Do you care about a lover's body....

Would you date someone, who is terribly out of shape even though you are in great shape?

What if they look better in clothes, or do not look as out of shape in clothes?

I think if he was really nice, and smart and kind...just a lovely person. I would easily look past it.

Posted by Air
What if they look better in clothes, or do not look as out of shape in clothes?

lol My Aqua is like that😛 haha

They would need a killer personality.. But I supose It wouldn't matter Too much it would still be in the back of my mind tho.. I could work with it all the same... Vigro flaw detector... I can't turn it off sometimes.. But I would be tactful at least..

I could get over less-than-fit, and would prefer too chubby to too skinny, but not extremes like obese or anorexic ... that's a sign of unresolved issues. But I am an active, fit person and would prefer my significant other be the same ... I'm influenced by those around me and it's good for me to date a guy who cares about his health and fitness, it motivates me more.

My ex Aqua hubby never went to the gym ONCE. He didnt look bad, just really skinny. I looked past it because he had other things to offer. The Aries Im dating now is skinny as hell too. Its almost a turn off to be honest. He never eats! He could stand to gain at least 15lbs. LOL..but he is sooo awesome. Im gonna have to force feed him.

That's a good question I think that you see in a person are the physical traits first and then u see the rest.I like working out,that doesn't mean I wouldn't date someone that doesn't.I tend to look at the persons face first and then body. I guess I would want someone that cares about being healthy.But if I'm attracted to you that means u got something I like weather your skinny or chubby.

For me it doesn't matter. I'm into personality, heart, intentions and all that jazz. No to be attractive is a plus, I'm not talking about body I mean more by face. I don't really like pretty boys, I like normal looking guys. When I point out a guy I think is cute some of my friends are like him?! Serioulsy, really? You don't mean the guy behind him?

I'm kind of slender and short 5' 4" so a guy who isn't shorter than me is a plus. I'm more into looking internally than body fat. I really don't care about all of that. Plus if a mermaid/mermen is in love...we think of our partner as perfect in every way, including the belly. 😉

Posted by Dreamer02
My ex Aqua hubby never went to the gym ONCE. He didnt look bad, just really skinny. I looked past it because he had other things to offer. The Aries Im dating now is skinny as hell too. Its almost a turn off to be honest. He never eats! He could stand to gain at least 15lbs. LOL..but he is sooo awesome. Im gonna have to force feed him.

Just saying>>>>> Yo....

............. moderation. kewl you have a tread mill, most girls @ the gym use the stairmaster like crazy. I've always been super toned until I got down and really pigged out, I was like 220lbs. It felt like I was drowning and I would get winded from running up 3 flights of stairs😢 my back hurt alot. So I have a small peak into maybe what an really overweight person feels like. I didn't much care want people thought but when I felt weird about being in public and me dying in my sleep I knew there was a real prob.

+1 on never being a B cup LMAO😄

I would have to be attracted to their body. I take relatively good care of myself and I.expect that in my partner as well.

I considered dating this guy I know but was not attracted to his self-care. He is thin and a vegetarian but he's in rather poor health because all he eats is junk food and is too lazy to care for himself properly.

Posted by PiscesPosterBoy
So is my Aqua 😄

Skinny jeans (hell, even PJs), form fitting shirt, or one of those shirts that are cut on the sides so I can see his tanned goodness.. looks damn fine. 🙂

Take it off and the truth isn't as pretty. But eyecandy nonetheless

*Drools*

hahaha!!

I like to think their charm makes up for it Although sometimes I want to throw a shirt at him, put that away😛

Posted by Lobo

Posted by Dreamer02
My ex Aqua hubby never went to the gym ONCE. He didnt look bad, just really skinny. I looked past it because he had other things to offer. The Aries Im dating now is skinny as hell too. Its almost a turn off to be honest. He never eats! He could stand to gain at least 15lbs. LOL..but he is sooo awesome. Im gonna have to force feed him.

Just saying>>>>> Yo....

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what? lol

Posted by Dreamer02

Posted by Lobo

Posted by Dreamer02
My ex Aqua hubby never went to the gym ONCE. He didnt look bad, just really skinny. I looked past it because he had other things to offer. The Aries Im dating now is skinny as hell too. Its almost a turn off to be honest. He never eats! He could stand to gain at least 15lbs. LOL..but he is sooo awesome. Im gonna have to force feed him.

Just saying>>>>> Yo....

what? lol

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Nothing..... just haven't seen ya seen my celeb 5 post is all...

Posted by Nemesis
it's all meaningless crap after all......beauty is skin-deep.

if you love, there are no flaws.

True True... loves makes just about everything easier to accept....

A person doesn't think/determine who they are attracted to by means of desire/wants.

Pheramones send transmissions, which elicit responses

Everything any person said in here is nothing except pure ego talking .... and nothing reality based because every person is attracted to another according to thier scent

If that was true then no one would find movie stars attractive. You can smell them thru the screen.

Posted by P-Angel
A person doesn't think/determine who they are attracted to by means of desire/wants.

Pheramones send transmissions, which elicit responses

Everything any person said in here is nothing except pure ego talking .... and nothing reality based because every person is attracted to another according to thier scent

You guys have no idea how much this response followed by the next five made me laugh. Just P-Angel outta of nowhere!

Posted by everevolvingepithet
sniffing people, 2012's hot-to-trot item !

*gigglesnort* amen

Scratch n' sniff dxp? Wave of the future.

Bwahahahhaaaa! Is that lemongrass with a smackeral of sandalwood? Nice. 🙂

mine would def smell like vanilla with a splash of nutmeg or maybe toffee. Scratch and sniff DXP sounds alluring! A lot more hook ups would happen on here...that's for sure. 😉

You know it.

LOL I was rather thinking you'd smell the person, not the arse avi they found on a google image search.

true...some might smell like feet that was soaked in vinegar.

LMAO Or feta cheese and Dorito chips. Whoa hey, the faint tang of a basement and fervently written on paper. 😛

e to the 3rd you would be correct. have a vomit bag at hand.

oooo noes venusbull...oh noes. lol

ROFLOL I'm wicked. But it's such fun.

No size is gross. The only gross thing is a closed mind.

Posted by DazedScorp
*smh*

I remember back in junior high when I was a B cup...

What does that even mean? Lol

prob means he was overweight which is hard to imagine...he is skinny as all hell now.

Posted by Air
Would you date someone, who is terribly out of shape even though you are in great shape?

I dunno.. Terribly out of shape as in:

Then no.. 😄 But they don't have to work out 3 times a week either. As long as the guy's clean and we have a connection, I don't really care.

I prefer tall and skinny, but, Kevin James....come here to me! I think men get away with being over weight more than women, but all kinds of people like all kinds of sizes. As long as he and I have a connection as someone else put it is all that matters. He has to be attractive in my eyes but it can be a number of factors that makes him appealing to me. I am one woman what doesn't see a man's size down below as important either. That's all society, I believe. A woman usually does not orgasm due to penile length or girth, she orgasms from his pelvic bone thrusting against her clitoris. Her G-spot (if stimulated) is an inch away from her vagina opening, so men, don't let a shallow woman get to your head (no pun intended, or maybe so). Remember though....with every 30 lbs a man looses, he gains an inch. Though size does not actually take away from sexual experience, IMO, a woman does gloat if her man is larger than average. Just the same as when a man brags about having a big chested woman, though he will not limit himself to. He will usually also date a woman with small breasts. Sex 101 is over, class dismissed.