Gem13
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I need help.
I say tell her. You both realize you want to be together...so why not. Tell her you both were unsure the first time around but now you know that you should really give it your all. Good luck
Posted by DecFemCapShe hasn't specified she wants to be with me this time around or is even ready for me. Thanks for the reply. I think I will tell her
I say tell her. You both realize you want to be together...so why not. Tell her you both were unsure the first time around but now you know that you should really give it your all. Good luck
I think u should tell her 😍
Tell her. I think she will be very happy to hear it 😊
Do you guys think she could possibly be in love with me too? As a mars and venus in cancer I always doubt and 2nd guess
Yes, tell her. nothing to loose
Ugh. We haven't spoken much at all since we last saw each other Sat night. I play ball on Tuesdays and text her this morning to say id come by on my way to the game to say hey she said she should be home but if it changed she'd let me know. I asked her for lunch but she was going to the gym and said we'd see each other later tonight anyway so said ok.
She just text me not long ago saying "hey babe I won't be home tonight. Goodluck with your game!".
I'm not going to bother replying. This back and forth is killing me. I know we agreed to not be as intense and live our lives and see what happens between us but I miss her. I want to see her. Uughh now I'm hesitant to tell her anything.
She just text me not long ago saying "hey babe I won't be home tonight. Goodluck with your game!".
I'm not going to bother replying. This back and forth is killing me. I know we agreed to not be as intense and live our lives and see what happens between us but I miss her. I want to see her. Uughh now I'm hesitant to tell her anything.
Hahahah at that giff. Now I'm not so sure I should tell her considering she blew me off tonight. I just keep going back and forth about it...but it needs to come out. I guess having my heart broken now is better than in months to come.
OMG!! She blew you off but considered you enough to tell you today didn't work...she even said "said have a good game baby" cmon!! Tell her!! If you are so nervous (we have all been there my friend) plan a romantic evening something simple but creative but don't be intimate that night tell her you are serious about her this time and you want to be sure she feels the same way. Give her a tight hug and kiss on the cheek (close to the mouth) LOL shes gonna tell you to come back lol! Keep us posted!
My Pisces moon is showing excuse me, but I don't see any woman saying I adore you with other sweet nothings and does not want to be claimed.. go get your woman.
OK so I did it. I didn't end up replying back on Tuesday night and we didn't speak at all.
Wednesday around late lunch she calls and I answer but I'm being short and cold. She instantly asks "are you cut at me" I replied yes...I actually am. She says are you cut because you expected me to stay home because you were going to come and see me for 10min?" I replied yes and that maybe it was silly. Anyway she said she'd be near my work and if I could come out for a walk.
We go and I'm still being somewhat cold and distant because I was still a bit annoyed at it all. Anyway we start talking about my ex who she knows of and I'm explaining about a situation that my ex is going through. We're about to part and I tell her "also I need to speak to you about something but now isnt the time". She presses and presses me to talk to her about it I refuse and she gives up says her goodbyes and we leave. I stop and smoke a quick cigarette, my heart is racing and I'm freaking out. Hands and legs are shaking. I decide "fuck this" I NEEEEEED to tell her.
I call her and she's still close by but says she needs to get back to work. I find her and I'm like "look.. its not the right time but I can't.. it just needs to come out.. what i wanted to talk to you about.. I came to the realisation.... I'm in love with you". (We're standing in the middle.of a shopping centre) She reponds with "you're not in love with me". I say "yes i am. I'm in love with you and its freaking me out". She looked shocked but happy and surprised all at the same time and let off a slight smile but looked nervous. I explained to her that the other night when I told her I loved her I didn't think I was in love but now I realise I am and it was never mean't to happen but it has and I can't help how I feel and it terrifies me and she tells me that these past few days she's been distant with me. I told her I noticed and she said its because she also realised she liked me much much more than what she let off and what she thought and that realisation has kind of scared and overwhelmed her so she tried to be distant to figure it out.
She said to me she had no idea I was about to tell her I was in love with her. She said what I say and portray say something completely different. She says the way I act and things I say to her tell her that I only see her as "another bitch", "another girl that I can just fuck". She said I'm pretty much a savage and sometimes say really insensitive things to her and she's just like woaaah. I told her that she's def more than just another girl to fuck and that maybe I was trying to hard to not reveal how I truly felt that subconciously I was acting like an idiot and portraying an image completely different to how I felt.
I told her I'm not sure what I want. I told her I know I want to be with her but then I don't and reason being is because I'm scared. I'm scared to commit, I'm scared to get hurt. I told her love and pain come hand in hand and I'm not sure I'm ready to deal with the pain. I also told her I know she's right. Everything about her and with her feels right. She said everything I'm saying to her is exactly how she feels. She also wants to be with me but is terrified (she had a horrible 4 yr relo with a sag which completely broke her to the point she had to see a psychiatrist). She told me I need to figure out what I want. She knows and feels that I'm not ready to commit. She said I look like I'm having fun seeing and sleeping with other people and partying etc and she doesn't want to intrude on that.
Anyway we start walking back to our buildings smiling at each other. She agrees when I say we need talk about it all properly when we have time. She asks me what I want moving forward with her I tell her we'll speak properly when we get time.
She then texts me not long after
"Thank you for being so honest with me"
"I need you to think about what is it you want now"
"I too need to think about it for me I really don't even know where to start I'm just riding the waves with you like we always have right from the beginning"
"You really caught me off guard"
"Fuck"
We kept going back and forth a bit but agreed to set a time soon to discuss. She suggested today or Friday. I said no to Friday and said today (thur) but she text today to say she couldn't do tonight.
Last night she text to say she was going to call me on her way home to swing by mine for snuggles but remembered I'd be having dinner with my capricorn ex so didn't bother (she knows my ex and I are just good friends).
Anyway so that's that.... she's being so passive about the whole thing. Does she want me to tell her I want to be with her? Like wtf
Wednesday around late lunch she calls and I answer but I'm being short and cold. She instantly asks "are you cut at me" I replied yes...I actually am. She says are you cut because you expected me to stay home because you were going to come and see me for 10min?" I replied yes and that maybe it was silly. Anyway she said she'd be near my work and if I could come out for a walk.
We go and I'm still being somewhat cold and distant because I was still a bit annoyed at it all. Anyway we start talking about my ex who she knows of and I'm explaining about a situation that my ex is going through. We're about to part and I tell her "also I need to speak to you about something but now isnt the time". She presses and presses me to talk to her about it I refuse and she gives up says her goodbyes and we leave. I stop and smoke a quick cigarette, my heart is racing and I'm freaking out. Hands and legs are shaking. I decide "fuck this" I NEEEEEED to tell her.
I call her and she's still close by but says she needs to get back to work. I find her and I'm like "look.. its not the right time but I can't.. it just needs to come out.. what i wanted to talk to you about.. I came to the realisation.... I'm in love with you". (We're standing in the middle.of a shopping centre) She reponds with "you're not in love with me". I say "yes i am. I'm in love with you and its freaking me out". She looked shocked but happy and surprised all at the same time and let off a slight smile but looked nervous. I explained to her that the other night when I told her I loved her I didn't think I was in love but now I realise I am and it was never mean't to happen but it has and I can't help how I feel and it terrifies me and she tells me that these past few days she's been distant with me. I told her I noticed and she said its because she also realised she liked me much much more than what she let off and what she thought and that realisation has kind of scared and overwhelmed her so she tried to be distant to figure it out.
She said to me she had no idea I was about to tell her I was in love with her. She said what I say and portray say something completely different. She says the way I act and things I say to her tell her that I only see her as "another bitch", "another girl that I can just fuck". She said I'm pretty much a savage and sometimes say really insensitive things to her and she's just like woaaah. I told her that she's def more than just another girl to fuck and that maybe I was trying to hard to not reveal how I truly felt that subconciously I was acting like an idiot and portraying an image completely different to how I felt.
I told her I'm not sure what I want. I told her I know I want to be with her but then I don't and reason being is because I'm scared. I'm scared to commit, I'm scared to get hurt. I told her love and pain come hand in hand and I'm not sure I'm ready to deal with the pain. I also told her I know she's right. Everything about her and with her feels right. She said everything I'm saying to her is exactly how she feels. She also wants to be with me but is terrified (she had a horrible 4 yr relo with a sag which completely broke her to the point she had to see a psychiatrist). She told me I need to figure out what I want. She knows and feels that I'm not ready to commit. She said I look like I'm having fun seeing and sleeping with other people and partying etc and she doesn't want to intrude on that.
Anyway we start walking back to our buildings smiling at each other. She agrees when I say we need talk about it all properly when we have time. She asks me what I want moving forward with her I tell her we'll speak properly when we get time.
She then texts me not long after
"Thank you for being so honest with me"
"I need you to think about what is it you want now"
"I too need to think about it for me I really don't even know where to start I'm just riding the waves with you like we always have right from the beginning"
"You really caught me off guard"
"Fuck"
We kept going back and forth a bit but agreed to set a time soon to discuss. She suggested today or Friday. I said no to Friday and said today (thur) but she text today to say she couldn't do tonight.
Last night she text to say she was going to call me on her way home to swing by mine for snuggles but remembered I'd be having dinner with my capricorn ex so didn't bother (she knows my ex and I are just good friends).
Anyway so that's that.... she's being so passive about the whole thing. Does she want me to tell her I want to be with her? Like wtf
Posted by Gem13I wouldn’t push it.
OK so I did it. I didn't end up replying back on Tuesday night and we didn't speak at all.
Wednesday around late lunch she calls and I answer but I'm being short and cold. She instantly asks "are you cut at me" I replied yes...I actually am. She says are you cut because you expected me to stay home because you were going to come and see me for 10min?" I replied yes and that maybe it was silly. Anyway she said she'd be near my work and if I could come out for a walk.
We go and I'm still being somewhat cold and distant because I was still a bit annoyed at it all. Anyway we start talking about my ex who she knows of and I'm explaining about a situation that my ex is going through. We're about to part and I tell her "also I need to speak to you about something but now isnt the time". She presses and presses me to talk to her about it I refuse and she gives up says her goodbyes and we leave. I stop and smoke a quick cigarette, my heart is racing and I'm freaking out. Hands and legs are shaking. I decide "fuck this" I NEEEEEED to tell her.
I call her and she's still close by but says she needs to get back to work. I find her and I'm like "look.. its not the right time but I can't.. it just needs to come out.. what i wanted to talk to you about.. I came to the realisation.... I'm in love with you". (We're standing in the middle.of a shopping centre) She reponds with "you're not in love with me". I say "yes i am. I'm in love with you and its freaking me out". She looked shocked but happy and surprised all at the same time and let off a slight smile but looked nervous. I explained to her that the other night when I told her I loved her I didn't think I was in love but now I realise I am and it was never mean't to happen but it has and I can't help how I feel and it terrifies me and she tells me that these past few days she's been distant with me. I told her I noticed and she said its because she also realised she liked me much much more than what she let off and what she thought and that realisation has kind of scared and overwhelmed her so she tried to be distant to figure it out.
She said to me she had no idea I was about to tell her I was in love with her. She said what I say and portray say something completely different. She says the way I act and things I say to her tell her that I only see her as "another bitch", "another girl that I can just fuck". She said I'm pretty much a savage and sometimes say really insensitive things to her and she's just like woaaah. I told her that she's def more than just another girl to fuck and that maybe I was trying to hard to not reveal how I truly felt that subconciously I was acting like an idiot and portraying an image completely different to how I felt.
I told her I'm not sure what I want. I told her I know I want to be with her but then I don't and reason being is because I'm scared. I'm scared to commit, I'm scared to get hurt. I told her love and pain come hand in hand and I'm not sure I'm ready to deal with the pain. I also told her I know she's right. Everything about her and with her feels right. She said everything I'm saying to her is exactly how she feels. She also wants to be with me but is terrified (she had a horrible 4 yr relo with a sag which completely broke her to the point she had to see a psychiatrist). She told me I need to figure out what I want. She knows and feels that I'm not ready to commit. She said I look like I'm having fun seeing and sleeping with other people and partying etc and she doesn't want to intrude on that.
Anyway we start walking back to our buildings smiling at each other. She agrees when I say we need talk about it all properly when we have time. She asks me what I want moving forward with her I tell her we'll speak properly when we get time.
She then texts me not long after
"Thank you for being so honest with me"
"I need you to think about what is it you want now"
"I too need to think about it for me I really don't even know where to start I'm just riding the waves with you like we always have right from the beginning"
"You really caught me off guard"
"Fuck"
We kept going back and forth a bit but agreed to set a time soon to discuss. She suggested today or Friday. I said no to Friday and said today (thur) but she text today to say she couldn't do tonight.
Last night she text to say she was going to call me on her way home to swing by mine for snuggles but remembered I'd be having dinner with my capricorn ex so didn't bother (she knows my ex and I are just good friends).
Anyway so that's that.... she's being so passive about the whole thing. Does she want me to tell her I want to be with her? Like wtf
Now more or less she knows where you stand, let her think a bit about it.
Just be nice and relax. Be romantic but not too full on.
That about riding the waves make me think that she just wants to go slowly.
I think you can win her heart but you cannot come too strong or she will swim away.
This is so sweet to read. Please update us
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