How to deal with a crazy Pisces

***This is not a Pisces bashing thread***

I love Pisces, but I really need some advice on how to deal with this fucker. -__-

He was a really good friend of my Libra's. They knew each other for years...but didn't become really close until last year They were like best friends, always together, total whirlwind bromance.

He had this girlfriend for like 8 years we always heard about, but never met, because she travels for her job. At the same time he had this girl on the side who he met while he was a bouncer.
One day I called him out on this (what I do best, imo)
He fed me some bullshit story like his girlfriend knows he sees other people cause she's never there and blah blah blah. (Lie)

Well eventually we did meet his girlfriend - one of the nicest people I've ever met. Libra and her became good friends too. So, of course he started feeling bad that his friend was lying to her and using him as his alibi. For a long time he'd cover for him and lie (guy code) but after while he felt really shitty about it and eventually told her the truth.

It came out that the Pisces had lied about pretty much everything...like nothing about him was real or true. My Libra felt like he didn't even know him. It was crazy. I won't even list them unless someone asks because it will take up too much space.

The biggest lie was that he was in the marines. In reality he did enlist, but never even went to basic.(This lie bothered my Libra the most because he is military and it seemed kind of disrespectful to him.) He actually had convinced his chick on the side he did several tours in Afghanistan. Lol

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ANYWAYS, so when everything came out, his girlfriend confronted him and there was a bunch of drama. He lied some more. The chick on the side started calling his girlfriend and telling her he was lying??_he told her on numerous occasions that he and the girlfriend were broken up, he was just staying at the house because they owned it together (Another lie. It's her house.)

Not long after the Pisces just stopped texting/calling my Libra. My Libra assumed it came out that he had told the girlfriend the truth and the Pisces was mad at him, but at this point my Libra didn't really give a shit anymore because it was fucked up for him to expect him to keep lying for him.
There was no drama or words between them??_they just stopped speaking. But now the Pisces is going around trashing my Libra to everyone he knows.

My Libra owns his own repossession and impound business...and the Pisces has gone as far as to buddy up with his biggest competition. Together, they have been doing really childish shit like calling his accounts and trashing him, removing his signs from properties he services, posting about him on the internet. Meanwhile, the Pisces is like 36??_he's not in his twenties...this is a grown ass man.

I could care less about him running his mouth about my Libra, but it's starting to piss me off that he's taking it this far. He's literally obsessed. He sits outside my Libra??s accounts at night and watches him. I know how *I* would handle it if it were my ex-friend pulling this shit??_but my Libra is a lot more mature and classy than I am, admittedly. I really feel like calling him up and telling him to cut the shit but I know it won't do any good.

ADVICE PLEASE

How do you get a Pisces to stop this behavior?? Confront them? Ignoring it is not really effective??_he just keeps going??_it's been months of this shit. I am worried my Libra is going to snap and kill somebody, seriously.

Prolly not much you can do once a Pisces goes off the deep end..

He seems like a word thats used around here a lot so i wont use it lol. I guess youre gonna have to wait it out. Or sue for defamation.

Really ? :/

I am seriously worried about my Libra because he's being so calm about it...but I know him and he's gonna snap. & I'm not diagnosing him, but I'm pretty sure he has some kind of PTSD...

He keeps saying things like "why won't they just leave me the fuck alone" "they aren't going to go away are they?"

I don't want him to start rationalizing making them go away. You know what I mean?

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
He seems like a word thats used around here a lot so i wont use it lol. I guess youre gonna have to wait it out. Or sue for defamation.

Pathological liar?

Definitely. It's like mind blowing. I would post everything he's lied about but nobody got time for that.

He had some of my Libra's tools that he refused to return to him, after numerous attempts on my Libra's end. He was being a total bitch about it too - kept saying he was out of town when his truck was sitting outside his house. :/

Then my Libra impounded a friend of his car, ironically enough, and his friend told him and he was apparently like "don't worry, I'll get you your money back, I have his tools." (I almost lost it over this one) and so the guy called my Libra and was like I can get your tools back if you refund me. The Pisces even went as far as to suggest he refund the .
guy AND give him $ 300 for his tools to be returned.

-_____-

I told him to call the cops then because he had proof he had his belongings in text...but he wouldn't.
I think I will have to call him and threaten with cops myself because my Libra won't do it.

Posted by JustALeo
Can he claim that due to PTSD, he had to "eliminate" an issue?

:/ that's what I'm worried about...


I will PM you, I don't want to post some of the shit he said in public

This guy was driving by his house and yelling on a loud speaker "fuck you" and "__ sucks"
Also my parent's house when he'd see his truck there.

-__-

My mom was the one who first noticed it...my Libra couldn't tell what they were saying at first.

Posted by SirenSting
This guy doesn't deserve an ounce of respect from your Libra or yourself, Briana. Maybe you both can set up some security cameras and start documenting a case on this guy. Property damage, stolen property, etc.

I agree.

My Libra's not going to do it...he grew up in a rough area and he's got that whole mentality where you don't involve the police.

I'm going to have to take matters into my own hands I think.
He will be soooo mad at me when he finds out, but I don't care. It's really for his own good

This man sounds dangerously vindictive over a situation that was his own doing. I think that's really what's behind this out of control rage you're getting. Some men think they can hide behind "guy code" (don't ask/don't tell) when treating another person like crap. I do think you should call the cops and tell them what's going on. If this escalates, you need a record of reaching out to them for help. So sorry this has happened to you. I hope it blows over soon.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Have the guy sectioned, no section 17 etc, he sounds ill.🙂

Don't you have to be family to do that?

Posted by ellessque
doesn't your libra have a scorpio moon?

I think this pisces really doesn't know what he is getting himself into.

yeah :/

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Poisson


Document whatever he's visibly doing.

This is what I'd do, and cross the next bridge when you come to it.

I wouldn't threaten anybody either.

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Yeah everyone who he has trashed my Libra too has came and told him, and so far it has been ineffective on his part as far as doing any damage to my Libra's reputation or career, so I don't think a defamation case is worth the time regardless if it can be proven.

It is harassment though. 100% and while I do really want to threaten police with him I'm not sure it would do any good and you're right, it would really piss my Libra off. It would be a HUGE fight if he found out

Posted by idk
u r powerless n' weak.
unfortunately the law doesn't take feelings into consideration.
it's sad but true
until they start physically hurting someone else or themselves, it's not an actual problem.
anybody else here think that's wrong?

You're right, but it's not about hurt feelings...it's about harrassment.
Them vandalizing his property, and driving by and yelling profanity on a loud speaker all hours of the night (haven't done that in a while actually, so they may have given that up) as well as slander that could effect his livelihood, etc. are all legal issues, however.

Posted by Nemesis
and bri, you??d be surprised what effect (shit scared) an official letter from a lawyer can have on people....hehehe. besides, i'm betting this dude wont have money to take it through to court for counter claims... you guys could also sue him for lost business.....

that's actually a really good idea
he has a lawyer friend who would probably be more than happy to write something up.

I will bring it up to him the next time he tells me about them doing something

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Posted by AfternoonDelights22
He seems like a word thats used around here a lot so i wont use it lol. I guess youre gonna have to wait it out. Or sue for defamation.

Pathological liar?

Definitely. It's like mind blowing. I would post everything he's lied about but nobody got time for that.

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Sociopath was the word I was going for haha

I've got a crazy neighbour... found out from the 3 police reports I have against her that she's a Pisces.

Document,document, document! Call the police let them know what's going on and start a case load against him. Exposure is the only thing that can shut someone like this down.

Inform any Licensing/Insurance agencies your Libra is affiliated with about the situation. Take pictures of damage and record any harassing behaviour. phone calls/emails/ drive-bys etc. Don't threaten... just do it without letting the guy know. Stay calm. His intent is to frustrate and get under your skin but if you take every precaution available, you'll have peace of mind and eventually he'll hang himself because he is operating from pure emotion.... not logic.

My crazy bitch neighbour filed a bogus law suit against me and had no idea of all the evidence I had against her. She also found out I reported all of her harassing emails (slander, swearing and threatening me) and damage she did to my property. (slashing tires etc) The police report tags on her include Hate Crime, Harassment and Mental Health issues. In my country, a Mental Health tag means the file is given to a mental health specialist for assessment. Her file is over 17 pages long.

I built an arsenal against her and now she is fucked beyond belief and is facing possible criminal charges. The justice system does not like people wasting the courts time.

She thought she could scare me but had no idea who she was fucking with. I sleep like a baby at night...

She did it to other neighbours too... but went to the extreme with me (slander, threats, and property damage) I'm the only one who went to the police.

I blame my Moon/Mars Opposition Pluto, honestly.

Posted by Nemesis

Posted by shellshocker
She did it to other neighbours too... but went to the extreme with me (slander, threats, and property damage) I'm the only one who went to the police.

I blame my Moon/Mars Opposition Pluto, honestly.

yeah usually people like that have a history of erratic behaviour towards others....she targeted you. what are you placements?

just asking because i??ve often been the target of sudden aggressive confrontations (by random strangers!) - and i never saw it coming....

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Moon conjunct Mars (Aries) Opposition Pluto... in the 1st house.

I know what you mean by random targeting. I've stepped on to a public bus, not said a word and had the female driver start to go off on me.

I've also had women come up to me, accuse me of being a completely different person or saying something to them and try to start physical altercations. Never understood it until I got into astrology

It's hard to shake those looks, sometimes. Makes you want to exit stage left cause you know if you stick around.... somethings gonna happen.

I do get the opposite sometimes, tho. Like this little Brazilian lady came up to me on the street speaking Portuguese, smiling and grabs my hand. I tell her I don't understand what she's saying. She switches to English and says, "I think you do."

I kept turning around to look at her as I walked away... and she was still there smiling at me.

Posted by Nemesis
yes. exactly!!!
so do you think these sudden "incidents" (i??ve had nice ones too, but the weird ones just overweigh) have to do with the mars/pluto aspects? i think i have to go and check mine out.

thanks for the inspiration, shellshocker 🙂 —

I like to think the Mars/Pluto adds to it. Or the Sun/Pluto... or the Ascendent/Pluto! Take your pick, I've got them all 😄

But you have a Hades Moon... I think that would be enough.

and you're very welcome 🙂

Bump

Thought I'd update this since I am going to a deposition this morning for this fuckbag.


It finally escalated to violence about 5 or 6 months ago...all that time in between he was still harassing my Libra - following him around town, making scenes and threatening him in public, bad mouthing him to everyone he knows, lying some more.


One night we pulled into a gas station and I got out to pump gas and he came running out of nowhere and shoved me out of the way and threw a punch at my Libra. He missed and got locked up. He struggled for a few minutes until I was able to get my phone from the car and told him he was fucked and called the cops. This time it was on camera - another unprovoked attack.

We'll see if the DA does their job. They said they were going for a year in jail due to his lengthy record but we're lucky if he gets any jail time at all since his gf had a baby. He's riding that one out.

Also, this is the second physical attack...about 6 months before this attack he parked his truck on a property my Libra manages and when my Libra got a call from the owner that there was a truck parked out there after hours he went out there...and saw it was the Pisces truck and the Pisces literally came out the bushes and got in his face and was pushing him and shit.

So fucking bizarre. My Libra didn't call the cops that time or any time before. But this time I was there and it was on camera.

The lawyer representing him is a Sag...when I stated my DOB she was like "woo! Im Dec 8th - yay Sagittarius"

Lol

Jeezuz

I have a psycho Pisces relative but he has a narcistic personality disorder. Maybe this Pisces guy has a light version of it too, which means that unfortunately they probably can't be stopped. Just complete psychos.

I mean he sounds indeed as an idiot Pisces (im Pisces and I can recognize those)

My advice don't get involve... let the guys take care of their business...

For fuck's sake, start a new thread or better yet turn the page. How many years old is this shit? Can you not let it go? And no, I'm not going to read thru 5 pages of old news to try to get how cray cray this all is.

Posted by Este8
For fuck's sake, start a new thread or better yet turn the page. How many years old is this shit? Can you not let it go? And no, I'm not going to read thru 5 pages of old news to try to get how cray cray this all is.

hi cunt.

Why you would post on a thread you admittedly didn't bother to read is beyond me.

Going for an edge? Do me q favor and make your way to the nearest bridge and do a fucking swan dive. K.

Posted by MissFisk
— Let what go? I think there's nothing she would love more that to let it go if that psychotic individual would them go on with their lives. I mean, who would want this?

Dude got his bubble of a fantasy life, that he managed to make for himself through lies, popped like a balloon and he aint happy. He does sound like he has a personality disorder, though.

What I'm actually wondering is the motive here. It's really strange...depending on who he talks to there will be a different story ad to why he has a problem with the Libra. It's like he knows he has no good reason so he just makes them up.

Now he is lying and telling the DA he owns another repo company and the Libra does t like the competition.....

I was like what? ! No he doesn't...he is unemployed. His truck was out for repo last month...I know cause my Libra was assigned the order.

I wonder...does he even know why he's so obsessed? The DA asked if I was scared of him and I said I'm really more scared of what the ending of this will be because it does not appear that he will be letting it go anytime soon. It's been like 4 years since they've had any contact besides the attacks he initiates.

Libra and I have both told them...this isn't about revenge...we don't want to ruin his life...we just want him to stop.

Stop making u-turns in the middle of the road when you see us driving to follow us...stop making scenes in public trying to get someone to throw a punch...stop parking in the Libras accounts and hiding in bushes so you can jump out and attempt a sneak attack.

I really hope my Libra doesn't kill him next time.

I don't want him to ruin his life over some dude who clearly has nothing to lose.

Is there any way in which he might have a crush on the Libra and is also homophobic at the same time?

Would explain it.

Just throwing an outlandish scenario there.

This is either insanity or a strong strong personal motive. In which case everything he does is justified in his mind.

As hard as it is not to see it as completely personal...this is sort of a pattern for him. He is very spiteful/vengeful. We had been witness to this type of behavior directed at other people in the past. Of course at the time we believed his lies and saw him as a victim....he's good at that somehow...though looking back at it his lies are so absurd I can't believe we didn't question it sooner.

A national home builder has a lawsuit against him for defamation because he went on a year long tirade against them and made websites, etc.

Lol I wish I knew his bday but I can't remember...let me try to find it. He has a record I should be able to

Thats fucking ridiculous

Truly has to be a loon. There has to be a pretty big mental problem to continue this shit for that long. Wow sorry Bri.

Hopefully he does get the maximum.

Posted by Este8
For fuck's sake, start a new thread or better yet turn the page. How many years old is this shit? Can you not let it go? And no, I'm not going to read thru 5 pages of old news to try to get how cray cray this all is.

speaking of loons.

Found his bday on a mugshot lol...2/27/1975

Didn't look it up. Too much work on my phone

We'll go with virgo moon rather than Libra moon 🙂
Aqua merc
Aries venus
Cap mars

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
We'll go with virgo moon rather than Libra moon 🙂

what?
He seems like a person who was born in the morning and therefore fell under virgo moon 🙂

Lol

Sun square Neptune might explain it

http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Sun-Square-Neptune

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
what?
He seems like a person who was born in the morning

He seems to be born in the evening..that would give him a virgo rising too. Brr, awful people.

He kind of looks like a Scorp rising to me.....and it takes one to recognize one kind of thing.

This is really sad to read..

I have seen some extremely vindictive Pisces, I never understand it b/c it's usually their own fault that anything happened to begin with.

Did you ever say what the Pisces, Moon, Venus and Mars were?

Posted by WateryGem
This is really sad to read..

I have seen some extremely vindictive Pisces, I never understand it b/c it's usually their own fault that anything happened to begin with.

Did you ever say what the Pisces, Moon, Venus and Mars were?

Just looked it up earlier...

Virgo or Libra moon
Merc in Aqua
Venus in Aries
Mars in Cap

He looks like a typical Scorp rising so that would def make him a Virgo moon

Pretty sure someone else said this, but this isnt a pisces thing. This is a shitty person thing. Really sucks you put this in our section...