Insight from Pisces men pls

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There's definite interest there however we are both reserved for similar reasons... he's slow in acting, should I make the first few moves, I made the first by introducing myself and giving my number. How now? Hints, subtle, sexy?

His life is busy busy and mine just busy but when I'm with him we comfortably chat as if we've known each other for years.. is that good or bad? No hugh fireworks yet but it's only been 2 dates. He Never texts me but picks up the phone to call days apart and without reservation invites me to his home even though he has family visiting. Idk, quite baffled! Am I being sized up and checked out to see if I fit the bill or measure up? Do I wait for him to initiate or do it myself, don't want to impose on his me time either.
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how long do you want to wait on something to happen when the opportunity is right in front of you? only you could know best based on how you feel, if the situation calls for you to make a move. if you are a pisces, then you know that...i know we have a tendency to hesitate and rejection is like the worst thing ever...but sometimes we just have to suck it up and do something...i think pisces women are a tad bit better than pisces men about getting something started, or sometimes just a pep talk is all we need...

it's hard to really say based on what you said, just give it a go...

what's the worst that could happen?
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Thanks for answering Yellow.

I'm the libra. I've made most of the moves. He's just so blasé, when we are together there's no end of conversation. Sex is good. The best is the kissing and cuddling, you Pisces are definitely trumps at that. Then when I leave... nothing... no contact until we are going to meet again. It makes it really hard to connect and it feels like it's heading down the booty call fwb track. Im now at the point of making my decision whether hes worth hanging around for and whether I'm wanting more.?
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mmm, the libra and pisces couple...

definitely a tricky one...

there's just no stable ground because libra is sorta breezy and indecisive and pisces is definitely an emotional well and quite wishy-washy as well...pisces needs a solid foundation which may feel more like being 'weighed down' to a libra than actual being supportive (which they also need, but do not outwardly display it like pisces do)...also libras don't really do emotions on the ridiculously high level pisces so often needs...good company, however...lots of fun to be had...but initiative just isn't a character trait (generally) to pisces men...i think you're probably aware of that by now...

anyway, maybe this well help you gain some sort of insight:

For Libra: This is not usually lasting. The Fish is too confused and sensitive in nature that makes this connection a highly complicated combination. The end result can be devastating if you aren’t careful.

good luck...

keep me posted....
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Sad... he ticked 8 out of 10 boxes for me but communication is the most important in any relationship/friendship, I have learned, and patience is my down fall like a lot of woman.

I also can see clearly now why he has never been married or had children in his 43 years. I thought at first his reservation came from the fact that he has money and worked hard for it but hearing from you both I realize it's more and I'm not going to be the one to try and break down those barriers without an invitation to do so.

Always thought I wanted a pieces man against all odds but it really shouldn't be this hard!