften or break that down btu I am not so certain. Both signs can be guarded but Pisces can really come flooding through when they make that decision and I do not find Aquas to ever come gusing through.
Also I do think Pisces are passive physically until they really know and trust someone. One that I can think of would often place his hand on my back but as I recall he had a crush on me (i was unaware--we were good friends) and one day he simply began kissing me which startled me. They have a keen way of stripping you down in their heads and I say this in regards to the emotional figurative connection before even beginning to have that physical dance.
As for him calling the shots...he sounds a bit odd and jerky. Aquas like to maintian their distance--they are so very airy and Pisces run and hide when they get stressed.
Sorry for all the typos. I don't see an edit button but I think you get my drift.
Ladyvie,
There could a number of variables . . one being just as you said, something from him not being coddled as a child, is a possibility, but, I don't think I would carry that reason to the bank. I know of several people who didn't recieve affectin as children and are very touchy, feely as adults.
What stands out in my mind, is the phrase, "Pisces guy's major issue with touching... hugging, kissing, etc... it had to be his idea or not at all."
People, all people, not just Pisces, has a certain idea in thier mind about the appropriateness of touching, kissing, etc. What may seem normal to one, might not be to another. So, I can't help but ask you . . what was his reasons for not liking you to kiss him? Was it just one area he didnt' want you to touch? Was it only in public places that this was a problem?
For example, I have one girlfriend of mine who thinks it's exhilerating to be fondled in public, yet, to her man, he thinks it's disgraceful. Does that make him cold and uncaring about touching? Absolutely not. So, it really depends to the extent to which this non-touching seems wrong in your views. Do you know what I mean?
Some women I know want to be touchy/feely ALL THE TIME. Because she wants it that way, does it make it right, from his perception? A lot of men, not just Pisces, don't like being smothered by females . . that doesn't mean they don't love thier woman. You know what I mean? So, what exactly do you mean by NOT TOUCHING?
Perhaps, if he thought YOU touched too much, then maybe he would then decide that he would be in charge of the touching department. Or, maybe it's just like you said, and he was just wierd about it.
There could a number of variables . . one being just as you said, something from him not being coddled as a child, is a possibility, but, I don't think I would carry that reason to the bank. I know of several people who didn't recieve affectin as children and are very touchy, feely as adults.
What stands out in my mind, is the phrase, "Pisces guy's major issue with touching... hugging, kissing, etc... it had to be his idea or not at all."
People, all people, not just Pisces, has a certain idea in thier mind about the appropriateness of touching, kissing, etc. What may seem normal to one, might not be to another. So, I can't help but ask you . . what was his reasons for not liking you to kiss him? Was it just one area he didnt' want you to touch? Was it only in public places that this was a problem?
For example, I have one girlfriend of mine who thinks it's exhilerating to be fondled in public, yet, to her man, he thinks it's disgraceful. Does that make him cold and uncaring about touching? Absolutely not. So, it really depends to the extent to which this non-touching seems wrong in your views. Do you know what I mean?
Some women I know want to be touchy/feely ALL THE TIME. Because she wants it that way, does it make it right, from his perception? A lot of men, not just Pisces, don't like being smothered by females . . that doesn't mean they don't love thier woman. You know what I mean? So, what exactly do you mean by NOT TOUCHING?
Perhaps, if he thought YOU touched too much, then maybe he would then decide that he would be in charge of the touching department. Or, maybe it's just like you said, and he was just wierd about it.
Hmm perhaps it was his venus or mars signs doubling it. And I don't regret dropping him (for other reasons), but I do regret being as mean as I was. If I understood what was going on, then I could have found a nicer way. I was so aggravated when I dated this guy because of this issue really. Like if was odd for a girlfriend to want to equally touch her man in private? I am aquarius myself and I prefer not regretting my own actions so we can be friends no matter what.
However he's been a chatty cathy these days via text (kind of out of the blue really post my robbery. He always did have a thing about wanting to be my hero.)
However he's been a chatty cathy these days via text (kind of out of the blue really post my robbery. He always did have a thing about wanting to be my hero.)
About being circumspect in public or in a small group... that was never the issue as I don't want anyone touching me overly much (I'm not shy if it is something special or something super sweet, but definately not me being overly touchy feely... major turn off!) It was in private that this bugged me.
Ha now that I can properly analyze the old romance it could have been the other issues that I didn't mention that are all related. He really had major old fashioned beliefs on how men and women should act. And if I wasn't just accepting, but equally wanting then he changed. Ladies were ladies all the time and other women were just out to be used. (I cleaned up that saying, but you know the expression.) He had those beliefs long before he ever met me. And for a while I thought that his notions were kind of cute, but I'm pretty darn independant.
I also think equality is not possible. If there is any man who would listen to any babbla what gonna a woman say, this man is either weak or don't really understand that he is wasting his time.
"Ladies were ladies all the time and other women were just out to be used. (I cleaned up that saying, but you know the expression.)"
Oh, well, there ya go. Being female, myself, I know exactly what your saying. If I had to put a finger on it, I too, would think it was his sense of traditional values. And being the Aqua girl you are . . well, I don't have to talk about being confined and conformed . . you know yourself.
Having those values seems odd in this day and age, eh?
Oh, well, there ya go. Being female, myself, I know exactly what your saying. If I had to put a finger on it, I too, would think it was his sense of traditional values. And being the Aqua girl you are . . well, I don't have to talk about being confined and conformed . . you know yourself.
Having those values seems odd in this day and age, eh?
Well I would hardly call it traditional.
It is well known that men are more logical than women are, and "final" decision making should be usually left for the man to make because he's more 'capable'.
It is well known that men are more logical than women are, and "final" decision making should be usually left for the man to make because he's more 'capable'.
::cough:: people pay me to analyze their problems when I take a case (which in honesty is very rare. I prefer being a teacher.) My attorney hat says that I can be cold hard analytical thinker when I am wearing that hat.
ladyvie,
I think I've come to the conclusion that just men, in general, don't know HOW to touch a female. They have it all organized . . this way, this time, at this moment, in this location . . and that is their mistake.
Trim the hedges, then mow the grass, then rake
Roast takes the longest, start rice 20 minutes before meat done, canned veges last
Make a right here, left at second light, back in parking space for easy exit
Bleach first and let agitate, add soap, then add clothes
This approach of having a system seems to be how men believe a woman should be treated, like we are a duty and there is an order for us to function . . . like them. There is a goal, in men's eyes, when it comes to touching . . the goal being a climax and they think that is what a woman need's too. They think that our aim is to reach sexual climax and so stimulation through touching has to be a certain way, a certain time.
What they fail to realize is that orgasm is THIER goal, not ours. We don't HAVE to have it. We like it and want it, to be sure . . but, not mandatory. What is mandatory in order for us to feel like a loved woman, is . . affection.
"She just wants me to hold her all the time."
"Word, dude. I don't get it."
"Me either . . but, she'll put-out if I do."
If it is understood by men that a woman NEEDS to be held and softly stroked, then what is the big deal? Don't they want us to feel safe and secure within their love? Instead, they would push us away, which causes us to fall into the arms of another who would gently pull our hair away and lovingly kiss our necks, while telling us how beautiful we are.
I don't get it. If you know something, why fight against it? If a woman NEEDS touching and caressing to feel whole, why is it so difficult to give them what they need? We give men what they need . . we screw them, we feed them and wash their clothes for them, take off work to aid their sick children . . everything.
We just want affection . . is that too much to ask?
I think I've come to the conclusion that just men, in general, don't know HOW to touch a female. They have it all organized . . this way, this time, at this moment, in this location . . and that is their mistake.
Trim the hedges, then mow the grass, then rake
Roast takes the longest, start rice 20 minutes before meat done, canned veges last
Make a right here, left at second light, back in parking space for easy exit
Bleach first and let agitate, add soap, then add clothes
This approach of having a system seems to be how men believe a woman should be treated, like we are a duty and there is an order for us to function . . . like them. There is a goal, in men's eyes, when it comes to touching . . the goal being a climax and they think that is what a woman need's too. They think that our aim is to reach sexual climax and so stimulation through touching has to be a certain way, a certain time.
What they fail to realize is that orgasm is THIER goal, not ours. We don't HAVE to have it. We like it and want it, to be sure . . but, not mandatory. What is mandatory in order for us to feel like a loved woman, is . . affection.
"She just wants me to hold her all the time."
"Word, dude. I don't get it."
"Me either . . but, she'll put-out if I do."
If it is understood by men that a woman NEEDS to be held and softly stroked, then what is the big deal? Don't they want us to feel safe and secure within their love? Instead, they would push us away, which causes us to fall into the arms of another who would gently pull our hair away and lovingly kiss our necks, while telling us how beautiful we are.
I don't get it. If you know something, why fight against it? If a woman NEEDS touching and caressing to feel whole, why is it so difficult to give them what they need? We give men what they need . . we screw them, we feed them and wash their clothes for them, take off work to aid their sick children . . everything.
We just want affection . . is that too much to ask?
I actually appreciated his very traditional values for the most part. I do love being a girl, dressing the part and I have no problems trusting that the guy was a decent straight shooter character type. It was charming and I liked being classified as a lady. However in some respects I am different. People always ask me about my clothes because while being conservative, I try to mix in something more unusual because to me it's pretty.
I know this guy was bright and made many right decisions. In fact he was a decent person; however, nothing in my life is black and white. And yeah affection cannot be controlled like the car engine. To me it's just not possible. Sex in my view is kind of a spiritual expression.
I know this guy was bright and made many right decisions. In fact he was a decent person; however, nothing in my life is black and white. And yeah affection cannot be controlled like the car engine. To me it's just not possible. Sex in my view is kind of a spiritual expression.
"It is well known that men are more logical than women are, and "final" decision making should be usually left for the man to make because he's more 'capable'."
I'll wager you don't pedal that garbage in the world where you would actually have to justify it properly.
I'll wager you don't pedal that garbage in the world where you would actually have to justify it properly.
Hmm since you are in France then it's not the same guy. But Archer... I have a very similar story only we were dating at that point! The hands were on my naked back... and nothing!!!
My pisces guy has issues with touching... I think. Like he doesn't touch me, but he told me that he feels flattered when I touch him because it means I feel safe with him and trust him.
I know he likes me at least a bit, but I can't figure out why he's do weird.
I know he likes me at least a bit, but I can't figure out why he's do weird.
This post is 11 years old! I was going to reply to her but...
Posted by LorakeenI think Pisces men are just very very sensitive and take things very very slow. I know one who said "you get more out of it." He meant you get more out of a situation if you take it slow. He liked it if I touched him but he had to be very gentle and light, and I had to take him slow. I did hug him once but he didn't respond.
My pisces guy has issues with touching... I think. Like he doesn't touch me, but he told me that he feels flattered when I touch him because it means I feel safe with him and trust him.
I know he likes me at least a bit, but I can't figure out why he's do weird.
Everything with them is about taking it slow and gentle and light. Then they don't feel rushed and tend to open up more as long as you just let them and don't try to push them.
The frustrating thing is when they start doing their disappearing act! And come back apologising, then do it again. That's the thing I find frustrating!
Thread is half my old but still rings true
Posted by pooface222Posted by LorakeenI think Pisces men are just very very sensitive and take things very very slow. I know one who said "you get more out of it." He meant you get more out of a situation if you take it slow. He liked it if I touched him but he had to be very gentle and light, and I had to take him slow. I did hug him once but he didn't respond.
My pisces guy has issues with touching... I think. Like he doesn't touch me, but he told me that he feels flattered when I touch him because it means I feel safe with him and trust him.
I know he likes me at least a bit, but I can't figure out why he's do weird.
Everything with them is about taking it slow and gentle and light. Then they don't feel rushed and tend to open up more as long as you just let them and don't try to push them.
The frustrating thing is when they start doing their disappearing act! And come back apologising, then do it again. That's the thing I find frustrating!click to expand
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when he got here on Saturday I told him to not ring the doorbell, just whatsapp me because my housemate was sleeping. He forgot his phone so he rang. I came out and just said " you just can't wait can you?" and we went on. Later on I remembered i didnt get a hug and asked "hey, where's my hug". He replid "you left it in the street".
And then it hit me he had been looking forward to that hug too 😄
We got into this sort of pattern where I message him when i have something to say and we have a day or two a week when we talk online for hours. If I send him a long message or a series he takes his time and comes back with a long thought out answer.
And turns out once every two weeks we get time together... to just talk because of course. he is being a perfect gentleman, and I enjoy it.
He's bene signalling to me that he isn't tremendously happy with his current girlfriend. he talks a lot more about his ex wife than about her.
But yeah, understanding he likes to take things very slow, with phrases like "it will take some time to understand each other completely" helps.
and coming back to touching- he took his sock off and asked me to touch his foot to see he has spurs.
I don’t know about the men, but I don’t like anyone entering my space with out an invitation. Once you are in you will be very welcome 😊
Posted by BerzerkerLol you know there are +15 years old threads with bunch of unregistered usernames.
i was nine years old when this thread came out, wow
Posted by BerzerkerIt's funny mate. You can't tell who's replying who. They all have same usernames and default avis.
lol a prehistoric site
Posted by AerialViewHei! 😠 We just like to reply, ok?Posted by BerzerkerIt's funny mate. You can't tell who's replying who. They all have same usernames and default avis.
lol a prehistoric site
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Posted by pisceswoman123Hmm senorita why you came with that mad face? I wasn't talking about this thread 😫Posted by AerialViewHei! 😠 We just like to reply, ok?Posted by BerzerkerIt's funny mate. You can't tell who's replying who. They all have same usernames and default avis.
lol a prehistoric site
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Posted by tizianiLol I wonder if op still think he's hot now
11 years ago Pisces men had issues with touching.
You've all come so far as a Sun sign since then.
Posted by AerialViewIt’s ok, I am just pulling your leg 😂 You know I couldn’t be mad at you 😜Posted by pisceswoman123Hmm senorita why you came with that mad face? I wasn't talking about this thread 😫Posted by AerialViewHei! 😠 We just like to reply, ok?Posted by BerzerkerIt's funny mate. You can't tell who's replying who. They all have same usernames and default avis.
lol a prehistoric site
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Posted by OrGasMeHahah
Yes. Everytime you let them touch you, a tear sheds from their penis.
Dxp should have a thread where we can vote for the funniest replies
This is one of them
Posted by pisceswoman123I wouldn't mind if you pulling my pants 😂😂Posted by AerialViewIt’s ok, I am just pulling your leg 😂 You know I couldn’t be mad at you 😜Posted by pisceswoman123Hmm senorita why you came with that mad face? I wasn't talking about this thread 😫Posted by AerialViewHei! 😠 We just like to reply, ok?Posted by BerzerkerIt's funny mate. You can't tell who's replying who. They all have same usernames and default avis.
lol a prehistoric site
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Posted by GC02Scared me shitless! Talking ashes...🙈Posted by P-AngelWhen you see a P-Angel post, get excited, then notice it was a post from 11years ago.
"Ladies were ladies all the time and other women were just out to be used. (I cleaned up that saying, but you know the expression.)"
Oh, well, there ya go. Being female, myself, I know exactly what your saying. If I had to put a finger on it, I too, would think it was his sense of traditional values. And being the Aqua girl you are . . well, I don't have to talk about being confined and conformed . . you know yourself.
Having those values seems odd in this day and age, eh?
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Posted by AerialViewOf course you wouldn’t 😂😂 You would be in heaven 😜Posted by pisceswoman123I wouldn't mind if you pulling my pants 😂😂Posted by AerialViewIt’s ok, I am just pulling your leg 😂 You know I couldn’t be mad at you 😜Posted by pisceswoman123Hmm senorita why you came with that mad face? I wasn't talking about this thread 😫Posted by AerialViewHei! 😠 We just like to reply, ok?Posted by BerzerkerIt's funny mate. You can't tell who's replying who. They all have same usernames and default avis.
lol a prehistoric site
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