Gemini met a pisces woman

It was a blind date, Im a gemini and I like her. But she is very elusive at times..Id prefer if she told me to get lost, that way I can move on with my life. We had a little tiff over her non answering of phone and not returning messages etc. When I first met her a couple weeks ago she said she wanted my baby, which I found weird. But I was then hooked, though its proving hard to get her attention and hook this fish. So should I stick around and try get her or just call it a day cause Ive heard these piscean woman can play hard to get and are not easy to get.

Posted by nano
Do you think it's a red flag that a woman tells you she wants your baby upon first meeting?

No. Im fine with it. It was a surprise but I liked it. Now shes gone cold, oh well.

Posted by shakedown
How long have the two of you been talking?
How many times have you seen each other?

About 3-4 weeks. Weve seen each other twice, spoken a lot on whatsapp..we were supposed to meet last friday but I was tied up at work.

I understand you guys are moody and sensitive and need patience, I am as well though am a Gemini and am very understanding and flexible. I can adapt to any situation faster than most, but this once is tough even for me.

other day she got mad because I asked if we could talk after her not replying my messages. She texted and said she couldnt talk, so I asked if she couldnt talk now or never, and that set her off. I think it was a fair question to a person who communicates very poorly. But I did apologize.

I can simply walk away and disappear, as Im too mature for these games, but Ive given up and walked out on too many people throughout my lifetime and I dont want to just walk away and give up anymore without a fight. I like her..I havent liked anyone like this in a few years, I thought my crush reserves were totally depleted till she came around and re-awakened something I thought was long dead. Im not too attached to her yet, but I do have feelings but will understand totally if she doesnt and wants me gone. But at least tell me somehow someway without just being silent and elusive. I wont fight it, wont argue or try change her mind as I respect another persons decisions they make for themselves. But if I had confirmation am not wanted, Id be totally gone but not without some confirmation, I need to hear 'this isnt working, I need my space have a nice life'. That way we can have closure, I can move on and she too.

Unlike shakedown I appreciate a man who chases at the beginning. Probably why I’m with my Gem now, he chased and locked me down. Just goes to show you sun sign only goes so deep. Each Pisces is a special snowflake and whatnot.

Do you know what the rest of her chart looks like? Moon. Mercury. Venus?

And your moon, Mercury and mars?

Posted by nano
Do you think it's a red flag that a woman tells you she wants your baby upon first meeting?

No.

it's kind of hot

Posted by LadyNeptune
Unlike shakedown I appreciate a man who chases at the beginning. Probably why I’m with my Gem now, he chased and locked me down. Just goes to show you sun sign only goes so deep. Each Pisces is a special snowflake and whatnot.

Do you know what the rest of her chart looks like? Moon. Mercury. Venus?

And your moon, Mercury and mars?

Where can I check my chart? I think I have a moon in Aries.

Her telling you that she wants your babe means she really likes you 😄

I like a guy that chase me too. So if you like her don’t give up.

Adreamuponwaking's guide on how to win a pisces woman :

1. Be good looking

2. Be interesting / passionate about something

3. Stay on the periphery..don't be too direct in the beginning

e.g if you have mutual friends be more social with them

4.prepare for the surprise attack in which you catch her off guard by showing interest...make it romantic and not cheesy if you can

5. for the first date(s) - expand her worldview by taking her to things that will arouse her imagination / creative side ( museums , galleries , contemporary dance performances , attend a play , go sailing or for a hike etc)

6. during these dates....listen to her..really listen

7. be good or get really good at oral sex.

repeat steps 5-7 for the entire relationship and you will have a happy fish

Posted by GemiGem

Posted by LadyNeptune
Unlike shakedown I appreciate a man who chases at the beginning. Probably why I’m with my Gem now, he chased and locked me down. Just goes to show you sun sign only goes so deep. Each Pisces is a special snowflake and whatnot.



Do you know what the rest of her chart looks like? Moon. Mercury. Venus?



And your moon, Mercury and mars?

Where can I check my chart? I think I have a moon in Aries. click to expand

click to expand

That makes sense

Posted by shakedown
How long have the two of you been talking?
How many times have you seen each other?

Its been close to a month. We've met a couple times. She's always busy, all over the place etc etc. hard to lock her down..I hate seeing my whatsapp texts all blue and with no response.

I was raised well, I cannot harass and hound another human being for a decision they make in their own best interest, but Id like to hear her tell me Im wasting my time, only then will my over active Gemini mind come to accept that reality and disappear from her life forever.

Posted by GemiGem

Posted by LadyNeptune
Unlike shakedown I appreciate a man who chases at the beginning. Probably why I’m with my Gem now, he chased and locked me down. Just goes to show you sun sign only goes so deep. Each Pisces is a special snowflake and whatnot.



Do you know what the rest of her chart looks like? Moon. Mercury. Venus?



And your moon, Mercury and mars?

Where can I check my chart? I think I have a moon in Aries. click to expand

click to expand

https://astrolibrary.org/report/

This one doesn’t require time of birth, just date.

Posted by pisceswoman123
Her telling you that she wants your babe means she really likes you 😄

I like a guy that chase me too. So if you like her don’t give up.

We met at a blind date hook up. and it was literally the very first thing she uttered when she saw me. I really like her and dont want to give up, but I need help here..I will give her one last try maybe friday evening but if she doesnt pick up Ill have to catch her drift and save myself some humiliation

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by GemiGem

Posted by LadyNeptune
Unlike shakedown I appreciate a man who chases at the beginning. Probably why I’m with my Gem now, he chased and locked me down. Just goes to show you sun sign only goes so deep. Each Pisces is a special snowflake and whatnot.





Do you know what the rest of her chart looks like? Moon. Mercury. Venus?





And your moon, Mercury and mars?

Where can I check my chart? I think I have a moon in Aries. click to expand

https://astrolibrary.org/report/</a>

This one doesn’t require time of birth, just date. click to expand

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Compatibility Aspects From Him To Her

Him's Sun Square Her's Sun

Orb: 6° 45'

Any connection between two personal planets is considered auspicious in relationship astrology; however, difficult aspects can present a challenge. In this case the couple's Suns are making a difficult connection. On the one hand it is a positive sign that their Suns are connected. On the other hand Him and Her are presented with the challenge of overcoming some problems before experiencing the full rewards of this union. This is true whether they are forming a love relationship, friendship, family connection or working association. The major problem is one of rivalry. Him and Her experienced the instant attraction that comes with meeting someone different. They are poles apart in the way that they view the world. At first this seemed exciting, enticing and romantic. As times moves on, and the initial excitement wears off, they are presented with the obstacle of communicating with someone who views the world in a different manner. They are at cross-purposes and may resort to competing with each other, rather than co-operating. This can be frustrating, causing both Him and Her to sometimes feel as though they are 'hitting their heads against a brick wall,' as the saying goes. As long as there are other positive aspects in this relationship, both Him and Her are likely to overcome the obstacles and create a harmonious and loving relationship. However, they will both have to learn to 'walk a mile in someone else's moccasins'.



Him's Sun Trine Her's Mercury

Orb: 2° 13'

The importance of communication in relationships cannot be emphasized enough. Without understanding of another person's point of view and the ability to communicate one's own thoughts and feelings a relationship can easily break down. This is an ideal combination for harmonious communications in a relationship. Him and Her are able to communicate with ease, understanding how the other person thinks and sharing many of the same opinions. On the occasions when Him and Her do disagree, they do so with a respect for each other's point of view. Him and Her enjoy learning from each other and may take part in a shared activity or pastime from which they both learn about themselves and life. Both Him and Her enjoy listening to each other, as well as talking. They may also enjoy writing notes to each other. Together they learn a greater understanding of each other and themselves. Him has a great respect for Her's intellectual prowess and may even help her to develop her mental skills. Him knows that Her helps him to shine more in his own life through the intellectual stimulation that comes from this relationship. In response Her knows that Him's sunny personality stimulates her and that she is appreciated. Him helps her to grow in her awareness of the world.



Him's Sun Square Her's Venus

Orb: 4° 27'

This combination of the Sun and the personal planet Venus in relationship astrology is a difficult one. It indicates that the two people have conflicting values when it comes to personal relationships, which creates problems for any long-term association. Him and Her feel a strong attraction to each other, but they cannot seem to communicate in a harmonious manner. Joint decisions about relationships are difficult. Him and Her argue about subjects such as the future of their relationship, family associations, money matters and creative pastimes. They just can't seem to agree. Him feels frustrated. On the one hand Him is drawn to Her. On the other hand Him knows that he is losing his identity in this relationship, and is often floundering to express himself. Her is also frustrated. She feels overwhelmed by Him's powerful personality and is unable to get on with her creative pursuits. Neither Him nor Her really feels that they are benefiting from this union, and yet they feel drawn to try to resolve the problems. Depending on other connections in this relationship Him and Her may finally decide to end their association or they could resolve their differences. They may need to seek counsel on how to resolve their differences.



Him's Mercury Square Her's Mars

Orb: 3° 21'

A feisty relationship is the result of this combination of the planets Mercury and Mars. When Him and Her are together the sparks fly. The nature of these sparks depends on other aspects of the relationship. On the one hand Him and Her may be positively stimulated by each other's company, enjoying lively conversations and energetic activities. Both Him and Her learn much from each other and may enjoy facing challenges together which in turn help them to move forward in their own lives. However, it is more likely that this combination indicates a combustive reaction when Him and Her are together. The relationship is likely to be fraught with misunderstandings and angry reactions. In particular Her is aggressive, perhaps even trying to bully Him to do things her way. Her honestly believes that she knows what is right for Him and energetically sets about trying to achieve her goals. However, Him resents these tactics and becomes critical of everything that Her does. There seems to be no middle ground and tempers are frayed. Him is usually able to have the last word, but Her knows how to act in a way that is guaranteed to escalate any argument. Of course there is always the possibility that both Him and Her enjoy the drama of this relationship. However, if this is not the case then the lesson is to learn to respect each other's differences and to channel all of the energy created by this partnership into positive activities and lively discussions.



Him's Mercury Square Her's Saturn

Orb: 3° 7'

A lasting union is indicated by this combination of the planets Mercury and Saturn, but only if the pitfalls are avoided. The problems could include poor communication, judgmental or critical attitudes to each other or a fear of intimacy. On a positive note both Him and Her share a mutual respect for each other and are willing to work towards sound communication. However, they are likely to strike obstacles along the way, which will test their commitment. If Him and Her can overcome these obstacles then they will strengthen their bond. If not, one or both of them is likely to feel imprisoned by the relationship. It's also possible that Him's self-esteem is adversely affected if Her is too critical. A personal relationship is the most difficult to balance with this combination. A working relationship is also a challenge.



Him's Mercury Opposition Her's Pluto

Orb: 2° 57'

This is a potentially explosive combination of the planets Mercury and Pluto, with communication playing a key role. The problem is that this combination indicates a battle of two minds. Both Him and Her discover that they trigger forceful emotions and thoughts in each other. At times the intensity becomes overwhelming and they don't know what to do. It is vital that both Him and Her communicate honestly, keeping all emotions and thoughts out in the open as much as is possible. Otherwise their relationship is likely to become volcanic, possibly even abusive as they battle to make themselves understood. They both find it near impossible to simply let matters slide, feeling that they must tackle each other head on. This works well if both Him and Her are able to enjoy penetrating and honest discussions. However, if they don't then one of them, probably Him, is likely to suffer. Positively this relationship is transformative. Negatively it is abusive. The nature of the union depends on Him and Her's personalities and other aspects of their association.



Him's Mercury Square Her's Chiron

Orb: 4° 31'

This is a difficult combination of the planet Mercury and the asteroid Chiron. Him and Her have difficulty communicating in a manner that is rewarding. Instead they seem to hurt each other's feelings through saying the wrong thing. In particular Her seems to upset Him. The problem is that old hurtful memories surface in this relationship. Him and Her have subconsciously attracted each other in order to learn valuable life lessons, but the journey is not smooth. Him is particularly sensitive to the words used by Her, and has difficulty listening with emotional calm. Him may accuse Her of being insensitive and uncaring; however, Her feels wrongfully accused. She genuinely struggles to find a better way of communicating what she means. These misunderstandings could lead to a breakdown in the relationship, or they could finally result in a better understanding of themselves and each other. Either way compassion is a key ingredient to successfully overcoming past hurts and developing loving communication.



Him's Venus Sextile Her's Saturn

Orb: 0° 36'

The planet Saturn is an important ingredient in any committed relationship. This somber planet can take away some of

Compatibility Aspects From Him To Her

Him's Sun Square Her's Sun

Orb: 6° 45'

Any connection between two personal planets is considered auspicious in relationship astrology; however, difficult aspects can present a challenge. In this case the couple's Suns are making a difficult connection. On the one hand it is a positive sign that their Suns are connected. On the other hand Him and Her are presented with the challenge of overcoming some problems before experiencing the full rewards of this union. This is true whether they are forming a love relationship, friendship, family connection or working association. The major problem is one of rivalry. Him and Her experienced the instant attraction that comes with meeting someone different. They are poles apart in the way that they view the world. At first this seemed exciting, enticing and romantic. As times moves on, and the initial excitement wears off, they are presented with the obstacle of communicating with someone who views the world in a different manner. They are at cross-purposes and may resort to competing with each other, rather than co-operating. This can be frustrating, causing both Him and Her to sometimes feel as though they are 'hitting their heads against a brick wall,' as the saying goes. As long as there are other positive aspects in this relationship, both Him and Her are likely to overcome the obstacles and create a harmonious and loving relationship. However, they will both have to learn to 'walk a mile in someone else's moccasins'.



Him's Sun Trine Her's Mercury

Orb: 2° 13'

The importance of communication in relationships cannot be emphasized enough. Without understanding of another person's point of view and the ability to communicate one's own thoughts and feelings a relationship can easily break down. This is an ideal combination for harmonious communications in a relationship. Him and Her are able to communicate with ease, understanding how the other person thinks and sharing many of the same opinions. On the occasions when Him and Her do disagree, they do so with a respect for each other's point of view. Him and Her enjoy learning from each other and may take part in a shared activity or pastime from which they both learn about themselves and life. Both Him and Her enjoy listening to each other, as well as talking. They may also enjoy writing notes to each other. Together they learn a greater understanding of each other and themselves. Him has a great respect for Her's intellectual prowess and may even help her to develop her mental skills. Him knows that Her helps him to shine more in his own life through the intellectual stimulation that comes from this relationship. In response Her knows that Him's sunny personality stimulates her and that she is appreciated. Him helps her to grow in her awareness of the world.



Him's Sun Square Her's Venus

Orb: 4° 27'

This combination of the Sun and the personal planet Venus in relationship astrology is a difficult one. It indicates that the two people have conflicting values when it comes to personal relationships, which creates problems for any long-term association. Him and Her feel a strong attraction to each other, but they cannot seem to communicate in a harmonious manner. Joint decisions about relationships are difficult. Him and Her argue about subjects such as the future of their relationship, family associations, money matters and creative pastimes. They just can't seem to agree. Him feels frustrated. On the one hand Him is drawn to Her. On the other hand Him knows that he is losing his identity in this relationship, and is often floundering to express himself. Her is also frustrated. She feels overwhelmed by Him's powerful personality and is unable to get on with her creative pursuits. Neither Him nor Her really feels that they are benefiting from this union, and yet they feel drawn to try to resolve the problems. Depending on other connections in this relationship Him and Her may finally decide to end their association or they could resolve their differences. They may need to seek counsel on how to resolve their differences.



Him's Mercury Square Her's Mars

Orb: 3° 21'

A feisty relationship is the result of this combination of the planets Mercury and Mars. When Him and Her are together the sparks fly. The nature of these sparks depends on other aspects of the relationship. On the one hand Him and Her may be positively stimulated by each other's company, enjoying lively conversations and energetic activities. Both Him and Her learn much from each other and may enjoy facing challenges together which in turn help them to move forward in their own lives. However, it is more likely that this combination indicates a combustive reaction when Him and Her are together. The relationship is likely to be fraught with misunderstandings and angry reactions. In particular Her is aggressive, perhaps even trying to bully Him to do things her way. Her honestly believes that she knows what is right for Him and energetically sets about trying to achieve her goals. However, Him resents these tactics and becomes critical of everything that Her does. There seems to be no middle ground and tempers are frayed. Him is usually able to have the last word, but Her knows how to act in a way that is guaranteed to escalate any argument. Of course there is always the possibility that both Him and Her enjoy the drama of this relationship. However, if this is not the case then the lesson is to learn to respect each other's differences and to channel all of the energy created by this partnership into positive activities and lively discussions.



Him's Mercury Square Her's Saturn

Orb: 3° 7'

A lasting union is indicated by this combination of the planets Mercury and Saturn, but only if the pitfalls are avoided. The problems could include poor communication, judgmental or critical attitudes to each other or a fear of intimacy. On a positive note both Him and Her share a mutual respect for each other and are willing to work towards sound communication. However, they are likely to strike obstacles along the way, which will test their commitment. If Him and Her can overcome these obstacles then they will strengthen their bond. If not, one or both of them is likely to feel imprisoned by the relationship. It's also possible that Him's self-esteem is adversely affected if Her is too critical. A personal relationship is the most difficult to balance with this combination. A working relationship is also a challenge.



Him's Mercury Opposition Her's Pluto

Orb: 2° 57'

This is a potentially explosive combination of the planets Mercury and Pluto, with communication playing a key role. The problem is that this combination indicates a battle of two minds. Both Him and Her discover that they trigger forceful emotions and thoughts in each other. At times the intensity becomes overwhelming and they don't know what to do. It is vital that both Him and Her communicate honestly, keeping all emotions and thoughts out in the open as much as is possible. Otherwise their relationship is likely to become volcanic, possibly even abusive as they battle to make themselves understood. They both find it near impossible to simply let matters slide, feeling that they must tackle each other head on. This works well if both Him and Her are able to enjoy penetrating and honest discussions. However, if they don't then one of them, probably Him, is likely to suffer. Positively this relationship is transformative. Negatively it is abusive. The nature of the union depends on Him and Her's personalities and other aspects of their association.



Him's Mercury Square Her's Chiron

Orb: 4° 31'

This is a difficult combination of the planet Mercury and the asteroid Chiron. Him and Her have difficulty communicating in a manner that is rewarding. Instead they seem to hurt each other's feelings through saying the wrong thing. In particular Her seems to upset Him. The problem is that old hurtful memories surface in this relationship. Him and Her have subconsciously attracted each other in order to learn valuable life lessons, but the journey is not smooth. Him is particularly sensitive to the words used by Her, and has difficulty listening with emotional calm. Him may accuse Her of being insensitive and uncaring; however, Her feels wrongfully accused. She genuinely struggles to find a better way of communicating what she means. These misunderstandings could lead to a breakdown in the relationship, or they could finally result in a better understanding of themselves and each other. Either way compassion is a key ingredient to successfully overcoming past hurts and developing loving communication.



Him's Venus Sextile Her's Saturn

Orb: 0° 36'

The planet Saturn is an important ingredient in any committed relationship. This somber planet can take away some of the short-term excitement of any union, but on a positive note it adds commitment and security needed for a long-term association. In other words Him and Her take this relationship seriously. They are devoted to each other and joyful in making promises that they are both able to keep. From the start of their association they enjoy taking their time getting to know each other, experiencing stability and understanding that grows slowly over time. They genuinely love each other and want to work towards a strong partnership. At times Him would like more fun and spontaneity, but he appreciates Her's wisdom in slowing things down in order to build a lasting union. Mutual respect is a central theme to this union. There is also a strong feeling of fate in this relationship. Him and Her may tell a story of how destiny meant for them to be together. While this combination of planets indicates a serious personal relationship, it can also be a positive influence on a partnership formed for the purpose of an artistic or creative project requiring both inspiration and hard work.



Him's Venus Trine Her's Chiron

Orb: 0° 47'

You can do the individual charts here (click create new chart)

http://astro.cafeastrology.com

Just do her time of birth as 12noon if you don’t know exact time.

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Adreamuponwaking's guide on how to win a pisces woman :

1. Be good looking
2. Be interesting / passionate about something
3. Stay on the periphery..don't be too direct in the beginning
e.g if you have mutual friends be more social with them
4.prepare for the surprise attack in which you catch her off guard by showing interest...make it romantic and not cheesy if you can
5. for the first date(s) - expand her worldview by taking her to things that will arouse her imagination / creative side ( museums , galleries , contemporary dance performances , attend a play , go sailing or for a hike etc)
6. during these dates....listen to her..really listen
7. be good or get really good at oral sex.

repeat steps 5-7 for the entire relationship and you will have a happy fish

1) I see myself as just ok, but people have always told me I'm a very good looking guy..I'm a Gemini afterall😄

2) Ok, Ill try, I have some ideas.

3) Ill back off a bit

4) That's if I can even get her on the phone to set up a date😄

5) Very straightforward

6) Im a good listener though I may appear absent minded. I hear and see all!

7) No problems putting it down in the bedroom..so Pisces woman likes oral huh..ok

Posted by GemiGem

Posted by pisceswoman123
Her telling you that she wants your babe means she really likes you 😄



I like a guy that chase me too. So if you like her don’t give up.

We met at a blind date hook up. and it was literally the very first thing she uttered when she saw me. I really like her and dont want to give up, but I need help here..I will give her one last try maybe friday evening but if she doesnt pick up Ill have to catch her drift and save myself some humiliation click to expand

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Yes. I think that her not replying is not a very good sign. We can be moody but not all the time.

I wish you luck. 😊

Posted by GemiGem

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Adreamuponwaking's guide on how to win a pisces woman :



1. Be good looking

2. Be interesting / passionate about something

3. Stay on the periphery..don't be too direct in the beginning

e.g if you have mutual friends be more social with them

4.prepare for the surprise attack in which you catch her off guard by showing interest...make it romantic and not cheesy if you can

5. for the first date(s) - expand her worldview by taking her to things that will arouse her imagination / creative side ( museums , galleries , contemporary dance performances , attend a play , go sailing or for a hike etc)

6. during these dates....listen to her..really listen

7. be good or get really good at oral sex.



repeat steps 5-7 for the entire relationship and you will have a happy fish

1) I see myself as just ok, but people have always told me I'm a very good looking guy..I'm a Gemini afterall😄
2) Ok, Ill try, I have some ideas.
3) Ill back off a bit
4) That's if I can even get her on the phone to set up a date😄
5) Very straightforward
6) Im a good listener though I may appear absent minded. I hear and see all!
7) No problems putting it down in the bedroom..so Pisces woman likes oral huh..ok click to expand

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good oral..not just any oral

the point is most guys aren't good

if you get good at that and give a sample during your first sexual encounter with a girl your dating no matter what her sign.....

it will be easy to lock her down

Posted by GemiGem

Posted by shakedown
How long have the two of you been talking?

How many times have you seen each other?

Its been close to a month. We've met a couple times. She's always busy, all over the place etc etc. hard to lock her down..I hate seeing my whatsapp texts all blue and with no response.
I was raised well, I cannot harass and hound another human being for a decision they make in their own best interest, but Id like to hear her tell me Im wasting my time, only then will my over active Gemini mind come to accept that reality and disappear from her life forever. click to expand

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lol so dramatic

are you sure your moon isn't in scorpio

My chart

Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Gemini 20°22'

Moon Aries 22°03'

Mercury Gemini 0°54'

Venus Taurus 4°41'

Mars Taurus 3°56'

Jupiter Gemini 15°17'

Saturn Leo 13°04'

Uranus Scorpio 8°11' R

Neptune Sagittarius 14°37' R

Pluto Libra 11°27' R

Lilith Gemini 5°29'

Asc node Libra 22°41'

Her Chart



Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Pisces 13°36'

Moon Sagittarius 9°55'

Mercury Aquarius 22°40' R

Venus Pisces 24°48'

Mars Aquarius 27°37'

Jupiter Scorpio 14°38' R

Saturn Pisces 4°09'

Uranus Capricorn 25°01'

Neptune Capricorn 22°38'

Pluto Scorpio 28°05' R

Lilith Aries 26°10'

Asc node Scorpio 27°04'

Can you interpret this please?