Let's talk about pisces things .

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Pisces things ....


1. if they feel slighted or attacked, then they go on a personal vendetta to constantly target that person with insults

2. they will go to aide/assist a person without being asked, and then when the person isn't appreciative, the Pisces becomes insensitive to the person, and proclaims that the other person isn't grateful .. when in reality, they were never asked upon for assistance, so the person doesn't really owe then anything in return in the form of gratitude, so this selflessness the Pisces claims is the motive is actually a delusion, since to be selfless asks nothing in return.

3. reality is literally dual AND so conflated that the Fish isn't aware of it (see #2 above for an example) ... because of this oblivion they will act upon a delusion as if it's real and then become disillusioned with others when it is recepted entirely different (with due case since it wasn't real), which causes the Fish to recoil and proclaim they aren't being understand .... when in reality, the Pisces didn't grasp what was real/fake and so was the actual cause themselves for not being understood

4. the Pisces will lie for no reason at all about anything .... and not care to even be bothered to care about whether they should do it or not .. which brings on #5 ....

5. the Pisces don't really care if they don't want to, about anything ... and see no reason to be bothered about it, so in essence Pisces people have no conscious on the level of otherins, which brings on #6 ....

6. the ability to completely turn off all feelings, all connections to something we choose not to care about is as easy as flipping a light switch ... therefore the Fish have the potential to be very dangerous people in the aspect that we can literally have no remorse, because we aren't feeling it AT ALL -- utter and complete disassociation at the snap of a finger (if we choose) ...




Is that enough things about Pisces?
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To prove this ...

A Fish would say something like, "you are wrong, I do care, I am sensitive to others"

That is true, so long as the other person cares about you. But, just like in example #2, the moment the other person doesn't care = the Fish doesn't care.


the Pisces about you ONLY .. again, ONLY if you care about the Pisces .. the moment it is realized that the other person doesn't care ... the Fish has absolutely no cares about you. You could literally die and we'd keep dancing without blinking
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Ok, I said on another thread that I have to go .. but, I have one more thing I feel compelled to add here ....




As much as the Pisces is able, and WILL not care, at all .... literally not care in any shape or form .. the other side is also there ... keeping in mind the swimming in two directions.


If you care about us, really, seriously care about us ... that absolution of not caring is just as total in the opposite form to mean we would care about you, and be loyal to you, and follow you to then ends of the earth, to even die for you .... if you cared about us.


The secret to getting and keeping the Fish is right there ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

No playing, no ego-attention bullshit ... love us for real, and you would have a partner for life who would rather drink toilet water than betray you.

Not care, give any inclination that you only want to use us ..... and you never existed.


Just like that ^^^^^ that is the Fish


You all have a great day ... me and hubby have the day off together (finally) and we are going out to enjoy the day together. Hope you have enjoy also. 🙂
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Posted by P-Angel
Pisces things ....




3. reality is literally dual AND so conflated that the Fish isn't aware of it (see #2 above for an example) ... because of this oblivion they will act upon a delusion as if it's real and then become disillusioned with others when it is recepted entirely different (with due case since it wasn't real), which causes the Fish to recoil and proclaim they aren't being understand .... when in reality, the Pisces didn't grasp what was real/fake and so was the actual cause themselves for not being understood


5. the Pisces don't really care if they don't want to, about anything ... and see no reason to be bothered about it, so in essence Pisces people have no conscious on the level of otherins, which brings on #6 ....




With regard to point 3: I??ve often thought that this is the real trap of consciousness, as you say, reality is dual, all encompassing, but in order to "navigate" through life we need reference points. Consciousness through its interpretations seeks to encapsulate parts of reality within "ideal" concepts. Emotional nature + vivid imagination= A great hall of mirrors where we ourselves get lost.

With regard to point 5: That's just brilliant! I often feel people trying to appeal to sentiments inside me which aren't really there, I am very particular and selective about the things about which I care. It sometimes shocks people that certain "standard issue" components people generaly have don't always apply.-
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Posted by Monlina
Hmm, people said that pisces are loveable base on their personaltity. Do you agree?



I don't know your personality but you seem lovable! 🙂

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You all have a great day ... me and hubby have the day off together (finally) and we are going out to enjoy the day together. Hope you have enjoy also. 🙂
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Glad you have a good day ahead of you 🙂 spot on about the negative traits, but I have mixed feelings about your view of our cold side. If someone's actions definitively prove they don't care about us, then yes we should care about them as a fellow human being, but certainly not as a friend or significant other. That is a two way road, and if that's not how it is, it's superficial and/or delusional. Not a healthy relationship.
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Posted by P-Angel
Pisces things ....
6. the ability to completely turn off all feelings, all connections to something we choose not to care about is as easy as flipping a light switch ... therefore the Fish have the potential to be very dangerous people in the aspect that we can literally have no remorse, because we aren't feeling it AT ALL -- utter and complete disassociation at the snap of a finger (if we choose)



so true... but to be fair i feel this type of behaviour is a defensive mechanism. If we feel someone has or is doing wrong by us then we'll "flip that switch" and swim away.
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Yes, it is to protect ourselves, since our feelings are so fragile and we have the potential to break inside if hurt. For those non-P's = when I say break, I mean, it feels like shards of glass tearing our insides apart when we've been emotionally injured. So, we HAVE to have a turn-off switch.

The problem with this though .... is that it makes us selfish to the person we disconnected ourselves from. People need closure, they need to know what the fuck is going on, why we've jumped stream without any consideration of their feelings.

And though, we feel inside that our decision to swim away is warranted, and we know inside that we can't have any contact to spare ourselves, so it's the right thing to do for ourselves ..... it's a very selfish act on their feelings, since 99% of the time, our departure is silent .. we just slip away unnoticed.


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I'm a Pisces woman and I don't flip any switches. If I like you, I will bask you in warmth and treat you like a king. I will readily give you all I have to give and do this with every fiber of my being. My love does not just die without reason......I am not fickle. If I somehow feel cold to you now, it is because you turned off the switch in me.

You would have done it by rubbing me the wrong way.....not just once or twice, but repeatedly. If I did start out liking you, you somehow shut me down. You may have taken me for granted, or refused to hear a subtle cry. You told me too many times why you had to stay late. And when I caressed your soul, you showed little kindness back. I longed for you to know and love me, but could only ask by giving. And I laid upon you every layer of passion, but you could never get past the surface.

A Pisces is far from cold. We love to give and want little else than to feel your warmth and protective heart in return. Our way of asking is subtle and we are very tolerant of you. We embrace all your quirks and clam up when your words have been hurtful. For we are way too sensitive and shy to bring it out in the open. But we can only give without return for so long. We can only drop so many hints. If there is no return, our reserves dwindle and we become exhausted. We know that if you really cared, you would want us to feel you. If you cannot let us in or provide any comfort after we have given you our all, it's time to consider moving on. We will not leave vindictive, nor will we harbor anger or resentment. We will completely forgive your inability to see us or yourselves.

If you have hurt me this much, my head and my heart will have an inner battle. And I might be so courteous that I will lay it all down on our table. As a last ditch effort, I realize I had overestimated your depths, and I will spell out exactly what I feel and what I need. I will give you a chance to make it right. But if you show me no effort, then you give me no choice. There will be nothing more to say and I will silently disappear. There is no doubt that I will be crushed. But don't even try to chase, or look at me like you have not been warned, because I will have nothing left inside me. I may appear cold to you because my heart will have died. I might give you sarcasm on this day, because I will still be feeling the pain of your indifference and carelessness of my heart.
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The switch....

The scorp and I were talking about our hidden flaws not long ago... And I went onto explain that, what I would fear most if I were somebody else, dealing with me, or in a relationship with me, would be the ability I have to turn off my emotion.

From anything.

And that it certainly is a defense mechanism. I told him, there are things that if I were to let myself feel, would destroy me. I don't like feeling bad. So rather, I feel nothing.

Really interesting to see this described in such detail, in the exact way I feel it in myself, from others. It truly is a Pisces thing.... I didn't know if it was just me or not, before reading this thread.

Bizarre.
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@sunnysideup

What does the rest of your chart look like? I'm feeling either an earth moon... Possibly Taurus, or an Aries moon. Idk, just a hunch.



Maybe it is us with more water, or water moons too, who have a harsher defense mechanism.

Not to say I don't get where you're coming from, and agree that the switch is often flipped due to actions from another... My switch also flips concerning certain worldly hings. I simply do not like to feel pain...
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Hi. My first comment on this site - go easy on me! 🙂 Until stumbling onto this site yesterday, I was unaware that one of the "qualities" of Pisces is that they lie. In recent months a curiosity about astrology resurfaced. Before then my understanding of astrology was pretty much limited to newspaper horoscopes, which I treated with all the seriousness of a restaurant fortune cookie. The horoscopes were so vague as to apply to anyone, so I dismissed astrology as little more than a novelty. But after looking into my sign and the traits, I was amazed to find that most of the traits for this sign very closely fit the me I feel myself to be. The "liar" part is what throws me, because I consider myself to be a very honest person who dislikes liars and lying. Am I a liar and don't realize it, or is this somehow not one of my traits? Maybe my complicated-looking chart tells me, although I am now realizing there are many different types of charts looking at different things.
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Posted by P-Angel
Pisces things ....


2. they will go to aide/assist a person without being asked, and then when the person isn't appreciative, the Pisces becomes insensitive to the person, and proclaims that the other person isn't grateful .. when in reality, they were never asked upon for assistance, so the person doesn't really owe then anything in return in the form of gratitude, so this selflessness the Pisces claims is the motive is actually a delusion, since to be selfless asks nothing in return.

3. reality is literally dual AND so conflated that the Fish isn't aware of it (see #2 above for an example) ... because of this oblivion they will act upon a delusion as if it's real and then become disillusioned with others when it is recepted entirely different (with due case since it wasn't real), which causes the Fish to recoil and proclaim they aren't being understand .... when in reality, the Pisces didn't grasp what was real/fake and so was the actual cause themselves for not being understood





I find that this has been a source of self-pity. I, for one, only give myself fully to one person at a time and yet, by introspection of past relationships, have realized that I have manipulated and formed relationships that from the beginning was neither of our intentions because I was so carried away by delusions. In the end, it seems that self pity eventually sucks you into an abyss, especially for every disappointment that arises and one is forced to analyze. With the self pity, apathy and detachment seem the only way out.
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Posted by mysticdreamz
Hi. My first comment on this site - go easy on me! 🙂 Until stumbling onto this site yesterday, I was unaware that one of the "qualities" of Pisces is that they lie. In recent months a curiosity about astrology resurfaced. Before then my understanding of astrology was pretty much limited to newspaper horoscopes, which I treated with all the seriousness of a restaurant fortune cookie. The horoscopes were so vague as to apply to anyone, so I dismissed astrology as little more than a novelty. But after looking into my sign and the traits, I was amazed to find that most of the traits for this sign very closely fit the me I feel myself to be. The "liar" part is what throws me, because I consider myself to be a very honest person who dislikes liars and lying. Am I a liar and don't realize it, or is this somehow not one of my traits? Maybe my complicated-looking chart tells me, although I am now realizing there are many different types of charts looking at different things.



Speaking for myself, I generally don't lie unless 1) there's a really good justification for it, 2) the situation isn't super important, or 3) the person deserves it, and I mean really deserves it. I have lied for selfish reasons, but I always feel terrible about it later, and sometimes even confess after the fact. Even when I don't confess, I don't let myself off easy, I force myself to make up for it in the end.

I think Pisces can lie for all sorts of reasons, it's really a case-by-case basis, but I think there are usually good intentions behind it. Sometimes it's due to our inconsistency, we say we'll do something, we actually mean it, then we lose track of time, get lost in our dream world, etc., then forget about it. Other times it's because we have trouble saying no to someone, other times something else more important comes up, the list goes on. I don't think all forms of lying are bad--are parents bad for making their kids believe in Santa, or telling them that Grandma's in a happier place? (Not trying to start religious argument, just saying, can you really KNOW for sure? Not 'til you die.)

But that's not to say we're all innocent. 🙂
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Posted by Nemesis
in case anyone is interested, i found quite an extensive and interesting astrology page; each sign has it's own section


PISCES, the Fish

February 20th through March 20th
How to Recognize PISCES
The PISCES Man
The PISCES Woman
The PISCES Child
The PISCES Boss
The PISCES Employee

http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/pisces.htm



this has been around for years, i can't count the number of times i've used this as a reference of some sort....

--Jack
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Posted by P-Angel
Yes, it is to protect ourselves, since our feelings are so fragile and we have the potential to break inside if hurt. For those non-P's = when I say break, I mean, it feels like shards of glass tearing our insides apart when we've been emotionally injured. So, we HAVE to have a turn-off switch.

The problem with this though .... is that it makes us selfish to the person we disconnected ourselves from. People need closure, they need to know what the fuck is going on, why we've jumped stream without any consideration of their feelings.

And though, we feel inside that our decision to swim away is warranted, and we know inside that we can't have any contact to spare ourselves, so it's the right thing to do for ourselves ..... it's a very selfish act on their feelings, since 99% of the time, our departure is silent .. we just slip away unnoticed.





I completely agree with this sentiment and spend a good deal of my time trying to explain this to my partner. I acknowledge that its selfish and quite honestly am okay with that, but I often find that the alternatives quite worse. I think every sign has its personal traits of selfishness, and this ability to completely detach is definitely a Pisces one.
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Oh dang, I forgot I posted on this thread under my old username

Blast from the past O_o



I come across some of mine from time to time, most from years ago. Always feels surreal reading them I'm like "who is this person?" lol.



Tweeeennnnyyy

Where have you been woman 😄

Oh, I know. I have come across few other ones back when I first started here and sometimes I think "huh well that wasn't too bad of a post" and then others I ask myself "what the hell where you thinking when you posted that... embarrassing"

Good to have some reference point tho.

Sad to see all those who shared this board once before are all gone.

Loved reading their responses * le sigh*
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Hello twin, how ya been doing? 🙂

Busy little bee these days. Although I had the day off work yesterday and did squat. Twas much needed though.

Yeah it's strange isn't it, especially the much older ones. Sometimes I wish I hadn't deleted my first account so I could go back and read my earlier posts because I was so different back then. Then again perhaps it's a good thing I can't haha, I imagine I'd cringe at more than a fair few. 😛

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Posted by MissPirate
Posted by EusiveSoulll
Oh dang, I forgot I posted on this thread under my old username

Blast from the past O_o



I come across some of mine from time to time, most from years ago. Always feels surreal reading them I'm like "who is this person?" lol.



Tweeeennnnyyy

Where have you been woman 😄

Oh, I know. I have come across few other ones back when I first started here and sometimes I think "huh well that wasn't too bad of a post" and then others I ask myself "what the hell where you thinking when you posted that... embarrassing"

Good to have some reference point tho.

Sad to see all those who shared this board once before are all gone.

Loved reading their responses * le sigh*



Hello twin, how ya been doing? 🙂

Busy little bee these days. Although I had the day off work yesterday and did squat. Twas much needed though.

Yeah it's strange isn't it, especially the much older ones. Sometimes I wish I hadn't deleted my first account so I could go back and read my earlier posts because I was so different back then. Then again perhaps it's a good thing I can't haha, I imagine I'd cringe at more than a fair few. 😛



Shes my twin! You go get your own!! hehe
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Lol. Elusive is my astro twin, she and I have almost identical charts. 😛