Is this Pisces guy leading me on? Help!

Posted by wakeupmaggie
Now, just to be clear I'm really only concerned with having a little fun, and if it leads into a relationship, so be it.

I never heard that statement lead up to something valuable or clear. Bring on the blurry clouds though.

The rest of your post is...ugh. I will take my Virgo logic and get out of this thread.

tell him you do cam shows

Posted by wakeupmaggie
Any and all comments welcome. Thanks!

Posted by wakeupmaggie

But If I wanted to know your thoughts on my behavior and choices, I would have included it in the post.

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You sound cornfuzzled.

The amount of seduction Pisces will pour just to get off work..

Mind blowing.

Posted by wakeupmaggie

1. I owed him a favor for clocking me out and when I asked him what he wanted it to be, he said, "In an ideal world, I would love to know what your boobs feel like, but since the world isn't perfect, I'll settle for you covering for me saturday."

After asking him to explain he says .....

Why exactly would you ask for him to explain himself? Are you incapable of grasping simple concepts? Or .... are you egotistical, and so you were looking get some kind of praise? ... and so you lead him on by asking that question, trying to get him to talk more about your boobs?

Posted by wakeupmaggie

... "they look impeccable, like a piece of heaven. Take Scarlett Johansson. You've felt boobs before, and you know you wouldn't have a chance with her and you accept that, but it would be great to know you felt that awesome rack."

Him correlation your boobs to the awesome boobs of a starlet is what you were looking for, isn't it? Because in my experience, the typical Aquarius has the brain capacity to comprehend what he was saying. Yet, you pretended not to comprehend and asked him to talk about your boobs more, by wording it to suggest that you are leading him onto sex.

Posted by wakeupmaggie

Any and all comments welcome.

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Well now, we all know that's bullshit, because you couldn't handled what the very first responder said, and got your panties wadded up your ass because she said something you didn't want to hear.


so, pretty much all around ..... you present yourself as a poser

I understand what all of you are saying, and your comments are truthful, which have actually shed some light on the situation for me. Mostly, what I'm gathering is that the majority, if not all of you think, he's pouring on the charm for a shift. Either that, or it is very clear that he wants to have sex with me. I have left quite a bit of detailI out, because I didn't want the post to be incredibly long. You can read more below, which is also answering nemesis's question. Nemesis is also right, we are both playing the game. And I dont quite know if I can handle it. Maybe I'll forget the thought all together, it seems like my thinking is clearly flawed. I'm a bit concerned he may just be using me/manipulating me by saying these things. Honestly, it would be nice to have a relationship with him, but I don't think he wants that. Look, I guess my confusing post all boils down to... maybe I don't have the greatest self esteem when it comes to this situation, and I really don't think he would actually date a girl like me, because physically I'm not his type. It always hurts to hear the truth, especially when it's something you don't want to hear. But, I accept all of the comments, all the same and appreciate the time that was taken out.

@nemesis- I was fully aware he was talking about my chest. I simply wanted to pick his brain a little more about the comment. We do talk quite a bit and he has complimented me on my makeup, my outfits, asked about my sex life, my relationship with my ex, things like that. There is also a lot of playful teasing between us and he tells me how sweet i am and what not.

Posted by wakeupmaggie
Mostly, what I'm gathering is that the majority, if not all of you think, he's pouring on the charm for a shift.

Posted by fishinamaize
Wake up Maggie.

i was just gonna post that.
well done.

I think everyone here is being a tad on the rude side, while maybe we should actually give the girl a decent suggestion and take on the situation.

Here's mine.

I wouldn't jump to any conclusions, or try to figure out how he feels right now. Just continue to get to know him if you'd like to. How long have you both been communicating? Is it on a daily basis?

Options from my POV:

1) If you are attracted to this dude, and want to get to know him on more than just some sexual-flirtatious level, continue talking to him, some simple flirting, whatever, but, if the sexual leads are too much and that's not what you're looking for, don't entertain his comments that lean that way, and don't encourage those comments by saying similar things.

2) If you want a possible fling, proceed with how things currently are. (Not to say "how things currently are" only equals a potential fling... But just that it certainly could esp with all the unsure-ness about his feelings in the midst of the sexual-flirty vibes.)

I'd say most importantly, don't get too wrapped up in any of it. If you want to continue to get to know him, do so, and do so in a way that is comfortable to you.

Also, listen to your gut.

And you need to gain a lil confidence girl. Too much second guessing. Do you, feel good, be happy, see what happens.

Noooo coworkers! Stop stop STAHP!!!

Apparently, you all missed the part where she likes that he talks about/to her tits.

And when I asked her about this, in that she wanted him to expound on the boobs remark .... she said she knew what he meant, and that she wanted him to continue. Of course, she has now closed down her response to me, but, the part where she encourages him to continue talking about her sexually has been copied by another poster.

So, I'm unclear why people would preach to her about respect .... when the reality here is that she likes the way he treats her like meat.

Furthermore, the title is misleading in that it suggests that she's an innocent party being lead on against her desires by this guy .... when in reality, she's sex-talking him willingly.


If a woman encourages a guy to talk about her sexually, and likes it when he does ... that's not HIM leading her on.


So, this whole thread is a deception. She is the gamer here.