im a pisces sun Sagittarius moon female i was speaking to a libra male for almost a year the story is too long to write it all we werent a couple. we met at the gym he works at we both love working out so it went from there. he said if it worked out it worked out he never difined our relationship even though i asked more than enough. i always had a feeling he had or has someone else. he would be nice and loving one day and then turned cold the next. i would get aggravated because i hate people playing with me. i could write for ever to give more details about the times he left me hanging and i just treated him like he did to me ignored him. he would hate that he would say i was dramatic long story short this cycle kept going on until october 2015 then we kind of were doing good more communication but all of the sudden right before christmas he started being distant again it pissed me off because i automatically thought oh no not this cycle again i was being a bit more cold he noticed and asked me what was wrong i told him nothing i cant be mad at you cause you are nothing i mean you are not my boyfriend and im not your girlfriend so i cant be mad then he said ill text you. he texted me i didnt reply because i belive he knew what he was doing to me by being cold again. the next day i ignored him he asked why i didnt answer the text and i said for what you think im dramatic if i tell you how i feel. i also said dont ask me if you dont want to hear my answer. he got mad and said he never not answer my texts and left me there standing. and ever since then he has been ignoring me being rude and at the gym he is talking to some girl showing her how to use the machines im ok with that cause if he wants me to let him be i will. i just wanted him to not be all rude like if im the one that did him wrong when all along he lead me on. lastly today i went to the gym as usual i pretend he is not there i was minding my own business i left but accidently left my keys there i went back and when i opened the door he gave me this dirty look and me not able to hide my feelings i stared back like if i was going to kill him. i just dont understand him if he wants me to leave him alone thats what im doing by ignoring him. if i go to the gym and he is talking to other females im not going to say anything to them about him of what i do know i dont put anyone down to make myself feel better. please HELP i dont know what to do im not going to stop going to the gym because of him. if he pushed me to the side then why does he act like this. Any fellow fishes with similar experiences i would like advice. thanks
